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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11h ago
Potty mouth and bird hands, no wonder he ditched her. He knew she wasn't putting out.
TJMS Jr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
Boy howdy. Man alive. No, sir.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
She completed failed to grasp that she was the one that needed to make the effort. Comparatively, she was a mannish peasant girl; the prince (doctor) was not obligated to do shit to impress her.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
Not getting free food and drinks seems to mentally destroy these women.
God forbid she ever stays in a hotel with low water pressure. That'll make her stick a gun in her mouth. If she wasn't too damn lazy to load a gun, I mean.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Yeah it all goes back to them expecting to be able to cherry pick from either paternalistic protection or equality as they see fit at any given moment, not comprehending that men eventually notice that shit and mentally check out at minimum and stop making an effort.
Why bother jumping thru the hoops like a good little circus bear when your reward is stale peanuts that have been dipped in some other dude's cum?
It's ironic that by insisting on posting their fails like this and attempting to shame men in into doing things grossly not in their own self interest, they are slowly but surely inoculating men into being immune to shame and criticism.
Which is a huge problem for these women as those are their primary survival tools; shaming and nagging men into making the world livable for them. It demonstrably isn't self reliance and bringing reciprocal value at least.
Treadmill 1d ago
Unfortunately for her, doctors make it rich by studying incredibly hard to the detriment of dating, and thus often turn out semi autistic. He cares for neither game nor flattery. He is clearly fine whether she likes him or not, and is going to have a good time regardless.
Also "Do men just not want to treat women anymore?" He doesn't KNOW you girl. Why in the world would a man take out a woman he doesn't know, someone he has never met but only ever chatted with through hinge, on some kind of expensive multi-hour endeavor? Considering she apparently left right after eating her burger, he clearly made the right choice too.
She got lucky that the date was so cheap by the way. Imagine if she had to split the bill in a 5 star restaurant.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
It's his job. He's supposed to spend money on her and not stop for any reason. Men don't always comply because they are stupid and baffling and don't know how to be Real Men.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
She can't even recognize that Doctor 6-Foot-4 noped out 5 seconds after they met in person. He took one look and maybe tolerated her attitude for a minute and decided she was Slow Tuesday material at best. TGIF's is too good for Slow Tuesday girls. Not worth feigning interest or even springing for her $25 entree. (As an aside, that's what she calls "hair is done?" Talk about low effort.)
Treadmill 1d ago
She was getting ready for the blowjob, no? Had he actually been the kind of prince she wanted, her apparent trashiness would have seen her rejected regardless. Drugs and hoping for sex on the first date are hardly suitable for the kind of romantic fantasy she wanted.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
Oh my god, he's 6-foot-4??? Like-- FOUR whole inches over 6 FEET? Holy shitbags, you've won the lottery!
SIX FOOT FOUR! Thats... onetwothreefourfive... FIVE whole inches over Five-eleven! And Five-eleven is the border of where all the ugly goddamned midgets live.
SIX foot FOUR!! That's-- lemme get my smartphone-- 193 centimeters in metric! And that number makes him sound even taller!
All of that other stuff about him sounds kind of Ok, too? I wasn't listening, to be honest. All blah dee blah, doctor, blah blah, bronze medal in macrame, blah dee blah, 2013 upper Pennsylvania postal deliveryperson of the year, blah blah. Tell me about his height again!
SIX-FOOT-FOUR!!!1! YOWZA! The only thing better than that would be SIX-FOOT-FIVE!!
Men like him are why you wanna fuck entire basketball teams!
You know the old nursery rhyme: Six foot four, screw me against the door! Gargling tall dudes' jizz, that's all life is!
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I suspect his expectations were not met regarding:
She says he never asked her a question. Maybe that's true. But maybe it's not. I'm old, and I learned long ago to not take a woman's word at face value.
Bottom line: He passed. People rarely do that when they feel they've struck gold.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 15h ago
I learned long ago to not take a woman's word at face value.
Her face value was not much.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Frankly, based on all the things he could have easily noticed that you pointed out, there's a good chance he felt no need to ask her anything. Maybe she blabbered more than enough for him to get everything he wanted to know from her by nodding and making a few vague noises.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 15h ago
Maybe he surmised she was into him due to his height and $$$$$
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 12h ago
Quite possibly; and I know if I was willing to put up with a trophy wife candidate or other form of golddigger, I'd be requiring way better physical attractiveness than what she had to put up with the lack of everything else.
Meanwhile a plain woman that at least is tolerable to speak to is way more likely to get a pass on her looks.
Someone far more 'tistic than I could probably manage to whip up a chart/graph of that no male effort deadzone between those two poles. And it would have on the goldigger edge a "plate only" zone.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
"Meanwhile a plain woman that at least is tolerable to speak to is way more likely to get a pass on her looks."
Absolutely true.
Good conversation skills and a good personality are force multipliers when it comes to a woman's attractiveness. Both can have the opposite effect, too. Terrible conversation skills and an insufferable personality will make her unattractive regardless of her beauty.
throwaway415 1d ago
lmao she's busted af. surprised bro didn't immediately walk out. why are we taking these uglies on dates anyway
WanderOverYonder 20h ago
Doc's probably autistic or overly nerdy and this woman could've just been his foot in the door.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10h ago
You're flirting with a rule 1 violation here. Keep the focus on the woman and her behavior where it belongs, please.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1d ago
If that's her all glammed up for a 6'4" DOCTOR!!!!1111ELEVENTYONEONEONE I'd hate to see what she considers casual wear. Forget sweats and slippers; from the look of things a potato sack would be too high market for her.
Also, as I've said before, his being 6'4" means he doesn't have to show up on time or pick up your tab. You have to measure up to his standards. If you can't do that it's trivially easy for him to move on and replace you with the next one in line.
To say nothing of the fact his profession means he's surrounded every day by hotter scrub-covered tail he can likely pull anytime he so desires. It's no wonder he's not interested in shovel-jawed business casual with an attitude problem.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
A burlap sack stained with bird poop, mismatched socks, only shaving one knee and hair with a plastic comb dangling in a snarl because she gave up.
Hell, you should be thankful she used toothpaste this morning. What, you expect her to pick the black mud out from where it's caked under her fingernails, too?
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 15h ago
I was wondering where she got a potato sack with a pocket? All the ones I have seen don't have pockets. She must have contacts at the homeless shelter.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Now what would be interesting would be to find one of her videos when she is good guy hunting. When she is going to be careful here and make him prove his worth as opposed to go taking stuff to get her ready to have sex with a stranger.
She was down to fuck having never met the guy. He couldn't even be bothered. This tells you all about top 10% men and average women.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1d ago
I can try to find one on her page
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 15h ago
She was down to fuck due to height and his $$$. Do you think she would have taken the pill if he were a 5'8" accountant? NO WAY.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 15h ago
if he had been a partner in a big firm of accountants, some girls would have been. Never underestimate the power of hypergamy to spin hamster wheels. However had he been a 5'8'' gardener, no unless she was just a real super slut and they are very rare creatures.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4h ago
Yup, women (especially blasé ones in the first world that don't have to worry about concepts like survival) live at the intersection of Shallow and Materialistic as a general rule. If you don't have money/status, you best be bringing some form of looks.