Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 2d ago in Strong Independent Woman - Permalink - 561 Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 8h ago
First off, men do not want a "girl-boss." The type of woman who uses that term tends to have such an ego issue that it negates any femininity that she may have. Second, we are confirming that women have a lopsided scale of who they find attractive and unattractive compared to men, where they find most men unattractive (at least on dating apps). Though it is just one woman saying it in this case, but we see this pattern take place over and over that seeing another data point just confirms the pattern.
One unfortunate thing about dating apps in general is that the people who are the most desireable are the ones who are on dating apps for the shortest periods of time, because you will be taken off the market quickly by those who see you as a catch. This is true for both men and women. The question you must ask for every person on a dating app is why are they on it for a long stretch of time. Are they ugly? Do they have bad personalities? Or are they just unlucky? It may not be any particular individuals fault that he or she is on a dating app for a long period of time.
But when you are on it for a long stretch of time with little to no success, you must consider this idea: you are no better than the other people who are still available on the dating app. You may protest and say "But I should not be here, I am a catch!" or "Everyone I see here is ugly!" I would suggest you adopt a more humble attitude and understand that everyone else on the app is likely struggling in some way and thinks they also do not belong there.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Her problem is she's being picky, while she's nowhere near hot enough to be picky. ONLY thing she has going for on the physical side of things is not being fat. She's got a bad enough case of butterface that in the right clothing/setting, it would be easy to mistake her for a scrawny man. Literal live action Olive Oyl looking for a Popeye with a trust fund.
And she's no treat to have to sit and listen to even setting the above aside.
So she's mid on her best days day when it comes to looks, and her personality is sub par as well. What does she bring to balance that out and at least break even?
Her inability or unwillingness to convey that is exactly why she gets no play from top tier men.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 16h ago
She'd probably look a lot better with her hair down and wearing a simple cotton dress instead of that thing, but yeah.
She's pretty enough for an average girl, or would be if she didn't come prepackaged with that insufferable attitude, but you're correct: she very much is an average girl made even less attractive by the entitlement thundering over every word she speaks.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
If someone could PLEASE repost this to the reddit site because I literally cannot. I would be literally grateful if you would. Have a literally good weekend!
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
This woman is trash and yet calling men trash.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2d ago
lol she thinks getting "girl boss after girl boss" on your feed constitutes desirable matches for most men.
I already have a boss in my life. Last thing I want is another one. At least my current boss gives me a paycheck every week in exchange for me doing shit for him.
superhitops 2d ago
While every girl boss will demand payment to boss you.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Not my type, but some guys would go for that.
As we know, women date up, men will date down. We don't care if she's a barista - if she's cute and not a total bitch, we'll do that. The "ladies" on the other hand have unrealistic standards so can't find anything, even if they dropped those most women are picky as hell - just look at the big data trove from Bumble I believe it was, showed without a doubt that women do not select the way men do.
Honestly I'm kinda enjoying watching the desperation notch up, means the invisible hand of dying alone will finally force these chicks to get back to normalcy.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
What we call normlacy is what they call "settling" and will continue to bitch about it. All their lives they were not held accountable for anything. So they've whored around to the near-end of their lifespan, and NOW they cry about dying alone, because they come to the realization no real man wants sloppy 240ths.
They're not victims. They're narcissists. The only thing they deserve IS to fucking die alone.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
"As we know, women date up, men will date down."
Turning Point RP is when a man starts to think in terms of hypergamy. Keep in mind that Polish Knights only used to marry either hot women or those whose fathers had huge tracts of land to offer in dowries.
I'm going to share a secret I would have shared with my son, but is now moot. If readers here ignore it, that's ok because it does me no harm either way: I found it surprisingly easier to talk to and date PRETTY women. The plain ones had attitudes due to all the betas hitting on them and took out their anger on the men, of course. I personally don't mind dating pretty or wealthier women.
After all, logically, dating down doesn't guarantee stability. Housewives actually are incentivized to get divorces and alimony. The magic figure of a woman earning 60% what you do is no guarantee either and in any case, this isn't based upon preference but perhaps pragmaticism.
Give m a room full of pretty, lottery-winning women any day.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Still in the "there are no good men" phase. Next step "where have all the good men gone?"
Apparently men want a girl boss but they are not good enough to get one. I am not going to argue with her, she is a girl boss and I don't think she would like that. Lets just see what history says about this one...
Another girl in the passenger side of a car dressed up to go somewhere "out" This does seem to be a power position for women -getting taken somewhere "out". From my end of the telescope Beta is walking his pet but from her end she is a girl boss when on the passenger side of a car wearing an impractical wardrobe. There is a good truth in this somewhere.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
I'm gonna confess: Free meals are pretty darn tasty!
I sign up for corporate mailing lists from vendors who wine and dine us to try to pitch their wares such as cybersecurity, consulting, and such. As a Proud Cheapskate, my colleagues are impressed about these events I discover and find it exhilarating that I get them free drinks and goodies.
I saw the Star Wars The Force Awakens at a vender event where they had a pre-game bar mixer where I had a few glasses of wine, then they had a small room where they showed us a video and talked about their wares for a half hour, then we sat in la-z-boy chairs where, while the film ran, I ordered additional drinks AND a meal brought to the seat. I did go take a pee break in the middle of it though because the film stank. I'm glad I didn't pay for it. I saw the following 2 Star Wars films free at vendor events.
I also ate handsomely at 5 star restaurants for vendor events and it was delicious. No way I'd pay $60 for filet mignon when I can buy 6X the steak at Costco and bake it myself, but it sure did taste sweet!!!
But yet, I don't get addicted to free meals. I would not ho' myself for one but I suppose there are some who do hence why the vendors keep putting them on much like why Vegas prospers when 1/100 gamblers can't help themselves and lose their homes while getting "free" drinks at the craps tables.
There are probably many men who've never been "taken out". I admit, it's a wonderful experience but since I don't view it as an entitlement, I've been able to enjoy it but also don't miss it when I don't.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2d ago
I fixed your flair, since I know how much you enjoy @Typo-MAGAshiv doing that for you. This would also have fit just as well under Attention Whore. I recommend checking out the flaring guide.
Now for the actual content:
Yes, the selection available to men is insulting precisely because it's all "girlboss after girlboss."
Well, that and all the single mothers seeking a bailout, but you don't seem to have gotten there yet. You look young-ish enough I'd put roughly even odds on you going either that way or the corporate-nun-to-bitter-inspin route.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
I went and fixed it again, as it fits "strong, independent woman" a lot more than "pushing muh agenda!" :P
CC: @polishknight
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 17h ago
How so? She doesn't mention anything about being a girl boss in the video (it can probably be reasonably inferred but that's beside the point); in fact she doesn't make any mention of her career or income at all. All she's doing is spitefully shitting on men while playing seeking validation from other women online.
SIW seems to me to be reading a lot more into this one than is actually there. /shrug
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Thank you, I spotted that. I did check out the flaring guide and see it in Camwhore Consequences for some reason. I was thinking maybe bailout because she's a single mother, but I concur that she wasn't crying about needing money for a bailout. I knew it would apply under some flair for weekend content, though. "Attention Whore?" Hmmm, hadn't considered that one. When I saw it reflaired as Golddigger, I had an "aha!" moment.
One of the interesting things about modern women different than when I came of age is that women dated ordinary looking beta males if we had a decent job so they could hit us for "child" support. That's the price of prostitution, so to speak: Your clients are NOT going to look like Brad Pitt. With women sleeping around with hot guys, generally they will tend to wind up with broke baby daddies. Every time a woman gripes about "deadbeat dads" and tries to shame me via association, I point out that I'm not broke but her type never slept with me so whose fault is that? Silence on the other end.
It's tough for a 26 year old single mother of multiple kids for the most part. If the guy is a loser, she's truly on her own. She may qualify for section 8 if she's in the inner-city category but that's a whole different range of problems with the druggies shooting up the neighborhood every night, vermin throughout the unit, and a generally higher cost of living that isn't covered by social welfare benefits.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
She doesn't mention that within this video, so no.
Post titles and flairs should only be based upon what we can know from within the post itself.
We can certainly expand on our knowledge about the Carols in question within the comments section, however!
Obviously not tough enough, or there'd be far fewer of them.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 21h ago
Doh! I got this posting confused with another one I had made the day before. Apologies. I need to drink more coffee! (Truly) honest mistake. I rarely make dishonest mistakes.
In regards to your remark that there would be fewer 26 year old single mothers if it was so tough for them: NEVER underestimate human incompetence or the inability to learn a lesson from ones, or others, mistakes. It still astonishes me. Not just the women, but human nature in markets.