Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago Stickied
Of course she wants you to be ready to start a family. She is pretty much out of time to have any children of her own, so she would need to attempt to get pregnant right away to make the sliver's chance of having a child of her own happen. She is like the college student starting to study for the whole semester's worth of material at 9:00 pm the night before the final. Sure, it might technically be possible for both her to have a child and for the student to get a decent grade, but it is not a good bet to make.
It is well known among the medical community that a woman's fertility drastically declines in her 30s, and it is very, very low at 40. Now for those that know a woman who got pregnant in her 40s, consider this: most likely, she had other children when she was younger, and as a result had her fertility window pushed back since her body was not releasing eggs when she was pregnant. This woman is not in that category, so she is in a worse position to have a child than a woman who was already previously pregnant.
I hope she is happy being a lawyer, because she most likely sacrificed her chance of having children to achieve that goal. She probably did not realize it at the time, but that was a greater priority to her than having a family. She most likely thought, "I have time. I can put finding a husband and having children on hold." Many women are done a disservice by feminism which tells them they can have it all. No, no you can't. Not that those women are helpless victims who were never warned. They probably were, but just dismissed those warnings because it was discomforting. Well, I would argue that discovering a harsh truth much later causes far more discomfort.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This is an example of how the tables turn: When men are young and want to get laid, it takes an enormous amount of personal discipline to overcome the hurdle. Self-improvement, learning how to handle the hunger (because the desperation itself is a turnoff to women), learning social skills, and game. There's only one silver lining which is that a young man still has a lot of time to learn. I didn't get laid until I was 24. There's also emotional flexibility: being young, I wasn't attached to decades of thinking.
This woman could still have a family. After all, even a mediocre dating profile will net her dozens of men hitting on her and if she was to put in a significant effort including the above that men go through, it's doable. Her primary hurdle is her own entitlement attitude: She thinks that it's an asset when decades of failure shows otherwise so she's doubling down. If she turned off HVM before, she's now a master at it.
Tennisball1- 1y ago
Shes fucking 40. She aint having a child.
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
Insert picture of empty egg crate here.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Oh, and by the way, if you're not a Doctor, Lawyer, or CEO of a multi-million dollar company, swipe left you broke-ass peasant.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1y ago
She has priced even the her of 20 years ago out of the market. Now she's ridden the Princess Stephanie look far out across the Uncanny Valley.
DextroShade 1y ago
Sorry lady that ship has sailed, though watch her end up having a retarded baby from a ONS.
DivergentMemory 1y ago
The problem is that she thinks the problem is not Men that have balls. While she ultimately IS the problem
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I think I’ve seen this profile before.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Not unique at all. A vast majority of women at my age (38) have "Want someday", "Maybe" or "already have and want more". They've got the baby rabies and are going to do what it takes to trap someone.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
My wife had our youngest son at age 39 and it was a bitch to get her preggo naturally. Anyway, I gotta hand it to this lady, her expectations are realistic that the man must only have balls and be ready to start a family, it's just going to be difficult.
The real lesson here is that she has become the man she wants to marry. The partner at the law firm whose SMV peaks around 35-40 and is ready to work on his legacy.
chunky 1y ago
I have balls. I'd be ready to start a family. Wonder if she knows someone? A niece, maybe?
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
I already have a family.
And the LAST sort of woman I would get close to is "show her ass on her sugar daddy's infinity pool" chick.
WTF ladies. Come on.
OPPTRP 1y ago
At 40 I doubt it
ScribhneoirIldanach Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The madra bocht (poor dog).
He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else than near that woman.
redblow22 1y ago
An economically similar/greater man of the same age who wants kids is extremely unlikely to choose a 40 year old woman.
She's not going to marry a lower earner, it looks like a life to be filled with pallets of wine and cat food.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Even the dog is not interested.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Ready to start a family. At 40. Bitch, please.
You already found your partner. It's your career.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She found lots of partners - the others at her firm.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
But something something women can do anything or something.
jihocech 1y ago
Still possible biologically. But socially... 2 years of dating, 1 year of engagement, wedding, honeymoon... Than what, a child born at the age of 25 weeks?
What a businessplan.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
She can always go the modern route: having kids and then searching for a father.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Sure, just like winning the lottery is possible. However, the odds are terrible.
What?
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Seems the Implication being a premature birth or perhaps a rather late miscarriage due to the age of the mother during the potential pregnancy
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Foul-mouthed partner at a law firm? For someone supposedly so fucking smart I am surprised she is missing her grand chance. Take up criminal law bitch and start fucking the felons you represent. Though most of them would deserve a better woman than you.
Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'll bet she has fucked some of those felons a couple times.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There isn’t the same money in criminal law …
HopelessRomantic 1y ago
If she hasn't had kids at 40, chances are no one wants to put any in her because of a endless amount of red flags. You can tell in her eyes she's either on meds or bat-shit crazy, yeah no.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
For real. In the pic with her dog (who longs for the day to be free from her), I've seen women who are at least 5-15 years her junior with those same baggy/beady eyes and it's a telltale that they're on meds. Eating them like Ms. Pac Man because they need a scapegoat for chasing and failing to make a Chad/Tyrone commit and not accepting accountability (shocker, I know).
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
She reminded me of a lawyer I met a long time ago. She was also in her late 30s or 40s, and didn't seem to realise time was passing. Sure, she still looked good, but only if compared to other women in their 40s. Always talking about how hot she used to be, how many guys were after her back in the day... Still couldn't see the time passing her by. One day she tells me some younger guy she was seeing proposed to her. I asked her more about it, and she then tells me she still hadn't answered him. I bet she's still thinking about her glory days when men were chasing after her as it was yesterday.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Hadn’t answered him?! So she left him on one knee like a chump and then dangling? Blimey. What a piece of work
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
I have no idea of how the proposing was made, but if the guy was proposing to her I can only assume he really didn't think things through.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’d imagine it involved him getting on one knee as I would expect most still involve that to one degree
Unless it was a chat about whether they should get married that she is telling people is a proposal to boost herself up
Whenever you see viral videos of rejected proposals most of the comments point out how unusual it is as most people usually have discussed it (directly or indirectly) and aren’t going to do it if there is even the chance of a public rejection (or a rejection in general). Because I don’t see how a relationship comes back from that. So much has gone wrong, mainly with communication, to end up at a point where you get anything other than a pretty instant “yes”, and embrace and likely tears from the girl
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The number of women on bumble aged 38+ who still have “want someday” or “have and want more” with regards to kids is truly astonishing.
Talk about buying into the “the fertility cliff is a myth” narrative
Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Someday? When she's 6 feet under? Judging by her looks it's safe to say we all know what she's been doing up until now. She may have delayed the wall but but after 40 it will approach rapidly. Might as well give up on the kids now because it's not going to happen.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She probably was pretty decent looking back in the day. Those are the exact women who will put off marriage and family for career; in their mind, why settle down when you can do the career thing and find someone later? The problem is, they overestimate the value that their “experience” brings to men and underestimate the value their fertility brings.