Of course she wants you to be ready to start a family. She is pretty much out of time to have any children of her own, so she would need to attempt to get pregnant right away to make the sliver's chance of having a child of her own happen. She is like the college student starting to study for the whole semester's worth of material at 9:00 pm the night before the final. Sure, it might technically be possible for both her to have a child and for the student to get a decent grade, but it is not a good bet to make.

It is well known among the medical community that a woman's fertility drastically declines in her 30s, and it is very, very low at 40. Now for those that know a woman who got pregnant in her 40s, consider this: most likely, she had other children when she was younger, and as a result had her fertility window pushed back since her body was not releasing eggs when she was pregnant. This woman is not in that category, so she is in a worse position to have a child than a woman who was already previously pregnant.

I hope she is happy being a lawyer, because she most likely sacrificed her chance of having children to achieve that goal. She probably did not realize it at the time, but that was a greater priority to her than having a family. She most likely thought, "I have time. I can put finding a husband and having children on hold." Many women are done a disservice by feminism which tells them they can have it all. No, no you can't. Not that those women are helpless victims who were never warned. They probably were, but just dismissed those warnings because it was discomforting. Well, I would argue that discovering a harsh truth much later causes far more discomfort.

Shes fucking 40. She aint having a child.

Insert picture of empty egg crate here.

Oh, and by the way, if you're not a Doctor, Lawyer, or CEO of a multi-million dollar company, swipe left you broke-ass peasant.

Sorry lady that ship has sailed, though watch her end up having a retarded baby from a ONS.

The problem is that she thinks the problem is not Men that have balls. While she ultimately IS the problem

I think I’ve seen this profile before.

Not unique at all. A vast majority of women at my age (38) have "Want someday", "Maybe" or "already have and want more". They've got the baby rabies and are going to do what it takes to trap someone.

My wife had our youngest son at age 39 and it was a bitch to get her preggo naturally. Anyway, I gotta hand it to this lady, her expectations are realistic that the man must only have balls and be ready to start a family, it's just going to be difficult.

The real lesson here is that she has become the man she wants to marry. The partner at the law firm whose SMV peaks around 35-40 and is ready to work on his legacy.

I have balls. I'd be ready to start a family. Wonder if she knows someone? A niece, maybe?

I already have a family.

And the LAST sort of woman I would get close to is "show her ass on her sugar daddy's infinity pool" chick.

WTF ladies. Come on.

At 40 I doubt it

The madra bocht (poor dog).

He looks like he’d rather be anywhere else than near that woman.

An economically similar/greater man of the same age who wants kids is extremely unlikely to choose a 40 year old woman.

She's not going to marry a lower earner, it looks like a life to be filled with pallets of wine and cat food.

Even the dog is not interested.

Ready to start a family. At 40. Bitch, please.

partner at law firm

&

looking for my partner

You already found your partner. It's your career.

Foul-mouthed partner at a law firm? For someone supposedly so fucking smart I am surprised she is missing her grand chance. Take up criminal law bitch and start fucking the felons you represent. Though most of them would deserve a better woman than you.

If she hasn't had kids at 40, chances are no one wants to put any in her because of a endless amount of red flags. You can tell in her eyes she's either on meds or bat-shit crazy, yeah no.

She reminded me of a lawyer I met a long time ago. She was also in her late 30s or 40s, and didn't seem to realise time was passing. Sure, she still looked good, but only if compared to other women in their 40s. Always talking about how hot she used to be, how many guys were after her back in the day... Still couldn't see the time passing her by. One day she tells me some younger guy she was seeing proposed to her. I asked her more about it, and she then tells me she still hadn't answered him. I bet she's still thinking about her glory days when men were chasing after her as it was yesterday.

The number of women on bumble aged 38+ who still have “want someday” or “have and want more” with regards to kids is truly astonishing.

Talk about buying into the “the fertility cliff is a myth” narrative