Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago Stickied
Mod notes:
1) please stick to one post per member every 24 hours. Give the other members time to discuss each one, you know?
2) normally we don't want locations revealed, but this video is viral (lots of reactions to it by large YouTube channels and they mention it being huge on Twitter), so an exception can be made for this one.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago Stickied
Someone please post to Reddit channel because I cannot. Thanks.
wswZtyqNGQ 2d ago
I didn't know that EQ means "making me and my interests the center of your universe".
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
All I heard was "Blah blah blah blah blah blah 9's and 10's..." In other words, useless information.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
So cringe.
This... thing is the end result of dating in the modern era. This is the endgame, right here. Not a happy housewife, making babies and learning how to please her husband in every way. No, a useless critic of men with a slowly declining SMV and increasing expectations.
This is what happens when virgins don't marry at 16-22, the way they used to, under the guidance and direction of their fathers. Give them freedom and they don't know what to do with it.
Also, a woman with a college degree, career, or full-time job gets an automatic -4 to MMV.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
What is "successful dating" for her? Men who entertain her and don't want marriage it seems. Oh and remember she is at least a 9 like her friends so be handsome, rich and entertain well.
In her 30's she is not in her prime, its really time to get off the carousel before you are told "Sorry miss you are too old to ride this"
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
She kind of already is too old, she has already lost her chance of marrying the best possible man available to her back in her prime, now she will have to "lower her standards" if she ever needs marriage.
Ten years ago I would have told her that she will need to lower her expectations if she wants to get married, but not since I have learnt by various personal stories told by divorced that women end up resenting the men they marry after they "lower their standards" for not being better than the previous Chads they banged in her younger days.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Interesting.
She is in her 30's. One of the issues that she lists as a negative about the men that she and her beautiful friends meet, is that the men 'want to get married tomorrow', and they 'don't know how to date'.
This tells us everything. Modern women like 'dating'. Let us remind ourselves what 'dating' is - its basically hook up culture with manners. It's every woman's dream. They get to be entertained, wined and dined, and all they need to do is sometimes open their legs. I like to call dating 'hook ups with manners'. And that is what they want, and all they want. They want to 'date' from 17 to 37, sleep around with a succession of sucessful and desireable men, and then stick the landing with some chump. (and then divorce rape him after a couple of kids).
It's so revealing the way she complains that men in their 30s want to 'get married tomorrow'.
It's spoiling her plan of sleeping around in exchange for paid for food, gifts and trips until her fertility is gone.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
What got me chuckling was her claim of "emotional maturity". Despite being insufferable and not realizing it, she still had "chumps" chasing after her and her friends but she lacks emotional discipline to power through even a moment of dating awkwardness.
By the time she NEEDS to stick the landing, she won't be able to.
Another aspect of what makes this great is that there's plenty of "normal" men around but she lacks the ability or motivation to get them. That's the trap of the feminine role: They don't HAVE to approach men and risk rejection and can still get plenty of men, but that only gets them so far and yet raises their expectations.
I was tempted to flair this "strong, successful woman" because this is a common trope I've seen elsewhere: supposedly "strong" women who are utterly helpless in "finding" acceptable men. If us men tried to claim we were hot and smart but yet couldn't get laid, we'd be called out in a microsecond: It's something we're doing wrong. Nope, instead it's the WHOLE city she's in that's the problem.
oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Exactly, she complains about guys wanting to get married tomorrow, but I'd bet that's because they're looking at her timeline and thinking, just barely in time to start a family, no delay is advised.
Give it a year or two and her complaint will be completely ameliorate, all that icky commitment talk will turn back into lighthearted fun.
oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Imagine a man dating her and expressing that he's serious about marriage and not wasting time. What he's really trying to tell her is: I'm serious about having healthy kids and IF that was with you, WE could not waste time.
When that same man dates a woman with a long fertile window left I'd bet he's in less of a hurry to get married..
He's already expressing to you that the risk profile of geriatric pregnancy is starting to overwhelm the risk profile of rushed partner choice... she's misunderstanding that as HIS problem as though the problem could go away with a different guy...
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
I took it to mean the guys were tech nerds (San Franciscov is Silicon Valley, right?) with little to no experience with women, and they tried to lock her down because they'd never been with a woman as attractive as her (for all that I find her mid).
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 21h ago
that's EXACTLY it!
Her complaint is that she is not being given the run around by chadly riz lords that want to pump and dump!
This one phrase of hers, her complaint that 'men want to get married tomorrow' is the most revealing thing she said. It's an absolute classic for the ages.
We have come full circle. Back in the 50s and 60s, it was MEN that would complain that young women didn't want to 'fool around' and instead were focused on getting married as quickly as possible. Now modern women are complaining that men don't want to fool around and instead want to get married and start a family.
It's partly humble brag (everything a modern woman put on socials is humble brag, tbh) but she is 90% simply telling the truth by accident - she is telling the world what she wants - she DOESN'T want to get married and start a family, she wants to get ran trough by as many chads as possible, and is deeply disappointed by the options that she is seeing.
It also tells me that she is still a long way from her epiphany phase. She has no idea about the wall. She has no clue what is coming down the train track. Those same men that she is complaining about (the battalions of guys that apparently want to get married tomorrow) are all wising up.
Give it a couple of years. She will be back online, singing a different kind of song. Something about freezing her eggs, not being ready, men not being mature enough. Yeah, she will flip the script alright, pretty soon she will be complaining about men NOT wanting to get married.
And all the while she is misunderstanding the entire situation - sure they want to get married, but just not to her.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
When I listened to Carl Benjamin's response to this video on my way to work the other day, I made a mental note to track down the original to post here.
fucker beat me to it!
Yeah, 9 out of 10? More like 5 or 6. And the focus on career, etc is not a plus. It doesn't make you any more or less fuckable, and it makes a woman into a worse candidate for anything serious or long-term.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Now I don't regret posting this in the 24 hours. I was thinking I'd rush it through for Weekend Content but also felt a bit guilty I hadn't put up any content recently so I overcompensated. I hope to disappoint you more in that regard in the future.
I didn't know Sargon had done a response video. Will check it out if I can find it because I think he has a Lotus channel that might be hard to search through.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
And that's just looks. Her attitude gives her such a large penalty that it drops her to "walk of shame" tier.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I used to wonder whether all the hoes on the internet giving themselves 10s actually thought that, or if they were gassing themselves up for confidence while deep down actually knowing the truth. I still find it hard to believe that it might be the former rather than the latter, but...here we are...
JudgeSmales 1d ago
I think even the most delusional puffed-up woman knows (and feels) the truth when she looks in the mirror or lays her head on her pillow. All the bombast is strictly for ego protection.
oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I think they say it in a kind of hopeful way:
But lets reverse the process:
4 A) I say I'm a 10
4 B) Only a person who feels like a 10 would say they're a 10
4 C) I must feel like a 10 because I said it
4 D) As per step 2, feeling like a 10 makes me a 10, huzzah I am a 10!
Now you can tell it doesn't really work because.... they keep saying it.... and because a woman who describes herself and her friends as 10s will tell you how many bad men they've been mistreated by.... and women who truly feel like a 10 don't put up with that so.... it doesn't work, they say it but they don't feel it...