Just because he’s not an F boy, doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to F.

Yup. Nailed it. He doesn’t exist to amuse you. You need to put in effort too. Especially when

he’s handsome and masculine

and

the banter was good

These are basically womanese for “Chad”. We all know what makes the banter good between a woman and a man: when the man is 6’+, strong, and confident. Suddenly, things that make a 5’6” guy an Urkel/Shelton are hilarious!

Guess what? This guy has options. And while you definitely aren’t ugly, the born again virgin act you’re putting on is napalm to dating prospects. And sorry, virgins don’t solo travel to the Yucatán peninsula and post videos of themselves with a tiny bikini top on, chronicling their adventures. We know you have sex. We know there’s been dudes you’ve hooked up with early, and maybe even the first night of hanging out with them. If, after date 4, it’s still this kind of pushback to sex, then this is a dead end.

Great find, OP. She's clearly obsessively coping by making the video. She's doing it by oddly asserting he was "DTF" and "just an F-boy" despite her saying to her friend he wasn't one, and the fact he didn't go through with doing that. Then she keeps repeating that she's looking for a relationships in this kind of deflated way, which is unconvincing because she also said they had "sexual chemistry" and were discussing sex, so...

I think this guy used that discussion to gauge what kind of woman she is, and he rejected her. King dropped his crown.

When an aging skank makes you pay for 4 dates without putting out you know that you'll only ever be the pay pig.

I can't help but wonder who's funding the trips to all these exotic locations.

Here's a hint for any lurking women who just can't understand where she went wrong:

relationships are built on sex; without sex, there is no relationship!

Men know that by the time a woman is her age, she's had sex. We know she has hooked up, sometimes even spur-of-the-moment.

We know that if we don't get anywhere, then you just aren't into us.

And we want you to want us!

This one has a bad case of "Main Character Syndrome". See how annoyed she got when another person ON A PUBLIC BEACH walked into the frame of her precious video? How dare others exist in my world!

If that really is holiday destination she came across real gentleman. I don't think any other man of that description would wait longer than 2 meetings. Unless season was low or he was inexperienced.

I have never waited more than 2 meet ups on holidays. ~80% happened within first 6h and I was just above average and way behind all the local dudes that specialized in smashing tourists.

Maximum cost of entertaining ladies used to be punet of fruits I would have anyway.

This is hilarious. She is almost 40, has a body count in 3 figures, and she is re-inventing herself as a shy high-schooler (middle schooler?) who wants you to take her to the school disco and then walk her home without a kiss. Good luck with that.

Also - half way through, she says "I'm looking for a relationship, I'm not searching for it" This is a classic example of how words just don't have any meaning to a certain type of retard. The reason why she is so unperceptive is that she is incapable of coherent syntax. There is a direct correlation between high levels of skill at talking and high functioning cognition. She is unaware of what is happening because she is retarded. She is retarded because the world has allowed her to free-wheel her way through life without making any effort at all. We have all stood by and clapped and cheered her every word, because she is slightly above average looking (if you like that sort of thing .... me personally, I think her face looks like a discarded burrito on a rainy day )

Another thing: This woman is almost 40 and she doesn't know the rules of engagement. THERE IS NO 'DATING' ON HOLIDAYS / RESORTS.

'Dating' (a male bringing you out for dinner, then paying, then granting him access to your sticky love tunnel in exchange for the free meal) is a what happens in your home town. On holidays/ resort - there is no dating. You cruise from bar to bar, you meet members of the opposite sex, and then you go back to the hotel room for sexy time. Nobody is buying nobody dinner. You don't even need to buy her drinks.

Going to a beach resort and then trying to playing 'dating' is insane.

This reminds me off the one of Kevin Samuels monologs where he was telling these women that they are behind on their pussy payments.

Oh, that's probably the chick @financeHardo420 ghosted when he was visiting Cancun. I think his parents wouldn't give him permission to smash in their hotel room.

Anyway, these types of women are what are known as Passport Hoes. They deserve their own flair so I'll flag @redpillschool. Let me tell you about them but first I'll give you some context about the video. She is probably in Cancun staying in the hoteleria, probably from NYC, probably over 40, and probably Jewish.

If you are well traveled, you have encountered these types of THOTs. They have lived out their "Sex in the City" fantasy, hit The Wall, had their epiphany phase, gone into denial, and resort to escapism. It's one of the very last stages of strong independent womanism.

They are not difficult to find because they go to expensive resort areas by themselves and try to find men with a similarly low SMV but are hawt. They use their exotic foreign origin to increase their own SMV compared to locals. They are a dime a dozen in places like the hoteleria in Cancun, Mexico... Seminyak in Bali... Kho Phangan in Thailand, etc.

These women make good marks for the romance scam. Here is a documentary about the Bali Cowboys who scam foreign women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUAyz-ym9d8 . Then there's the Tinder Swindler. I'm thinking if I don't find a job soon I'll start running the romance scam on these passport hoes keeping me unemployed to smash the patriarchy.

I keep coming back to this video for a comment... she's just got a bit of everything! Its a rich gold mine!

So, here's another point. She's playing the born-again virgin (close to 40 years old, ffs). Here's the issue with that: when a woman is very young, we can respect the fact that she is careful not to hand out the goodies to any random guy. But when a woman is post wall and has practically made a living out of giving up the goodies, and THEN doesn't give them up after 4 (four! FFS!) dates.... then we all know what is going on. It's pride. Her whole video is humble bragging. She is going on social media and saying that she got 4 dates from a guy, and still didn't grant access. She's trying to tell her followers that her price is very very high, when we all know that the value of what she has is very low.

It's not zero value, but its very low. her crazy misinterpretation of her own value is a consequence of riding the CC for too long. It has totally distorted her perceptions of reality.

Awww. Wall smashed pancake tiddies, complaining about being ghosted.

So cute.

Here's the deal. He tried. He invested time, energy and money. He did his part to get you into bed.

You OTOH? You sat back and ate the food that he paid for. You sat back in amusement as he worked to amuse you.

You didn't put in any effort. You weren't reciprocal to his interest.

So he left.

I would have appreciated a conversation.

Tell that to every wYmYnZ who screeches:

My body my choice! I don't owe you an explanation. No means no and you need to accept it without question, even if you're mid thrust and about to cum...

This is just the flipside of it.

"I want a relationship not to hookup".

This shows female entitlement at it's finest: that a man should always be there to give her what she wants. When she wanted to have fun and have hookups, men gave her hookups (so far so good for both parties, I guess). Now that she wants to be responsible and have a relationship, men are supposed to give her a relationship without doing any of the fun stuff first (or at all). Whether men want such a raw deal, that's not her concern.

Ans when her demands aren't met and end up ghosted, it's time for bitterness and misandry.

IMO the dude had lots of patience to go on 4 dates. Hope he was seeing other women in the meantime.