Done.

PS: I did not get a notification.

Well, she has a cat in the background so there's one tick on the femcel inspin list.

FTFY

Practically speaking, there's no such thing as a "femcel." Even the most corpulent bridge troll can find a dude to knock her down if sex is truly all she's looking for.

Of course, it's essentially never the case that sex is truly all a woman is looking for, but you take my meaning. Men's fail state is not being able to convince any woman to sleep with him. Women's fail state is not being able to convince any man to commit to her. Hence: involuntary spinster (as coined by our own @lurkerhasarisen).

In more ways than one. She is not attractive. I'm not sure if her mouth is natural or she's a victim of botched plastic surgery but whatever it is, it's unfortunate.

But more than that, no high value man, especially in Asian communities, would value a woman who makes tiktok videos about her life. Other ethnic communities might value fame and notoriety as a valid path to success, but most Asians don't.

In my dating years, I begrudgingly accepted women who had facebook accounts, since well, good luck finding someone who doesn't. But a woman who had an active instagram account was already a red flag. At most it would be casual and quick affair. I got out of the game before tiktok became a thing, but if I met a woman and she told me she posts tiktok videos about her life, I wouldn't even want something casual. Last thing I need is someone to post a tiktok video about me if/when she gets upset.

People who have such an incredible need for validation that they're willing to make a public exhibition out of their entire life so random strangers can pass judgment on it just speaks to more narcissism and mental illness than I wish to deal with.

Here's a tip: people don't like to viewed as checklists. Your problem is not that your checklist isn't big enough. It's that you have one at all.

It’s like when an older, rich man has a younger, physically attractive girlfriend. Neither one of them is an idiot and they know what drew the other person in. But just enjoy each other’s company and don’t constantly remind them that you’re there because they offer things that you want.

Exactly. First thing I thought -- why is she talking about this dude in past tense?

Oh right, he was sweet and all, but didn't ring the tingle bell. Got it.

Maybe she has already forgotten?

I think back to the 1990's when my sister-in-law whose a moderate leftist entitlement type "hinted" to my relative to ask her out and pay her way, and she remarked that the office was the ideal place to meet a man: She could fish around for intel on his reliability and shame him if he acted up on the date or afterward. It was like a gift to women and...

They mucked it up with "sexual harassment" legislation not caring about the consequences. "I can get him fired if he doesn't treat me like a LADY!" she thought, but didn't care that this would ultimately kill the single best place for these women to get an old fashioned "ask out/paid' date.

The same with the 1950's: At no other era in the history of civilization did women have middle and upper class men feel "privileged" to work outside of the home while the women had modern appliances and servants to take care of her while she figured out ways to go shopping, gossip with friends, or do (legal) pharmaceutical drugs (listen to the song "Momma's little helper" by The Rolling Stones). They were literally Queens of the Home and they trashed wages with feminism and no-fault divorce.

The useless degrees in Gender Studies and all that woke-ology deserves to die in a fire too.

The coming depression is going to reset a lot of expectations, I can tell you that.

It will become a Church of Female Supremacy. It's already really bad in Canada, just look at some Jordan Peterson interviews.

Yup. Women have not been programmed to pursue throughout humanity, though. Pre-Abrahamic societies, women just went to whatever man could provide them resource and protection. So the rich man would just have 4 or 5 wives.

Of course, these women had value to these men. They were often young and ready to have children. And once they had the children, would provide a nurturing environment for the kid.

Now, these women still expect to be pursued and taken care of like before, but they want it on their own terms. Doesn’t work like that. Like you want us to be monogamous? That’s fine. But that means we only need one of you. Maybe I’m one of the 10% of men who fulfill your standards. But you’re one of the 100% of women who fulfill my financial and educational standards (which is: I don’t have any). Now are you one of the women who fulfill my standards in beauty, kindness, caring, and fitness?

That's what I found amusing about his story that the women were griping while the men remained silent. He's a smart guy, but it didn't occur to him that the men remaining silent said a story in, and of, itself. That the men didn't think the women cared to listen to them and the women were good at griping, but didn't want to listen to the few men that met their standards as to what he might want. These women, and heck the professor, just wanted to tell the men what the women demanded (in this case, he said "risk rejection, and take her out for dinner and a dance") NOTHING about his concerns such as if he asks out the wrong woman at the wrong time, decades of work he's done to get up in the higher tiers of academia go to waste.

The modern era for women is that entitlement privilege for women is that they don't have to "play games" or do anything. A "real man" serves up relationships to her on a platter as she sleeps in a castle guarded by a dozen shit-test dragons. She views having to make an effort as unfeminine even as the prospects become slimmer.

Imagine some guy having to bite his tongue for decades to go a PhD and post-doc professor work and go through multiple training classes "why you're privileged and everything you do is oppression." To SURVIVE he's go to walk on eggshells. He reaches the pinnacle of achievement and can have ANY woman he wants and... he either goes MGTOW perhaps because he is passionate about his career or marries some foreign undergrad whose on a student visa.

It's an interesting question to ask herself: If you could look into the future and see yourself alone, with your precious academic career, but childless and alone or with a family but doing some interesting and fun work, but not as prestigious, what would you pick?

After Physics 101 I never saw any women in any of my Physics and math classes. I think I was the only man in my Abnormal Psychology class. None of the Psych major women were interested in gross Physics geeks.

Yeah I just looked at a chart of obesity by country. Figure 4. https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports/web/195/risk-factors-to-health/contents/overweight-and-obesity/who-is-overweight

My wife was hardened against this via Islam which is basically just anti-feminist. I supplemented her hardening by showing her the feminist lies and how the women who believe it end up. 12yrs in the US and she is still the same. Never succumbed. Hates it here and despises the women.