For context: https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/318867/video_she_is_chasing_chad_and_no_one_is_good_enough_for_her

Listen to what she's saying. She tells you why she can't find a husband.

Because she views her future husband as an addendum to her life.

In reality, women are dependent upon men for their basic survival. Women need men.

Men do not need women. Men love women, want to have sex with women and want to reproduce with women. Men want women to build their families. However, men do not need women for their survival.

When a man acts like he needs women, it turns women off. Because men are not supposed to need women.

Likewise, when women act like they don't need men, it turns men off. Because women do need men.

She can't find a husband because she acts like she doesn't need him. When she doesn't need him, he doesn't want her.

With current moral standards and norms, I cannot give a random woman the benefit of the doubt that she is the type that is saving herself for marriage. Not that that factor alone is going to make a woman more guaranteed to find a husband, but rather that the type of woman that does not see sex as sacred within a marriage is far less likely the type that is in search of a husband with the right mindset. The very mindset a woman needs to have in that search is one where it is a high priority. Not the attitude of dragging her feet with the idea because everything needs to be perfect for her before she can look for Mr. Right.

The additional video demonstrates a large part of her mindset. She very quickly dismisses a number of guys who are reasonably attractive for what seems to be very frivolous reasons. It does not help her case when her approach to dating is just snap judgement swiping and not even reading a word of the profiles.

What this woman will soon find out is that she does not have the luxury of time on her side. She is going to have less opportunities to get what she claims she wants as she gets older due to her SMV and due to the pool of men she would want being taken off the market by less finicky women. Hopefully she will not blindside a man who she feels she "settles for" by pulling the plug on the marriage she claims she wanted. Because frankly, it is unfair to the man to punish him for the fault of a woman's resentment from her thinking too highly of herself.

There's always the thought that there's gonna be someone more compatible

And there it is: you've burned your pair bonding ability. Why put in some work in the relationship when you can dump him and start swiping?

"New year, new thoughts" Nope, "new year same thot". We all know the old adage about the definition of insanity, right? Insanity, thy name is modern women.

maybe it's cause [sic] I haven't met the right person

Woman, I saw another video in which you swiped left on every man who came up. Most of them were actually too good for you.

If you keep declining to give decent men a chance, you'll never "meet the right person".

Reality check: for God's sake, the only reason you even pass the boner test is that you are thin. Your face looks goddamn weird, even for an Asian chick.

Quotes from the video:

"I always tell everyone that I'm looking for my future husband".

"I feel like I enjoy being single right now".

"I feel scared to settle down so soon"

"There's always the thought that there's gonna be someone more compatible"

"I've got some more figuring out to do this year".

If I heard all this shit on a date, I'd be out of there so fast she wouldn't know what the fuck happened.

"I'm a relationship person" -- Sure you are, as evidenced by the distinct lack of anyone willing to put up with your endless prattle.

The rest of this word salad, "I like being single" and "scared of settling down" and of course, the legendary meme-able phrase "find myself" (insert pic of willing hole to be filled by the worst men imaginable) is all you need to know.

Discounting looks, which for an asian chick she's on the bottom rung, honestly, I don't think I could handle her stream-of-conciousness bullshit during the typical day. Can you imagine this bitch deciding where to eat for lunch? Oh fuck that, I'd just grab her and throw her in the car -- we're going where I want to go, shut the fuck up.

But that won't happen, because no guy -- even the ones willing to plug that facehole -- will stick around for the feelings parade for very long.

This is a perfect vignette of the "modern" woman. Head up her own ass, no direction, nothing to offer but a hole and lots of drama.

Pass.

"I want to get married someday."

"I want to move out of my parents' basement someday."

Which is a more effective turnoff?

"I always tell people I'm waiting for my future husband."

Good God the amount of times I've heard this at work from 40-year-old "independent" 250 lb+ single moms...

Love that Joker™

If you wanted to do some mathematical analysis you could count how many times this woman says "I" in this video. Everything that follows is an unbearable word salad, but the main point of what she is saying is "I".

I this, I that, I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I .

My prognosis is that she will die alone.

The delusion is strong with this one!!

In a field of strong contenders, we have a winner. Her voice almost breaks with the sadness that comes with the realisation that her best years are gone and she is terribly alone.

THEN she says "I'm really enjoying being single right now"

Then she tells us that she is looking for her 'future husband'

Then she tells us that she is scared of settling down!!!

My god, this short video has a bit of everything. Her mind is a perfect example of Orwell's double think, or how it is possible to believe two directly contradictory truths at the same time.

Some of the guys on this thread commenting about how ugly she is. I really dont think that is her issue. If she were a perfect 10, I would still not be interested because she is insane.

I would prefer a plain looking sane woman over a hot insane woman every day of the week.

But what we she is offering is a pretty average looking AND insane.

"Scared to settle down so soon."

Bitch, that ship sailed 15 years ago, if it ever docked in the first place. You are going to find that settling is only going to get harder as fewer and fewer options present themselves to you. Soon you will have to--gasp--actively seek a man rather than just waiting for Mr. Perfect to present himself with an apology for keeping you waiting.

Skip the cat and die alone...

It is tough to not stare at that nose. It is impressive how it covers almost all of her large mouth.

Yeah not surprised that a woman with a face like a deformed muppet and an even worse personality isn't able to lock down a man in the upper percentiles. And that's before considering she is more than likely intending to be an economic millstone around the neck of anyone dumb enough to let her latch on.

She can want in one hand and shit in the other, but only one is getting full. Men that meet her demands can demand better than her.

She's a 10 in my world. She's a 5 in Asia. I can get a chick like her in 10sec over in Asia. She probably got a big fat head because her skin is light and she's not fat so she gets lots of matches. I've actually been conditioned through experience to go for dark farm girls from Asia. Go figure.