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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Gold Digger

She is "traditional" yet somehow wasn't taken off the market before 30. What she really wants is a walking ATM.
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MelkorHimself

Posted 3y ago in Gold Digger - Permalink - Locked - 5.4K Views



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MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 3y ago

In all 3 pictures she presents herself as someone who is bored out of her skull and just DARES any man to think he even qualifies to make contact to then face the gauntlet of shit tests she will throw down.

All the king's horses and all the king's men could never put a smile on that face

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Al_Walter_Chadwick 3y ago

Aww, come on! Between "casual only okay if it's substantially worth my time" and looking for "empty nesters" = older men whose adult children no longer live with him, she could just have come out and written "prostitute looking for rich Johns" and be done with it.

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DextroShade 3y ago

This one is definitely looking to finesse dudes. The first part of he bio sounds good but it's lies, she is NOT traditional or funny and I doubt her cooking skills go beyond hamburger helper. If she were traditional she would have a husband and kids and would not be seen here. The only things she's got going for her are that she's fit and childless, but her ratchet attitude will keep her alone.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Oh fuck. It's sad. She hoisted the red flags all on her own. Let's GOOO!!!

  1. EVERY single photo is a thirst trap. Not one is genuine, unfiltered, or without makeup. I understand wanting to look good for a profile, but the problem here is that men see this and immediately question the authenticity of the poster.

  2. Men who are childless, never married, and pet-free (personal note: if you don't like dogs, fuck you) exist. They do not exist for women at or fast approaching the wall. This man is one of two things - young (so he isn't on her radar) or purposely avoiding these things... Which means that he's NOT looking for women like this.

  3. She wants fried ice. A successful man, by necessity, does not worship women. A man who worships women doesn't stay single.

  4. You want a successful man to bring you into his life and then go full beta. I'll tell you this - if I'm paying the property taxes on my home, it's my home. I won't be relegated to a room or a basement to seek refuge. I'll just remove you from my home. No successful man will even entertain this shit.

  5. Shocker, she wants to travel. How much do you want to bet she won't contribute a dime? This gets the hardest eyeroll from me because it's so generic, vapid, and utterly pointless. Why in the fresh HELL would I take expired goods on vacation when I can either go to a place where the women are younger, hotter, and more willing or simply take a younger, hotter, more willing woman with me. At least a woman I will take enjoys a good coffee date.

  6. Speaking of coffee dates... If I'm planning the date, you can accept or refuse, that's your right. You don't get to complain about it though. Women like this are perfect candidates for coffee dates because it exposes them for what they are right out the gate (which is, despite the bullshit they say, the reason they hate coffee dates). They don't like that they aren't getting the resources up front. They HATE having to engage with a man and keep his attention when he's alert and they can't rely on sex appeal.

My conclusion: match with this woman, flaunt status and wealth, offer the coffee date at the end.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

This woman is a perfect example of why not only should men utilize coffee dates/walks in the park/etc filtering activities, but why they should also utilize extended vetting periods to the tune of 5-7 years minimum before even thinking about serious commitment.

Women like this know deep down they are on a timer, and the ticking of that clock will eventually frustrate them into fucking up. Hell, this one has multiple fuckups in just her initial profile alone if one is not blinded by pussy goggles. (She just oozes Jada Pinkett energy which is NOT a compliment)

Which also means once she's past a certain age cutoff, smart men will take commitment off the table entirely since she's too old to beat the buzzer.

Or in other words, women whom are genuine catches normally aren't stuck online dating/fishing for schmucks on the wrong side of 30.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

The "feminine not a feminist" line is basically womanese for saying that they're golddiggers and think this is a feminine virtue.

To respond your point 6, a feminine woman would PREFER having a man lavish her with resources up front, but she will smile and grin and bear it or, in other words, "woman up" and enjoy the date gracefully. Same thing with 'traditional" and "dinner": She won't cook it, she'll want him to pay for it.

It's one thing when a girl is 23 years old and has these definitions of the world revolving around them but she's 31 and has no time left to lose. She's gonna die alone.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

A feminine woman would refuse anything from a man until he commits to her. Nothing is free and feminine women know that there is a cost for these transactions.

On the other hand, smart women (who subscribe to the feminist theory) might also refuse to get anything from a man as a power move to ensure that you don't hold any power over her. The difference between the first and the second will be the lack of grace and the aggressiveness in the rejection.

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Intrepid_Place53900 3y ago

I think you also missed the line, (casual would be ok, if you made it worthwhile) . Like she's a prostitute I guess, that's not feminine for sure.

so, if you are hot or a rich guy who wants to pay for stuff, Casual is on the table, otherwise, nope. That say's an awful lot.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

Awarding you Jr. Hamster Analyst flair for your recent comments.

cc: @typo-magashiv

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Hell yeah

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

What a selfish bitch. Not only does she want a bailout, she wants you to clear up your shit in your house so that she can fill it up with shit she likes on your dime. The audacity of this bitch.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

I read that and thought "let me get this right - you want to move into my curated space, have me move the things I like into a single room so that you can spend my money turning my house into your space?"

Bitch please.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

Not a thing about her profile is feminine or traditional.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago

The "cooking" as an interest is the closest thing to traditional she has on her entire profile. And given how impressive (/s) the rest of her bio is and the level of responsibility she seems to take for a good relationship, I would not hold my breath for a good home-cooked meal from her

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DextroShade 3y ago

She would struggle to name any recipes she has.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago

Microwave popcorn is cooking, right? Or burnt mac&cheese. Maybe delivery?

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago

Opening a seasoning packet and pouring it on delivered pizza is cooking right?

Maybe watching her man cook and complaining a time or two is also cooking?

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Imagine being a 31yr old gold digger trying to get wifed up by a blue-pilled Alpha using a bumble profile created by FDS. She gonna be looking a loooooong time.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

Yeah her cutoff date for successfully accomplishing that was a good 5-10 years ago before she started growing cottage cheese thighs.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago

Looking for marriage

casual only ok if I want it

Not even pretending to be over her hoe phase, huh.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

hoe phase

No matter how much they insist, it's not a phase, but who they are.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

She will HAPPILY take casual from Chad.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

31

no kids, never married

traditional

casual only ok if it's substantially worth my time

Something doesn't add up here. Hmm...

fancy dinners don't equal intimacy

Most men figured this out 20 years ago. This is why most men insist on coffee, a walk on a nature trail, etc. for a first date: we want to make sure a woman is actually into us, rather than just getting a free meal.

love feet

Ew.

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kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 3y ago

Nothing says marriage more than wanting separate spaces while expecting him to pay for everything.

@MelkorHimself, for consistently posting theme-fitting content, I'm awarding you Sr. Hamster Analyst flair.

fyi: @moorekom

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Pic889 3y ago

Why not? That's what some of her married friends are doing: The man pays for everything while being forced to seek refuge in a separate room to avoid all the constant nagging." What do you mean I have to romance a man before I get to that point? Nah, I am the prize and every man is lucky to have me."

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

Good move.

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TriumphoftheSwill 3y ago

Jesus Christ, you could land a B-52 on those lips

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Not a coffee date/drinking date/or walk in the park.

Foodie Call averted.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Her entire post is to circumvent HIS filters. State the conditions of association upfront and then wait to see what the pool brings. Well, the guy that fits all her conditions has more options than she does. Good luck.

The pet-free/plant-free is interesting. I guess she does not want any competition for his attention and resources.

Off topic: I love walking dates. If she cannot walk a couple of miles, then she is not making the cut. She had better be in reasonable shape and own sensible footwear.

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AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

She went to all that trouble do doll herself up and probably took several dozen pics to get the right angle and look. Somehow she was still unable to actually muster a smile. These slags crack me up. A nice smile will generally add 1 point to a woman's SMV. I guess even that would require too much effort. She really gives off boss bitch vibes and of course her profile just adds to the arrogance.

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