Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 2w ago in Single Woman Tears - Permalink - 2.3K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1d ago
You know what is a massive red flag? Women that go to online sites, post profies of themselves, and then select guys to go out on dates with.
Women that want to 'go on dates' are the issue here guys, and we should not be entertaining them. At all.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 2w ago
can we create a new flair called 'tears of unfathomable sadness'?
@polishnight used this beautiful one liner to describe another video recently, and it just had a lovely ring to it.
I for one, was moved to floods of tears to learn of a poor woman that has had to pay for her half of a meal. Is there no justice in the world? Will their suffering never end?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago Stickied
We'll take it into consideration, but I lean towards "no" even though that's from one of the greatest episodes of "South Park" ever.
CC: @moorekom, @woodsmoke, @deeplydisturbed
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1w ago
I vote no as well.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
@moorekom I respect both of your decisions. Most people won't "get it". There is a delight, though, to self absorbed women's tears when they're finally brought to that breaking point, though.
I use "single/inspin" tears with similar results which works fine for now. Happy labor day, Tovarische!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
As I'm sure you know, that line is from Eric Cartman deriving satisfaction licking tears from his enemy's face.
I admit it, I enjoyed it in that this woman has zero sympathy for men who don't enjoy getting stuck with the bill or wasting our time and money on someone out to milk us for free goodies.
Note that she didn't cry about the guy, himself, although I did read a few accounts of women bawling that they were lonely BUT they weren't going to get into a relationship where the man didn't "make enough effort". They simply don't value relationships with us, in our own right.
Think about it: What we believe a relationship should be is non-existent in modern dating. I've read comparisons of women to pets. There's this perception of cats that see us only as servants that they transactionally provide affection to for food or scratches. I don't think that's true in that I think my cats only wanted those things to establish trust (that i wouldn't hurt them). My tomcat got me my house (long story) and refused to leave my side up to his last literal breath.
This woman has zero actual affection for us.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 2w ago
I have lots of American guy friends, and even a few on this platform.
I don't mean any offence, with what I am about to say, but here it is:
American men are way more simpy that European men. In the Europe that I know (France, Italy, Germany, Holland, UK etc) men just do not play the game of provider / ATM. We have not done that since the 1980s. We just dont entertain women that expect to have things paid for them.
I can see it when I read posts by American women that try the reverse uno card that is 'passport sisters' - those dumb American women past 30 that go on a trip to 'find themselves' in Europe, with the hope of finding a sophisticated European man that is going to woo them.
These passports sisters all have the same crazy dream: they are going to find a hot, tall, sophistitcated european guy, that kind of guy that reads Satre while listening to opera, has a cool aparrment in the old town, is modern and feminist, has a classic car and an old motorcycle, a cat, is a philospher but somehow a feminist. These chicks have seen too many hallmark movies about a european adventure which is a bit 'eat love pray' and ends up with some hot guy that just falls at the feet of a used up post wall retarded american woman.
Let me burst their bubble. We aren't like american men. We dont buy women drinks We dont pay for your meals. If you want to chat, and come to my place, and let me bang you, fine, we can talk. But we don't pay.
We European men pride ourselves on not paying for pussy. In our neck of the woods, only desperate men pay, either in drinks and meals or cash for whores. That is the sign of a guy that has no rizz and can't get any.
We saw the way the wind was blowing back in the 1970s, and we are riding the equality wave - if you want to hang out and have sex, we're all for it. Just dont' expect us to pay a single red cent, and the phone number we give you is going to be fake too.
This woman in the video is a prime example of why I say that american men are more simpy. The fact that she expects it is a learned behaviour - she obviously grew up in America, where she was bombarded by legions of thirsty simps that were lining up to pay for her meals. I think american men have dug their own graves - they seem to think that being a provider is the manly thing to do.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago Stickied
Hey @redpillschool, I switched tabs for less than 10 seconds and stayed within the same browser on the same site and lost everything I'd written! God dammit!
Real reply, as best as I can remember:
@Lone_Ranger, @derdeutscher, @polishknight, @mattyanon
Most of these replies are skirting close to violating WAATGM's rule 1: "no shaming men for any reason".
The comments that are cutting it close, I'll leave alone for now (another mod may see something I don't, and I reserve the right to change my mind when well-rested and sober). The comments that blatantly violate that rule are gone.
PS: actual photo of people who say "rizz"
redpillschool Everybody tag him 1w ago
Are you sure you didn't just mix up your enter and delete keys?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
Naw, switched back to my draft in here from a different tab on the trp.red side of the site, and all my shit disappeared
It's cute that you think I'm on an actual computer like it's 2003.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1w ago
lots of us prefer to use computers! It's great way to pass the time when you are supposed to be working. if you are in an office, as soon as you pick up your phone, everyone assumes you are slacking off.
as long as you are typing away at a big screen, all is well.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
I haven't had an office job in close to 10 years, and the only way I would want an office is a home office from which I do various work and hobbies online. That might happen in the next few years.
But for now, I will continue to work with tools and almost never touch any computing device other than my smartphone.
chunky 1w ago
And this is why I, a tall, educated, and well socialized American man, prefer to go to Europe to socialize. My male peers are more grounded, and the women more realistic.
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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1w ago
"I personally can and like to pay for a date"
Thats exactly my point. I can pay for lots of dates. I have enough in my savings a/c to buy a medium sized house (not bragging, just how it is).
But would I 'like' to pay for a date? fuck no. That's degarding for men.
Going out on dates is basically a shit test - women realise that if they can get you to pay for a date, or a drink or coffee, you are an easy mark.
If you 'like' buying women coffee / drinks / meals etc go for it. No shame in the game. But realise that you are doing the provider thing. She is likely dropping those panties on command for guys with riz behind the club, regretting in the morning, and firing up the apps to 'date with a purpose' and you are the mark.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I have heard some men say they "like to pay for dates" and I wonder if this is due to cultural brainwashing or something else. In my own case, I enjoy taking my friends out for coffee and such and, I would add, if any of you are in the DC metro area, it would be my pleasure to buy you beer.
I used that test on a few guys who claimed that by asking them: "How about buying me a dinner or beer?" and one of them told me to eff off so I ferreted out his "generosity" motives pretty quick.
I personally am annoyed by people, friends or women, who exploit my hospitality though. It's offensive particularly in that even though I can "afford" it, I don't pay for coffee on a daily basis because I know how that adds up, FAST! I ask myself if a week vacation somewhere nice is worth the cost of 250 coffees a year. I peed and moaned when we went out to a beach restaurant that was charging $11 for beers. That's not really bad, actually, in that another resort was charging an INSANE $18/beer during HAPPY HOUR!!! And I saw the place was PACKED. I could pick up a case of beer a few blocks away and crack one open on a public table right next to the cafe. I suppose that's my Polish frugality kicking in.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
I'll see your Polish frugality, and raise you my Scottish cheapness!
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1w ago
being what women call 'cheap' is awesome. It's an insult to them, because it make them aware of their actual value (zero) rather than their own inflated perceived value.
Keep on being you.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2w ago
I dunno man.
There's a lot of Americans who are wising up, and a lot of Europeans who are still simps.
I dunno....... I talk to so few men who really get it. Most accept they are going to have to pay somewhat. Most don't realise that paying marks them out as a beta. Most don't understand their own value as attractive in their own right, and almost none of them act like it.
It seems that the women crying about this on TikTok are Americans......... so the biggest difference looks to me like American women expecting this kind of thing.
It looks like they try the job market for a few years, hate working for a living, find themselves poor, and now want to be provided for. They think that crying over paying half for a date will mean a rich man will step in and provide for them. I know that seems dumb as fuck, but I think this kind of deluded/magical thinking is how they operate.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
@Lone_Ranger I have talked with European men who are accustomed to paying for dates. They usually won’t pay for a dinner date but rather a walk in the park and cake and tea at a cafe for a first date. I suppose it also depends upon the country such as Spain vs Germany vs Netherlands?
I am working on a post from some videos from American women crying that European men are not as thirsty. One even taught me a new term: spießig that an American woman was called the whole evening!
Here’s my thoughts on “rizz”: Men being expected to have it is, to me, a form of supplication to women. Sort of like the phrase “If you can make it in NYC, you can make it anywhere!”, American men DO have lots of rizz which has spoiled American women: They do approach women more. European women are simply better trained than American women are to expect less (which is a good thing). The difference between paying for a prostitute versus dinner date is you don’t have to beg to perform for a prostitute to have sex with her. Keep in mind that prostitution is far more accessible to European men than American men which I think is the cause of American male thirstiness so men satisfying their thirst in this way is far less environmentally detrimental.
There are American men who develop game but only after approaching hundreds, even thousands of women, which then “spooks the fish” and ruins thousands of women. If that guy simply paid for a prostitute and developed some sexual confidence, it would save him hundreds of hours of effort and ruining normal women. I think that’s what European men do.
No exaggeration: There are men in major American cities who spend hundreds, even thousands of dollars, a month at clubs and dating when they could put that money into a jar and fly to Germany and hit a brothel and get satisfied as well as better cultured.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1w ago
Those European men that you talk of, that are accustomed to 'paying for dates' are really doing it wrong. You don't need to. You really don't.
Its more than not needing to - its actually harming your game if you pay for things. It signals submission and beta.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I agree that paying for dinner dates is the most beta thing to do imaginable. I suppose when women say "self confident BUT sensitive", they mean Conan the Barbarian perhaps shedding a SINGLE tear watching Old Yeller or buying them dinner.
Even so, there's the infamous case of Twilight's Robert Pattison getting rid of a stalker by taking her out to dinner and then complaining about his problems and she got "icked" and left him alone. It's a surefire way to get rid of women who might react badly to rejection, I suppose.
I haven't dated for 25 years so I can't say what the current climate is in the states much less Europe.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
I'm old enough to remember when providing was a sign of dominance.
Fun fact: Andre The Giant would always pay, for everything, no matter what. There was an incident where Arnold Schwarzenegger tried to sneak into the kitchen at a restaurant and pay for Andre, only to feel a humongous hand grab him by the shoulder and pick him up and shake him about as the hand's owner (Andre, duh) yelled "I PAY!
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1w ago
paying is a little game that men play amongst themselves. It's harmless fun.
Paying for women, paying for their time, on the off chance that you might get to have sex with them, is a totally different matter.
I think its submissive, and acutaly decreases your changes of getting laid. None of the 80 plus kills in the field have had any drinks bought for them, and I will never change that. the day I have to buy shit for women in order for them to be interested, is the day I give up.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
You can dominate me and pay for beers/wine when you're in DC metro. Put me in my place!!!
I don't want to risk Rule 1 so I'll try this: it's a matter of debate (which I'll forego here) whether men are domineering, or shamed, into paying, sometimes can be seen as either by being a provider. Some men I know would refuse to marry a woman who makes more than him.
I? on the other hand, would happily let women pay all my bills. Reminds me of this video from FreedomToons: Edit: Alpha Male stuff: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBXZC2IrzTM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBNJUy1Y34E
Yeah, I'd be ok with this. Totally. I wouldn't ask too many questions...
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
Now that crime is so far down thanks to President Trump, I might actually go sometime!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I live in Northern Virginia which the gang bangers take the metro to go to the mall and then steal cars to drive back to DC. I largely avoid DC itself and stick to Eden Center (a Vietnamese community from the end of the war) or 7-corners.
But yeah, crime in DC got super bad during the Covid era similar to NYC where the subways were something out of The Warriors.
There's still a few decent places to get a drink though.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2w ago
I bet this "I just want a man who pays" girl is the exact same girl who also demands equality.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
Aren't they always?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Someone please post to the Reddit site because I cannot. If you don't, then, you can watch the actual Old Yeller video if you don't understand what I'm referring to. THIS is something that made me cry and still does (what a mother, eh?) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcUjWc4M1tk
hhhhdmt 2w ago
Good for him.
Not sure if this was a man from France or French Canada.
French men (men in France) are cucked anyway. They can't even get a paternity test without a judge's approval and they can be fined or even put in prison for getting a paternity test without a judge's approval. And the judge can deny you a test for the "best interest' of society.
Oh and ancestry tests are banned too in France since they are effectively DNA tests.
I live in English speaking Canada so it would be practically impossible to ban ancestry tests here since almost everyone is immigrant descended going back 200-400 years. But if feminists had their way, Canada and US would ban ancestry tests too.
Good on this Frenchmen for not paying for this woman and hopefully he doesn't call her again.
IceNineWithLime 2w ago
Paternity tests are big in Spain thanks to the French ban.
hhhhdmt 2w ago
Really? If so, its a good thing.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2w ago
They have decided that "family" means "provider", because they need to hide how many post-WWII babies are more German than French.
Yep. The whole society now protects female infidelity in WWII. No DNA tests, no ancestry tests. Cover it all up, pretend it didn't happen, and change society to be "provider = family, no need for DNA tests, doesn't matter, just keep paying".
Yep.
Women know who their children are. They do not want men to have the same rights.
How do you know he's French?
hhhhdmt 2w ago
The woman who made this video said the man was French. Not sure if he is French French or French Canadian.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2w ago
Ah, ok.... I missed that bit and I can't bear to watch it again to check.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
The fact they felt the need to ban paternity tests shows they lowkey know the percentage that will prove the wife has cheated will be into the double digits, after all if it was less than 1% of married men were raising kids that weren't his, there would be no need to ban paternity tests then.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
If a woman can cry this much over paying a fair share, why did women ever want equality? They said the "equality" they wanted was "fair" men got behind the idea of fair. But what they actually wanted was extra entitlements. That is not fair.
At least she already has a spinster's cat.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
They wanted to be released from the traditional roles of being women, yet want men to remain chained to the traditional roles of being men. It's called slavery, and men are getting off the plantation.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
I rather like the logic of it that goes through their minds:
"You see, men used to put women in a gilded cage called "chivalry" where they forced women into the "safe" home to do all the drudgery work while he had fun playing golf all day with the other CEO's! So, now we're liberated and with our own money, but it should be given to us via affirmative action to make up for the disadvantages from all those centuries and, well, I LIKE being treated like an actual princess because that's what i want but that doesn't mean it's any less oppressive. He should do it because, as a Real Man, he enjoys treating me like a princess and yet will apologize for it at the same time. I'm grateful if he does so, well, if he's hot of course or until I get bored and find a way to move on! Why isn't this working?"
It's astonishing our society ALLOWS this. I offered one of them a GoFundMe to send her to Saudi Arabia to stage a protest in front of a mosque and she politely declined. Outside of the west, this nonsense won't fly.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I don't know about the rest of you, but I pictured Angel by Sarah McLachlan playing in the background as I watched this.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I heard that when it comes to dating in many European countries, men are not expected to pay for a woman's meal or drinks when they go out on a date, unlike in countries where the English language is the standard.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
I think the same rules, more or less, apply to here in the states and largely any sexual marketplace: Hot Men set their own rules.
Consider the crying jag she's on. If the guy wasn't hot, perhaps she wouldn't be bawling. Taylor-The-Fiend did a recent show on American Passport Sis's crying their eyes out that foreign men aren't paying for their dates. I don't think it's just that, but rather as American women, they aren't "exotic" in any way except for perhaps having a reputation for being naive and slutty. American men have a reputation for being both a bit more gentle with women AND being tougher on the world stage (gun owners) which suits women who wants a BP man as a husband but what attraction is there for hot looking foreign guys to spend money on American women?
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2w ago
Yeah, and this is the most important fact.
I mean.... it's alpha fucks beta bucks..... women fuck hot guys and then demand average guys pay for drinks and meals.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1d ago
truth truth truth
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Us men need to utilize narratives to offset the women's such as: "I need a man to pay for a date to show he's interested in me! Otherwise, how do I know if he likes me?!?!" I'd respond: "I want to know a woman really likes me, and is serious about a good relationship, instead of only wanting me to pay for expensive dates." I read an Eff-Dee-Ess posting years ago of them whinging about this turnaround from us who shamed women for golddigging (because it works!)
I never did dinner dates except for my wife, ironically, (which was a special situation). I took "out" women on walks around the Hollywood Hills sign park, tennis, the beach, and fun activities which also discouraged them from glamming up in expensive makeup I'd have to "pay for."
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2w ago
This reads too much like negotiation and like wishful thinking.
Better to say "Sex first, maybe dates later if I like her".
But the most important thing is to have a lifestyle where this genuinely applies.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Western men can go overseas to many countries and many discover that they are seen as high or even top tier men by the women over there even if they were only seen as mid or low tier men by the women back in their home countries.
Western women are only seen as only worth fucking at the most when they visit those other countries.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
A top 10% (but not 5%) western man is simply amazing. My maternal grandmother (RIP Gertrude!), would and could have KILLED to get the men that modern American women reject. She grabbed the guy her older sister had rejected. One of the colorful stories of my family history.
It's amusing, isn't it, that all that modern women SAY they want from men is what such men will be rejected as "wimpy" and "boring". "Share your emotions!" "Buy me dinner!" Yeah, do that and she'll put you in the "stupid guy who buys me things to become my friend to pay my cable bill" category.
American women, note by that I mean single American women who are unmarried without kids, are pathological. But yeah, how can they compete with more healthy European women who walk everywhere and only eat what they can literally carry up 4 flights to stairs to their apartments vs land whales who've been schlepped in Rav-4's to Walmart? Not only that, but French women speak English because they CAN while single American women tourists speak English because that's all they know.