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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1d ago
She applies makeup 4 separate times in this short clip, OCD much? The advice I'd give that she'd be unable to implement, could get abbreviated to the letters S, T, F, and U.
Being her dog must make a difficult life.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Birdhands detected.
Yeah, I'm out. She also has that empty-soul stare of a woman that can't bond with anything, not even her favorite ice cream.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Her face is melting.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Yes Miss, you made all the choices, you landed where you threw yourself. Can it still happen -yes but its a very small chance now because you would have to inhibit instincts learned through a life time of choices where you put yourself first.
The perfect guy doesn't exist Miss. Never did exist actually. The offers were better earlier but none were perfect. See thing is men are just like women -imperfect and full of selfish thoughts. We have to compromise our selfish desires to meet the other's selfish desires. This may need negotiation and it may need sacrifice on both sides. You didn't compromise or negotiate or sacrifice.
Good luck with your great life MIss.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
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BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
Thirty seconds of listening to that chatterbox, and I had to tap out.
HitTheRoadJill 6d ago
I watched the whole thing. At the end, she says she can still meet a perfect man and share good life experiences with him at 40. Yeah, right.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 6d ago
Oh, fuff- you're probably exaggerating. How bad could it be?
OKAY...15 seconds in and I'm done.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4d ago
I got as far as looking at the thumbnail and had enough.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4d ago
Hmm. I just looked at the URL and had "enuf".
Or rather, 1enufc.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
Would bang, of course, but that's about as far as I'd go because I'm not her idea of a "perfect man." I suspect a few hundred non-perfect men also reached that logical conclusion after banging her while she was "traveling around the world" and spending quality time in Bali.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
So happy that you sit at home alone and monologue into a camera instead of discussing your day with your husband?
So happy that you don't have children, while crying to your dog every night?
So happy that you try to convince younger women to sabotage their own lives and be as miserable as you are?
So happy you sit around and apply artificial veneers, because you know that no one wants the "real you"?
So happy that you focused on yourself all those years?
So happy that you feel the need to convince other women that you're so happy?
You're not happy. Your life is based on yourself and your own happiness, which does not lead to happiness. It cannot. I can show you a few very happy women, genuinely content. Coincidentally, none of them sit around thinking (or making videos) about their own happiness. They are too busy giving their husband yet another addition to his dynasty to worry about that.
The misery will continue until you women learn that it is more blessed to give than receive.
HitTheRoadJill 6d ago
I agree that she’s better off single than married to either of the men she mentioned.
What about the other men (she’s definitely had more than 2) besides them? Surely there was at least one decent man she rejected for a serious relationship.
tallhandsomerichdude 3d ago
The best alternative was only 5 foot 11 and three quarters inches tall, or only at the 80th percentile in height. Obviously must be rejected.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
Note her wording: Not "decent", "perfect". She wants "perfect" and she's now 40, her fertility absolutely worthless on the MMV market, and she believes it still "can happen".
Indeed, these men dodged a bullet in that, perhaps with 1980's feminism, these women would have gotten the kids, a big home, and then decided she didn't want "the mental load" and to divorce for the fun of it. The kids would be traumatized. I know of at least two divorces this happened.
The collagen lips are sort of like face piercings: They scream "trashy".
I wouldn't be surprised if she rarely got approached. I lost my virginity to a virgin corporate nun 10 years my senior at the time. Many women simply go to work, grocery shopping, and then home. The men at work don't want to risk their jobs.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4d ago
Or at the very least realized they have enough negotiating power in the dating market that they don't have to bother with type-A career harridans at all.
HitTheRoadJill 4d ago
She uses the word “perfect”, but only mentions the good reasons she broke up with men. She has a little extra dose of self-awareness, and knows she’ll look bad if she mentions why any compatible decent men in her dating life weren’t perfect.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
This gal went to travel the world by herself and was surprised her boyfriend broke up with her and moved on with his life? Jeez I wonder why... It's like they expect men to be a screwdriver they can toss into a toolbox and forget about until they need it again.
Also, great advice to address 20-30 year olds with. She's in a position that literally no woman wants to be in (40yo and craving a relationship but still single) yet her message boils down to blaming men for her outcome, and taking zero accountability for the fact that the men that failed her were the ones she chose. Complete cognitive dissonance for her to hope she can still pick a good man at 40 when she couldn't at 20 or 30, without doing any self-reflection of how she got to where she is. It's the quintessential "things just happen to me" approach to life that so many women love, but keeps them repeating the same mistakes over and over.
HitTheRoadJill 4d ago
Her boyfriend was welcome to join her on the trip, but tried to bully her into not going at all. Simply getting a new girlfriend within 2 months of the breakup would have been cool, but that’s an insanely short time frame for pregnancy. I don’t blame her for being surprised and I think he was cheating before the trip.
I completely agree with your second paragraph. Plenty of other men would have loved to travel with her.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
I feel bad when lovelorn people are scammed but it does say a lot about the attitudes of the people involved.
In the case of the men, it's usually women who are attractive but not necessarily super pretty. These lonely men just want someone to love them and they send the "poor" girl money.
But when women send money, it's kind of laughable at how outrageous the scams: A scammer pretending to be Brad Pitt somehow "fell" for her. One scammer used the photos of former, I think, Finnish defense minister whose a silver fox to lure middle aged British women to send the scammer loads of cash.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 6d ago
That poor dog.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4d ago
Yeah, I swear the reason women like this pick chihuahuas to treat like an accessory is because no one can tell if it looks like a nervous wreck due to mistreatment or due to just being a chihuahua.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
@mattyanon Literally this scene. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lO6vkT6lDdQ
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3d ago
Yeah, that's the one I was thinking of but was too lazy to find :)