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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
Straight from the horse's ass.
Enjoy your new hurricane shutters you flip-flop wearing broke-ass bitch.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
And she wonders why she is single? A man to here is an ATM work slave. He gets to pay for all the non fun stuff i.e. taxes, insurance, etc. What man would want to get involved with this POS?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_7FaWnlhS4
TJMS Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
If any woman ever needed to be cock-slapped, it's her.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1w ago
She'll never STFU long enough to score a husband. And i don't think even a rich bloke would find it adorable if she blew 8 grand on a fucking purse.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
I knew women who would spend $1,500 on Red Bottom shoes. Yes, that is what they are called. WTF?
HitTheRoadJill 6d ago
That’s a normal price for a status symbol purse, meant for the type of people who still have plenty of money after maintaining their expensive homes. A rich man would find it another part of a luxury lifestyle and purchase his own luxuries.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Said rich man would have a much better looking woman than she is.
StockImagination 1d ago
yes he would
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
It's no fun being independent when you have to waste money on supporting yourself.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Life is so cruel to women. Men, never have such issues.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I love how this one spills the tea on the fundamental mindset of what feminism was about: "strong and independent women" meant merely they were looking for "fuck you" money for men. The ability to show a lack of respect, gratitude, and appreciation for men paying for things because she could leave with HER money if she HAD to.
I empathize with them in one respect which is I always had Fuck You Money in my life for a reason. If I couldn't pay my rent because of a paycheck, I knew I'd be treated like crap. It helped tremendously at work because it was interpreted as strength.
The irony is that these women's lack of gratitude and respect only work on insecure men they want to grift, but the men they desire, not only physically but mentally, are "strong and independent" also.
Isn't her railing about the $2000 household expense hilarious? And I thought I was a whiner about cheapness!!! Yes, when you pay expenses you don't have much left over to piss away on utter, complete 20X marked up designer crap!
Here's the thing: If I was some high level executive working a set number of hours anyway, I suppose a trophy wife burning money in a bucket wouldn't be a big deal but anyone below that, money burned in a bucket is literal years of our life. Time we could have spent on vacation enjoying our precious moments. This woman is a time vampire.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
Maybe about 20 years ago, there was an internet marketing website called 'The rich jerk' or something like that. It was deliberately obnoxious and grating, featuring a guido-type twit character who mocked visitors for being poor and promised to reveal how he made money online through affiliate marketing. It was as if the Tom Vu infomercials of the late 1980s had merged with Joey Buttafuco pretending to be Andrew Dice Clay. There'd be a tour of the gold-plated bathroom, showing high-denomination bills coiled on the toilet paper spool "This is how I wipe my ass HEH HEH HEH"
It's really as if this chick is aspiring to ape that kind of behavior. I know the so-called 'influencers' are being performative in an attempt to attract eyeballs and clicks-- all part of the act-- but this gal seems to enjoy her own show a bit too much.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
You are right about many things, but what leapt out to me is how money is really condensed time, and when a man spends it, he's using that time leverage so he can enjoy other things instead of the effort that would be required to do it himself.
Naturally women don't have this connection to money given their front-loaded benefits, (Tee Hee I'm pretty, give me stuff) whereas the man has to build up from zero.
I think its very just and well deserved that a guy that builds up his resources gets to choose the trophy wife or whatever girl he wants, because by that time he has the leverage of what he's put his effort into over the years.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
Thanks. In the classic Office Space, Peter asks his (literally) working class neighbor, Lawrence, "what would you do if you won't a million dollars" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lmW2tZP2kU
And Lawrence without thinking replies: "2 chicks at one time". Peter states he wants to do "nothing". It's an interesting perspective from two men in different socio-economic classes: Lawrence has a physical job, but with set hours and a light mental workload. Peter is in a Kafkaesque rat maze where the pay and working conditions are seemingly better, but the management is constantly cutting corners on the corners draining his mental energy and will to live. It's also the theme of the classic "Fight Club". Another great classic similar in theme is "Up in the Air". Men love these films.
There's a version of this for women, but I enjoyed it just as much: "Clockwatchers" about three women working temporary office jobs. I felt the same way as them when I was in my early 20's working as an office temp for AT&T. You're doing office work but at a lower caste where the regulars don't talk to you.
To further explore this, consider the successful man these women desire even as they idolize "strong and independent" women who become largely ambivalent about men making tiktok videos "Why should I get a man in my life unless he makes it better?"
The USA has a lack of legal prostitution options leading to some hilarious things when these men do have a need for sex but then not wanting the possible legal problem of sleeping with an illegal prostitute, instead wind up paying for "sugar babies" or a "trophy wife" who can suck away his resources and mental happiness. Even if he gets a prenup, she may engage in lawyers to further suck away his time and happiness before getting rid of her to move on.
Consider Bezos and Gates who married ordinary women but eventually these relationships failed and 1/2 of their wealth was gone. Both of these men famously treated other men, such as Peter and myself, like crap to further enhance their fortunes.
And that's why I am so passionate about this subject: If men got their balls back, we perhaps wouldn't be like crabs in the bucket pulling each out down and pinching each other out of rage. If Gates and Bezos had just a little "game" and redpill frame, they would be better members of society.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
Lawrence is so classic, haha. I know guys like that, work hard and yes - a 2 on 1 scenario is definitely on the menu if they had a way to make it happen.
I'd argue pseudo-prostitution is out there already in terms of OF girls and the accessibility to any pic of anything, or video, including requests. All that is missing is the actual presence part, but given the STDs running rampant now, men are probably ahead on that score by not dipping into the plague-petri dish anyway.
True, the "Sugar Baby" trend and other barely-more-than-an-escort alternatives are there. I think that will intensify as economic stratification intensifies. This has to due with general cycles, not so much with current events although that can be a factor in terms of duration and intensity.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
I like the "won a million dollars" exercise because even when we were kids, a million bucks wouldn't carry you for life. It invited you to consider if you had the resources to study at any university, or to start a business, or even just take a few years off and dabble in a passion, what would it be?
Most of us adults would likely not change much but instead just make our lives more comfortable: We'd put it in a diversified portfolio for retirement and our kids or perhaps use it to help jumpstart our existing careers. Some of us would consider going expat.
Note how this ties into a single woman griping about her affordability issues. Looks like the problem with "liberation" is that now you've got to pay your own rent: https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/325813/5_don_t_settle/7876781/
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
It does put a smile on my face when these haughty little princesses (well, more like very masculine bossy types) break down when they have to deal with a small fraction of what men deal with on a daily basis.
Facts, a million won't cut it. Taxes, inflation, staggering sovereign debt which tilts it further.
We're fortunate that the USD still has a global dominance, but when that slides, we turn into something like Japan where that debt crushes any real productivity. Maybe machine intelligence will help, (I find "AI" too awkward at times and use alternate descriptions) using such tools amplifies the productive people massively.
Though on that score the recursive-funding loop seems to be tightening and the "is this worth it" question corpos have about its effectiveness are valid. Open-weight models are catching up, so I don't see an easy way out for the commercial providers of such tools.
Does it collapse into a big bust like the dot-com era? Perhaps, but there were survivors there too. I just see some turmoil there, so I'm getting ready by archiving decent open-weight models so I have them at my disposal if the big providers go "poof".
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
I hope every dude who tries to date her sees that shit, and just uses her for sex until one of them gets bored and leaves.
What's even more disturbing is how common her sentiment is; I've lost count of the dudes I've seen across various manosphere forums who say that women
thinkfeeeeeel that his money is their money, but her money is strictly her money.Fuck that.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Not that I'm going to build it, but I could see all the information that people are giving willingly to machine models somehow utilized in a fashion for filtering compatibility.
Its going to be very hard for the OF girls and e-thots to scrub the internet record of their exploits, in addition to social media. Would be ironic that the very thing all these women use to demean men and get "the bag" turns out to be their public confessional, routed to an algorithm that doesn't care about being "nice", just factual.
I think their bee-stung lips would explode, lol.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
There isn't enough "boy money" in the world to make this ingrate happy in a relationship. This time it's a $2,000 hurricane shutter. Next time, it'll be something else. (House maintenance is, like, so icky.) She is going to be broke and unhappy all of her life.
She should forget the purse. When the economy goes kaboom, she'll be giving up her pussy for a can of Spam.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
her pussy or a can of Spam. That would be a tough call.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Yes, most of it is, because I'm diligent in paying my bills and being smart about which bills I choose to have.
But it's still my boring boy money, not yours.
That sounds like a "you" problem.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
And leeches think that peasant blood is bland, I imagine.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I'm pretty sure she's intentionally satirizing women, but even if not, damn that's a hilarious video. Perfectly distills everything that's wrong with how modern women's expectations of serious relationships.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
"You can think how you want, but women like you die alone." - Kevin Samuels