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This is part 1 out of 5 (or more!) of a series of women lamenting about the death of chivalry. I'll post these regularly each weekend until my backlog empties noting I have 5 already in the backlog and the algorithms appear to be adding them regularly so... who knows?

First, it was your choice in footwear. None of the Men were involved in that decision, and if any of them had been and suggested you forgo "cute" heels over something better suited to walking, there would have been another video on that.

You were offered a ride, it just meant one of you had to sit next to a Man, maybe even (eww) touching.

Instead, it's all about MEN not wanting to inconvenience themselves to your benefit.

Equality is not about convenience based on Gender.

is chivalry dead?

Yes.

1) it was primarily a code of conduct for when knights fought other knights and nobility. Knighthood was rendered obsolete, and so was anything to do with it.

2) the way you and other whiny harridans use it, as in "men treat women like they're special and have special privileges" is also dead. Feminism killed it. We're equals now. Enjoy being treated as just as disposable as we are. It's just a shame you still don't have to register with the Selective Service.

we're in heels

Your poor choices are no one else's problem. Wear comfortable shoes when you know you're going to be walking.

Additionally, it sounds like several golf carts made several rounds. I'm sure another one would have been along in a few minutes. Those men were ahead of you in line, and they owe you nothing. Equality, remember?

we'd have said "no"

Then why the fuck are you whining and complaining?! Shut the fuck up!

We would have said no.

So she wanted men to offer just for the sake of a pointless interaction she'd reject anyway...? Either she's bullshitting and only said that to try and not look so entitled, or her definition of chivalry is just performative nonsense where the actual chivalrous gesture is not wanted, only pampering her ego is.

Chivalry began to die when feminism began to preach gender equality.

There are still a few fedora-wearing neckbeards out there willing to prostrate themselves before women while wheezing "Yes, m'lady."

But they're an endangered species.

I don't remember the last time I met a young woman who deserved to be treated like a lady

Destroying chivalry always struck me as one of the ways feminism and the sexual revolution tried selling themself to men.

Men and women are now the same. There is no reason to patronize girls by treating them as children with no life skills. Have faith that they can handle themselves.

There is no need to hide your intentions behind complex displays of courtship. We are finally free to fuck whomever we like as long as they consent. Women want sex just as much as men do, and now they are finally free to act on their desires. So just ask her straight up! And if she likes you she will reciprocate. No mind games, no meaningless shows of status. Just two people who are finally free to love each other as nature intended.

Even to this day, it still hurts to be scolded for believing the lies I was told growing up.

Chivalry is dead because femininity is dead.

"A lady is a woman who makes it easy for a man to be a gentleman."

A polite deference to women was once easy for men, because a real lady quietly defers to and respects men because they are men.

One of my best friends, a totally based Brazilian guy, has an American/White wife who is this kind of lady. One time we were at a homeschool co-op and there was the normal gathering of teachers/mothers for coffee. I didn't know this, but this wife had brought something to teach the women, some kind of "devotional" or whatever. I was just hanging out because I taught a class at this point.

I kid you not: She comes up to me and hands me her notes. She asked me if I wanted to teach what she had prepared. Honestly blindsided me, I didn't understand what was going on. Why me? Because I was a man in the room, and she knew that a woman teaching men is not appropriate or respectful, especially in a "church" type setting as this co-op is. She couldn't teach the women while I was in the room. I refused because I had no idea what the subject was, and she gracefully asked me to leave so she could teach. I was extremely happy to oblige.

I have never been so respected by a woman who is not my wife. I have never been asked to leave a room with more grace, politeness, respect, and dignity. I will always remember it.

If you can't be a lady, don't expect men to want to be gentlemen around you. If you give off slut vibes and act like a defective man, expect to be treated like those things.

Is Chivalry Officially Dead

Yes. Boomer feminists pulled the trigger. Gen-X feminists danced on the prostrate body as it twitched. Millennial feminists drove a lawn mower over the corpse and used the skull to play polo. You've got 180 lbs of headless Chivalry Hamburger laying on the lawn now. Enjoy.

why are you wearing heels at a golf course?

We would have said "no, it's OK."

I believe all women.... lie.

Wait, let me get this straight. The men she's complaining about were in front of her in line. This wasn't a case of men from behind the line cutting and running to the next shuttle, and she's not able to keep up because she's in heels. That would be a dick move.

This was an orderly line. She was behind the guys. They waited just like her, presumably longer (since they're ahead of her) and got in when their shuttle came. And she's bitching about it.

If was a dude behind these ladies, and the driver was offering a seat and they declined, I'd march right in and sit next to him. I know how busy these shuttles can get, and if they'd prefer waiting another 15 minutes sweating in the sun, they can be my guest.

Also, I love how she's mad that they didn't give up their seats even though they're in heels. Last I checked, we're not supposed to look. No, the heels, all the hair extensions, blonde highlights, low cut dress, lip fillers, makeup, and so on is supposed to be for your own self esteem only, and maybe for the eyes of the other female friends in your posse. They are definitely not for a man to look at and appreciate, you misogynistic clod! So they should actually be making a tiktok appreciating these men for keeping their eyes ahead of them, not looking behind at them, and going to their shuttle when their turn is called, and never once even knowing if the people behind them were women, men, or space aliens, nevermind glaring so closely as to figure out they're wearing heels. That's the real feminist utopia right?

These women wanted all of the advantages that come with being a good looking woman while being able to bitch about it as if it's a downside (that they secretly love anyway). They have no idea that everyone is objectified, it's only a matter of what object they classify you as. And most men go through life classified as furniture at best, and usually completely invisible. No one seems them as a person. You have to work to be seen as a person by someone. So when women said stop treating us as sexual objects, they started being treated like the default object, which is to say, less interesting than the gum on the bottom of my shoe, and they're horrified by how little attention that actually entails.

Here's what they could have done in their situation. While waiting in line, they could have struck up a conversation with the men in front. Not because of any mercenary interest (they couldn't have predicted that they'd need their shuttle seats), but just because that's friendly, and what gets you changed from an object to a person. Then, when the shuttle arrived, maybe the men might have offered you to go ahead, or if not, you could have asked politely, and they'd probably have said yes.

That's what a man has to do to get anything in this world: make an effort, be sociable enough to get strangers to see you as a person rather than part of the foliage, and then ask for what you want, knowing that at every step of that process, you could be rejected, ridiculed, etc. And taking that risk anyway.

PS: I think the thing really burning her up is probably not the shuttle. It's that, while she's making a tiktok about these guys, complaining about their attitudes, and basically letting them live in her head probably an hour after the actual shuttle encounter, they're not thinking about her at all...