Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 3h ago
Is what happens when you're not up front with the fact you have kids.
It's always that one thing you do that makes them jump ship EVERY time.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
Note: This was sourced from the Site Which Must Not Be Named but it has been marked up heavily.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
You can say "reddit". I mean, it's obvious anyway. Just don't reveal which subreddit.
Yeah, see? You can say "reddit".
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
"Quite relaxed in dating" is a deliberate vaguery/editorialization I'd bet for her to avoid admitting that she tried to "subtly" push for commitment or at least some form of investment at the 2-3 week mark of regular booty calls and then got shot down because we-all-know-why.
Women over 30 who are wanting a man to commit/invest aren't in short supply. It's ones that are worth that effort that are. Chad can just right swipe on the next candidate instead of jumping thru any circus hoops.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Women over 30 who are wanting a man to commit/invest aren't in short supply.
Thus, they are easy prey for a Chad. They think they hit the jack-pot when they meet Chad. But Chad is only looking to restock his harem. He commits to no one. So eventually they stop fucking him, so he is always looking for replacements. I was a wingman to a Chad for years. I saw this happen time and again.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
I think maybe she means that she isn't overtly pushing for commitment or being demanding for commitment or emotional escalation.
And this worked well for her up to now. This is a classic example of The Leftover paradigm: Her 20's was a figurative "breeze" where she just had to relax and everything happened for her. She didn't perceive that she wouldn't be able to "settle down" when she wanted. What happened?
It's not just that she's used to men doing all the work in making relationships happen and escalation, but also likely in self-improvement as well. She simply isn't aware that she would have to make an effort to make a relationship work. She perhaps isn't judgmental on a date because other women's cultural inertial does it for her. The men all know what it takes to get a woman into bed and/or what it means to get along with another person. They either learned or their magic pumpkin carriages are active.
Her's isn't.
Now she has to WORK to get what she wants from men but WORK is a masculine paradigm. Princesses don't work. She's at least not bitter about it like some are. She doesn't even comprehend what's occurring.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
That's the thing, the phrase is completely non-quantifiable fluff. Relaxed compared to what? Without something to compare it to, it just becomes a series of mouth noises she makes to indicate that the studio audience should regard her with sympathy.
What makes me suspect her of prevarication is that even Chad doesn't just dump a woman that he's getting problem free sex from for no reason, not after having to bother setting things up to get his dick wet (we all know the odds of her being an active participant in this process is low).
Which means there was a reason, her lubing of the narrative notwithstanding.
And if there is a consistent timeline where she gets ghosted, then there is likely a consistent behavior on her part that is demonstrably making all these guys nope the fuck out.
Occam's Razor leads me to the conclusion that she is trying to insist on being more than a booty call.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
She is aging out and losing out to younger women.
You: She doesn't even comprehend what's occurring.
Why? She never had to deal with this before. Life was a "breeze." Now, the breeze has gone.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
That bit caught my eye too. She's going to carry herself differently just by virtue of having a different goal than she did in her 20s, it's impossible not to. She'd get a lot further going all-in on demonstrating she's an asset not a liability in a long-term relationship, instead of trying and failing to mimic the relaxed nonchalant attitude that worked when she was in her prime.
Treadmill Jr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
She needs to actually date men interested in committing too. No amount of attitude shift is going to help if she is dating the same men she was in her twenties.
30+ year-old single men who want a stable relationship and are willing to put in effort are not in short supply either. But they are not going to be the pretty and suave party-goers that she instantly gets the hots for.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I wonder what "active dating" is as opposed to dating that is a breeze?
"I am looking to snag a man" versus "men are coming to me and treating me and its all fun"?
Hooking a man and hooking up are rather different things and require rather different qualities and attract different types of men.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Men drop her just like she passed on the men that were suitable in her 20 - 30s.
I find that symmetry very satisfying in terms of how it reciprocates the wasting of potential, and her decaying attractiveness.
Maybe if AI gets good enough, it will be whispering in her ear via some attachment/implant not to be so "casual" and lock something down. Who am I kidding, she'll ignore it anyway.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Plus at this point she clearly cannot obtain something non-casual in her preferred market. But admitting that means admitting that her current value is now lower than the guys she ignored or exploited as orbiters in her past.
But that's going to take such a shift in her personal assessment to effectively be ego death.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
But admitting that means admitting that her current value is now lower than the guys she ignored or exploited as orbiters in her past.
Well said and all true.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1d ago
God she sounds boring.
I wonder why she can't keep a man interested....
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
The story of Sharon Sharon was a 35 year old divorced woman. She was 5’5” and average in looks and weight. She didn’t have any extraordinary physical characteristic that would distinguish her from any other female her age. She didn’t have a beautiful face, nor big breasts (maybe an A cup). She didn’t have an hour-glass figure or a Kim Kardashian ass. All in all, she was just average. She didn’t have a college degree and had no income generating skills. She was broke and living at her parent’s home with her 2 children from a failed marriage. One day, she is talking to my wife and says this. She will not date a man below 6’ AND he has to have a good income because he has to support her and her 2 kids. When I heard this, my reaction was, Sharon is either insane or a delusional narcissist. Evidently, she thought that a broke, divorced, 35 year old woman with two kids was what every 6’ plus successful man wanted. She had to have thought that there was a severe shortage of destitute women with children and an oversupply of 6’ plus successful men who wanted a women like her.
And surprisingly she did get what she wanted ----- sort of. She did get married, at the age of 40, to a man barely an inch taller than her. I can’t speak of his income, but he was karate instructor, so I doubt he made a 6 figure income that she demanded 5 years earlier. It would be interesting to know how many good men she rejected due to their height in her entire life.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
I'm thinking of posting one of my stories on WATGMA and I think this one, and your Chad one, would be neat entries particularly if you let loose and elaborate.
I'm going to post next week the tale of the Denny's manager who wanted me to wife her up as a housewife so she could quit working at Denny's. ONLY because SHE says I would be exploiting her, of course.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5h ago
I can post my Chad stories here and you can copy to where you want.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 12h ago
Well then not to quibble, but it sounds like she didn't exactly get "what she wanted".
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5h ago
My bet it was him or no one. She was not getting younger or prettier, and saw 50 coming straight on.