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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago
She has spotted a trend. I think the pivotal moment was around covid for several reasons but that was the moment the corner was turned even if it had been inevitably going that way anyway.
Men realised you were not worth it. Many of your were basically just living like that slags in the city series -getting heaps of attention and free food in return for doing what you wanted to do -be courted by everyone and banged by the hot ones, while complaining about the advances of the ones you thought were beneath you. Something had to change and it has. Thanks be to all the gods.
Now there is one thing I would take you up on here miss. I understand you feeling a bit sad that you won't get such a good ride on the carousel as your mum and aunt did before getting a perfect dismount into a grateful simp's arms. I don't want to be too hard on you for wanting fun. But you do have a slight misconception here -you say "The guy needs to like the girl just a little bit more than she likes the guy for a relationship to work" That is the simp model where guys bid harder and harder for women as women got freer and freer to choose. Those days are done. Its will be equality time in future. You will need to up your game miss. He is the prize. If you want that loving guy who things you are golden, you will need to prove to him you are by being good as gold.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 16h ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
@Typo-MAGAshiv Please provide guidance on flair (again). As on Jeopardy, it's Single Woman Tears in the form of a question...
Anyhoo, Happy Memorial Day everyone! Can someone solve this Scooby Doo Mystery?!?!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 16h ago
I'll go with what you originally put: "The Big Question" but weekend edition because she doesn't meet rule 5.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 16h ago
When did it all shift?
Around the 1990s, what your dad and uncle did and you called "pursuit" became legally known as "harassment" and carried stiff penalties.
It got even worse after hashtag #PoundMeToo.
Thank your sisterhood for making it suck so much that it's no longer worth it for men.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7h ago
This woman's complaint ties into "why can't the man just do it?" https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/325242/why_can_t_the_man_just_do_it
In that men being the sole askers out led to women playing "hard to get" which led to outrageous demands limited ONLY via exceptional socio-economic moments in western history.
Back in the 1930's to 1960's, women "needed" to marry men before she was 25 or so therefore there was a balance that was disturbed when I came of age in the early 1980's. Once women had their own careers, riding the CC, becoming a corporate nun, meal whoring all became viable lifestyle choices.
I was seeing these cracks in the social contract even before Anita Hill tried to destroy a man's career for allegedly making a joke about pubic hairs on a coke can or "long dong silver".
It's not only the concerns you bring up but their outrageous demands of "pursuit". They mock men for coffee dates (unless he's Chad that they wish asked them out), shit tests such as refusing to call him and seeing if he texts her "too fast", and so on.
Does this woman in the video lament that relationships are harder to find now OR that she's yearning to abuse some men for the fun of it and the fools aren't lining up for abuse anymore?
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago
This girl is hot enough that I can guarantee she has been approached, probably far more than any of her besties. And how did she respond to these approaches? How many decent 5-foot-8 guys didn't even get a chance to show their personalities because she said, "As if!" and waved them away?