Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 14h ago
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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 14h ago
Done and done.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago
Thank you, kind sir!
The other platform has its flaws, but sadly it does have a massive user base. I'm thinking we should perhaps come up with a standard link to explain not all content is posted there such as:
Note! Not ALL WAATGM content is on Cheddit! If you enjoyed this post, you'll need to click here: https://www.forums.red/i/whereareallthegoodmen
To see all of them!
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 14h ago
It’s peak female privilege that she thinks that a man has “nothing to lose” by making an unsolicited pass at a woman he doesn’t know.
In her “meet cute” fantasy, the man is always someone she finds attractive. If some Poindexter walks up to her after Yoga class and asks her out, it’s HIGHLY PROBABLE that she’ll decline, at which point the outcomes within the context of the class range from “permanently awkward” to “told to never come back.” On the other hand, if she’s one of the MANY women who enjoys humiliating men in-person or online, he can lose a lot more than access to a hobby.
She’s young, reasonably attractive, and has a nice rack that she’s obviously not shy about flaunting. She risks absolutely nothing by approaching any man she finds attractive, so it never occurs to her that only a vanishingly tiny percentage of men share that privilege.
SwarmShawarma 4h ago
Plus
If he is the one she would fuck and it would last say for a year. Then after a year this dude whoever he is might be following the footsteps of a guy she'd reject right out.
Playing lottery with how crazy she might be.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago
I chuckle at the dishonesty: She alternates between saying "it's not a big deal" and flying bird hands as she cries about what a burden it is and how she wishes men could go back to The Old Ways.
After all if it was so easy, then she wouldn't be "so sick of. it" after only just doing it 3 times AND not getting a positive result. Also, she has to lower her demands either in dreaming of a man (she desires) doing the task and, get this, asking her out for coffee (which he pays for). If she got approached 3X in the last 3 days, she would then start calling coffee dates "cheap" and "lack of effort" (again.). She recognizes that being approached is a huge power position and she hates that the men she desires have, as He Man would put it: The Power.
Ironically, I think this is actually better for our gender roles if the women are required to be submissive, beg for dates, and then happy with whatever dribbles the "leader" offers her as this dominance automatically makes the man more attractive in her eyes.
So when she says what men "should" be doing, in disgust when men don't do it, this is an indication that she doesn't yet want to even be honest or respectful for the burden she wants to dump on us: "He's lying! You can tell from his stance he's aggressive-dominant" https://youtu.be/j6g3UoKxTI8?t=152
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
I noticed the bird hands too. BOK BOK BOK!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 39m ago
Yeah go figure that if women actually had to work to get a relationship, they might actually value them enough to stay in one instead of trying to trade up like a prime college draft pick.
Which means men might actually have motivation to invest in relationships again instead of treating them as temporary unstable whims of women.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 9h ago
Pretty much.
Props to her for biting the bullet and actually approaching those men of her own volition, even if she did, of course, pursue the same men every other woman does.
The rest is just so much whining and solipsism.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4h ago
I was thinking the same, but this brings back a memory of a post I read 40 years ago over a T-1 line (about the speed of a modern 3G mobile data connection, but shared by an entire college campus!!!)
A college girl announced: "You men are SO lucky! You're ALLOWED to ask men out! I'm not! I'd be called a slut!"
Note: She argued that men might reject her for "daring" to approach and perhaps a few did, but what she actually feared (without saying so) was judgmentalism by other women. The first thing women ask about a relationship is "how did you meet?" Using the personal ads was considered shameful back then. My sister even told me that one of her friends asked her to ask me to ask her out.
So yes, "props to her" for going against The Sisterhood and taking a risk and she sees just how awful it is. She feels disempowered, vulnerable, utterly unsupported and unrewarded for taking on a task that's essential for human existence. If SOMEONE doesn't initiate relationships, or marriages aren't arranged, then society collapses.
Regularly on X the chattering classes gripe "Men don't do enough homework" or "women do unpaid labor!" I laughed when my wife griped about this once to me. I pointed out to her our very marriage exists because I curated it from the beginning. That the grand companies such as Microsoft, Apple, Amazon and such exist because someone took risks and built them from the ground up. There's a reason why Jeff Bezos doesn't have to fetch his own coffee.
So here she is, "allowed" to work, ask men out and pay for dates, and she doesn't seem terribly excited about it does she?
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 13h ago
I think you are being generous on her behavior. She would reject the 5'8" accountant for the 6'2" bad boi with MS13 tated on his face. This would be her selection process.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago
@lurkerhasarisen said that she fails to appreciate that as she lectures "men" to ask out women more, she doesn't consider the men she finds unattractive because they are utterly invisible to her. This is likely exacerbated by their shaming ploy "real man" when men fail to either live up to their standards or get "uppity".
Also, if she says I wish "attractive" men did the asking out, she'd acknowledge that these men NOT asking her out are effectively rejecting her even via omission. Perhaps they HAVE rejected her already. After all, she's asked out three men directly and got 3 rejections. As attractive as she is, she's got imperfections and these men can have their pick. She wants to pretend, via rejecting men, that she is NEVER rejected. It's slowly hitting her, like a ton of bricks, that she isn't as hot as she wishes she was. Look! She's crying for a COFFEE DATE! That's practically begging in womanspeak.
Ironically, before dating apps AND before women's lib, women did actually figure out implicit rejection. They were educated as to their biological clocks and rarely slept with Chads before marriage for fear of getting pregnant. So Chads married young and were off the market by their 20's. These women felt urgency and if they weren't asked out, sometimes at all, they'd have to be ultra submissive and friendly to men to get a "warm approach".
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1h ago
On top of that men who have their pick, not only have their pick of what women to approach, but also of where they approach women. They do not have to approach women in a venue where a woman has disproportionate social power to abuse against him. They can confine their approaching to far more disposable venues.
This is a large part of why modern dating has died in favor of hookup apps like Tinder. Chad doesn't need to jump thru the flaming hoops that some mid vagina bearer shrieks for him to do, he doesn't need to put up with being treated like a circus bear at all, so he simply...doesn't.
He just DM's one of the best picks out of a pool of matches that he initially shotgun swiped on. Doesn't even have to give her his real name, or occupation, or even city of residence or place of work. The overwhelming majority of social risks to him completely bypassed at the convenience of a few screen presses and a burner phone/profile.
And of course the ease of observation that social media offers also means that even non-Chad men that would be on her true level see all this shit and begin to realize that giving one of these women the satisfaction of abusing them isn't worth it for even a second. And thus they begin to refuse to approach in situations that are non-neutral in nature too.
And the hilarious part is women did this to themselves. They insisted on all the things that led up to this. Men are just adapting to protect themselves.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 12h ago
I just cannot fathom why men wouldn't want to approach a woman with a well known online presence of making complaint videos about all her interactions with men.
WanderOverYonder 10h ago
Every video where a woman complains about men inescapably turns into a lecture on how men are supposed to "do better". Take notes, boys, take notes.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
If they would just berate, insult, emasculate, and disrespect us more, I think we would listen better!
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
You are fat and ugly and have a horrible attitude. There is nothing to gain.
Ok great, then keep doing it yourself!
The feminists called. They are furious that you would degrade yourself like this. Everything is a man's job! Also, you don't need a man and should maybe just stay off the market.
No worries there, because it's just not going to happen in the first place.
I have some bad news.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 8h ago
Why can't she just lose the attitude and maybe 28 lbs too?
While it wouldn't overturn the societal change of men realising women are worth less, it would improve her personal odds of being approached considerably.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 6h ago
Why can't women show they're worth the time and effort? Because if sitting pretty in a yoga class is all she's going to do, then statistically speaking she'll amount to just a used up cunt with entitled attitude that expends zero effort on making a man's life better yet expects the world of him.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4h ago
Gee lady, maybe those men in your hot yoga class are approaching women - just not you and your hag coven?
It could be for multiple reasons. It's a hot yoga class, so nonzero chance the hawt dudes bat for another team. Or they could be taken already and actually faithful. Or they are not willing to shit where they eat because they value the venue more than you and your pyrite pussy. Or he's just hawt enough that he doesn't have to slum it and so you just don't make the cut and you whining on video with flappy hands doesn't help your case.
And you'll never know because you threw in the towel after doing something three whole times that men have to do every single time or risk never getting a relationship at all. Spoiled fekkin cunt.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago
They do tell on themselves, don't they?