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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Strong Independent Woman

the compliments seem to be endless but yet still single?
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polishknight

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago

Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ

@Typo-MAGAshiv Flaired as Leftovers/Weekend Content but wonder if this would work for weekday in that she doesn't want to "be single" so does that qualify for Rule 5 seeking commitment? Perhaps Big Question or WAATGM In The Making.

Anyhoo, (I like to think) she's not really "completely over it..."

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 12h ago Stickied

Not quite "leftovers" because she isn't complaining that the attention she's accustomed to has disappeared.

More like "strong, independent woman".

Also fits rule 5, but just barely.

For those interested:

WAATGM's flair guide, New Carols Unlocked!

In-depth analysis of "leftovers" flair

In-depth analysis of "strong and independent woman" flair

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 12h ago

36F and fuckzoned is what I am reading.

And as usual that is nearly always due to a woman holding out for/spreading her legs for men way too far above her actual station in life despite her inevitable loss of negotiating power as she ages. Her best bet to stopping being single is to smack herself with a clue by four and settle for some boring dude in the 55ish age range that doesn't mind not having kids. Second best bet is to get a time machine and go back to her 20's and stop choosing to get passed around by the top men at her workplace.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 12h ago

Jason Pargin (writer) posed an interesting question: Would you prefer to be a 17th century king or a modern office worker? The king would have a society that worships him, but he'd be living a primitive lifestyle.

This woman says "she's completely over" her lifestyle that many young men would kill for: "little gifts", still regularly approached, compliments, yet she can't parlay that into a relationship? No, she doesn't need a time machine or to jump onto a 55 yo. She has to make a LITTLE effort and she doesn't want to do that because she prefers to be approached and "love bombed". What she's frustrated over is that her basic Game of "who cares less" has little effect on the hot guys her age just as it does when normie young men try to use it on young women.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 5h ago

She has to make a LITTLE effort and she doesn't want to do that because she prefers to be approached and "love bombed".

And that's why that is a distant third to her two best bets.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2h ago

I've thought about similar versions of that question and I'd rather be a modern office worker.

In Cairo, there's a fabulous group of museums. The basement of the new Museum of the Egyptian Civilization has some of the most well-known Pharaohs on display. (I guess even though Ramses II is hinted at being the bad Pharaoh in the Bible, the dude just carved his name on everything, including carving-over names on previous projects so it ended up giving the impression that Ramses II built everything over a thousand-year lifespan and I guess his name just became easily-recognizable to anyone.)

So these were the living gods of a brilliant civilization, and I'm looking at some of the furniture and personal effects they were buried with and... I decided that I would prefer my own possessions. I pretty much like what I have now.

Also, I wouldn't be able to live without modern dentistry. I'd probably go insane from an untreated toothache.

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Kloi 10h ago

As a man who's work in both female and male dominated industries my experience is anyone who's not hideous gets all sorts of extra attention while working in the opposite gender's industry.

She's probably mids at best in the real world. She's just the only women these men see for 40 hours out of every week.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3h ago

I think this is the biggest reason. She's an engineering 9, which means a real world 6 at best, and an LA 3. Sort of like a Kabul 9 or a Pendleton 8 :) But because she's showered with attention by people who barely see a woman during their daylight hours, she thinks she's hot shit.

Then she heads out into the real world and wonders why the hot guys pass her up.

As much as she complains about being single, she would never in a million years consider actually dating one of these subhumans who deign to give her a gift. Sure, they probably make good money, would be good fathers and loyal, caring husbands, but what about her tingles???

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 9h ago

40 hours

Must be nice! Hashtag #OvertimeLife

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Kloi 7h ago

Hashtag #OvertimeLife

I know you're a boomer but you don't have to type out hashtag before putting your #BoomerProblems.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5h ago

Boomers were born in the post-War baby boom between 1946 and 1960.

I was born in 1980.

No son of mine misuses words like this! You're out of the will!

have a DOWNVOTE.

Hashtag #Disowned

Hashtag #NotGenXEither

Hashtag #NotMillenialEither

Hashtag #YouSuck

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago

#FIRSTWORLDBOOMERPROBLEMS

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3h ago

Hashtag #Xennial

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Kloi 1h ago

It's kind of like the word literally and how the kids used it improperly so much it now can be used to replace the word figuratively.

Boomer basically means any old person now. Especially if they're not hip to it.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 9h ago

This is basically just humble bragging. She is signaling to others that she can still get smashed on the reg.

She is still single, because she likes being single. Being in a relationship would mean giving up the hook ups, which would be a sort of ego death for her.

The A&V from one man will never be enough for a ho that is drunk on the level of A&V she can get when she slut signals and gets it from 50 men.

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GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 8h ago

Sigh…

I’m not even convinced this one is getting dicked down on the reg. Maybe she USED to, but in a workplace at 36, perhaps no more.

How a woman can go thinking that getting compliments = relationship is beyond me. That’s at least 3 jumps (date, sex, commitment). And that’s without games or HR. And of course, no mention of effort on her part to make any of those jumps.

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BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 8h ago

"... funny AF..."

Women aren't funny. They think they're funny, but they're not.

One exception: Joan Rivers.

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TJMS 3h ago

Women I've known who thought they were "funny" were just snarky and cringe.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 6h ago

"Bubbly" When did anyone actually like a girl self described or described by friends as bubbly? I always see this as a warning word.

At best its a larger girl who is up for things -alcohol, drugs, cocks and laughs a lot (irritatingly)

At worst it means a girl who is full of herself and won't stop bubbling (won't realise she is arrogantly talking crap and won't shut up).

These girls are "bubbly" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNpjzOZbRek

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JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 5h ago

I always see this ("bubbly") as a warning word.

There's a reason bubbly (sort of) rhymes with chubby. In my nightclub experiences, she usually wound up being a too-talkative cock-blocker between you and her hotter friend.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago

I have had this experience, in my youth, except the hotter friend was trying to get her "Bubbly" friend laid.

They were Irish girls. At closing time I had decided to walk home somewhat worse for wear. It was safer than where that taxi would land me. Last time I crashed at my friends both girls were there and the fat one had told me if I wanted anything I knew where she was. That night she had been drinking a bit and I didn't like the idea of her knowing where I was. "Get in the fecking taxi you eejit! ...You feckin eejit!" the hot one screamed at me as I beat a retreat. She really was quite unable to believe so dumb as to be turning down her friend. Didn't I want free sex after putting up with her for the evening? They overvalue pussy sometimes.

I love the fat slags ...from a safe distance.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5h ago

I always understood "bubbly" to mean cheerful, and pleasantly energetic. Nothing to do with weight whatsoever

Then again, maybe I'm out of touch, and it's yet another term that has lost all meaning in recent years.

Tag @first-light

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GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago

You got the definition of bubbly correct there. In fact, I personally do like bubbly girls, as it’s a nice contrast to working corporate tech with dry, serious guys.

The problem is that she is almost for sure not bubbly. People in general, but women especially, are awful at accurately self-evaluating themselves.

Examples of these inaccurate self-evaluations include: “I’m a 10”, “I’m smart and ambitious”, “I’m a feminine woman”, and “I am a loving person”.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2h ago

I always thought "bubbly" meant cheerful and uplifting as well.

I have two weaknesses and one of them is "bubbly" Japanese women. My only other weakness is a complete lack of musculature on a brittle skeleton.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago

I am just completely over it all

Press 1 to doubt

I work

You could have stopped there. You can't turn a corporate hoe into a housewife.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2h ago

You can't turn a corporate hoe into a housewife.

I dunno, maybe if you taught trad-wifery in the form of a seminar, with powerpoint slides and an executive summary handout. Naturally, there'd be a coffee-and-bathroom intermission before the breakout session.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

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  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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