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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / The Big Question

How do people actually get into relationships?
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polishknight

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ

@Typo-MAGAshiv (barely) qualifies for Rule 5 (seeking commitment) since she wants a "relationship".

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

I'm not interested in hookups

...anymore.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

Back when dinosaurs roamed the earth, I noticed it dried up career women's panties to mention I was dating with intent for marriage. I wasn't dropping it to sound "chivalrous" or anything like that, but simply a statement of my own desire and ethics. I knew guys growing up who got girls knocked up so I didn't want to sleep with someone I wouldn't want to marry (unless she was a professional, of course.)

Her paradigm (was) this: She wanted a hot boi party clown to entertain her. Some bad boy so she gets excited. Then after a couple of months or exactly 1.2 years, HE brings up marriage of course (after she drops subtle hints) and he "insists" they go out and look at diamonds and then he "surprises" her.

Sheesh! This modern rom-com thinking of women makes the pizza guy who gets a hot chick to give him head in exchange for her not paying for the pizza porno seem realistic by comparison.

Here's a great analysis for why rom-coms are more stupid than porn: https://youtu.be/9qHeMuztXjU

Not only that, but she likely doesn't make any "effort". Effort also dries up their panties. So the guys who pass her passive-aggressive shit tests likely pass because they really only want sex from her.

So my point being is that even if the perfect beta bucks were to reach out to her, and pass her shit tests, she'd likely still next him and then complain.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 18h ago

I noticed it dried up career women's panties to mention I was dating with intent for marriage.

Back in the Stone Age, that had the same effect on high school and college girls.

I was the good Christian boy with marriage on his mind, and saving his virginity for that mythical fellow virgin.

I never found a single one, and the women/girls I told that I was looking for marriage, all lost interest quickly.

When I learned some PUA stuff from Roosh between 2000 and 2002, and started applying it in 2002, I started doing really well and looked back at a lot of missed opportunities with regret.

girls just wanna have fun

  • Cyndi Lauper
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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 12h ago

I'll see your Cindy and raise you an accordion player:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFnAvnXduwM

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11h ago

His biopic was truly inspirational!

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

Here's a great analysis for why rom-coms are more stupid than porn: https://youtu.be/9qHeMuztXjU

Serious studies should be done on media (movies, TV, music) and the false (evil) ideas they put forth.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 18h ago

They are, by "gender studies" at universities but it's usually feminist garbage. I know a good guy, an MRA who became a professor, who did some good work.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 18h ago

Considering how many videos I've seen of women thinking they can beat up men twice their size and receiving brutal reality checks, that would be interesting.

People have always known that stories don't just teach moral lessons, but also set expectations for how the world works. Sure, people know that Superman doesn't actually exist, but the dogged nice guy reporter getting the hot chick after all sets false expectations. People know there's no such thing as Thor or Hulk, but Scarlett Johannsen beating the crap out of 6 guys twice her size sets false expectations. Etc etc etc.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 5h ago

I agree, but IMHO, women are more likely to believe the BS that media sells, than guys (not that we don't, just to a lesser degree).

For example, I'd say the show Entourage was the male equivalent of Sex and The City. A bunch of guy friends living the dream life in a glamorous city. I really liked it, as did a lot of my guy friends.

But here's the thing: none of us thought of it as anything more than some escapist fun. Sure, it would be great to be a hot movie star, or at least one of his hangers-on friends, and hook up with hot starlets all day. But no one set that life as a goal to pursue. In contrast, plenty of women watch Sex And The City, assume it's realistic about life in NYC, fail to see the absurdity (a column writer who never spends time writing, yet makes enough money to live in what would otherwise be a multi-million dollar apartment and wear high fashion that even most trophy wives can't afford?), and then try to recreate it, fail, then blame the whole world for their failure.

To put it succinctly: there are SATC tours in NYC, where women from the hinterlands can get on a tour bus and visit all the places from the show, drink Cosmos, and pretend they're Carrie Bradshaw for a day. In contrast, there is no Entourage tour in LA.

I think it's because as guys, we're not sheltered from the world the way women are protected. And so anyone with delusions of grandeur gets a reality check very quickly. Just like anyone who actually believes he's superman probably gets a broken nose the first time he fights, and then viscerally understands that the movies aren't the same as reality.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5h ago

a column writer who never spends time writing

The show showed her writing all the time!

...or so I heard. From friends and rumors and shit.

shut UP!!

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 5h ago

She writes one sentence, usually a question, in the beginning. That question sets up the episode. Then she maybe writes 1-2 lines in the end as a conclusion, wrapping up the episode in a neat and tidy bow. The rest of the article, of course, is meant to write itself.

Every writer will attest to the fact that this is the way writing occurs:

1 sentence intro

2 sentence conclusion

????

Fully formed final draft of an article good enough to earn you fame and money as a columnist.

It's simple!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5h ago

I don't remember anymore lol

That and drunk

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 18h ago

Additional thought.

People have always known that stories don't just teach moral lessons, but also set expectations for how the world works

This is why totalitarian regimes always control what entertainment the people receive.

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PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

"How do people actually get into relationships?"

Well, historically by men doing all the legwork and being willing to brave rejection for women that they used to assume were worth it.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 22h ago

I love the line "exhausting" and "hear the same lines over and over again"! It's EXHAUSTING to sit around and munch on free food provided by the party clowns!

I mean, HOW is she supposed to get a relationship? She's tried waiting around for men to do everything and that hasn't worked!

Has anyone ever wondered how a table could feel exhausted?

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1d ago

Well lady, there's two things that help:

  • Being sexual
  • Being relationship-worthy.

Zero out of two isn't gonna cut it.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago

I'd be interested in knowing what non-sexual qualities she possesses which are at least as good as sex.

She must have something like that going on, right? She's a brilliant cook or an acrobat or an amazing guitarist or something? Having a congenial personality and decent fashion sense probably isn't enough.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 21h ago

So....she is swimming around the hook up world, but she doens't want to put out??

what could possibly go wrong?

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GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 16h ago

By riding a bunch of dicks until one of them sticks around

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 15h ago

Commitment. That's it 'mam. Only needs a one word answer.

You have to put enough in that he decides its worth putting enough in too. Sex and nice personality seem to do it for almost every man on the planet. If you don't want to put out straight off its OK, you can still get a lot of guys if you are just nice to them. But you do have to be nice and be committed to being nice and make sure he knows you are serious about wanting sex in due course. Then quite a lot of guys will wait for you to put out. If they do, you better fuck well when the time comes. For most men "well" can be achieved by enthusiasm alone. Actual skill is not essential. But remember, no one wants to wait to be disappointed.

Its that simple.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5h ago

Most men with experience and/or Red Pill knowledge aren't going to wait at all.

From Rollo's classic "Wait For It?":

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 5h ago

Wow. A person who openly admits they have no idea how to sustain a long-term connection with another human being of the opposite sex.

Here's a hint: perhaps the fact that you're not embarrassed by this profound personality deficiency is part of the reason you've never been motivated to correct it...

The first step is admitting you have a problem, but I'm betting she hasn't gotten even that far yet, preferring to blame men, the way a drunkard blames the alcohol for his woes.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

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  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

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