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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 23h ago
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TJMS 22h ago
Not meeting the "perfect guy" = not trying to meet the "perfect guy." She almost undoubtedly had plenty of opportunities before 22.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6h ago
I was waiting for someone to catch on that phrase "perfect guy".
Back when women had enough guile to put on a pretense of reasonability, they would say something such as "looking for Mr. Right" and some would joke "Doctor Right". Merely a fit for her, not someone who meets her outrageous "standards".
We're in an era when even a 22 year old can't land the kind of men that they commonly think they "deserve" EVEN IF they tried: 6 feet, $200K/year, highly educated, socially liberal but also chivalrous, works out but isn't a gym rat.
Ok, maybe they COULD if they really worked hard including doing everything modern PUA's need to do and then some: Massive approaches, rejection, and personal introspection but they don't want to do that of course. They just want to sit around and wait for an "opportunity" to approach them or at most, swipe on an app.
This is what they need to hear: EVERYONE has to settle. It's the condition of being human. Even the most accomplished, successful men don't get EVERYTHING they want.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago
Well, gee, sounds like women should both feel some urgency during the period of their lives wherein they have the most bargaining power, and also be realistic about what they can obtain via that power; or risk being treated like a dumbass that waited too long while playing a game of musical dicks.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago
You can shush me madam.
You can't shush the wall. The wall has no damn grace.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1h ago
For future content, a lot of these women gripe on *Ch)eddit(t) and X about how they hate being "grilled" by relatives at holiday dinners such as "Do you have a boyfriend you're serious with?" or "When are your going to settle down and have kids?" This is nothing new, of course, in that such entitled women have been griping about their losing game-of-chicken since "women's lib" began.
I can see their point in that who likes to sit down to dinner and asked as you start putting mashed potatoes on your plate: "So... have you started a diet to lose weight yet?"
That being said, as the Oompa Loomps rhetorically asked: "Whose to blame?" Answer: "The mother and the father!"
If they wanted grandkids and to not have some spinster picking through their bones when they pass away as she tries to cobble together some retirement plan for herself, they ought to educate her through her teen years as to her massive albeit perishable natural assets and options. That mommy and daddy were not perfect human beings and settled with each other and that's far more romantic and loving than waiting around for a Perfect Man is.