Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Seagram7
Posted 5d ago in Chasing Chad - Permalink - 817 Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
I think its funny we're at the point that women are stealing salads to meet men.
The desperation will intensify, as it also looks like we're going to enter a rough patch for a bit economically.
Pilots being the most mobile, able to fuck anything in any destination and not get caught since their multiple love interests are separated is the ideal playboy bachelor setup, even considering social media if they're moderately careful about it.
Yes, she got played - and I think its pretty funny since the optimal outcome has been reinforced by women's behavior. Enjoy the spoils, honey.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2d ago
This is a great example of what we call situational alpha. Being the top dog isn't an absolute characteristic. It depends on your environment.
Very few pilots have glamorous careers jetsetting around the globe.
In your 20s, a pilot is barely making a livable wage while puddle jumping between podunk KY and ATL 5 times a day. In your 30s, maybe you graduate to a few routes where people know the city you're talking about, e.g. JFK-LAX or Chicago-SFO. But still nothing super glamorous. You generally need to be in your 40s or 50s (plus a bit of luck of choosing the right airline and not getting fired during one of the inevitable downturns that will happen during your career) before you get to the stage of flying to London or Paris every month. And even then, you probably make less money than the business class passengers sitting in the pointy end of the plane you drive for them.
But in the micro-environment of an airport, pilots are the top dog. Even the young ones who are easily out-earned by a senior mechanic getting his hands dirty on the tarmac. So it's not surprising that this girl wants to snag a pilot.
The same logic occurs in bars and clubs where the bouncers and bartenders score tons of tail: in that world, they have all the power and "cool" factor, even though most of their male customers are wealthier and more powerful in the real world.
This is why, even if you're not a Master of the Universe, you can still do well by finding a few local bars / restaurants and getting to know the managers, waitstaff, bouncers, etc. When you take a girl there, the fact that you know these people and they let you cut the line, etc. means you'll be seen as an alpha in that environment.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
One of my closest friends is an airlines pilot and he told me when he started out, as with MOST pilots, you first start out at a regional airlines. The few exceptions are prior military with a bunch of flight hours and even then they are still at the bottom in seniority and pay. Anyway he told me that his average pay starting out at $20 an hour. The entire pilot airline industry is based on seniority and flight hours. You have to build up both. An interesting fact he told me about the pay and why it is so low is that the clock doesnt start until the airplane doors are closed. they literally pay him to fly the fucking plane. All the before stuff doesnt count.
What every pilot's dream is to make the jump from regional to a major airline. It took him almost 10 years going from a podunk airlines to a major one. He lost his seniority when he left the regional (think airlines like Jet Blue, Spirit, Southwest) but had the flight hours for the majors (Like American and Delta) to even look at him. His starting pay was about the same as his top pay at the regional airline. I was taking some flight classes and flirted with the idea of starting a new career and he called me and ask "I hope your not serious about this!" The big shock was that he told me that there are many pilots that for whatever reason, never was able to make the big jump to a major airlines and they are in their 50's flying regionally like LA to Vegas to Phoenix for $85K a year.
As for prior military, since they are at the bottom of seniority and pay, they do what is called "Guard Bumming." Once they get hired, they also join the Air National Guard and what they do is drop orders on their employer and activate for active duty assignments all the while their accumulation of seniority does not stop with the airline since they are protected by federal law. You cant be penalized because of military activations to include not accumulating seniority.
wow, I got off topic. I really wanted to comment on the concept of situational alpha which I find more interesting. I'll reply to my comments for that.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
The reason I find the concept of the situational alpha so interesting is that it is an insight and some of the explanation into a woman's sexuality and how they choose who to fuck. It really shows that feels are reals and that her desire and lust is at the primal subconscious level. We men look at a bartender and say "I dont get it. He's a fucking bartender!" But to a woman, seeing him command attention, being in control, other people clammer for his attention. The power and control of who he gives his attention to, his popularity, all that taps directly into her desire for the male alpha of her Paleolithic tribe and worthy genes to breed with. It ties directly into her subconscious brain for an alpha fucks. It's usually after she satiates her lust and usually sobers up the next morning and looks at him as a potential Alpha Bux she then realized "He's a fucking bartender!" So then she either treats him as a one night stand never to see him again of a FWB and engage in the Dualistic Mating Strategy. We here all know that he got her sexual best too.
Quick story about guys like our bartender. I went to a Irish Pub with a friend that looks like Sméagol. I told him to pull off a patch off one of his old uniforms since that bar had a display of different patches from agencies nationwide. I thought we can score one or two free drinks. The bartender was literally a buff Chad. You could see the hot blonde waitress hovering all over him. Anyway this guy was a typical Chad, aloof, almost bored with our presence when we asked to pin the patch on the wall. He saw the patch and his eyes lit up. He becomes our instant friend and pick out brains on how he can get hired. He tells us his situation of how he is 38 and living in a rented house with 4 other guys. It sounds like he and his roommates were the party guys having a good time then suddenly they are pushing 40. He wants to grow up and get an adult job like us. Anyway he was letting us sample the various Irish whiskies since he was very knowledgeable on that when I slurred my speech to my friend and told him: "dude, you look like Sméagol, he gets more pussy than you, he is better looking than you and he would trade all that to have your job and be where you are at in life."
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 23h ago
I've known some guys to pull shockingly fine tail from GMing tabletop RPGs at con games. Same thing: they're surrounded by professionals of various stripes who may outearn them by 5x or more but, at the table, they're in control and dictating the pace.
Sploosh.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4d ago
So she was given all sorts of red flags about that demographic (pilots and their ongoing obvious behavior) and immediately ignored them the second she found one that was hot, high status, and good enough at lying/omitting info. (Note: you can be horrible at lying and women will overlook blatant bullshittery if you are hot enough. Yet somehow men are the shallow sex - LMAO. Shaggy Defense is REAL.)
Play dumbass games, win dumbass prizes.
Note what's not in the blog is how many perfectly good men she ignored on the way to this outcome. Because they were invisible to her.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
I chuckled at the underlined sentence "He seems honest". Note: PRESENT tense!!! Whether that's a slip of grammar, she doesn't appear to have the capacity for personal growth. Many men here escaped the blue pill, or at least grew over time, by acknowledging our mistakes, learning from them, and moving on.
That said, it's understandable why she's solipsistic asking such silly questions: "Are really all pilots like this?" She's perceived as highly attractive having numerous pilots hit on her so she has a swelled head but cannot see why these men have their own demands from being amongst the elite of our society. Even medical doctors have to abide by a pilot's authority in a cabin.
In answer to her question: no, they're not ALL like that but like women such as herself, they are not typical of most men since they are functionally celebrities. The few that are loyal will already be married. We all know this.
I find it amusing she claims the pilot said he found his wife's surgeon career a turn-off. Perhaps the pilot chose to marry her because the surgeon is exceptionally pretty but also, not going to come after him for alimony. This is sort of the "settling" many men may engage in: Sure, a woman's career may be a turnoff but she pays the bills. Men can engage in reptilian strategy too!
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Bros before hoes, sweet cheeks. Men have a code, and we stick to it. Back to the FDS Sisterhood you go.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
This post represents the modern dating market and crisis women have created. Starting with a woman's hypergamy and the 20/80 rule. They want the top tier men and the bottom 80 are invisible. (would she go out with the airplane mechanic that makes just as much?) but at the same time these top tier men have these soft harams where these woman would rather share an Alpha than have a beta all to herself. It's already like that unofficially. Hence why male singles are so high and women claim to be 'dating' a guy who turns out have a group of girls also 'dating' him. The women in turn also have a ATM, emotional tampon, and so forth in addition to the guy they are 'dating'.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5d ago Stickied
Edit out the rule 1 violation in your last sentence to prevent removal of what's otherwise a solid comment.
Edit - it's been a few days. Reply to this when you see it, and I'll restore the comment so you can edit it.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I know it's late but I can edit
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
Restored!
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5d ago Stickied
A) At WAATGM, our focus is on the woman's actions and consequences, not on why the man would choose what he chose.
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Really? Because I've seen that most of my life. My own dad was 11 years older than my mom, and both sets of grandparents were
webbed*even [damned phone] further apart.moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4d ago
Well said.