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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 20h ago

Someone please post to the Reddit site. I am unable to.

PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 20h ago

"Why can't I get something that I won't take the required steps in order to earn?"

mattyanon TRP Endorsed 19h ago

"I am extremely picky"

So am I ladies, that's why so many of you are single.

Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 15h ago

Got told the truth multiple times to her face in the comments, she just doubled and tripled down or refused to engage at all on what she was being told about what she and her ilk are doing wrong.

And of course at the end of it, still needs someone else to save her from her own bad choices. Typical woman.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 14h ago

One of the commenters said that highly educated women tend to find it hard to get married to someone at their level or higher.

I'd like to ask the greater minds than mine here this question: Some how argued that "studies" show that educated women tend to marry more than non-educated women and from my googling, this appears to be true. This may be due to a few factors:

1) Non-whites benefit from affirmative action and those women tend to not get married overall skewing the figures. Would love to see data controlled for education AND race. 2) Lots of High School graduates may get knocked up out of high school and not get married and either remain as single mothers or "shacked up". Does that skew the statistics? 3) Are those "studies" skewed by "trial" marriages? Educated women who marry their college sweetheart and they divorce but are shown to have gotten "married" compared to number 1 above.

I'm of the theory that perhaps what we are seeing, at least in the short term between 1990 and, say, 2010 or so, is a generation of highly educated women who married less educated men with good incomes. My wife has a master's degree in chemical engineering and works at a job 1/2 the pay as me as a software tester. I don't have a degree but earn more than her. I don't think she'd have married a low income store clerk.

So I wonder if college educated women, who weren't blue haired face pierced harpies, "poached" the guys such as myself that used to marry the working class cute girls. I tried to date some of them but they were not only, well, dumb as a bag of rocks but also ungrateful and unappreciative which amused me in that here I am, a guy with a fantastic income who was treated badly because they (wrongly) thought they were queens.

Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago

Quite possibly. Either way, the fact of the matter is, if a woman has a working vagina, yet still cannot find a stable relationship before 30, that means she is doing something wrong.

At minimum it means she is either picking the wrong kind of man, or not bringing enough to the table for Mr Right to even bother making his existence known, much less approaching to sweep her off her feet. As I noted on another thread, the advent of online dating means the modern man doesn't even have to talk to/interact directly with the modern woman before DQ'ing her ass for anything other than throat goat duty at best.

He just sees her shit-tier profile on Tinder or other forms of social media and lefts swipes or outright blocks her because he doesn't even ever want to have her slide into his DM's as he already knows she will never be worth the effort she is demanding. Plus it's getting to the point where men in general have wised up to hookup culture/sites like Tinder and refuse to take a woman seriously for anything long term if she has ever had a Tinder or other hookup culture site associated profile, regardless of her stated reasons for why. So men's presence there ends up purely recreational or for vetting purposes if they are there at all.

The end result being entire swaths of men making themselves invisible to women like this.

No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 12h ago

This article was written in 2017. Legend has it that even to this day she is still on her 90-day mission to connect with good men...

oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago

Got me curious so I looked, not much more.

"Why is everyone settling" https://archive.ph/tzbzI

"50 Shades of Choosing the Wrong Men" https://archive.ph/HJeRr

My guy friends used to ask me why I insisted on dating the douchiest guys I could find. And I used to tell them that it was because I wasn’t ready to settle down.

let me describe what I am looking for in case you know him and aren’t in love with him yourself. He is tall, dark and handsome. Those were a given right? He is a super confident man, that likes to workout, loves to stay in, understands the massive amount of time I have to spend with my mom. Loves God, has a grown up job, wants to have children, doesn’t fit into any of the above mentioned categories. Must be driven in all aspects of his life. Bonuses: he is handy (good with tools) and funny.. actually funny may be a requirement, is my list getting long? Must be able to 1. love my dogs 2. handle a girl with a big mouth and a lot of attitude

"Life after College" https://archive.ph/RFKnt

Twenty twelve: Still boozing, giving a mediocre effort at work, dating winners.

Twenty thirteen: Moved back out so that I had better access to bars and more winners.

"Week 4: 90 Day Meet-A-Man Challenge" https://archive.ph/J5rKc

Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 9h ago

Not surprising. Nearly every 30 year old single woman piddlefartfucked her way through her 20's relationship-wise, that's how she ended up single at 30.

We just have the benefit of this one documenting it in such clarity for posterity instead of having to read between the lines on her mouth-noises.

JudgeSmales 8h ago

"2. Handle a girl with a big mouth and a lot of attitude."

Yes, that's always been my goal in life.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1h ago

If you like, you can post at least one of these after a few days, particularly the "why is everyone settling" as The Big Question.

In the "Week 4" link, there's an invaluable photo of the author having a drink. If she's a day under 40, then I'm a teenager.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.

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