Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 1w ago in Single Woman Tears - Permalink - 3.8K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I'm thankful her emptying egg carton won't be populating the planet with idiots like her.
Happy Thanksgiving to all of you.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
The silver lining! Also thankful.
wswZtyqNGQ 1w ago
Chucky D always gets the last laugh.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
That's like 32 and clearly post-wall for this purple-haired freak, despite all the makeup. When I was 32 I had been married 12 years.
Going to college at all was your biggest L. Good thing you have that worthless degree and a mountain of debt, because now men will be much more attracted to your success!
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Women think their degree confers them status with men. What they don’t realize is that when they’re at their youngest and hottest, that’s between the times when they are in school up until a few years post degree, and in that time block, they’re interacting almost exclusively with men who are in school as well. And likewise for the men. The difference being, if you forcibly added non college educated men to the dating pool, they’d get outcompeted by the men with college educations. But do the same for women and the pretty, friendly ones will outcompete them easily.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1w ago
Don’t forget that not only does college not make women more attractive to men: it generally makes them less attractive. The typical college girl gets the “Three Fs” in spades: fat, feminist, and f-ed. And that doesn’t include the likelihood that she leaves with a mountain of unsecured debt, a ton on unresolved (and self-inflicted) trauma, and a biohazardous Petri dish between her legs.
Plus she’s four to six years behind her “uneducated” peers.
Note that I put “uneducated” in irony quotes. For some stupid reason society equates being credentialed with being educated. I have nothing against learning, by the way: I am both highly credentialed and very well educated… but those things are not the same.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Woman logic is as follows: She’s hypergamous but doesn’t understand that merely having “standards” is not an entitlement. Merely wanting to fly in first class doesn’t entitle you to do so. So if she “meets him halfway” and gets a degree, she thinks that entitles her to someone who has a degree at least as good as hers.
Hypergamy could only work statistically if successful, tall men were as (almost) as hypergamous as women and would date down, but not too much in order to constrict supply. In some ways, this is true in that 30 years ago men I knew wanted women who weren’t too far down the social/economic ladder so he wouldn’t be on the hook for alimony or a woman who was a burden. Generally, a woman with a trade-school degree, such as a dental hygienist making a good living, would be preferable to woman with an English Lit masters degree working as a clerk at a bookstore.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
A'ight, so this gorgeous blonde woman boards a plane going to Paris and sits in first class despite only buying a ticket for coach. The flight attendant tells her that she has to move, and the woman replies:
The flight attendant attempts to argue with her a moment, but the blonde woman just keeps repeating herself:
The fight attendant informs the captain of the situation, and asks:
The captain says:
He heads back to where the hot young blonde is sitting, and leans over and whispers in her ear. The woman says:
... and heads back to her seat in coach.
... asked the stewardess. The captain replied:
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
If you haven't seen it, this Carol Burnett Show's take on business vs economy class is hilarious: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h66p3gW82bM
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
It’s true. For example, I saw a viral clip from right before the election of a young college woman at Wisconsin talking about how she needs the right to go get an abortion because “these a**holes” would get her pregnant. Does anyone hear that and think “that’s a wife right there”? Maybe for a guy inexperienced enough to be the one there when her biological alarm starts to go off, whom she will inevitably screw over in a divorce after about 7 years and 2 kids (which would honestly be like a mercy kill, because she’ll have made that poor guy’s life hell the whole time)
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I read an interesting statistic that 60 years ago, most women were married BEFORE the age of 22. This meant that most met their future spouse when their dating pool was not as wide as a dating app, but yet they had a large choice of men personally familiar to them since childhood. The whole “man should ask me out personally and go out for coffee” was the norm. Not dinner dates from strange men.
Women back then didn’t “ride the CC” (that was socially frowned upon) and spent their college years earnestly looking to get married. There’s even the joke that most women got an “MRS” degree that the feminists shamed women for not being serious about their “career”.
So… from the mid 1960’s to the 1980’s, women in college postponed finding a spouse until they graduated school and entered the workforce where strange men would ask them out on dinner dates. This was less successful because riding the free-dinner carousel was common but nonetheless there was a personal touch to dating until Anita Hill in 1991 ended that.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1w ago
Another aspect of the difference is that “going out a few times” wasn’t synonymous with “dating” and “dating” wasn’t synonymous with “having sex” with each other.
The people you met were people in your circle: you were, at most, two degrees of separation from your prospects, and there was a social penalty for treating those people badly. So much heartache comes about because people hop into bed with virtual strangers, and when it doesn’t work out (which is almost always the case), much damage has already been done.
I asked out girls from my social circle, my work, my school, and my church. Some said yes and others declined, but it wasn’t the end of the world. Anita Hill essentially removed the workplace as a venue for meeting people for relationships, and that has now spilled over into nearly anywhere people meet. You can’t chat up the girl at the gym, or in your class, or even in the next pew without potentially running afoul of the “Don’t ???? where you eat” principle.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I love chatting with older men and women to get their take on what life was like in “the before times”. Re: Your “two degrees of separation” observation, men appear back then to have been more supportive of each other perhaps because there were various men’s associations and institutions in place. One book I added to my reading list is “Bowling Alone”.
So if a woman cruelly rejected a suitor in a community, other men would avoid her. Reputation mattered for both sexes. Feminists tore down or invaded men’s spaces while setting up a “sisterhood” that eventually trashed marriages for the fun of it.
Other aspects that accelerated the social rot is that as divorce become more common, and now single motherhood and even “SMBC” (Single Mothers By Choice), there were no standards other than that of alley cats at 2AM.
Even back in the 1980’s, a “social circle” as you stated could be quite limiting particularly after school ends. That’s why I refer to “corporate nuns” who, after the age of 25, only knew perhaps a dozen men they talked to at the office regularly, their friends were married or otherwise not prospects, and social networking skills were dead.
Perhaps the latter became the norm because even in Poland in 1997, women griped that it was tough to set up other women on “blind dates” from the 2 degree of separation because the women were all pins-and-needles going into it and it failed.
It also doesn’t help that women increasingly became ambivalent or passive and this further isolated men from meeting them in “organic” ways like in the movies. Women largely do not “flirt” anymore and it was a culture shock to me when I left the country that it was possible for women, in public, to be pleasant and friendly.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1w ago
Re: degrees of separation.
With OLD and the closing off of opportunities to approach people you know, a huge number of the people you might date have no connection to you at all.
Two degrees of separation was about the maximum.
I’m my day (did I just write that? Crap… I’m old), the people you connected with were either people you met personally, or people you met through a mutual connection. Even third degree connections were rare.
As you noted: reputation matters when you have to deal with the people who know you and the people you interact with. A girl couldn’t slut it up and then expect to get a good man.
If you count the nice lady who ran the matchmaking service through which I met my wife as a mutual connection, every girl I ever had any type of relationship with was either a first degree or second degree connection.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1w ago
This reminds of the Garfunkel and Oates song, “29/31.” Truly a classic… yet despite the song hitting the nail on the head (with a 16-pound sledgehammer), almost nobody heeded the warning (including the women who sang it: one married at 38 and the other didn’t marry at all).
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
It's been a while since we featured that one. Would you like to do the honors?
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1w ago
https://youtu.be/H-gfxjAaZg0?si=mQKZ0U5G5QoEEEEW
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
lol, I had meant as a standalone post, like when @goodmansaysfuckyou posted it or when @loneliness-inc reposted it later
have some vcards!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
@houseoftolstoy (or anyone who would like to help) Please post to Reddit since I am unable to. Happy holiday weekend.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1w ago
Done. And happy holiday weekend.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1w ago
Just because you added some rhythm, your drama doesn't become a comedy; that's not how theater works. If you wanted the comedy's happy ending, you'd have to rewrite quite a lot of the story. All you've got now is a sad (and mediocre) musical. At least put some Looney Tunes song, and let us have a proper laugh.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I enjoyed this video in so many (nice) ways: I liked that she added some rhythm, perhaps a common piano song, and the lyrics/tone were emotionally poignant unlike the (also quite enjoyable) 29/31 that @lurkerhasarisen refers to.
What's especially touching is how she's different between the videos: In the first one, she's cute but in the second, the poorly dyed hair and trimmed eyebrows "speak" volumes. It's a video I'll save to show my daughter.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
That one line is a glimpse into how childish most women are.
"My misery and depression will be alleviated slightly if I can only know that none of the people from my past are happier than me!"
No-Stress-Cat 1w ago
Four years of college, liberal arts degree, and this is the best she can come up with.
WalmartDemon 1w ago
A-hum, I have... a theory about that stuff in her face...
IceNineWithLime 1w ago
From a much better song:
"You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today / And then one day you find ten years have got behind you / No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1w ago
I’ve quoted from that song many times in various manosphere spaces. It may be the most succinct representation of the lies that feminists tell young women, and the consequences of them being them.
In this case it’s on the nose: the woman graduated college at 22, and she’s now 32… “ten years behind” in her own words. But time isn’t a dimension: you can only go in one direction, and once past a point it will be forever behind you. A woman has about 10-12 years of prime time, and this girl (I can’t bring myself to call her a woman except in the biological sense) has squandered literally all of hers and has nothing to show for it.
Worse still for this girl: she wonders whether it might be time to start looking now, as if a woman’s “timer” begins when she starts looking… when she tells the “Universe” that she’s “ready” (whatever that means).
By the time my wife was the age of this girl, she’d been married to a HVM for a dozen years. This chick is already on the clearance rack, and she’s been trained to be passive, which ill suits her current situation in which she should be aggressively pursuing her best remaining options. She still hasn’t heard the starting gun.