Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 9mo ago in Single Mom Tears - Permalink - Locked - 11K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Justanaverageguy 9mo ago
If only women could choose the father of their kid. What a perfect world it would be. Oh wait, they can and they always choose wrong. That’s not a coincidence.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
It's so unfair that women are forced to go to the club, accept free drinks from the guy with the gold chains and gold capped tooth, and then go to the bathroom and let him unload his custard gun in their wombs while they are not on birth control. When will this injustice ever end?
yaxir 8mo ago
lmao i will use this !
reignoferror00 9mo ago
If only they had a plan to prevent this or even Plan B.
Instead they choose by default - Plan C and find out.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 9mo ago
"go to the club, accept free drinks from [a NiceGuy(tm) who the girl has no attraction to, and blows off as soon as the bartender arrives with the drinks], and then go to the bathroom [with the guy with the gold chains and gold capped tooth]"
FTFY
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
Got it. Nice to remember our role in this little exchange - we can sponsor the whole thing by buying the drinks!
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
I like that OP. That’s a lot of education for a lot of women in one grammatically questionable sentence.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 9mo ago
She knows to speak their language.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
And people wonder why I want to repeal the 19th amendment.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 9mo ago
If only we as a society didn't work so hard to shield women from personally feeling the CONSEQUENCES of the way they vote with their ballots and their pussies.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
Funny thing is, women did have the vote -- they just persuaded their husbands. If they couldn't do that, then their whims were probably off base anyway.
All this 'liberation' of women was really just to destroy the family structure.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 9mo ago
IMO, This is the demarcation line for when someone is truly red pilled. Until they do so, they’re just dipping their feet in the water refusing to get into the pool
The fundamental basics of someone being an "equal" adult is literally the ability to make a decision knowing that there are consequences of doing so. It sounds so fundamentally simple, but some people never get the hang of it. “What do you want for dinner?” “I don’t know, you decide. What’s good?” “Ok, steak is good I think.” “I don’t like steak though.” “How about fish?” “Well, I’m not in the mood for fish.” “Ok, how about chicken?” “Chicken sounds ok, if that’s what you want!” “Ok, chicken it is!” “I don’t like this chicken! It’s your fault I didn’t enjoy dinner!”
This same philosophy applies in particular to their mate selection. They don’t want to be held responsible for the negative issues in picking a mate hence why they either want the man to “pick them up” or just list all their wishes refusing to “settle”. Decision making is literally “settling” since if something is precisely what you want, there is no choice to make.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 9mo ago
This is they key part. They want power and privilege without the attendant responsibility and consequences. To dwell in a perpetual fantasy land where they can have every whim fulfilled simultaneously even if they are inherently contradictory.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
Women should always be under male authority & leadership. This used to be a cultural given, and still is in many countries. A smart woman understands that this is for the safety and well-being of all women generally.
I find weddings in the US funny, it's like girls instinctively revert to tradition. They want to be "given away" by their fathers, indicating a transfer of property (her). They wear white to symbolize virginal purity, and veils to indicate their modesty and subjection to men. They sign the invitations "Mr and Mrs John Smith" indicating a male-led household in which she is merely associated with the patriarch.
I know all these are not happening much anymore, but then I don't like going to weddings, just what I have observed in the past. They all secretly want to be under male authority and protection, until they don't get their way.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 9mo ago
Everyone girl wants a traditional wedding and a "modern" marriage.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
So true.
I mean we're seeing it now with women practically begging to be led. They don't want to make decisions, they just want a strong lead.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
But of course, you have to battle their psychological programming. Conditional femininity is for some reason a thing, but I don’t get to say “I’ll be a tough, strong male for the woman that inspires that in me, but for now I’m going to be lazy all day, order all of my meals from Uber eats, and refuse to exercise”
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 9mo ago
Maybe try a picture next time? Far easier to maintain than his kids.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
Jesus... the dudes I see the hot chicks with... making babies... It makes me think there is an association between being hot and picking bad mates. The not-so-hot chicks seem to have fairly decent guys.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 9mo ago
Not-so hot chicks got their egos pandered to less so there is a chance they are somewhat less divorced from reality.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
I wonder what evolutionary thing is at play there. Really, the bizarre choices that women make must be some hardwiring genetic mixing algorithm that I don't understand.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
Well, if you look at what is associated with high testosterone: aggression, risk taking, muscularity, overconfidence, etc. I think what has happened is these women don't actually know what those behaviours are and just take it from the movies. So they end up with a skinny drug dealer with tats and a pretty face.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 9mo ago
Couple of theories about that. First, don't give the not-so-hot chicks that much credit. They'd ride the thugs and bad boys as much as the hot girls do, but those guys, having hot chicks slobbering over them, don't need to pick the not-so-hot-chicks. But in those moments when the bad boy decides to slum it for a night, those not-so-hot chicks aren't resisting his charms. After all, fat chicks have some of the highest body counts out there. Being not-so-hot doesn't automatically make them better or more selective about picking their mates.
Second, I think part of the reason hot chicks will sometimes choose particularly bad mates is because they expect to be rescued after they've had their fun. First, their looks meant they got rescued from every other bad decision in their life (it's stunning how many hot girls have no education, no job, no real life skills aside from building up stunningly high alcohol tolerances, and yet do fine thanks to men falling over themselves to rescue them). So why would they expect to face the consequences of this choice?
And in many ways, they're right: they have a better chance of sticking the landing when they inevitably get thrown off the cock carousel. If you're a smoking hot chick in your 20s, you're probably still pretty attractive in your 30s. Many guys will overlook a lot of faults if you're pretty, like having a child with a deadbeat dad, getting STDs from raw dogging your drug dealer, etc. So these girls expect to have "fun" with the bad boys that give them tingles, and still expect a rich billy beta to rescue her and any bastards in tow when she can no longer attract the bad boys. Not-so-hot women have less cushion for bad decision-making so must plan their carousel dismount a little more carefully.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 9mo ago
Another point to consider is that it's not so much that women think they'll be rescued at the end that they pick bad men. They pick bad men because they ultimately want those men to commit but can't (examples 1, 2). He gives her empty promises of commitment and puts up an occasional good dude veneer to keep stringing her along to maintain his sexual access. When she gives him an ultimatum to commit and be good to her, he dumps her, and the cycle repeats.
IMO most women don't ride the carousel for fun, otherwise alpha widowhood wouldn't be pervasive. So they do it to secure the best genes in order to reproduce. They don't want to fuck a string of Chads, they want 1 Chad to commit and reproduce with but can't keep or fix him so they try with the next one. And when in the presence of Chad or Tyrone who's giving her attention - and thinking she's "so so close" to getting him to commit - the good, stable but less attractive men aren't even on her radar nor consideration that she may need them later until it's too late.
@moorekom, @Typo-MAGAshiv
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 9mo ago
A lot of women try to make an alpha fucks into an alpha bucks a.k.a a fuck boy (high smv) into a high value (rmv) man. In my opinion, this is not so much about locking in the best genes (after all, even billy beta can be good looking), but mostly about validation. The validation she would get from her fellow sisters for taming someone untamed with the power of her pussy is an intoxicating drug. A sculpted billy beta is thus of lesser value compared to a punk rock musician (if she is into that circle).
Some women prefer serial monogamy, in which they upgrade. Some women just want to fuck around. Some want to fuck a string of Chads who are better than the previous one. Some want to fuck Chads who are different from each other.
Choosing the best of two alphas is the wet dream of every modern woman. Just look at the romance genre and it should be apparent.
50 shades of grey- Taming a rich, hot, dominant, alpha fucks into becoming a provider.
Twilight - choosing between two studs.
Bachelorette - choosing the best available alphas.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
Pretty much. Because let’s be real, part of our own attraction psychology is finding a woman who has genetics that make her beautiful, because that will make the lives of our own children much easier. So if we could get away with having a swimsuit model bear our children while some saint of a woman raises them, there would be many men trying it.
nicknack 9mo ago
Nothing but facts here.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
Yeah I guess I confuse the married/single Latina chicks with the white chicks. It's always some hot Latina chick with the drug dealer and then the rest are with working class guys.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 9mo ago
That lady talking about not wanting to let go of something "so toxic yet caring, and pretty" is mentally ill. That's the language of battered women who keep going back to their abusers. They're addicted to that roller-coaster ride of drama from "he's so angry he punched me and broke my ribs" to "he loves me so much he bought me a teddy bear".
Having a man who's calm in the face of adversity and serves as a counterweight to her willynilly emotions is anathema to her. She can't stand guys like that and will provoke, provoke, and provoke until she gets a reaction from him that "proves" he loves her. And unless that reaction is strong enough to put her in the hospital, it doesn't count and she'll leave. Even better (in her twisted mind) is a guy who doesn't need to be provoked to provide that "proof". And that guy, she will remember forever by carrying his child.
Also, how low have standards dropped that we're left complimenting a woman who fucks all sorts of terrible men but, hey, at least she didn't get pregnant by them! Is it too much to ask to not be attracted to, and fuck, these men in the first place?
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 9mo ago
I mean i wouldn’t wife her. But I at least appreciate that she requires condoms and maybe is on the pill, too, and therefore isn’t raising up a bunch of bastard kids who are more likely to end up poor themselves than graduate high school.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 9mo ago
You're making his point... even here in the manosphere a woman can turn herself into a dumpster filled with rotten leftovers, moldy cardboard, rabid rats, used cat litter, and cockroaches, and somebody will come along and say, "Sure she turned her life into a disgusting dumpster... but at least the dumpster isn't on fire!"
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 9mo ago
Saying that a woman who keeps throwing herself at a dude who roughs her up is a "battered woman" creates a false narrative that paints her as a victim.
If you choose something, you're not a victim when you get it. If I drink a six-pack on Monday and have a hangover Tuesday morning, I'm an idiot. If I go out Tuesday night and drink a twelve pack, my hangover Wednesday morning is not the result of the alcohol abusing me.
We have created so many ways for women to get out of anything even remotely uncomfortable for them (often at some man's direct expense), that a woman who stays with an "abusive" man is doing so because she likes it. I assume that most of us have heard the saying, "If you don't treat her like crap, she'll find someone who will" to describe these types of women. She may be a masochist, but she's not a victim.
I just want women - who claim to be adults - to take ownership over the consequences of their decisions. Her body - her choice - her responsibility.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 9mo ago
FTFY!
A particularly delectable analogy, though I got a bit distracted by the low alcohol tolerance!
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 9mo ago
I'm certainly a lightweight both in weight class and alcohol tolerance. I prefer quality over quantity.
No-Stress-Cat 9mo ago
She just caught herself a ban from FDS.