Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
51, not ugly, single. That’s already a larger red flag than the one that flies outside of Xi’s mansion in China.
The question simply becomes whether she’s a homewrecking single mother or managed to make it past menopause childless and in a perpetual state of spinsterdom?
So of course, now that she has nothing to offer a man except post-menopausal, low energy, lubrication-requiring sex, that’s the perfect time to demand an apex level dude (who of course also conforms to her behavioral standards and political beliefs). I can’t see anything going wrong with that.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Damn this one has potential. If the year was 1995. Well past her sold by date to be making any demands.
kurkumaonce 1y ago
In 1995 she had less demands, no man would be happy with less then she offers and demands now.
If photos are any real, then she can be happy at least about that, her male surgeon is top job.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Really?? She looks like a transvestite.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've been reading up a bit lately on the "Sigma Male" thing (lone wolf) and realize that it applies to me pretty well. Eff this bitch if she can't handle men like that. The reason a sigma doesn't have a boatload of friends is selectivity combined with the need to 'recharge' after being in group settings. They're just not wired to network and accumulate a lot of friends.
But I'm not sad about it, looks like no man would benefit from interacting with this post-wall forced smile nightmare.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
You may have seen some of the conversations @lurkerhasarisen and I have had about this silliness over at the trp.red side of the site.
I had more to say, but either my phone or the website ate the rest of it, so I'll just stop here.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well, in general terms it seems to - like those personality tests that consider intro/extroversion, etc...
I don't go around like an annoying vegan pronouncing it to anyone, just an observation I made here because at least there is a 'no shaming men' rule so we can share stuff without getting jumped on about it.
I realize categories can be non-absolute but I do share some of the characteristics. I can be charismatic when I want to, but usually I reserve that for special situations. As for 'not killing it' with the ladies that the Sigma type seems to imply, I've never had problems getting what I wanted.
The whole red pill to me was realizing motivations and whether it was WORTH trying to get some chick. Its a bit easy to just swim along with society and doing what you think is expected of you. I stopped doing that after it got me into a marriage with a cheating bitch that I pulled the plug on.
So in short, yeah, I do share a good deal of the traits but I'm not trying to make it out like its a Nobel Prize.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Heh, not trying to shame you. Trying to educate you so you avoid falling into that labeling trap.
Did you ever read the article that originated this silliness? I ask because you mentioned:
According to Vox Day, "sigma males" have 4x the average number of sexual partners or higher.
The original article was bad enough, but people have warped what he wrote to the point of being ridiculous.
One of my many objections to that "socio-sexual hierarchy" post that Vox Day wrote all those years ago is that most men share many traits of all those different categories. Hell, I have traits in common with all of them except the lambda one.
Trying to pigeonhole people like that isn't really a good idea.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I get where you're coming from. I had a different take on the label -- which supports your point, that it is confusing and needless.
Its cool, brother. I will take a look at the article, I can only guess what they included.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I understand its appeal. Most people want to put other people in neat little categories.
It's very thought-limiting, though, and this particular bunch of categories was not well thought out.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
For what it's worth, I agree with probably 90%+ of your comment. However, I'm removing it because of this:
Did you forget rule 1 of this forum?
no shaming men for any reason
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Fair enough
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Kinda funny, but I was able to read your response somehow in my alerts.
I get where you're coming from in the sense that some claim a 'special' label and are insufferable about it. I meant it more that I have some overlap with what I was reading, and definitely not trying to put on some airs about elevated status.
I share some traits with extroverts, but also introverts and the need to 'recharge'. Like Typo-MAGAshiv said, its a broad category and mis-used, and I should've taken a deeper dive to realize that.
Anyways, no big deal and I don't hold anything against your response - I probably would've done the same if I thought someone was trying to artificially elevate themselves with a label.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
I really wish there were a way to edit removed comments, as the rest of that really is good stuff. @redpillschool, is that something could be looked into?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Agreed. There have been many occasions where we reverted to reddit habits and said "edit your comment and I'll re-approve it" only to be told "I can't see it anymore".
Tag @redpillschool
redpillschool Everybody tag him 1y ago
I can fix that
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That would be jawesome!
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
There are different kinds of alphas. These party whores gravitate towards one kind: the guy who is the center of attention in the group. She looks pathetic because we understand the dynamic at play while she does not. There are other kinds of women. These ones are only good for a pump and dump.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
This woman gave her age away when she stated "VD exists." Let them talk long enough, and they give themselves away every time. No thanks, leatherflaps.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
Ma'am, if you don't want hookups, why are you telling the world your cup size? I get the feeling your secret nickname is Hoedo Saggins.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
@typo-magashiv, I smell a flair here.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
We need to pester @redpillschool to allow individual custom flairs instead of having to create a whole new category for something we intend to make unique.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
@kevin32.
NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
[she wants] "not conservative" OK, well the likelihood that she is doing hook-ups just went up significantly
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I think you mean that the likelihood that she is? Because conservative guys would likely find her behavior repulsive. So she’s pre-rejecting them.
NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
noted and fixed
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
What irks me is how she puts "MAN" in upper case to emphasize that she emasculates and dehuMANizes those men who refuse to meet her demands. There's an open disrespect of men in this culture.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her focus on perfect teeth makes her seem rather shallow. Well, that and the rest of her bio.
What gets me is that she is flouting being a successful adult as being exemplary. I don't give a damn about your home.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
It's standard-issue projection. Women find financial success markers attractive in men and ignorantly assume the reverse must be true as well.
Young men often make the same mistake. They want a sweet, friendly, supportive girlfriend and ignorantly project that desire onto girls, which is how they fall into the Nice Guy™ trap.
The difference being boys are fed a continuous stream of misinformation about girls and what they want from the time they're old enough to understand language, not least from their own mothers. Then reality comes along and kicks them in the metaphorical teeth until they either wise up and try something else or give up and learn to subsist on gruel. Young women, meanwhile, generally conflate the positive attention they receive due to biological factors with their behavior. The false positives continue piling up until the Wall looms and suddenly the party's over with them having never realized it was going on in the first place.
Oddest-One-Here 7mo ago
It doesn't help that mainstream society and its media keep on insisting on telling men that women want nice guys, while we are more than happy enough to tell women that high earning careers are not a turn on for us, but they insist on ignoring us.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
51? Well played sir... well played. Her SMV is almost zero now. Most women would be grandmothers at that age and busy with the grand kids. She's still stuck at the dating part.
Oddest-One-Here 7mo ago
Her SMV is still just high enough to still get pumped and dumped by men she finds somewhat attractive, it's her MMV (Marriage Market Value) that's in the toilet, no one she really wants or even a BB she might be willing to settle for is interested in wifeing her up.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
The traits that display his ability to protect and provide. To conquer, to build, to maintain - a family, a business, a vision.
This man has everything he needs and wants. If he doesn't have it yet, he's working on achieving it.
Therefore, this man does not need a woman for anything other than family.
To this man - a woman serves to complete his family goals.
No, you silly bitch. He owns you, you belong to him.
He gets to demand monogamy from you, you don't get to demand that from him.
Men always traded resources for sex. Women always traded sex for resources. You're the one who has to offer to him, the very best sexual deal. He doesn't have to offer that to you.
You're just asking for more leverage than you deserve.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Exactly. Women are fucking retards (or liars) when it comes to the expectations in a relationship.
A woman's monogamy is sexual. A man's monogamy is time, resources, protection, and legitimacy.
Whenever a woman forgets, hit her with this and they will factory reset:
If women were sticking to the approved script, they would say that they would disapprove of their husband fucking the woman. The problem comes in where their biological reality kicks in - they know that the time, attention, and resources spent on the woman in the 2nd scenario should have gone to them, even if his behavior has not been affected. This is because women know - instinctively - that where a man puts his time, resources, and energy (not his cock) is where his heart is.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Absolutely. As a guy, when we want to have a relationship, we look to tell ourselves to ignore other women for sexual reasons. But we never feel motivated to find another woman to spoil, that comes from a desire to take care of a woman. Which is, as you said, how we show love.