Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
MelkorHimself
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Chad_Bodmor 1y ago
She is like an ad for TRP.
Guys you can be literally the perfect blue pill, it will leave her unfulfilled and she will dump your ass for a good looking a-hole that shamelessly chases tail, because it makes her feel all tingly that it's her tail he's chasing.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Sounds like my neighbour
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is why women shouldn't be able to vote, or make any important decisions.
I keep thinking of that episode on Bear Gryll's show - The Island - and how the women were complete disasters and wouldn't even kill the piglets the production team wrangled for them so they wouldn't starve. (They named them and snuggled with them instead, I shit you not.)
While the men on the island had their shit going, had good water filtration (like to the point where it was clear and not tasting like anything but water, unlike the yellow pisslike shit the women had), and had division of labor to make shit work.
I don't see this civilization going anywhere but down, because the "boss bitches" are in control of some important shit, and they vote with their feelz/pussies.
Fuck that, honestly.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Leave the guys there and extra month or two and they would have built a nuclear reactor and a space program.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Translation: I was given everything on a plate and I am still not happy, because I am spoiled, childish little bitch. I want more, and I deserve more. How do I know that I deserve more? Because I am a princess. How do I know that I am a princess? Because my daddy told me I was.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
So, she said she likes muscular men and he went and got jacked without a second thought.
She's about to throw away a great marriage instead of just telling him she'd like him to lead more?
Sounds like he's receptive to self-improvement and satisfying his partner and would start taking charge without a second thought I'd she just simply mentioned it, but she sounds like a special kind of stupid here and won't take the easy way.
Good luck in life sweetie, you're gonna need it after you throw away the best thing going for you
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The personality of the husband has very little to do with it. A woman like this would be discontent with any man. A woman like this is a bottomless pit, she cannot be satisfied for long without thinking of greener grass.
We've all seen celebrity/rich men with plenty of game being divorced by discontent women. They get attention, validation, and cash from our culture - why wouldn't they?
In a weird way, one of the things I've done right in over 20 years of marriage is to be a little selfish (i.e. maintain frame). I'm the head of the household; everyone falls in line - that's just the reality and the family's frame of reference. A woman under this authority either quickly rebels or falls in line. Whereas with more... "serving" or beta kinda guys it can be a slow burn of latent discontent that builds up to this... resentment for things he never did, imaginary grudges,monkey branch fantasies.
But I digress. You cannot make a discontent woman happy, and you cannot make a truly content and thankful woman unhappy. I've seen both.
depleted_3 1y ago
Narcissism + Codepency. She needs another victim to feed off of.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well, I’m not going to roast her too hard. She showed exactly what we say; ultimately, women love the patriarchy. They love men that challenge them and take the lead.
She sounds like she has a man that, on the surface, is everything a woman could ask for. But, he’s passive and obedient. And that’s just not it.
She’s probably physically attractive. My guess is that she’s going to get a few bad boys in the coming years. It’ll go horrible.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I knew a college professor from back in the 1990's who liked to quote (some author) "There's nothing more annoying than a woman who follows you around demanding you dominate her." If she wanted to be dominated by a man, she need only have demurred to the man she's with. It's THAT easy. To let him take charge, just say "You're in charge and whatever you decide is ok with me." and MEAN it.
Back in the late 1980's, I went out on a date with a typical college girl of the time and asked her what movie she wanted to see and she said "Whatever you want to watch". I chose (remember the date to this day), Texas Chainsaw Massacre 2. She yammered about it to our mutual friends as if I was a monster. The friends were laughing and truth be told, she was laughing too. I suppose if I had wanted to seal the deal, I should have asked her out a second time and said "YOU choose the movie this time." I stand by my decision: She gave me free agency to choose the film and I didn't fall for the chivalrous "The man is in "charge" to figure out what the woman wants."
About 15 years after that, I went out on a date with my future wife and I asked her what she wanted to watch, she picked "Unfaithful" and it was a film about a wife cheating on her loyal, handsome husband (Richard Gere) and THAT was awkward, to say the least... for a date film. Spoiler Alert! He loses his temper about halfway into the film, kills the lover and I burst out LAUGHING in the theater. My (future) wife was horrified at the scene and future body disposal afterwards. Apparently, that date went well.
Back to the train wreck above: If she wanted The Hallmark Romance, she should give up the right to vote and go back to the 1950's because she just said she could only meet guys via online dating back in her 20's and she's in her 30's now. That (rare) ship has sailed and few modern guys are going to do that for her and those that do, may not meet any of her other demands this guy did.
And I have a personal anecdote for that as well: TWO women I know met their future husbands that way: They asked them out and paid for the meal and were "take charge" dates they craved and the guys put a ring on them. Both men underperformed though as breadwinners and the women eventually cut them loose.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Demurity does not bring about domination though. It brings about a protective ownership. Feminine women get that. These women do not want that. They want domination and they want it in their terms, which is what makes it annoying.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I always trick my wife into watching movies with me by telling her it's a love story. Funny thing is, most non-woke movies do have some kind of elements of a love story. Even Stephen King movies.
Now, let the OP serve as a reminder to go pull your wife's hair, smack her on the ass, pound her doggy style like a whore or else she'll divorce you.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
Well, to be fair, this happens 75% of the time regardless of male performance.
SocraticCrystalMethod 1y ago
Well it doesn’t if you stop looking at ALL marriages (which includes people who’ve been divorced and remarried) and only look at first marriages. Those have a 70% success rate.
https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-myth-of-the-high-rate-of-divorce#2
“ Rather than viewing marriage as a 50-50 shot in the dark it can be viewed as having a 70 percent likelihood of succeeding.”
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
The majority of men in a "successful" marriage stay at threatpoint.... fear of the consequences of leaving, not through a desire to stay.
Do Not Marry
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
Imagine if a genie appeared to you, placed a stick of dynamite in the corner of your bedroom, and said the following: "You will have everything you need or want in life so long as you don't light that stick of dynamite."
OP ten years later: "Everything is great, but I think I'm going to light that stick of dynamite anyway."
adam-l TRP Endorsed 1y ago
This is almost verbatim one of the oldest myths, Pandora's Box.
"Have a great life, but for fucks sake don't open the fucking box of calamities."
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That's a great analogy.
To carry it further:
She thinks that by using that stick of dynamite, her house will somehow be magically replaced by an even better house. And she only thinks so based on what she wants, without any regard for what's feasible or even realistic.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Be considerate. She just wants to see how pretty the sparks are. The explosion does not exist and might not even register until it is too late.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
To FURTHER that analogy, I know a woman who got everything she could possibly want and then went out and bought a stick of dynamite, lit it off, and then did it again. And again. She's now on her 5th iteration and she's about 24.
A relative of mine from the ideal upper-middle class household. Got EVERYTHING she could possibly want including INCREDIBLE good looks, private schools, and a high income fresh out of college with ZERO debt. 7 billon people would kill to get what she has.
She dates only Chads: (Handsome) military officers, police officers, doctors and... then she'd dump them when, and this is what I heard "they were getting domineering" but then they'd (and this is sad) BEG her to come back and she'd move on to the next. She's now dating some 6'6" Danish doctor (the 4 sixes)
My theory: If he tries too hard to please her, he's weak. If he tries to correct for that and stand up for himself (or hey, he's a chad after all and maybe doesn't put up with her gaff) he's "domineering". She dumps him, he cries for her back (which is the ultimate shit test to fail.) She soon lands another one. She treats Chads like other women treat beta orbiters. She's like a shark that eats Chads and spits them out.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Hall and Oates warned us.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Only she'll find out that her 31yr old self can't compete with her 21yr old self and she won't get the alpha GigaChad she thinks she deserves.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
this is coming....we can all see it.... only she can't. If she watched the box set of kevin samuels interviews with women that have wrecked their chances of a happy future, she sill wouldn't get it.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm watching the situation closely. I've seen women remain delusional until they die in their 90s. We all wish they would hit the wall, see the error of their ways, repent and teach the younger women... but that's not how it's playing out. They just double down. It's about ego investment in their ideology.
Even as men go their own way, leave the country, marry foreign women, live abroad... these women can't see their options drying up. I suppose it's an evolutionary flaw that is being corrected. Apparently nature extincts females that don't reproduce. I guess we'll all be part Asian one day.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Another perfect example of why you never listen to what women say that they want, only pay attention to who they fuck, or even better yet, who they fuck and divorce. This is exactly why in the olden days the father, who was always present, would vet and approve of any potential suitors. This occurred not because they lived in ThE oPpReSsIvE pAtRiArChY, but because, if left to their own devices, women would choose the men mostly likely to leave them as single mothers. Older, wiser men could see this start to play out before it got to the point of no return.
We are witnessing the effects of this phenomenon now on a societal scale. There is no way to put that genie back in the bottle, especially with the gynocentric family court system rewarding or even incentivizing this behavior.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I just think of it like natural selection without interference. We interfered for too long and it has created defective women. The obvious result is that men have evolved to withdraw their resources and protection for these women. Labor shortage? 7 million men not working, studying, or spending money? MGTOW, red pill, black pill, your mom pill, etc?
I think the end result is going to be overly-picky women and incels/betas not reproducing. The gene pool will be corrected. It will be accelerated by men who go to the global sexual marketplace. There is already a huge migration of men out of the US/UK/CA/AU/EU/NZ. Women from wealthy countries are doomed. The only white chicks in the US that will pass on their DNA will be Mormons with 7 kids. It will be interesting to see the results in a few decades but I can already predict women will still be complaining about everything.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Yeah dumbass bitches and beta soyboys are being weeded out.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I wouldn't say the bitches are dumb. Many have masters degrees. They just decided that they are too perfect to reproduce with a lowly member of the opposite sex. Snobs, basically.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
You can be pretty smart, play with derivatives and shit and still suck at making decisions, or exercising sound judgement. Savant monkeys basically.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Imagine having an ideology that extincts your ideology.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Ha! I just got it.
AsianDude 1y ago
Many single mothers will also be reproducing too... I think it will be the average guy that is left out.
kurkumaonce 1y ago
More laws against chads will be created [like in other the post I have added on here] making it easier to extract resources from all of them, This will cause them to withdraw from market or find solutions.
I found my personal solution. Will that be good or bad I will find out in time. I came to solution a bit to late in my life as I could have make it happen 10y ago without much effort.
I look at Arabic etc countries and try to adapt some things.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Only to a point though, r-selected societies are not sustainable once the k-selected producers start withdrawing or rebelling, or are just not replicated in enough numbers.
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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
I'm removing this comment for Rule 1. Please read the sidebar.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
That will cease to be a problem soon enough; she'll find something to blame him for the ending of the marriage. He didn't like me going out with my girlfriends 6 days of the week and coming back at 6 in the morning as drunk as a
skankskunk - how oppressive! He found it a problem that I had a password in my cellphone and turned the screen away from him everytime I was texting - so abusive! He said no to my proposal of an one-sided open marriage - how could he!whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She already made it his fault. He's not leading. She has to do eVERYTHING!!! He left her feeling unfulfilled, and that's emotional abuse. lol.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
Sadly it'll be worse than this....... "his is ABUSIVE".
The secret codeword to a big marriage payout.
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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
https://media.tenor.com/HNJY3VvXoOYAAAAC/how-dare-you-greta-thunberg.gif
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
My 14yr old saw that and said "Bruh!"
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Guarantee dude was so happy to get female attention that he ignored the CCP parade of red flags that was her "dating" history.
The lesson here is that if the men she fucked in her past (especially the ones that didn't need to give her a ring or commitment to do so) are not like you, you are getting a preview of what kind of man she is either going to leave you for or cheat on you with.
Full stop.
ZZoMBiE13 1y ago
Countdown to the reddit post titled "I left my amazing husband and now I'm even more miserable". 5...4......
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
So, she is going to throw everything that is right in her world away because of feelz. So she is going to find some Chad that has an abusive streak and figure out the hard way what she really had. Hopefully the husband will say no when she comes crawling back. Besides, if he is such a catch, he will be scooped up immediately.
Same old story except this thot is aware enough to realize that gender norms actually benefit women not men. Funny, that. When she rejected her gender norms to be a cool girl she assumed the burden of performance (though she still rejected the burden of commitment). Not so much fun is it, laydeez?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Nah that guy will turn up on reddit asking questions and the one red pill answer he gets will stick in his mind. He'll ignore it and take her back after she gets ran through and then he'll find out and become repulsed by her. He'll lie awake at night building up resentment at the whore in his bed who yeeted the perfect marriage because he wasn't alpha enough. Then he'll do some digging and find red pill. Then he'll throw her out and get a new 20yr old.
kurkumaonce 1y ago
for this reason I do not tell guys to read RP and believe in it, live by it etc. I tell them to read it and put into bin as this is no more than mere leaflet.
I believe that seed will flourish in half smart man in some time.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is why we call marriage red pill on hard mode. This is why game is so important. Anyway, thanks for the reminder to go drag my wife into the bedroom by her hair, slap her on the ass, and then pound her doggy style like a whore(she loves that).
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Fuck that, I make her work and pay the bills. I just Lion king it all day.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's choosing to trade in a man who made her a wife for men who will make her a single mother.
Best of luck to her I guess.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
When I was at college we had a phrase we used to say..."If you don't treat them like the dog shit that they are, they'll find someone else who will".
She is living proof of why you should never listen to what women say they want. It's not that they are lying, they are just delusional about what they really want.
DextroShade 1y ago
It kinda sounds like she's bragging in her last line. These women are bad people and should be told as such. And the masculine dominant men she wants will shove her face into a pillow and blow her back out but they won't marry her.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There is a red pill truth here: never give a woman everything she asks for because it will only make her unhappy.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Deny her many and reward her with a few.