Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Loneliness-inc
Posted 10 months ago in Dual-Mating Strategy - Permalink - 1.7K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 10 months ago
This article was surprising and disturbing in turn.
I think the most surprising part of the article was that the author suggested that the woman might need to change to attract a husband. I have rarely seen any call for women to do change any aspect of themselves since they live in a patriarchy and playing by those rules is a feminist no-no.
Point 1 - Go to where men congregate. This is the advice given to all predators: go to where the prey is known to be. And telling everyone that you are looking is a sign of a sudden epiphany. Sweetie, you should have been doing that all along. What the point should have been is to not friendzone guys, but evaluate them and decide if they are worth pursuing.
Point 2 - Take your priority out into the world? WTF, I wish I could just announce that I changed my priorities and have everyone suddenly take me seriously. Male privilege, huh? Sweatie, men focus on their careers, assets, status so they can signal provider status. Our success is our advertisement and we know it. To coach women to suddenly pivot in their priorities because they can now see the writing on the wall only reveals how fickle women are allowed to be. More to the point if they can suddenly and easily change their mind about something as significant as fucking marriage, how does that show they are committed to "for better and for worse?" Hard pass.
Point 3 - Find your feminine. Honey, if you have to suddenly find what makes you different from a man, then there is little anyone can do to help you. This is something you should have learned from childhood. The best you can do is camouflage yourself and ambush some sucker.
"The worst thing that can happen is that you learn the other person isn’t interested in the same thing, which is great! Now you can stop wasting time and move on to the next guy." Nothing has really changed. Wash, rinse, repeat.
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GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 10 months ago
Nice summary, and yeah - I was surprised she mentioned being "feminine" at all, and even took a swipe at "progressive" girlfriends giving her bad advice. But not that it matters in the end. This chick rode the carousel as long as possible, passing by plenty of good men willing to take their time and resources and invest, but she didn't care.
So its the usual placating move, of "great stuff on the horizon" from this "advice" columnist, because the real truth of "you fucked up, sweetie, here's your reward" is a bit too on the nose for an emotional mess to handle.
I wonder as the pendulum continues to swing, will we actually see women adopt different tactics? I'm here enjoying the decline, so I don't have a pony in this race.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 10 months ago
Such a good find @Loneliness-inc. At a later time I'm going to post this to the sub with a different title to highlight some of the elements in the article.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 10 months ago
Sure thing Kevin
DextroShade 10 months ago
This woman is likely ran through and lacks the requisite relationship skills to retain a man of value. What she should do is pick her best orbiter, but she will likely just keep getting fucked and chucked by Chad, Tyrone, and Kevin in sales while wondering why she isn't getting a relationship out of them until it's either too late or she ends up as a baby momma. She belongs to the streets!
MelkorHimself Mod 10 months ago
If the columnist could've given one more piece of advice, it's the following: Your husband will be boring, but boring is good. Boring men don't engage in risky behaviors, and they're reliable.
Everpax 10 months ago
The author forgot to mention that the woman will have to be the one to make a move, as these settings are now largely considered inappropriate places for men to approach women.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10 months ago
And that like an average tier man she is going to have to get used to a LOT of rejection, post copulation or even precopulation, which will be turbo fueled by her doubtlessly attempting to go for the hottest/richest looking target in whatever venue she decides to hunt in, instead of selecting someone more attainable by her current station in life.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 10 months ago
They will approach men far above their league and will either be shot down or pumped and dumped.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10 months ago
This seems more "strong, independent woman" than "dual mating strategy". She was career-oriented, rather than dating bad boys.
DextroShade 10 months ago
Why not both?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10 months ago
"Dual Mating Strategy" is alpha fucks, beta bucks. There's no evidence in her letter that she spent her twenties riding the cock carousel. If anything, her saying that she never pursued romance or relationships along with her mention of mentors pushing her to be more masculine lend credence to her being a corporate nun.
And besides, this forum only allows 1 flair per post. :)
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10 months ago
I feel bad for her because she understands that being "masculine" means focusing on corporate success instead of marriage, but the advice columnist's "feminine" advice applies to masculine alpha males, not aging spinsters.
Alpha males are in a position where if they just go out, women will hit on them pretty much anywhere because it's SAFE for women to do so. Few women are thrown out of the gym or get fired for gently flirting with an alpha male. If he's got a high paying job and decent looks, he can afford to take his time in his 30's because his biological clock isn't running out.
Here's a radical notion: Hypergamy is a MASCULINE trait. Yes, most women engage in it but then again, most modern women are masculine in other ways too. Hypergamy is about wanting to be more successful and having an attractive spouse as a sign of success. When we hear "arm candy", that usually means a man who got a pretty woman on his arm to show off. Femininity is about putting family ahead of success INCLUDING in the quality of the spouse.
A pretty woman whose married to a reliable frumpy auto mechanic and then has a large family is more FEMININE than a career woman whose a spinster who refused to marry down. Feminine women are SUBMISSIVE to men and family, not looking to profit from it.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10 months ago
The columnist isn't going to tell her, "it's over, get some cats".
She's kind of grasping at straws.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 10 months ago
I hear you. You can change it if you'd like
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10 months ago
Actually, I can't! That's one of the few drawbacks to this place: mods can't re-flair posts.
Tag @redpillschool - moderator ability to re-flair posts: when?
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 10 months ago
Oh. I thought it was just me who couldn't figure it out
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10 months ago
Not this time, lol
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10 months ago
Seemed like good advice. It's the same advice Rollo gives to women: get in touch with your feminine side.