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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
Something something the only 100% effective method of preventing divorce is not getting married.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Never wish for a problem free life: wish for better problems. I have never known a woman to improve ANY situation. I have better problems on my own.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Name one problem (for men) that's solved by adding "marriage" to the equation.
Take your time, I'll wait.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
A half century so so ago, women married younger to men who weren't necessarily set up. My father still lived with his parents back in 1958 when he got engaged at 22 years old. In the modern era, many women won't even consider a man until he has his own car, good job, apartment of his own (preferably a starter home/condo), and social skills. But back then, women took chances on men by investing in them: She'd work at a lousy job while he went to college or have her parents help out, would select his wardrobe for him to succeed at work, help him socialize at parties, and so on. Wives at one time were assets and this wasn't all that long ago. Heck, the modern dating paradigms we've come to hear are "traditional" are less than a century old.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
You can actually look up the age of marriage. In 1950 it was 25 for men and 23 for women. Now it's been shifted 10 years so women can have their hoe phase and fulfill their dual mating strategy.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
And I bet it dovetails nicely with the declining birthrate in the USA. The women are older, miscarriages more frequent if pregnancy happens at all - and that was before the Wuhan Flu complications and the 'vaccine' that was unleashed on society.
I didn't believe way back in a cabal that just plots and plans stuff for society at large, but the whole WEF/IMF/WHO thing among other acronyms have certainly illuminated an entire fucking power structure that doesn't give a shit about you and me.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Also, back then the father would do the vetting to ensure his daughter didn't end up with some bum.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago
Indeed since it was the father of the bride that paid for the wedding hence he wouldn't enjoy paying bucks for his whole extended family to see his daughter marry a bum. The best example of a traditional courtship I've ever seen was Michael Corleone and Apollonia. The father is enraged when she is described as a hot girl that set Michael's heart a-flutter but he quickly calls him in, says that he didn't mean any disrespect, and courts the daughter in front of the family who treats him as an honored guest. I married a woman whose parents hosted me for dinner because, hey, they got to see me, chat (respectfully) about what I did for a literal living, and observe my personality and provide feedback to her.
It's messed up that since the 1950's or so, young men were expected to come and "pick up" a girl from the parents who would grill him, as a bum (the "bad boys" were not intimidated by this) and he'd take her out and wine and dine her to try to get into her pants. Well, if the parents have a problem with this, why are they ALLOWING her to go out and be wined and dined? Answer: Free meals. They want their daughter to PROFIT like Jezebel but not to be treated LIKE Jezebel.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
In the 90s when I would go pick up a girl, the father would point out that she has a birth control implant. You could fuck their daughters all you want so long as you have them home by 10PM. You could take them home from school at lunch and fuck them in your or their home. They would start fucking around age 12 and and have an n-count of 30 by age 16.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago
Men like what they see in Godfather because it was a tradition with respect on both ends. What is the norm these days is a big compliance test aimed to look for a guy who would put the girl's need above his own.