Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 1y ago in WAATGM In The Making - Permalink - Locked - 5.1K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Translation: I have an ex-bf
Translation: He didn't make me wet, but I know he'll pay bills.
Translation: There was a really hawt guy that I wanted to fuck but no way could I get away with doing it while still in a relationship and still keep a good public image, or the beta as a backup plan.
Translation: The Chad I'm fucking still refuses to commit.
Translation: Fucking shit, those resources were supposed to get spent on me!
Translation: Fuck, no way I can steal him back.
Translation: Rather than admit I was a stupid bitch for leaving, I'm going to blame him for not obediently waiting for me get done with my Baloney Pony World Tour like a good little beta.
RedPill115 1y ago
If he's with someone 12 years younger now, that more suggests he is attractive, but her drive was to get nailed by "I'm exciting because I don't care and couldn't care less about committing" dark triad chads.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’d class myself as a 6 in looks and I have one 8 years younger than I am. You can make magic happen as a man if you hold discipline in life.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yet further evidence that actions and consequences are tools of the patriarchy.
Scorpion69_ 1y ago
Lmao and she puts there that retarded anime picture while trying to victimize herself and get validation for her shitty stupid bitch choices. Seems like the dude dodged a bullet
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
As @moorekom pointed out in another comment thread on this post, we don't allow declaring a post fake without proof (rule 3 on the sidebar).
Such comments add nothing to the discussion, and are just a nuisance.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Because we can.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
And because she is a dumb bitch.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Lol sounds like me. My ex is a post-wall fattie with kids. My wife looks 10 years younger than me because she's Asian and takes care of herself. Whytehorse Kazatchok kick exits stage left. BTW Bali was great and I had blast touring Thailand you biotch. The Russian ballet and circus in St. Petersburg was also pretty spectacular. Loved the Louvre too and walking the Champs de Elise.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
What the fuck was his alternative supposed to be?
I've seen some stupid hamstering but that comment is bottom of the barrel hamster rationale.
Was he supposed to still be available for her after 8 years or was he just supposed to live a boring and shallow life that paled in comparison to the relationship she shared with him at the time?
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They go chase after the hottest guy possible, then are shocked that men go chase the hottest woman possible. The difference being that the woman’s commitment isn’t worth anything to the Chads she left her boyfriend for, while the commitment is worth a ton from the man that she left.
I’d love to go back to a decade ago, see every woman between the ages of 26-29 who left her boyfriend at the time, and compare how the two groups of people are doing now. My guess is, big edge for the men
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I'd like to expound on that and note that is largely because female infidelity is not punished while male infidelity is - in the form of child support and social censure for starters. Plus it is almost impossible to cuckhold a woman without her knowing since while paternity can be faked, maternity cannot outside of swapping a child.
Plus the expectation upon men to provision when committing while women are held to no such expectation.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Exactly. That’s why their commitment isn’t worth much. Unless they’re way better than anyone else you could manage to wrangle (and in that case, you probably don’t have to worry about these imbalances because she won’t divorce you on a whim or cheat), you can always find a replacement. If you’re a man making $250k a year and she’s an 8, there’s a lot more single 8 women out there than single men making $250k a year and interested in committing. So even if only 5 of the 100 in a room full of 8’s would want to have sex with him, every single one of those 5 would want to be committed to him. She might find a $250k a year man to have sex with her, but he won’t want to commit.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
What, did she want him to wait around hoping she would grace him with her presence after she ended the relationship? I am sure she would think highly of him if he were to do that. I don't think she wanted him to wait for her like that, but in the back of her mind she was hoping he would not be taken, giving her a safe landing.
The age difference just made it more painful for her, as I am sure she would not be much happier if the woman was near his age. No, the bigger issue would be that she had feelings of a lost opportunity, and the woman being 12 years younger just rubs in the fact that he was seen as a catch by a woman who has plenty of options, and now OP has no backup plan with him.
Of course, she needs him to be the bad guy even when she knows that she closed the door on her opportunity. So she ends with the last phrase upset that he would choose to date a younger woman, doing all the things she wanted to do. What she does not contemplate is that he maybe only had the means to do all that traveling after getting established. Perhaps if she just had more patience, she could of had those same experiences. But no, she preferred to end things because she "wasn't ready for him." We can guess that there is more than she is going to say right away, but I am skeptical that she could not understand what she had in front of her. There was something else (or someone else) that made her think that she could have things better.
Perfect example of "if you want to be the wife of a colonel, get married to a sergeant."
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
I was all set to post this in response, then you had to go and @Typo-MAGAshiv me.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Thanks for the tag, so that I can correct you and @houseoftolstoy both: if you want to be the wife of a colonel, then get married to a lieutenant.
Sergeants are enlisted, rather than commissioned officers.
Tagging fellow veterans @lurkerhasarisen and @DeeplyDisturbed so they can join me in pointing and laughing at the civilians unfamiliar with how military rank structure works.
:P
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
My wife didn't want to be married to a colonel... she wanted to be married to a good man. She just got lucky (if I do say so myself)... when she was a 20-year-old debt-free virgin with no tattoos she married a lieutenant, and now she's married to a (retired) colonel. In a bit of irony: when I was a captain and we were living in company-grade officer housing, the young officer's wives used to refer to the field-grade officer housing area as, "Menopause Row."
My wife never had "Officer's Wife Syndrome," though... she didn't know the difference between a corporal and a captain until she met me.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
See, I'd always heard it as, "If you want to be a general's wife, find a lieutenant with potential." For once in my life, however, I decided not to be a pedantic asshole and correct the phrasing.
I'll never make that mistake again.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
I was not entirely sure about the specifics of the saying, so next time if I use it I will try and get it right. Yep, I am a civilian. No denying that.
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
And if you want to piss off a whole bunch of people...
be the son of an enlisted man and fuck the Admiral's daughter.
Source: personal life experience
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
How'd you get caught?
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
The non-fraternization policies (even among dependents) was enough to piss off everyone. So never got caught with pussy in hand but just like the preacher's daughters, the higher ranking officer's daughters also have daddy issues and act like spoiled sluts...so it was just assumed.
The higher the rank of the paternal unit, the easier it is to pedal the town bicycle.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Oh, and tagging @redpillschool just because.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
Why are you tagging @redpillschool, everyone tags @redpillschool and it seems to be pointless to tag someone - especially @redpillschool
Yeah, I know. One time is all it takes. According to the other branches, I eat crayons too, remember. Besides its funner to do it thrice.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
This is al bullshit anyway.
Everyone knows that is a woman wants be the wife of a Colonel, should should marry a Captain and then cheat her way up the ranks.
Come on folks, this is Hypergamy, not rocket science.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I chuckled because the captain in me knows this is so true
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
As a long time crayon eater with almost three decades of service, I have a point of contention to pick with your post. The guy was trying to make a point about hypergamy and used a poor example and showed his lack of knowledge of military rank structure, and your response is to get the other military vets here to point and laugh and basically SHAME HIM? I thought we didnt shame men hence the banning of the word simp. Just because he used a poor example does not take away the point he was trying to make. Even though it is glaringly obvious he doesnt know how rank structure and progression works in the military, the point he was trying to make is a great point on hypergamy of old times.
Back in old times, some women would go to college to major in M.R.S. as in Missus as in the only reason she went to college was to find a husband. They would find a husband now and early in his life and grab him and ride his coattails to success. I guess a better analogy would be "if you want to be the wife of a doctor, marry him when he is an undergrad premed student." I dont why things changed, but the modern strategy is to get a man after he crosses the finish line
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
It's all good. I enjoy a good ribbing, as it is all in good fun. I have enough experience with @Typo-MAGAshiv to know that he is just giving me crap for misquoting a saying. I don't see it as shaming me. Though this does bring up one good point, we should make sure that the target of any ball busting is all fine and good with what is mentioned. Not that we should tone police ourselves, but have enough familiarity with someone before you lay in too hard.
Yes, the finish line analogy is also fitting. Picking winners after they have proven to be such may "reward" the winners, but it does not show that there was any real support or that the woman believed in the man's capabilities. Sure, a woman wants to make sure that a man is a sure bet in his ability to protect and provide, but that can be determined before he reaches the finish line. Going outside the finish line metaphor, a man can be seen to be a good provider and protector before he reaches his peak status. Such as the case with a doctor who will eventually earn a lot of money. A woman who is not willing to even wait with the man when he is struggling through his schooling and residency is showing herself to be far less loyal than a woman who is willing to be with a man during the years in which he will not be able to provide a luxurious lifestyle.
Does this mean that a woman who dates a medical student with dollar signs in her eyes is better than the woman who will only give such a man attention after he is already a doctor? Perhaps not, but it does show that she is capable of foresight and the doctor-to-be will still be much more appreciative of the woman who made herself available to him when he was still building himself up (as well as NOT living a rich lifestyle as a student/resident) than the woman would only do the same the moment he was a full doctor. And perhaps it takes a better quality woman with better moral character to even date a man who is not able to immediately shower her with money than the woman who is a full on gold digger. Even if these distinctions may not seem all that much, they do make enough of a difference to the men who are going through the efforts.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The biggest pitfall to the waiting to see who is the winner at the finish line strategy is:
The competition is fierce. If you want the winner, get in the crowd with the other girls that want him too and will do anything to include cut your throat. Now you have to outwit, outlast , and outfuck all the other girls to capture Chad. As powerful as preselection is, and will make him even hotter, women hate competition.
Get him early while he's young has pitfalls too, the only big one I see is you may have guessed wrong. Too many real life examples of guys that you were sure were going to be winners in the game of life and they just fizzle out. Throw in the unpredictability fate and bad luck, plus changing goals---like my favorite example the movie Rounders where the main character quits law school to become a professional poker player---can happen and now you are pushing 30 and the guy that you tagged early that was suppose to go to med school now wants to quit to play poker full time.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Not shaming. Just busting balls.
CALM DOWN!
Kidding around aside,
...which takes time for most men, and so it makes all the feminist bitching about 30+ year-old men getting with women in their early 20s all the more hilarious.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's all good. I should have seen the sarcasm. It's just that a common libshit tactic is to find the one error, one mistake to a good point and try to drive a truck through it, and in doing so try to say the whole point is invalid. He had a very valid point on hypergamy but a crappy example. I thought the same libshit stunt was being pulled here, again I should have seen the sarcasm and realized that type of libshit stunt wouldnt fly here. It's the consequences of being on reeedit! too long.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
Ok Shamer.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
How many Chad coins do you have now?
I'm at 31.
Peasant.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
I only have 12. But I have a lot of virgin coins so HA!
On another note, I am more concerned with how the hell to unlock those secret achievements. I am missing about 15 of the top 50 and cannot figure it out.
Now THAT is peasantry!
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
Because he doesn't exist to be your personal emergency bail out plan when you fail to lock down a better option.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Misery loves company. Most women can't stand the idea that the guy they dumped is doing ok without her.
It's actually a pattern with these kinds of women to hate the men they dumped/divorced, to get others to hate him (like his children), and make him suffer - to drag him through the courts and make his life hell in whatever way she can. She shows no remorse and resembles a psychopath.
That's why a man thriving after a divorce or breakup is so awful. She doesn't want to see that, she wants to see him suffer so that she feels important and needed. She can't let go and will attempt to turn him into a monster in her own head so she feels validated in her decisions.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That's why so many have "Abusive" exs. Because they have to turn their ex into a monster to get themselves to think they themselves did nothing wrong.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The best revenge is a life well-lived.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
My favorite quote!
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Seethe, bitch!
No one cares about you.
You made your bed. You pissed in it, you shit in it and invited others to piss and shit in it.
Now you're all alone, left to sleep in the piss and shit bed that you made for yourself.
Boohoo. Cry me a river, build a bridge and get over it.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
It'll collapse.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
HA! Like the Feminist bridge
https://en-volve.com/2018/03/18/collapsed-fiu-bridge-built-by-radical-anti-white-feminist-company-who-bragged-about-hiring-unqualified-minority-employees/
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
LMAO yes!
That's exactly the event I had in mind, but couldn't remember the details.
Tag @IBelieveInTheFallen
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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
If you can prove it is fake, we will remove it and apologize. If not, we don't care you disagree.
Pic889 1y ago
I didn't disagree, in fact I said it's good content.
I can't prove it's fake, so your terms are accepted and I will stop here.
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 1y ago
You handled this well.
One of the reasons our mods adhere to certain rules is bad actors. And we never know who is a bad actor until it's too late.
Countless thousands of comments posts and news stories are spewed around the internet all day every day. Some of them are utterly laughable and come from places like CNN and WaPo.
So when someone zooms way in on a post that almost every man here has experienced in gory detail, it is hard to hear someone call it "fake".
I will speak only for myself - I do not want or need outrage porn (That's sort of what we're talking about here). I also think it is important to point out obvious lies or deception. But if the story fits our themes and seems plausible, the first thing I think when I see someone criticize it is, where's all the outrage about the child rape happening in Hollywood right now? Where's this "critical thinking" when it comes to the open flagrant violation of our Constitutional rights?
So I stand with my brothers on this one. If it sounds about right, that's all I need.
This story IS true, even if not for the 4chan OP - because I can point out a half dozen men who can raise their hands and testify to experiencing exactly that scenario.
So the story is true, if only a retelling.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
I understand. My position is that it has as much chance of being true at it does it being fake. If it is fake, it needs to be proven and it will be taken down if it is. That said, again, I understand. But we give undue credit to dumb bitches because of women are wonderful effect.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
With 4chan, you always must take every post with a grain of salt. Believe it, or don't. But it is a waste of time to say "this looks fake," as it is not really constructive. This story is not out of the realms of possibilities.