Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago Stickied
Okay gentlemen, let's stop and think about something here.
In this picture, there are fully armed men, running away from women.
FULLY ARMED MEN RUNNING AWAY FROM WOMEN!!!
Take that in.
Why?
Why do fully armed men need to run away from women?
Why can't they just poke a spear through her babbling mouth and be done with her for good?
In an actual caveman world - women would understand that they need men. They wouldn't run their mouths like that. They'd fear getting poked by that spear....
Only in today's gynocentric society, are women free enough, wealthy enough and safe enough to bitch and complain about absolutely everything.
Only in today's society, is there a phenomenon of fully armed men being afraid of unarmed women.
Because it isn't the woman who he fears, it's the government that backs her who he fears.
The problem is the government.
The reason the government is this way is because the government is elected by the people. The people empower the government to be tyrannical, communist, progressive shit heads.
Remember that.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
There's a term "chickenhawk" for someone who acts brave while asking others to do their fighting for them. In confrontations I had with feminists who would be arrogant about their entitlement victim status, I'd have precise arguments ready for their regurgitated beliefs and they'd be left stunned. Without government or chivalrous men around them, they're toothless and they'd utterly lose it. All they can do is hurl a slur (recently, one just yelled "incel!" over and over) and then say "discussion over!" and stomp her widdle feet as she runs away.
What we're seeing in modern society is that there's little advantage to men today to be white knights. 30 years ago, some of them would get laid and hope to win the coin toss and not get divorce raped. That largely is less and less the case today as they get perhaps to be a bailout at best for single mothers. The majority of these men I know from back then are divorced or incels.
We don't need to shame these men. Women do the job for us.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I always said that the biggest reason why people hated Trump, was because Trump represented daddy government. The entire political divide can heavily be summarized as one side wanting mommy government (nurturing, accommodating, helicopter), and the other side wants daddy government (tough love, will make sure you don’t starve to death in a dark alley but has no interest in saving you if you can’t save yourself). One is feminine, the other is masculine. We need a return to masculine government.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I hated Trump because he was a narcissist. Jordan Peterson did a good job of summarizing the right/left, masculine/feminine imperative as hierarchical vs communal imperatives. In a hierarchy, you have winners and losers but shit gets done. In a community, you take care of losers but shit doesn't get done. So in reality you need both systems so shit gets done and losers get taken care of.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
How about this. The masculine and feminine governments should fuck each other and leave us alone.
We need a return to small government. Neither side wants that.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I consider that masculine government, to be fair.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yet another tabloid "journalist", who can't afford rent, with average looks, got dumped by a guy who doesn't like women who hate men so she had to write an article about this "dangerous rise of men who won't date woke women".
reignoferror00 1y ago
Even if she has HUUUUUGE .... tracts of land, no man today wants to be trapped in a 'legal and binding way'. If they had to choose, they'd rather weigh as much as a duck. They'd have a fairer trial than a divorce one.
Bonzai-Shaihulud 1y ago
They do have turned me into a newt for a time, but I got better.
ScribhneoirIldanach Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
About 25 years ago, I posted on a early internet discussion group that I didn't date particular women (I won't go into detail, but it was controversial). Up to then, I had been mocked as an incel by leftists but suddenly, they went insane that I dared to have standards. It was strange for me that up to then, they considered it laughable that I should make any demands of a woman but suddenly having a standard sent them into a tailspin.
I read that this has been used in game whether it's to say, even (perhaps especially) if a girl has short hair, you prefer women with long hair, or you prefer women who can cook. The preference doesn't even have to be absolute. It simply signals to women that you have an "abundance" mindset that there's more than one fish in the sea which matters so greatly to them.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
"It was strange for me that up to then, they considered it laughable that I should make any demands of a woman but suddenly having a standard sent them into a tailspin"
Don't take this the wrong way, but they were surprised that you had the gall to have standards. They understand that Brad Pitt might have some standards, but for a regular man to consider himself worthy of someone better than themselves is what's galling. Sure, they're not models, but even as 300lb whales with 5 bastards in tow, they're still better than you.
That's their delusion. I remember seeing an old episode of Sex and The City where the characters were talking about "modelizers" i.e. men who date models. And one of the characters was thrown into a tizzy because some dumpy guy that she thought beneath her actually was a modelizer. And she felt that, if a guy like that could be dating models, then what chance does she stand of finding a decent guy.
What's left unsaid is that, assuming he's earning comfortable 6 figures, even if he's a short dumpy guy, he actually is equivalent to a female model. Earning 6 figures, especially when in your 30s, puts you in the top 10% of income earners in the country. Earning $250k puts you almost in the top 1%. Easily model territory if you define model-esque as being in the top 1% of looks.
When a man that they would reject as unsuitable actually has the temerity to reject them first, it fills them with rage. "Who does this guy think he is, Brad Pitt (who, BTW, would totally date me if he saw me, cuz I just bought these cute boots, teehee!)??" Accepting that you could have standards would imply they would have to compromise on theirs (it's a zero sum game). And that's one thing they'll never accept.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I don't take it the wrong way at all. I found it amusing precisely for the reason you mentioned: That they didn't think a loser such as me could DARE to have standards and it annoyed them that it reminded them of their own mortality. That it was possible for them to be rejected by someone (they believed) lower than them. They lived such entitled, protected lives that they didn't think it was possible to be rejected by men in or lower than their class (since they avoided it by waiting for men to make the first move).
It's a similar thing we see with "body acceptance". The same women who will dehumanize a guy whose just average in height as a hobbit will claim that men are cruel for not wanting to date overweight women. It's self-centeredness that's easy to trigger and even as they are anticipating this "neg" tactic better (calling out her weight if she asks how tall you are), it can still be used to push their buttons in a more subtle way.
My personal, fun thing to do back in the 1990's was to eat BEFORE a date and don't have an appetite. The less I ate, the more it called out her trying to mooch on my dime. So then I'd order a small salad and say I'm eating more healthy.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
I'm just waiting for the day these vapid cunts decide my choice of toothpaste is somehow "dangerous."
RedPill115 1y ago
I've read it's a political movement, since wpmen usually either follow or fight over guys, their goals is to rempve guys from the female equation entirely, so the the only thing they have left is to follow the feminist groupthink.
Turning women into landmines when interacting with men accomplishes that
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"Dangerous"
Nice dramatic headline. Next weeks headlines will exclaim:
"Men Commit Genocide When They Leave The Toilet Seat Up"
"Toxic Masculinity: Why Men Leave The Cap Off the Toothpaste Tube"
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
Brave Sir Robin ran away
bravely ran away, away
When evil showed its ugly head
he bravely turned his tail and fled
brave, brave, brave, brave Sir Robin
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
Where is that asshole with the coconuts at when you need him?
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Where's a fucking Holy Hand Grenade when you need one???
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
The real question is "Why do woke women want guys like us to pursue them when there are so many woke men who are eager to date them?"
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Women want better. They don't want equal and they certainly don't want inferior.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Because the woke guys eager to date them are men with no independent thought who are constantly shilling in the female frame for female causes, which is antithetical to attraction
RedPill115 1y ago
Right, but I think they're getting at that women typically don't want to date men who actually go along with their woke posturing.
Trans is the ultimate expression of this, she's trying to get you to mutilate your sexual bits which makes you physically undateable.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
I agree with you, too. What I was more so getting at was an unaddressed area of this
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Always amazes me how so many women are incapable of understanding basic male desires. It's like "men want sex" is the maximum extent of a lot of understanding of what men want and then these women have no curiosity to understand men further than that to their own detriment.
Even when a good amount of these (or other) women manage to -against all odds- snag a great guy, so many of them have just no desire to understand him.
It's a shame but not surprising given the climate that gives rise to this complete lack of motivation to understand men
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Excellent point. My only conclusion is that women believe that men exist to serve their purpose. Nothing more and nothing less.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
My only counter to that is that I have no idea what is going through the minds of women who actually seem to genuinely understand and love men.
Seems rare nowadays but they're out there. In the end, they probably at least subconsciously know treating their man well serves their own interests, but still. They've got to have some kind of different mental processes in some regard
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The difference is one believes she doesn't need a man and the other does need a man.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Duh, I can't believe I didn't realize this, it was in plain sight.
Thank you
master-of-losers 1y ago
In the article:
I guess not wanting to date a psycho is being sexist...