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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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Mark_Freed 4y ago
This whole experiment with giving individuals freedom in sexual matters is blowing up in our face… it is hilarious.
ConfigAlchemist 4y ago
You should x-post this to r/ProRevenge
RobStonman 4y ago
Karma bitch.
hongsta2285 4y ago
I hope op of this is well he deserved it he went through hell and back.. all the best to him and his new lease on life
smashard69 4y ago
This happened to me. Woman in my life, we get pregnant a little girl. I get cancer. She then carvs my little girl out of my life and goes and marries another man. I made it through the stage 4 colon cancer and I have not seen my baby girl or her in 4 years.
ThrowawayYAYAY2002 4y ago
Excellent work, OP. Stirling work.
He got his health back, he got to turn the tables on her, and he got to come out on top. A true winner.
Women like the one mentioned are the cancer. But, y'know, he probably wasn't showing her attention, what with having a terminal illness etc. Fuck her.
psmithers1991 4y ago
Male dating advice subreddit - I thought I’d ask here since there’s so many red pilled men in this sub. Anyone recommend one?
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
No luck on Subreddits.
Try the PUA guys on youtube. Red Man group. Joker (MGTOW), and Rollo Tomossi.
KoloGupta 4y ago
Darius M on YouTube gives good advice.
Homicidal_Reluctance 4y ago
yeah - don't do it
bryonwart 4y ago
This was a great read and she absolutely got what she deserved.
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Stahlboden 4y ago
When a woman enters the dating market she is at her best already, give or take. The exception is if she had something like obesity or any similar condition decreasing her value and then overcame it.
sicrm 4y ago
yep she’s a single mom that won and found a way to lose anyway.
CriticalEscapeBike 4y ago
Karma is a bitch, and she has a nasty temper :)
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
Winning is a tool of the patriarchy!!!
Winning winning winning is MAGA muh soggy knees hate speech January 6 level insert erection.
CFClarke7 4y ago
A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything, a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing
lateraltrickery 4y ago
This is true
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Then these hoes aint loyal.
finger_milk 4y ago
I feel bad for her kids. You can see the ex's daughter reaching out to him, is partly the ex convincing her daughter that she made a big mistake, plus that daughter is trying to break the cycle and get her mom back with him. Maybe it would give her family a better life, siphoning his bottomless pocket straight into her moms without as much as a thank you.
After this sort of thing happens to a guy, if you hadn't already learned the lesson, you will learn it then. The fallacy is the belief that a man's generosity and support is 100% not taken for granted.
JohnnySkidmarx 4y ago
Well maybe she did her daughter a huge favor. Maybe her daughter will learn never to do this to a good man.
Anderfail 4y ago
Guarantee she never told her daughter she cheated on him.
mustangfrank 4y ago
It would be told differently that he cheated on her.
RuskinBondFan 4y ago
"Women have desires" - the momma probably.
"You are empowered" - the daughter probably.
ZarBandit 4y ago
I don’t. The daughter chose to fade too. You make your choices and deal with the decisions. Welcome to the adult world.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Agreed. The OP doesn't specify his dynamic with the daughter, but it appears that she stopped coming around when her mom did (i.e. before the actual breakup). If she truly valued having the OP in her life, she would have found a way to stay in touch with him. Even if her mom forbid it, she could at least make a few phone calls, even if it's to ask him to speak to her mom to allow the daughter to come by once in a while.
None of that appears to have happened. The minute the mom left, the daughter did too. Both of them only started coming back around once they realized he might have been a tasty meal ticket after all. Like mother, like daughter.
LokisDawn 4y ago
I can't really agree. I just can't find it in myself to blame a 11-12 year old kid for behaviours they think will ensure their parent likes them. Sure, OP was also kind of one, but kind of and knowingly are worlds apart.
Guman children are programmed to behave in ways which make it unlikely for their parents to abandon them. Not that it's guaranteed to work or anything. But I can't blame her for being loyal to her mother, esp. at that young an age.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Sure, I don't hold her as responsible as I do the mother. She's a kid, and yeah, it's tough if you're forced to choose between your biological mother vs. someone who's not yet officially your stepfather, and was maybe in your life for only a few years. So I get what your saying.
But also, there's no indication that now she truly wants him as a father, and isn't just either being manipulated by her mother (who might have encouraged her to call him in hopes of guilt tripping him) or still sees him as nothing more than a bailout of her own. The OP doesn't give enough details to know for sure, so I guess I shouldn't condemn her outright. You're right about that. But neither is it clear that the daughter's intentions are fully pure and noble here.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
The problem is she had TWO parents and she CHOSE the one she liked and discarded the one she intended to use. The cunt sure doesn't fall far from the rotten crotch.
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JSimmons6703 4y ago
Exactly.. She doesn't understand her own nature. She just wants someone to take care of her Mom.. Crab Bucket
maruadventurer 4y ago
More truthful than you know.
polishknightusa 4y ago
Hahahah! Good one! That hadn't occurred to me...
kidruhil 4y ago
Exactly. It's sad what that kid is gonna go through but it's not that dudes problem. Let the dying slut provide for her own spawn.
DecimatingDarkDeceit 4y ago
You make me remember my childhood ptsd/trauma... :[
SCCock 4y ago
Just spewed DMD on my monitor!
mustangfrank 4y ago
DMD?
SCCock 4y ago
Sorry. Diet Mountain Dew.
vegieta 4y ago
DMD
LokisDawn 4y ago
Isn't dynamite.
D M D
I'll lose any fight.
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I had a so-called friend be briefly apart of my life. At one point she begged to move in with me to escape her awful, evil mother.
Said "friend" screamed at me on more than one occasion and Mom was far nicer to me than "friend" ever was.
May the rest of your days be spent walking on sewing needles and broken glass, Beth, you histrionic banshee.
bryonwart 4y ago
I did a captian-save-a-hoe move and moved a girl into my place because of her "evil" mother. Harbored her for 2 years...2 Thanksgivings, 2 Christmases...no rent and treated her like a queen only to come back from a trip early to catch her fucking her "evil" ex boyfriend in my place. The first time in my life when I realized how easy it would have been to kill the both of them and go back to AZ that night then into Mexico.... Then when she left she dated a junkie and posted on social media about how great he was and how great her holidays with him were while when I was with her "no one could know"...like I was a embarassment.
Goldmansachs3030 4y ago
I was drinking H2O when i read this, thanks, now i have tears in my eyes.
LordFlakkko 4y ago
Did she have tattoos?
bryonwart 4y ago
Nope...but she did have piercings
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bryonwart 4y ago
I went downstairs to my studio opened 2 bottles of vodka, called some outlaws in AZ I know and asked them to tell me why I shouldn't drag them to the basement, kill them and leave for Mexico. Half way through the second bottle they convinced me it's not me..that I'm the good guy they look up to, not outlaws like them. I ended up passing out and woke up not happy the next day. She wasn't worth throwing my life away for. I stopped being Captain-save-a-ho Beta Billy after that.
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bryonwart 4y ago
Yeah. He knew I existed and yep the pussy stopped after that...it was rare before then. She was straight up using me but I was to pussy-stupid to see it. Her mom was literally a older version so I should have seen the warning lights but I thought I could rescue her. She was smoking hot...a literal 8-9 out of 10 and I a fool. She didn't find me passed out...she literally hugged me and said she was sorry like I was going to forgive her, and I almost did.
Substantial-Boat4796 4y ago
It's OK, man. It's only because of this forum that I didn't do the same thing as you. I almost let a born-again ex-stripper, three-time divorced, with 2 baby daddies and 2 kids that she had abandoned, move in with me.
I had thought I was lonely. Now I know I wasn't. I was just bored.
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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago
No violence.
bryonwart 4y ago
Yep.
KoloGupta 4y ago
Fucking LOL!! I've seen this happen many times. Great catch.
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NuclearTheology 4y ago
So? There are plenty of other subs where people can complain and mock the behavior of the incel to their hearts content. This sub is focused on the women and their decisions in these posts, not the men.
Personally, I won’t mock incels, because I know what they’re going through and mocking them does no one any good. They’re hurt, broken, and many of their valid complaints about how they’re treated are dismissed out of hand by people who claim to care about mental health.
KoloGupta 4y ago
You've just described women, not men. Men will find hobbies to occupy themselves with. They can do just fine, solo.
Insufferable mothers trying to be offloaded by their frustrated daughters are very real.
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KoloGupta 4y ago
If their interest is in getting laid, why would they need to get together with other men?
How is your point relevant to the topic?
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KoloGupta 4y ago
This is not an incel sub. The discussion has to do with insufferable women.
A woman past her prime and unpleasant to be around is of no value to anyone. In this discussion, the woman shat on everyone who cared about her, is now broke, and borderline destitute.
Your response itself is thoroughly irrelevant. Men don't to hang out with other men based on looks. Any complaints of being ugly have to do with women not wanting the incels, not of other men not wanting them.
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polishknightusa 4y ago
Story ya all might appreciate: My wife has a Russian single mother friend with a daughter and recently the daughter immigrated to live with the mother. The mother was a real user: 4 marriages where she divorced raped the guys, she tends to take advantage of others, and is otherwise selfish and manipulative. (OK, note that she was useful in that she gave sometimes very useful medical and financial advice. We don't talk to her anymore.)
The daughter's father is a big shot in Russia and wired $25,000 to the daughter to buy a new car for herself. The mother cried to the daughter to get a used car and spend the rest on food but the daughter bought a new Chevy and... smashed it into a telephone pole a few months later (it got mostly fixed.) The daughter after establishing herself moved out to a nice apartment and lived well and did nothing to help the mother even though the mother got her naturalized.
Sometimes the fruit doesn't fall far from the tree...
kidruhil 4y ago
I mean it doesn't sound like the single mom deserved any of the dads charity money for his daughter.
mustangfrank 4y ago
Anna Nicole Smith, the playboy centerfold, had a mother she never talked to. Anna made millions and never sent any to her mother in Houston. Mom was a police officer.
lateraltrickery 4y ago
Let us not forget that Anna was broke by the time her hubby passed away.
maruadventurer 4y ago
Personal Observation:
Mother-Daughter relationships are really tight or they are nonexistent to the point of 'who are you?'
lateraltrickery 4y ago
Anna was left with nothing after her husband died. If memory serves me she became an addict and died soon after
bouncedeck 4y ago
The really old guy she thought she was going to inherit money from?
lateraltrickery 4y ago
Yup. Left her with nothing
bouncedeck 4y ago
That is not surprising really I mean he left his money to his kid. She played herself.
BusinessBear53 4y ago
She had a better life than she would have gotten otherwise. Should have planned ahead and put money away for the future instead of depending on a big pay day.
bouncedeck 4y ago
I mean.. I guess? She met him in a strip club and was married to him for a year, then tried to sue his son out of his inheritance. I don't have a lot of sympathy for her really. I would say her son died directly as a result of her behavior as well.
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Optimal_Wendigo_4333 4y ago
That man is a legend. He kept his composure not only after his diagnosis (a lot of people would fall apart) but also took that cheating cunt's behavior in his stride. And he came out on top of everything. It's good to see good guys win!
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But remember, guys:
It's MEN who always do this to WOMEN. Women never ever ever do this to men. Nope. Nuh uh, never ever.
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ButMessiDeservedIt 4y ago
Name of the politician please haha.
SwinginPastMyKnees_ 4y ago
Dayum. Karma is a B.
Extension-Soil-620 4y ago
I love happy endings.
And i am not talking about my weekly thai Massage center visit.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
That's not even karma. She knew she had her neurological issues, and knew about the invoices. That's plain stupidity.
tiernach 4y ago
I have found that Karma is often many times more ruthless than we would ever be.
CriticalEscapeBike 4y ago
It is indeed a beautiful thing :)
madbadjer 4y ago
You are ruthless my man. Keep that spirit, dont be bitter about it, but burn the home of those who wrong you in such an evil way. Happy your doing better.
mustangfrank 4y ago
I like happy endings.
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nyaisagod 4y ago
Why would you destroy her daughter’s life? She didn’t do anything bad
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Women routinely use the children as a way to hurt the man.
I have only seen the man do this a couple of times.
Hurting the children is ruthless. Being polite and refusing to take her back after calling out the whore? That's just poetry.
Stunner900 4y ago
“To test a woman’s character give her nothing. To test a man’s character give him everything.”
Adventurous_Program6 3y ago
Precise
Open_Sentence_5222 4y ago
Wow.
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Um.... Holy fuck. I got to the FUCKING A-BOMB DROP then I had to comment.
A woman once told me that she was married to a man and they were riding a quad around the property. He let her drive and he was on the back. "Somehow" he fell off the back and got paralyzed. She took care of him for a year or so before she "had to turn him over to his mom" and get a divorce. This fucking floozy....
LegoJack 4y ago
This king dropped his crown:
Saianna 4y ago
this man is a goddamn hero.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
It's a great story. But how many men would have never known about the "friend"? Or wouldn't have survived the cancer, and the kids would be left with a smaller inheritance because of the ex? Or wound't have had the invoices as proof, having done everything from their pocket? The only person who'll have your back is yourself.
Also, how does someone who knows about having a neurological disease that will limit one's life eventually has the audacity to end a relationship by saying "I can't see myself taking care of someone this sick"? Did she think her friend's magical cock would heal her?
shrinkshooter 4y ago
We'll leave aside the likely notion that there are far more people out there who are absolutely, unabashedly, shamelessly hypocritical than we'd ever suspect, and for the sake of argument claim it was for selfishly pragmatic reasons.
You're a middle aged mom who is looking for security and someone to take care of you when your disease begins degenerating your body and mind. You've got some time to find someone who you can snag to do this. You can't rely on your children because you don't want to be a constant burden on them and they've got lives to live, so find a man who can provide and will be willing to do so even as you decompose expeditiously. Okay, you find one, but then he gets cancer and starts looking really ragged. Oh no. Your future caretaker safety net is now out the window, this guy is a middle aged man and he's gonna kick the bucket.
Time to quit while ahead and drop the losses on that investment and find another sucker who has a much greater chance to make good on the future babysitter promise. Hypocrisy be damned, you can't have a cancer ridden or dead man taking care of you when you become Gollum.
CarpAndTunnel 4y ago
yeah, she played this very poorly. Many woman would rush the marriage to drain assets off a weak partner
Buster_Cherry92 4y ago
That's the thing. He was sick right away, but she had a little bit of time. She took it as an opportunity to do whatever she wanted without a single thought of how it would affect him. The epitome of selfishness.
daystoweeks 4y ago
Selfish to the end. I won't pretend to be surprised.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Well, we did feature a fine lady here in the past who pursued "healing" via swallowing loads from a random dude in a club:
https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/q2od0l/gentleman\_gets\_charged\_an\_extra\_131445\_minutes/
Personally, I'd love this fallacy (phallacy?) to spread. Sort of like how women convinced each other that learning how to pole dance was a good way to exercise / be empowered.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
Magic wand healing - the new new age.
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LokisDawn 4y ago
Using the utmost of the benefit of the doubt, to strenuous degrees, maybe thinking "One could work, but two people needing care in a relationships won't work". She wouldn't be 100% wrong just for that, if OP did not get better I would foresee some tragedy. But, that tragedy is still better than betrayal by text. I also doubt those were her thoughts.
theLOLbird 4y ago
Still... One as to fathom at her sheer lack of long term strategical thinking. I do believe it was audacious AF and just plain S_T_U_P_I_D. To think that this person has the right to vote, while she can't even strategically anticipate this outcome in her own life... No wonder western democracy is doomed.
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Not that I'm saying it's better or anything, but it would have been considerably wiser on her part to keep banging the long life friend while working threw it with OP... Best case scenario, they get threw it and he takes care of her in the future... Worse case scenario, he doesn't make it and she sacrifices 1 year taking care of him to eventually inherit something significant (likely assumption), while sacrificing none of her sexual desires.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
It was doomed the second they passed the 19th Amendment. Women vote for tingles. They vote for the Hawwt guy. They vote for free shit. They do not vote for the guy who is best for the country.
Witness poopypants Biden...cuz, you know, Trump acted like and ass and embarrassed us on the word stage. Not as bad as shitting on the both the Pope and the Princess but still.
So we are poor, but no mean tweets! Because FEELZ is the only thing that is REALZ.
Overkillengine 4y ago
She probably had gone her entire life prior to that point being bailed out and getting away with using men like kleenex.
Works until one day it doesn't.
KoloGupta 4y ago
They don't have the ability to think or plan further than two hours ahead.
Buster_Cherry92 4y ago
99% don't. The one's that do have the ability to plan ahead are extremely dangerous. You can easily spot them though, they're the one's that have been "widowed" 3 or 4 times.
ThrowawayYAYAY2002 4y ago
Well said. Sometimes once, if that.
I know a woman who's first serious relationship was with a man who got a savagely long jail sentence 6 months into their relationship. I know her really well, so imagine seeing her on a train with three mobile phones and just herself! Hmm. This was about ten years ago too, so someone like her has been a schemer since the early 2000's.
I think the most dangerous of all are the ones who learn from the mistakes of other women, when doing underhanded/sneaky shit. They have a fucking plethora of knowledge and devious tactics.
Buster_Cherry92 4y ago
Yup. I'd say you have to be extremely careful when picking a wife, but honestly the only way to stay in the clear is to never get married in the first place. You truly never know until it's too late. Forget about marriage, even just catching feelings is a major problem. You can bet anything those feelings will be extorted.
ThrowawayYAYAY2002 4y ago
Agreed.
I wanted to get married, I really did. But when the Ex crossed certain boundaries, I had to take it all off the table. I'd never get married now.
Spot on regarding catching feelings.
The great Patrice O'Neal said it best when he said the best way to love someone is to love them 90% and save 10% for you in case they ain't shit. Words to live by!
Buster_Cherry92 4y ago
Love that. He was one of the greats; way ahead of his time.
ThrowawayYAYAY2002 4y ago
He really was. Imagine him today? He'd be a god.
I'm actually listening to his stuff right now. A true genius.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
You can identify them by their lists. They will have lists of shit to do and YOUR TASKS will be checkmarked or initialed.
KoloGupta 4y ago
Hahaha. More than one dead husband, and it's strictly coincidental bad luck that finds them like a heat-seeking missile. I wonder how effectively they're able to pull the victim card.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Or let her husband work overtime to pay for schooling, then file for divorce once she has her degree. Tag /u/KoloGupta
KoloGupta 4y ago
Damn, I dated one of these. Her husband worked two jobs to put her through nursing school. Once she got settled in, he went to school for an education degree.
The moment she became Lord of the Finances, she started crapping on him, big time. She filed for divorce and her legal cost was $70k. They had shared weekly custody of their son. She made more than he did, so she had to pay him some child support. He got remarried in less than a year, popped out his second kid (new wife's first), and already had his wife pregnant with their second. She hadn't had any LTRs in the three divorced years until I showed up.
The ex husband really gave it to her via the court. In the year she and I dated, he randomly dragged her to court three times and won every judgment. He got a nice ten grand extra from her in that year alone. He'd been doing it nonstop once their divorce was finalized. It was great for me as well. She would be so upset, she'd have me over to lay some soothing pipe for several days in a row. Kudos to the ex-husband.
I got tired of the constant power struggles and her turning into a vicious cunt when she didn't get her way. No man has given her a second glance ever since I walked, and she has hit the wall catastrophically.
Lesson learned with dating a divorced woman is that you'll very quickly find out why she got divorced and it'll rarely be the ex-husband's doing.
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Buster_Cherry92 4y ago
Sickening, but not surprising.
Far_Comparison_5263 4y ago
This is justice porn right here
Funny_Wolverine_9 4y ago
Stay. Away. From. Single. Moms.
This is the advice all men need to drill in their heads. Nothing good ever comes from single mom's. They see you as an ATM to support their irresponsible lifestyle.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I legit pumped my fist in the air then started clapping after I finished reading this. The man not only beat cancer, he got to unleash an Omnislash-like Limit Break on his shady, deceitful ex who had ALL the karma dumped on her.
Marfi09 4y ago
This type of posts puzzle me and fear me out of traditional western marriage. He stayed with her more than 4 years and only then her true face got revealed!
vizualdesperado88 4y ago
He spoke to her with much more compassion than wouldve been able to muster
theLOLbird 4y ago
Legend!
Degenerate_Senpai 4y ago
Sounds like the plot to a Dhar Mann video.
chankletavoladora 4y ago
Fuckng legend brother. Id buy you a beer if I meet you in person. Fucking legend!
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We have wills of our own and choices too?
Psh.
also, based and common sense pilled.
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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Rule 4. Don't ask for or provide the orginal subreddit that the post came from.
IoSonCalaf 4y ago
I didn’t
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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Rule 4. Don't ask for or provide the orginal subreddit that the post came from.
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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Yikes. Sorry Rule 7. I'm still getting the hang of the mod thing :)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Both rule 4 and rule 7 apply in this case.
thewanderer2389 4y ago
The utter hypocrisy of someone with a chronic illness saying that they don't want to help someone with their chronic illness. My dad has MS and he worked tirelessly to support the family despite his disease for over a decade. Glad that the woman in the OP got what she deserved.
Jabronskyi 4y ago
An eye for an eye, fellas. Don't you think?
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
A) don't directly link to other subreddits.
B) rule 3.
Natriumzyanid 4y ago
Enjoyable <3
Fancuku 4y ago
We all owe that man a beer.
3HardWay 4y ago
I'm getting hung up on the detail about the home repair. It seems really odd to me that he could have his own companies do the work, withhold the invoices, then later came after her with penalties... Huge conflict of interest if nothing else. Sure he's entitled to fair compensation for the work, but "interest" after not even billing for the work?
washerelastweek 4y ago
OP, you are such a bad man :) I wish you all the best and good health.
Mission-Document5257 4y ago
What a horrible and all-too-common story.
jonayo23 4y ago
This is one of the best stories that I've read, my best wishes to this man
polishknightusa 4y ago
This should be made into a Hallmark Channel Christmas story: "Ho ho ho homeless!"
mustangfrank 4y ago
Oh it will be on the Hallmark channel. Guess who will be the villian? Not the woman that is for sure.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
The Bitch that stole Christmas?
cope_seethe_dilate_ 4y ago
Unfathomably based
TexasMilitia 4y ago
That awkward moment when you’re monkey branching, slip on a coconut, and fall straight to the ground landing on your big fat stupid head.
PirateDocBrown 4y ago
I love a happy ending.
Robin2Fast2Furious 4y ago
You should not feel any remorse because you did not do anything wrong morally nor legally.
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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
Fuck off.
Stop blaming men for women's bad choices.
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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
I can't understand retards like you.
Are humans capable of making choices? Yes or no? You can't have it both ways.
In your retarded mind, you - as a man - are capable of making choices. You can choose to act strong or weak or anything else. But she - as a woman - will simply react to your actions. As if she's incapable of choice.
We're either capable of choice or we aren't. You can't have it both ways.
Regardless, here at WAATGM, you're allowed to be retarded, as long as your retardation is within the rules. You are not allowed to blame men for women's choices. Go somewhere else to do that.
mscordia 4y ago
> Are humans capable of making choices?
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No. Not really.
No event happens spontaneously. Nothing happens without a cause. No reaction can be made outside of the boundaries of physics. No choice can be made with total independence because we live in a material universe.
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Just like I can't defy my urge to share my point of view with someone who doesn't care and would probably refuse to understand, the woman in question couldn't defy her nature to seek a better, healthy partner. That dude didn't choose to get cancer either. Life doesn't give a fuck about our presumed "free will".
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
In that case, he can't stop himself from becoming weak.
If we can't make choices in life, there's no point discussing anything or in trying to understand anything about gender dynamics. Because you're incapable of choosing differently anyway.
Oh boy.... you really are retarded.
You're right that you can't defy physics. But you absolutely can choose right from wrong.
Cheating is a choice, not a law of physics. You're equating the two and that makes you retarded.
Except that people absolutely do defy these urges each and every day.
Because people are capable of choosing right from wrong. We aren't slaves to our biological instincts.
NoonTimeHoopsMVP 4y ago
How does the old country song go? "You find out who your friends are."
That was a tough read. Even with the happy ending, it is still chilling. All that love and affection meant nothing to her.
maruadventurer 4y ago
It was opportunity and convenience, not love and affection.
Joaquino7997 4y ago
This man should be given the (unofficial) Medal of Ultimate Savagery.
And he in no way, shape, form nor fashion, should feel the least bit guilty for what he said and did to that woman.
mustangfrank 4y ago
dividendje 4y ago
Jesus
CriticalEscapeBike 4y ago
Yes?
LVL50JustThisGuy 4y ago
I caught this on a TTS channel on YT.
Ever Brilliant!!
omegajelly200 4y ago
It's so easy to say you love someone during the best of times, but it is only during the worst of times that the bullshits are exposed, the lies are uncovered, that you truly, really see if a person loves you as he/she claims.
roughback 4y ago
Truly the Christmas story that never gets old.
CriticalEscapeBike 4y ago
My hero.
NTA :)
TheGalator 4y ago
Her daughters have my pity. This has to suck.
Otherwise I gratulate this man.
Thinguy123 4y ago
I assume his business is being the CEO of the Based Department
BendFire420 4y ago
My man isn't the CEO, he's the shareholder that the CEO of Based answers to.
Blackbarnabyjones 4y ago
BASED.
Gloval1 4y ago
So she knows she has a disease that is going to downgrade her health and wanted to build a future with the guy, but as soon as he faces a challenge she bails. That's some A+ human-ing right there.
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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
Rule 3
Nanitowalito 4y ago
You are right, it is my opinion I have no way to prove it is made up. Wont happen again I will abide by the rules of the sub and drop it.
LandscapeClear1630 4y ago
Oh man, I looooove reading posts like this!
buttercup_1511039 4y ago
Oh god
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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Rule 3 violation. He never said he got the interest paid, only that at the end, the cost of the settlement (he never broke down how much of the settlement was for the actual work vs interest vs legal fees vs whatever), lawyers fees, etc. left her with only $10k after the house was sold.
Regardless, questioning his legal strategy isn't evidence that this post is fake. If you have actual tangible evidence that this post is fake, feel free to DM the mods with it and we'll take the post down.
Or if you only want to opine about whether his legal strategy would work or not, then edit your comment and remove the allegations that the whole post is fake and I'll put it back up.
justtenofusinhere 4y ago
I would think the fact that the entire legal potion of the tale is patently incorrect, despite the assistance of an attorney would be proof enough. If not, keep it down.
bobobobobobobobobob0 4y ago
Incomprehensibly based
gfgdhj5784yu8 4y ago
See a lot of shit on tv and film where women sticking by their man when he is down..... never happens in real life.
RunawayGrain 4y ago
Dude needs to build himself a new house with enough floor space for his gargantuan brass balls.
Thinguy123 4y ago
I heard you can buy a token certificate for some acres of land in the moon for around $20.
If we pool together our money we can buy the entire moon.
Then we need to ask Elon if Mars can house the other one.
mohd_sm81 4y ago
she thinks the world revolves around her
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Comment removed for rule 3.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
We usually profile posts from women looking for men, but occasionally it's good to see posts from the man's side of these interactions as well. While the OP being able to get his money back when she sold her house is a nice cherry on top, I think this post highlights the extreme lengths to which women expect relationships to be a one way street.
The truth is, good men do exist. But you need to be a good woman to attract them. It's the latter point that always get lost on women, who either want reassurance that actually all men are pigs or that if there are good men they're being shallow / insecure / blah blah blah in not choosing her. Either way, there's never any introspection about "how can I be the type of woman that a good man finds attractive?"
In this case, the woman in question had an amazing man, someone who accepted and welcomed her children, and planned a committed, joint life together even knowing that she had a chronic illness that would eventually leave her debilitated and needing his care. But the minute he got sick, and needed even temporary care to get through chemo and radiation, she bailed. But when the tables turned and he's healthy again and her illness is catching up to her, she's all of a sudden asking to get back together.
I'm sure when she complains to her girlfriends, she'll paint it as this guy isn't willing to help her when she's sick, that he's the one bailing on her. But of course that's not true. He knew about her illness and was still willing to marry her and take care of her. It's only when she showed she wouldn't do the same that he decided not to get back together.
The true shortage is of good women, not good men. But of course, realizing that would require far more introspection than she has, or that any of the women profiled here have.
LegoJack 4y ago
If they were any less self aware they'd be dead.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Since you're explaining why this post is an exception to rule 5, you should distinguish and sticky this comment. You ought to distinguish the post as well.
ronoda12 4y ago
Most men are good. Same cannot be said of women. That is evident from divorce stats where 80% of divorces are filed by women. Also convicted men have more progenies than non-convicted men on average which means women are biased towards choosing criminal men over good men.
WeRAllOnThisBlessedD 4y ago
Yes they do. The problem for these women is that they put these good men firmly in the friendzone while she focused on other things, like Chad.
Then, when she’s 35, still single, surrounded by cats and empty wine bottles, she’ll look back on her life of fiNdiNG hErSeLf, traveling, her many Instagram posts of cocktail nights with the girls, the memories of all the casual sex that was so liberating and exciting at the time, the times she and her girlfriends told themselves that they were truly happy while they got drunk at the latest rooftop bar, and then it will hit her. Suddenly, her truth will become crystal clear: it’s not her fault. Society is to blame. Men are the reason why she couldn’t find a good man.
She’ll track down the great guy she friendzoned back in her 20s and DM him hoping against hope that he still wants her. Of course he still wants her. She’s just as hot as she was at 28, right? He still hasn’t found anyone, and he’s good and loyal. He’ll be there. At this point though, he’ll have moved on. He’ll have a great career and a beautiful wife that mothered his children. If he bothers to respond, he’ll say “no thanks, but I hope everything is going well” like the good man that he is, and then block her. She’ll cry, drink another box of wine, make a whining Instagram post, open up tinder to have some guy come over to fuck her, and the cycle will continue.
ThrowawayYAYAY2002 4y ago
All of this post is money, but that last paragraph is gold.
It's a tale as old as time. That heartbroken man goes onto find a woman who is everything he wants in a woman and more, settles with her, lives a great life, creates a family, and they are genuinely happy and it stays that way... and then the Ex comes back. Too little, too late. Hun.
In a way, it must be so fucking satisfying being the man in that position. And it always plays out that way, always.
I've seen a few women try and wriggle their way back into my friends lives and I'll tell you this, those women never met a guy like my buds. Never. Loyal, great earners, family men, proper decent people. Must be crushing to lose that.
Women, the grass isn't always greener...
mustangfrank 4y ago
The story of Carol in the recommended reading better explains what you did. It is a masterpiece that all men should read.
NoRecommendation2007 4y ago
Trust me, I have eavesdropped some of the conversations that the girls in my class make ( dont blame me, my life is not so interesting so i try to get a little masala from anywhere I can) and if what I have heard is correct and if they represent women as a whole ,then I can 100 percent, tell you that, this girl wont realize what her mistake was at all.
Goldmansachs3030 4y ago
Hi, fellow.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
And as many of us know, as a man if you struggle to find a partner you are always “encouraged” to self reflect as to why
Either through things like the red pill encouraging you to improve yourself
Or through women screaming online about how you don’t “deserve x, y, or z” - be it sex, a woman, love or anything
But that energy seems to be rarely applied to women. Often because they do what they tell men to do be attractive to women rather than what is attractive to men. But also because some feel they don’t need to
An example is single mothers who still make no effort to win a man over. You see it all the time. They should know that they are starting at a deficit and that they have more to prove. But many don’t. We don’t exist in a world where if a man is desperate for an heir he might take someone of “proven fertility”.
But it doesn’t apply exclusively to single mothers
polishknightusa 4y ago
My theory for why single mothers don't see it as a deficit: I traveled with my daughter alone when my wife was with relatives and I felt like a rock star. People were nicer to me perhaps because as a man, having a child in two showed that I was taking care of a child on my own rather than just the mother looking after them. Even with mothers, they probably do get better treatment with a child in tow than a normal person would such as priority seating in restaurants, etc. Besides, who wants to look like a "baddie" and call a child baggage? She LOVES her child ("it's her world!") and you should too.
When a woman is young, she also enjoys the luxury of being demanding and that not hurting her chances to still get hit on by decent men. They come to the conclusion that their "queen" attitude is, in itself, attractive. I saw a similar, but rare, phenomenon with a chad I know: He ranted about politics to women continually and the women sort of looked bored but put up with it because they wanted to sleep with him. He could have read from the phone book (haha! if one of those exists anymore) and she would have still listened to him but he believed that women were in love with his politics rather than his good looks.
mustangfrank 4y ago
I was a wingman to a Chad, and you are correct.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
That last bit is like “The Bubble” from 30 Rock
CriticalEscapeBike 4y ago
I couldn't find one, but, I found this: https://seattle.craigslist.org/est/zip/d/issaquah-harley-hahns-internet-web-1997/7419559754.html
mustangfrank 4y ago
I worked with a man who married a single mom. She had 2 young boys. They were together for about 5 years. He paid for her RN degree. One year later, she dumped him and stuck him with $5,000 in credit card debt. That was 25 years ago, so that would be about $15,000 today.
She worked in a prison as a RN, and started hanging out with the ex-cons who were released i.e. bikers, gangbangers, thugs, etc. True story, nothing made up.
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mustangfrank 4y ago
I was laid off from an offshore oil drilling company due to the oil price crash of 2015. I knew a salesman who sold repair services to the company I worked for, and he got laid off within 6 weeks after I did. He was as solid a Joe as you could get. He was active in his church i.e. Sunday school for children, events for adult singles. He was active in the Home Owners Association and City Government. He asked me one day how to write rules limiting access to a new meeting center the city had built, so as to prevent groups like the KKK and Radical Muslims from using it while allowing access for groups like the Boy and Girl Scouts. He was involved with his kids after school activities i.e. soccer for the girls, baseball and football for the boys. He had 5 children and was married for close to 10 years. 5 months into his layoff, his wife filed for divorce. He eventually found work after 8 months of searching.
His wife was a stay at home mom, and she stayed with him as long as the checks cleared, then dumped him when they stopped. How often does this happen? She was like most women, first into monogamy and first out when the resource stream dried up or a better one could be found.
BTW Hans was abused all during their marriage. She would slap him or insult him in front of the children. One night he stayed in a hotel to stay away from the abuse. The abuse was present all the time they were together. Why her put up with it, I don’t know.
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Man, I've seen you post some stories over and over. I don't blame you, they're good stories. I have some, myself. Sometimes people don't believe them but I try to never lie; it's reality.
This story shakes me to the core. Stories of women married 10+ years "getting bored" and initiating divorce... How could a man ever trust a woman in these times?
mustangfrank 4y ago
Put some of your stories here. We all can learn from them.
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mustangfrank 4y ago
I worked with a man who married a single mom. She had 2 young boys. They were together for about 5 years. He paid for her RN degree. One year after she got her RN degree, she dumped him and stuck him with $5,000 in credit card debt. That was 25 years ago, so that would be about $15,000 today.
She worked in a prison as a RN, while married, and started hanging out with the ex-cons who were released i.e. bikers, gangbangers, thugs, etc. after work. This is when she left him. No doubt she was fucking these dirt bags. True story, nothing made up.
SCCock 4y ago
She bailed before our hero got sick by banging her "friend." The cancer just made it official.
LandscapeClear1630 4y ago
Just the fact she had a "lifelong male friend" is a red flag in and of itself.
macnof 4y ago
In my experience it's only a modest one at best. Several of my mates and myself have at least one "lifelong female friend" that we haven't and won't have any sexual relationship with.
SCCock 4y ago
True dat.
mustangfrank 4y ago
That he ignored. The OP sounds like a Blue Pill, but was made into a Red Pill by ex.
Traksimuss 4y ago
Those who do not take red pill voluntarily, often get it as forced suppository.
theLOLbird 4y ago
Lol, loved it!
I sure got mine in suppository.
warlocc_ 4y ago
The truth is, most of us did.
Pemrocks 4y ago
Click to see if it’s fake, see huge wall of text realise it’s genuine
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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
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syncopekid 4y ago
Ain't no one the hero in this situation
trpatty 4y ago
So, on the one hand we have the man, who:
planned a future together with a woman
planned this future despite knowing she would be disabled and need long term care from him
invested his own money and time into planning the build of a home to accommodate her disability
was faithful to her
welcomed her and her child into his life and home
even after getting dumped, took care of her personal items and returned them to her
On the other hand, we have the woman, who:
after planning a life with a man, dumps him when he is sick and needs her most
does this breakup by text
fucks around on him “with a lifelong friend” while they are planning a future together
doesn’t pay the debt that she knows she owes him for the 5-figure sum of money he spent improving her home
Yet your silly ass is sitting here with that “bOtH siDeS ArE tHE sAmE!!1!” bullshit? Nonsense. There is a clear hero in this story.
FlicksterTrickster 4y ago
We have a clear villain. And someone who defeated that villain. How is the one who defeated the villain not a hero?
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
This is not AITA