On the other hand, she told me she’s single and generally gives me the impression that things are getting serious between us, to the state of even going raw and me giving her cream pies (she’s on BC)

So she is lying to you.

And she's on BC.

Until she's not.......... "oops".

But the truth is I was open to LTR with her. So it stings a bit. And I can’t get mad

You overestimated her.

Tell her "look, you're seeing other guys, and THAT IS OK...... just don't like about it, ok?"

Hopefully that helps.

But she's still a liar. Don't trust her, and don't trust her with BC.

She's a plate - you put her there for a reason. But, like all plates, they break. This is one of those instances where the plate broke itself. She told you that she was single and clearly that isn't the case. I get the one-itis but now you're at the mercy of her lies - I am not talking about your feelings, I am referring to your health. Does her boyfriend bang her raw? Who is he sleeping with? Is it worth you catching a STD to play this silly game?

If you still want to bang her, line up a replacement plate and demote her. Don't forget the condoms. Abundance mentality reigns supreme.

Dude, you were considering her as a LTR and she's cheating on her now bf with you.

And you're still writing a novel about how you should have snatched her up sooner. Dude. Wtf

Oh no. You get to fuck her while some other guy has to deal with all the bullshit that comes with getting to fuck her.

Such a miserable situation.

Be happy that you figured this out sooner rather than later: She's for the streets.

Take it from, I made this mistake. If she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you.

This was a crucial step in the vetting process.

Problem is it doesn't sound like you're banging other girls if this one girl has all your attention for LTR.

Good FWB at best it sounds like. Let it be that and once she fucks off, get a new one.

All the Brazilian chicks I ever dated were flaky as fuck. Yeah, they'll bang you 27 different ways to Sunday, but when it comes to relationships, they're only interested in guys who can pay for their fake titties and asses. Unless you're a BetaMax, I wouldn't expect an LTR out of this type of woman.

If she’s not married, she’s single. So are you. So is her boyfriend. So are her other boyfriends… and your other girlfriends… and all the other boyfriends and girlfriends of all those people.

There’s no betrayal here.

Face it: you’re all a bunch of bonobos humping each other in the bushes . Don’t marry a bonobo. Better yet: don’t be one yourself.

I was in the same situation as you, almost identical. But I didn't get mad, I hard-nexted her, cut all contact and blocked from everything.

After she broke up with her boyfriend, we were dating for a few months but then I found out she was lying and still talking to her ex behind my back (I told her not to). I also found out she was seeing other guys despite telling me how much she loves me and begging for a relationship. One day I saw her post on Instagram going to a cocktail bar. I checked the first guy who liked that post and voila, he posted a story going to the same bar. So I immediately deleted her number, blocked her on everything, no explanation, no warning. Completely scorched earth.

I know some guys here told you to keep the girl as a fuck buddy, but my advice is to cut ALL CONTACT. I hate lying bitches who have zero honor and self-esteem, and keeping them around would just complicate my life even more.

You know what happened after I cut her off? It's very interesting.

The girl stole her friend's boyfriend (typical betabuck who believes he can save her, like you). Now she constantly posts pictures of them together but here's the catch: she somehow found a messaging app I haven't blocked her from and sent me a text thanking me for the good times. HAHAHAHA. Fuck off.

I'm just gonna tell you there's no saving these hoes who don't want to be saved. They can act innocent all they want, it's your choice to fall for it or not. And if you do, you only have yourself to blame.