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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago Stickied
Revisiting this one. This'll be for any lurking women who genuinely wonder what the answers to her questions are, and can't read between the lines of what the men here ridiculing her are saying.
Most women have no idea what's attractive to a man. They just think "well, what do I find attractive?' and do that. No man gives 2 shits about your career. Wait, scratch that. AT BEST men are indifferent to your career, but there is also a good chance your career could be a red flag or a yellow flag. Your education and advanced degree? Men wonder about your student debt that'll become their responsibility.
Be fit, feminine (most of you don't know how anymore), and fun. Your youth is a golden ticket that burns away rapidly; use it wisely.
I guarantee this woman in the video's "amazing, amazing friends" are all in their 30s with rapidly depreciating looks and fertility, having wasted their 20s pursuing education and careers that men are indifferent to at best, and did not retain their virginity. That's why they have "no options". The men with options have better options, and these women think they're too aMaAaAaZiNg for regular men with little to no options, when the reality is that their RMV/MMV equivalent is some out of shape schlub who is barely getting by, and might still live with his parents.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
And that this lack of status/appeal is by default what most women are on the same level as once they hit either 30 or become a single mom. God help you if both are true.
Yes, even that boss-babe with a career and degree who has never been able to get past situationship. Especially them.
That's a market signal that one has been trying to bat too far above their actual league.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 4d ago
It's a scooby doo mystery isn't it?
All these amazing women, all 10s. And they can't find a man. And all men are trash, but they can find women easily?
I just can't figure it out.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
If a product is available for a reasonable price and no one is buying, the problem isn't the customer.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2w ago
If only these foids understood basic economics
IceNineWithLime 2w ago
If only basic economics weren't so sexist, then they could.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
It's not mere "basic economics". Studio 54 revolutionized the nightclub industry when they made entrance into their club more DIFFICULT and even turned away some celebrities at the door. When Luxxotica took over the Ray Ban, they raised the price. My wife remarked that Michael Kor handbags weren't as "good" because they were priced REASONABLY.
A recently divorced "good man" whose otherwise not living in his car paying child-support is the ideal catch for single women seeking a guy whose pre-selected.
I chuckled when I joined an X thread and pointed out women friends are not useless but rather invaluable wing women. Saying "She's just a friend" immediately piques women's competitive instinct. The women then got angry on the X thread because they knew I had "hacked" their minds and complained I was "exploiting" them or not being a "real" friend.
One of my earlier posts 40 years ago was that "Ladies' Night" is absolutely worthless to men for several reasons including that women going there will bring cockblockers and chonk down the cheap drinks versus "Happy Hour" which provides the same economic benefit to EVERYONE and when you're out with friends from work, they let their guard down more.
@Vermillion-Rx beat me to this post! Good going!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
economics is a tool of the patriarchy!
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 4d ago
thank you typo. It is good to have you remind us sexist pigs about just how deeply ingrained the patriarchy is. We must all simp harder.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2w ago
Oh, they understand the principles. It's hard to think in the abstract. You just need to contextualize and make it more relevant to real life.
"Let's not talk about 'widgets' anymore. Let's say a streetwalker reduces her price for a handjob to $80 from $100, would she sell more or fewer handjobs?"
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
"Why is she selling anything? Men should just give her stuff! This is men's fault!"
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2w ago
It's an unfair world in which we live, yes. In an ideal world, butterscotch sundaes topped with magic gnome jizz sprinkles should appear and do slam poetry just as soon as you imagine them.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
G'nut!™ toppings.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2w ago
Don't say "men" say "Rich Chads"
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
And don't say "find". Say "Waiting to be pursued".
What's funny is that back a century ago, when The Patriarchy "oppressed" women, modern women claim that women had to "pursue" men because they were worried about becoming old maids or their families pressured them to get married. They had to play "drop the handkerchief" games which, at least, was a way to give a man a safe way to approach and then she had to have "game" to try to manipulate him into asking her out.
Back in 1984, when I came of age, my brother received a photo of his plushee Opus from Bloom County from his work desk with the ransom note "If you don't ask Sharon from accounting out, I'll die!" I called a girl and got her roommate, left a message, and that was that. A few months later my sister told me "Becky told me to tell you it's ok to call her".
Yeah, that's BS games but at least these women were making an EFFORT.
Note the aging leftover women in this link complained she somehow wound up 33 years old and single because she wasn't hot enough to be approached by men (at least the men she desired). Imagine if men complained that they were alone and their apartments a mess because "nobody is here to clean up." Men were reminded of the year that things changed while post after post shows women griping that men aren't being 1950's chivalrists anymore.
https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/325813/5_don_t_settle
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
What's so nuts is that, with any other group of people, in any other context, the ridiculousness of the excessive passivity would be apparent immediately.
"I'm very thirsty so I'll lay here with my mouth open and wait for someone to pour water into it."
Gee, I wonder where the fault lays in that case.
When your library card expires, you don't wait for the library to seek you out, get on their knees and beg to give you a new one. It's fakakte as they might say in Yiddish.
Lately, when somebody approaches me with a sob-story which obviously resulted from their poor planning and lack of foresight, I put on an authoritative psychotherapist voice and say, while making air quotes. "You see, miss... you're what we call a "BAD-CHOICER" and a "BAD-CHOICER" is someone I charge $200 an hour..."
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
My 10 year old daughter ate pancakes and left her plate and extra pancakes in the container on the counter. So I told my wife we had to teach her: Put the plate in the sink (so no ants on the counter), put the extra pancakes away, and so on.
I took the "mental load" on that. I taught my daughter to basically 'adulting'. It wasn't a big deal but well, in a way it was.
Imagine how so many of these women were the products of single mothers chewing food and spitting it down their throats while also screaming at them whenever they had an obstacle. I see my wife when I'm not "the man in the home" and I'm in shock. There are millions of households with men like me around. I'm red pill.
I came of age in the early 1980's. That's DeLorean time machine generations ago. There are two generations since then. Yikes!
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Because women's definition of an amazing woman is vastly different than men's definition. Unlike her girl friends, the guy understands you need to be a catch to the gender you're trying to attract, not to your own gender. Especially at the divorcee age when men are no longer brain-fogged by testosterone, women need to bring some qualities to a relationship beyond just having a wet hole.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
An "amazing woman" has a pulse. She can look like a throbbing Cronenberg body-horror monster and have the personality of an Aztec life-sucking demoness that drinks straight from your aorta, but she's still amazing. No matter your opinion on the matter.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I think it's a different culture today. While imperfect, my mother's generation were quite, well, harsh in judging other women. Heck, that's what broke the Cornell 7 was the sorority daring to say they didn't want a slut making their house look bad so she took it out on the guys.
For all the talk of "mean girls", modern women friend circles are oftentimes too gentle on criticism.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Gads, just the fact that she's eating and talking like a classless trollop is enough to put me off.
Can't have that snack later? Had to whip out the phone and mumble through a half-chewed mouthful? I guess she is so used to things being in her mouth, she doesn't even register it.
But this is where we are at, the massively masticating me-me-me modern anti-males.
I genuinely believe that as time goes on, and the cycle starts to really bite economically, that we'll see a LOT of these women freaking out when the "free" gov programs/money/preferential treatment starts to dry up, because it will get sucked into debt service.
Telling one of these women "no" gets a screeching response on a good day, I can only imagine what it will be like when the road of easy shit ends for them.
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JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Ten seconds after that happens, every guy's Facebook/Insta/Whatever page will light up with "old acquaintances" suddenly locating them online and saying tee-hee things like, "How come you never asked me out 10 (or 20) years ago or pursued me harder? I always thought you were a great catch." A few messages later, she'll casually make it clear that she's newly single and ready to mingle.
Aside from the entertainment value that might ensue, engage such used-up retreads at your own risk, as I'm sure most men here already know.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Oh, for sure. I expect no less from women used to getting bailed out from their own bad decisions.
I think this time around, men are learning that there isn't any benefit. Even the ones that may have been misguided in the past. Money is finite, so the hey-big-boy-gimme-free-shit tactic loses its potency.
And as the feedback loop of debt kicks in, so does the devaluation of the currency until it can't be done anymore. Japan lasted a long time, but even they have to raise rates. Not sure how long it will take the USA to feel the same pain, but its coming.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I don't really have a social media presence unless YouTube comments count and my YouTube profile doesn't have any identifying info on me.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Shit like that is one of the reasons why I think prostitution should be legalized and regulated. Would entirely gut the negotiating power of women like this and make men safer from their predation when they know they can just pay far less for a happy ending at a local salon.
ProvidedCascade 1w ago
I agree with this, my Mom agrees with this (we're European), most reasonable people agree with this. Just do proper age verification and marriage registry checking (for the women) to avoid adultery - Greece has a good model last time I checked.
HitTheRoadJill 2w ago
Is the video cut off? All she’s done is move the spoon toward her mouth at the end, so she’s not chewing like an animal.
She hasn’t told us how they’re amazing. She’s incredibly entitled to think we should just take her word for it.
EDIT: Just noticed the food at the side of her mouth while she’s talking. Not animal level, but still gross. Should have swallowed that food and then spoken.
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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2w ago
Any chewing her food like an uncivilized swine on camera is animalistic enough. So unfeminine
HitTheRoadJill 1w ago
I have the misfortune of regularly encountering much worse. If the video content were any good, I’d look past the brief obnoxious behavior at the beginning.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Having a vagina is all that is needed to qualify as amazing don't you know?
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
And it gets better the more it is used, they think.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1w ago
The fuck are those semicircle things beneath her eyes? Some kind of trendy eye bag remedy that she's promoting on commission or ?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
I think those are the Biore strips for blackheads. Not 100% certain though.
Whatever they are, it's incredibly tacky that she posted a video of herself with them on. Combined with the tackiness of talking with her mouth full, I'm convinced that her "amazing, amazing" friends are insufferable and uncouth. Birds of a feather, and all that.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Women sure do like to claim that all of those "mid" women are so damn amazing.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Her definition of a "good man". 6'4" cowboy/astronaut tech billionaire with 10"penis and Hollywood leading man good looks.
Boo Hoo WAATGM? WTF?
tallhandsomerichdude 1w ago
Your friends are only amazing amazing when compared with you, which is a low baseline. Note that your recently divorced male friend won't have anything to do with them. This is what is commonly called "a clue."