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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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StockImagination 3w ago
she is the loser if she does not have a husband/boyfriend/simp male friend she can call to help with the oh so heavy ginormous shopping bag
throwaway_old_guy 3w ago
I have held doors open for Women, never ran into this kind of attitude.
There have been times when I've held the outside of a two-door vestibule open for a Woman and she held the inner for me. We both said Thank You and carried on with our day.
It has worked the same way with Men.
Aren't we all supposed to treat each other with kindness, respect and dignity?
throwaway_old_guy 3w ago
Perhaps one of those "Losers" from the loading dock will see this video and take it to HR because she is creating a hostile work environment for all the Men that work there.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
She: "The polite society thing to do is to help people......." Me: Does this apply to women? Since when has this ever happened concerning men? How many men reading these words have ever been helped by any woman under any condition? Also, how many women go to work in skin tight clothing that exposes her breasts? I bet the same type of women to go to the gym to video themselves, just like this one.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3w ago
Something tells me a lot of female-dominated startups probably do allow this attire to the extent other women can tolerate the level of boob and competition being flaunted
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
Sign me up.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
Did I see a wedding ring on her left hand? Where is husband? Oh that's right, he is a transman and as helpless as her.
HitTheRoadJill 3w ago
I noticed that left hand ring too, but it has no clear indication of relationship level. I can’t tell if it’s a wedding, engagement, or promise ring.
Whatever their relationship level, her man is at his job. Maybe he’s earning the money to pay for her failing business venture.
waybackmachine 3w ago
"The men were not even good looking" pure gold
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3w ago
Womanese translation:
They were attractive until they didn't help me
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3w ago
Alternate translation, not just of that one line but her entire whiny screed:
"Men are only beneficial to me if I want their sperm and/or if they act as my servant. These men fit neither, and therefore are useless and shouldn't exist. I am the only human who matters."
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3w ago
Yeah good title
Kloi 4w ago
If there's a loading dock, toss it up on the dock. There's likely a pallet jack and a pallet. Work smarter not harder bitch.. she's likely pissed off most the men she works around and that's why they had zero interest in being courteous to someone who comes off as a cunt.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
She sounds like some kind of Yankee. Could it be that "chivalrous" men won't extend chivalry to a woman who acts like a goddamned viper? A woman like this wouldn't bother to piss on me if I was on fire.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
If the roles had been reversed, would she have helped a man having the same problem? Fuck no. That's a man job.
Also, notice the skin tight clothing and exposed tits when leaning over. She could have worn jeans with a lose cotton top, but then she could not jiggle for the camera. I think the lady doth protest to much.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3w ago
Yeah, or maybe a flat cart or some other kind of cart.
I bet she doesn't even know how to use one.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3w ago
She knows how to jack a rod-shaped item. She's done that before, I'm sure.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
Even if she did, she would still whine and kvetch that no men were operating it for her.
Strong and Empowered amirite? Right up until a bill needs paid or something heavy needs lifted, or heavens forbid, a woman be held accountable for anything.
HitTheRoadJill 3w ago
Definitely this if they wouldn’t even hold a door open for her. Even empty-handed people get doors held open for them.
She’s a lost cause because she said the office having a loading dock is weird. Any reasonable person who went through her ordeal would think “No wonder there’s a loading dock. I should use it next time.”
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3w ago
Loading docks are weird. Like, why can't they just use one of those Star Trek transporters to 'beam' stuff from one side of the planet to the other? Like, why bother with forklifts and heavy stuff? How do you think Amazon does it, if not by Janeway telling Scottie to beam stuff around. Haven't you seen those documentaries? That ugly Pike dude sits in a chair that beeps and people respect him because he's a maaayaaaan.
C'mon, you sexist dummies! THINK!
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4w ago
I suspect (I couldn't find her TikTok despite my hardest) that she is probably just mad they won't fuck her
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
She doesn't even care to ask their names! Did she say she KNEW any of them personally? That she ever TALKED to any of them?
No, they were filthy working-class men. Beneath her. Even moreso if they were dark-skinned. And if any of them were to look at her the wrong way, she'd have 'em fired. THOSE are among the details she's leaving out.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4w ago
Oh most certainly
She probably at least envisioned one taking her against her will in that tight little jumpsuit, too
You can see the outline of her lady meat in those things for fucks sake
She most certainly gets off on the idea someone can see how tight it is, particularly the men she's complaining about
All conjecture of course but more likely than not part of her rant is sexual frustration and kink
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
Literally useless?
I'm literally typing a keyboard and literally looking at a screen. OMG, literally!
...is Princess at a workplace? Why is she dressed like it's a gym? Does she work at a jogging track or something?
...Why do I keep feeling perverse satisfaction at these women who demand male gallantry and self-sacrifice while touting how much they don't need no "useless" man? If I had a nickel every time I was struggling with an oversized box and nobody offered me any help, I'd be able to fill that box with nickels.
The irony is, I was raised to open doors and be helpful and lift heavy loads for a woman who was obviously struggling. Over the years, I came to realize that I was voluntarily making myself some unappreciative bitch's butler the whole time. They think you're a utility, nothing more. You want water, twist the faucet. You want electricity, flip the switch. You want something heavy lifted, make a little helpless look at the nearest collection of men. Her reaction here is how you feel when you try to turn on the lightswitch in a dark house and nothing happens.
And you'll notice how ballistic she goes "DON'T SAY IT'S FEMINISM!! HURR-DHURR! LOSER! LOSER THINKING!" ... probably because she knows she's getting very close to the goddamned truth. If you rip up your half of the social contract, ladies? You can't get pissed at men for not honoring their half.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
I mean, you can certainly try, but it's going to be about as effective as tilting at windmills.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
You mean when women said to men don't approach us, men didn't approach them. Who would have thought?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4w ago
"You know, we're living in a society!!!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eXlpVz9rnx4
Let's play with the gender roles here: If it was a bunch of southern belles, would she be equally offended if they didn't drop everything to help?
Her rage is clearly, as you point out, that the men aren't her unpaid butlers anymore. Good for the Good Ol' Boys, BTW!!!
As you point out, it's not a big deal to deal with your own shit while everyone stands around. Heck, us men even have a joke about it. Have you seen this meme yet? https://imgur.com/a/nWB0Bkm
I was thinking of posting something I saw on facebook (not here) but perhaps on TRP where a woman was bragging she was so happy with her divorce because she got promoted and earned more than him so she eventually dumped her "lazy" husband because he "didn't help enough around the house" and now that he was a weekend father, she got her weekends off and was so happy that she "finally got him to contribute". She said he was a nice guy, nothing otherwise wrong with him, but just he wasn't "doing enough".
That's the marriage vows there for her.
So she went through all this therapy and other bullshit bitching at him and the guy doesn't have TRP to defend himself (unlike us!) and he tried to appease her and eventually she shit tested destroyed the marriage.
I bring this up because here's a man whose a decent man fucked over in divorce just because a hypergamous selfish bitch dumped him for the hell of it and this woman wonders why southern men don't volunteer to be her butlers anymore?
Ask your husband to help, sweetheart, and give him some BJ's once in a while and then you'll have a right to gripe.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
Maybe she should go ask a bear in the woods for help?
I mean, the bear would be safer too, wouldn't it?
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
The bears got smart after being used like men in return for nothing.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4w ago
LITERALLY USELESS
Literally useless unless they feel obligated to use their burly strength to help HER specifically
Note: she explicitly says that they're already working, so they aren't useless to the company or society at large, but they are useless if she can't directly benefit in spite of her poor choices to buy some much shit to carry.
Could she not have just ordered all that shit online and had a "useless" delivery man give it to her instead at her door?
What would she have given them besides a "thanks" if at all?
I'm guessing she thought the jiggle physics would summon men to help her?
Fuck is she on besides her own ego?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
Based on the bag and basket, I don't think that's her shopping and the clothes might not even belong to her. She says she's "working on a project" and I have no idea what that is-- but the clothes are probably meant for other people. Perhaps they're display items or surplus inventory or factory rejects or maybe donations she was handling or god knows what. She could be the assistant costume manager of a theater troupe which is relocating? I dunno, There's a backstory we're not privy to.
I have no idea where she's working, but it's possible she's at some kind of business park or building where multiple organizations are housed together. In that case, the "useless" "loading dock" idiots who offend her by their thoughtless lack of obsequiousness have no connection to her work at all and they don't even know who she is.
There is just too much context missing for me to fully understand what's going on-- but it looks to me as if she expected a bunch of strangers to drop everything and be her valets. And these strangers were folks whom she really didn't care very much about from the get-go-- filthy working class men, of the "hooting construction worker" type that seems to haunt every feminist's nightmares.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4w ago
Exactly
Just an entitled bitch it seems
Also probably low-key wants a burly man to take her during office hours (in her mind). These foids man
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
From what I can see those men knew what they were doing. Avoid the selfish drama.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3w ago
They certainly don't sound like dummies to me, no. I imagine the spectacle for them was rather amusing.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3w ago
I guarantee if they held the door open, she would walk through it, not say thank you, then film a tiktok about microaggressions.
And if they actually carried one of the bags to her place, she'd film a tiktok about how she nearly had to call the cops about a home invasion / near-sexual-assault from a stranger who had the temerity to enter her apartment rather than leave the box at the front door.
Feminism literally said, don't open the door for us, it's offensive and infantalizing and creates discomfort because it creates expectations of some nice return gesture (I guess a simple thank you is too much for their delicate sensibilities). But rather than engaging with that argument she just calls people who bring it up stupid.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3w ago
Holding the door open for 'em implies that women are weak and all of these other negative ideas about female inferiority. Today, now that modern feminists are taking the blame, now they claim those arguments were never made and men are all lying about it today so we can be rude and lazy. Wait... aren't we all rude and lazy anyway? Why do we need an extra excuse?
The whole performance is a disingenuous shit-show, similar to how her choice in outfits should never affect how people look at her body, as if playing loud music in public shouldn't affect people's hearing.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4w ago
Most certainly. They saw some tight jiggles and carried on with their day.
Bangkok 3w ago
I would help.
Dont know her, thin, not ugly, given nice tone of voice. £20 if offered apriori, might smash.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3w ago
A few thoughts.
1) if they know you and how unlikable and insufferable you are, they'll leave you to your own devices no matter how much cleavage you show or how tight your clothes are.
2) feminism did kill most men's desire to do anything for or say anything to strange women. Your lame shaming attempt to label that "loser talk" is retarded and laughable.
3) "trying to be expeditious" yet you took the time to make your whiny video and upload it to the internet?
4) strangers owe each other nothing. I do hold doors for strangers, male or female, young or old, and if I don't get a "thank you" in response, I give a very sarcastic "you're welcome". Back to what I said in number 1, if I saw you and knew you, I'd let you struggle and have a giggle fest once you finished.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3w ago
Yes facts
It's like women haven't realized this isn't the 2010s anymore and that the old shame game doesn't work anymore
Yet it's almost as if they're more emboldened than ever to double down on it
I suspect the mere thought of being feminine is a no-go for them and their boss babe mentality, so paradoxically, the only direction they go is doubling down on it
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
I no longer hold doors open for women. But I always hold them for guys, who are far more likely to appreciate the gesture.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3w ago
I live in a military town in the south. Most people here (male and female) are somewhat polite, at least by today's standards (but rude compared to what I saw as a child). I get thanked more often than not by both sexes of any age, but men come closer to 100%
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
I don't tip women either, for the same reason. 30% is just, like, the bare minimum! I have on occasion tipped well due to being surprised at a waitress being polite/respectful and genuinely good at her job. But that's rare, normally they get nothing from me, and I don't feel bad at all.
There was a time when treating all women like ladies by default was justified, because they mostly acted like ladies, with manners and courtesy. That ship has sailed. Public trust, once lost, is hard to regain.
If women want to be treated like ladies again, they have to start acting like one. Men will fall over themselves helping out a woman like this. "Excuse me, sir, I didn't mean to interrupt, but would you mind holding the door open," followed by a "thank you" and a curtsey. That kind of thing used to happen. And it will again once this whole thing autocorrects.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3w ago
I must admit, sadly, that I do this too. Not always, but I'm far less likely to hold a door open for a woman, unless she's at least 60 years old, or obviously disabled or something. And it kinda hurts because I was raised to "be a gentleman" and help both men and women.
But young women at best just ignore you, like you were an inconvenience, or actually stare daggers at you like you just insulted them. Very, very rarely a thank you, or even a smile and head nod.
I remember dating a college girl, who was about 20 (I was... Older) and one time, she had biked to our date, and after lunch, while we were walking around, I offered to hold and push the bike along for her. And she refused, even after I said it was no problem. I think she was genuinely offended that I offered, thinking it meant I thought she couldn't handle a bike, when the reality is, I just felt bad for her and figured, since we were dating, I'd help her out. No bullshit meta commentary on who is or isn't capable of handling a bike.
Anyway, it just confirmed how poisoned young woman have become by feminism, and I'd rather just not engage at this point. Treat them like the furniture they want to become (don't sexualize me!!!) and let them be surprised at just how little attention people pay to strangers.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
It's always funny to see them react to just being just objectified instead of sexually objectified, never seeming to realize that is the default treatment most people give/receive when sex is off the table and the woman in question of course has done absolutely nothing to endear herself to another person on a personal level.
Basically men treating women how other women treat (unknown) women. Reminds me of the advice attributed to Al Bundy: "Son, never try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other."
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
I was brought up the same way. I'm old enough to remember Jimmy Carter's nonsense. It was a different era, and that upbringing made sense back then.
These days, I don't socialize with women at all. I'll hire them for my business and I'll sell to them, but that's it. I don't date them. I don't befriend them. I don't hang out with them. I don't talk to them. I don't help them. I don't debate them.
I made that decision many years ago, and life is awesome.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
So why doesn't she get her husband to move all that shit for her?
She probably calls him fucking useless as well.
Titties practically falling out, clothes so tight you can see fucking camel toe.
Hell, no, I'm not going anywhere near that shit. That's a walking sexual harassment charge right there.
It's not that all women are like that, but we don't know which women are like that, and lady I have no fucking idea who you are.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3w ago
"You MEN and your excuses! You're just blaming #MeToo to justify being lazy! That's loser thinking I-- did you just LOOK at my floppsy-woppsy BREASTS?!?!"
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
Hell yeah! It's 2026! Men helping women haul shit is sooooo 1950's. I thought women didn't want to go back to the 1950's.
GIRL POWER BITCH! \o/
tallhandsomerichdude 3w ago
Did you bring coffee and donuts that morning and mention that you could use a hand later that day, because that would be the courteous thing to do. No? "Women are so fucking useless."
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
Meanwhile, it sounds like the guys are having fun together.
She's sounds insufferable. I wouldn't be surprised if the guys are avoiding her.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3w ago
Hey lady, I know one man who wasn't useless. The guy who invented the hand truck. You can get a collapsible one at costco that you can throw in your trunk if you do this regularly.
Woman faces several bags and boxes of heavy shit. She carries them one at a time to her room, then stops to film a tiktok bitching about no one helping her.
Guy faces same problem, says "well, I guess that's why they pay me the big bucks." Buys a hand truck, saves his back, finishes the task in 1/10th the time. Has a smoke with his buddies watching some chick in workout gear sweating through a problem Archimedes (a dude, i might add) solved about 6 thousand years ago.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 3w ago
See?!?!? You filthy and literally useless men WERE thinking about a screw!
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3w ago
... not bad, sir. https://i.pinimg.com/originals/c3/fc/80/c3fc800e011b3626523cd7040b67d6ca.gif
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
B-but she has a pussy! Why should she have to BUY things to make her life easier?! That's what MEN are for!
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3w ago
I'm a northerner who's spent time in the South. Here's the thing. Guys there can be more chivalrous but they're not fools. The flip side of that is that women there are more feminine.
Yes, guys might hold open doors, but only to southern "ladies" who say thank you afterwards with a genuine smile on their face. If you helped them move stuff, theres a good possibility they would bake cookies and bring them by your apartment afterwards (not store bought; home-fucking-made!). Heck, a woman in the South might notice a loose button on your shirt and, knowing that you're a bachelor, just might offer to sew it back on for you.
For a woman like that, men don't mind opening doors, standing when they arrive at a table, fixing a leaking faucet, etc.
But they can smell northerners with attitude from a mile away. And if you are one, the best you'll ever get from them is a "bless your heart" as they walk away.
Somehow this woman never thought about that end of the Southern bargain...
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3w ago
You described it in better detail than I could. They'd probably hold a door for a lady and this chick ain't no lady. "Chivalry" doesn't mean "strangers are my concierge service when I need them to be."
Or, to use a worse analogy, society is not like the free samples at the supermarket where you can theoretically walk around and fill your stomach without buying anything. I could do that, but I'd be a dick for making a habit of it and I probably wouldn't live very well or get very far. But women like this are of the same mind of the supermarket goer who mistakes free samples for a public buffet. Men don't owe you a goddamned thing, miss and you don't qualify for the benefits you claim.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
You beat me to it, but those southern girls can have a powerful effect on the north-minded. I grew up in the north too, once we went to visit my aunt in TX when I was little.
My aunt wanted me to do something, and did the whole thing they do so well: beckon with the finger, "come here, honey" in that accent, with a wink! I was so smitten I would have done anything for her at that moment. They sure know how to turn on the charm.
It really doesn't take much. But making videos like ^ that may actually have the opposite effect.