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TJMS 13h ago
Love how she scribbles the "?" marks all over the place in those dating profiles, like she literally can't understand why I man would say those things.
It's called having options and preferences, sweaty, men are allowed to have them.
Bozza 9h ago
They have no concept that men really dgaf about relationships or marriage.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
Someone kindly please post to the Reddit site. Suggest watching in order for context.
SwarmShawarma 3d ago
I got to be slow today, I dont get the dating app summaries.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
When they're 30 and still trying to find themselves it's empowerment, but when men are in their 30's and still trying to find themselves, it's like WTF?
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 2d ago
I was sick of her in less than 5 minutes of her face scrunched gesticulations. Social media seems to amplify and propagate this behavior pattern. In person, it's nowhere near as clever, cute, edgy, or whatever they think of it.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
A great critic but a poor artist.
She knows all the answers but she still can't get taken off the market.
The only answer she needed was yes.
She needed it 10 years ago when she was getting all her itches out of the way.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
The individual videos wouldn’t be compelling on their own, but together they are the quintessential story of many inspins: 1) She's otherwise quite physically attractive, from a good bourgeoisie family, gainfully employed, has useful hobbies, and perhaps even otherwise pleasant to talk to outside of dating. 2) She claims to want to start a family and “actively looking”. 3) She claims to be happy and enjoying her life rather than stewing in misery and loneliness.
From all indications, she’s a catch? Yes? Just one (ok a few) teeny weenie problems:
1) Her hypergamy demands a top 1% man as shown by her dating app videos: High income earner, at least 6 ft tall (because she claims to be), and presumably in good physical shape. 2) She wants a man who typically only exists from PUA clown game: “initiates hard conversations, is FUN, considerate, kind but not a pushover”. It’s like walking on eggshells balanced on a tightrope while juggling chainsaws (and smiling). 3) She has a princess attitude. 4) The clock is striking midnight, Cinderella.
Even if she could get into a hot tub time machine and go back 10 years, she’d still be up shit’s creek with the first 3 issues but she doesn’t know it because nobody has given her The Talk including her Boomer parents. Nonetheless, even if someone did try to talk sanity into her, back then or now, she’d reject it.
I have videos downloaded and will show them to my daughter someday as a cautionary tale: Don't become this.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
She probably got into this quite harmlessly. She may or may not have been a hoe at college. I would say probably not. She had some relationships with some good guys in her 20's but she (and maybe they) had other priorities. 30's the career really started to take off so she knuckled down and got on with it, adding in things like volunteering that she could fit in at will and any guy who was good enough who came long. Suddenly Cinderella remembers what her fairy godmother said about midnight but the good men she had in her 20's and didn't lock down plus having things her own way successfully for 2 decades just forbid her form seeing any joy in "settling".
I actually feel sorry for her if this is the case. The lesson to our daughters is its never too early if you are of legal age and a man you love comes along who has the house and the job to support you through child rearing. Later you can do all the things she called "itches", when you are already one of life's winners. Looked at from a totally selfish hypergamous point of view this still makes sense. Ignore the bad boys, ignore the guys who have not made it yet, find one of the winners who wants you and you want him. Then waste no time. What's the worst that can happen to a girl in this situation -nice house and alimoney, start the career you missed when the kids start school.
So this is what I have told my girls over the years. I even persuaded my current lady of the merits of this approach. I won her over when I said "Think of the guys who were better than me that you didn't lock down in your 20's because you said you were not sure of their character (A soldier turned organised criminal who was recently murdered but who had the lifestyle she craves left pots of money, cars and houses and his antithesis a highly principled journalist who rights serious ethical stuff and can be a bit of a stickler. I gather they would have married her if she is telling the truth) You ended up with me -an aesthetic eccentric who isn't into fine living and had plenty of kids by other women and you did it when you were old enough to find child rearing harder. You wake in the morning to light open fires, you muck out hens and I even like camping holidays" She took the point then and has never again told our daughter to put getting set up in her career ahead of family.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I agree with the first part. Disagree with "legal age" because I don't trust State marriage contracts at all, nor trust this craphole state to define marriage. They can't even define what a woman is. The State has no business in marriage at all.
Also disagree with the man already being "established". No reason that has to be a requirement. I was married at 20, had nothing figured out and no money either.
I'm in favor of arranged marriages, and I'm already scoping out the field for based young men. Made semi-serious offers to a couple already, and daughter isn't even 16 yet.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
There’s a Russian “date” movie, “Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears” I think your wife would enjoy watching together and delves into the themes we discuss here. It’s a tale of 3 working class woman friends in 1950’s Moscow on a husband hunt. It gets cheesy towards the end, quite frankly, but the point is clear that sometimes you gotta just roll the dice and take your chances. I, myself, married a woman whose a real pain much of the time (she’d destroy ALL of you!), but has been loyal and hard working. She’s the quintessential “Soviet Woman”. I’m the same way: I joke with her that if she was a little smarter, she would have landed Prince Harry but she’d probably nag him away and she laughs because it’s true.
Anyhoo, back to this inspin: Her “princess” attitude is why she didn’t lock the men down. “Cook for a man and make him fall for me? I’m a Queen! He is supposed to exist to please me!” The good looking men she may have hitched up with from time to time simply didn’t feel a need to “settle” themselves.
I don’t feel sorry for her AT ALL. Would we feel sorry for a man who let good women go by because they didn’t clean his kitchen floors and didn’t cook his dinner precisely the way he wanted? Pandering to spoiled people is how the west is in an existential crisis.
This woman has ZERO empathy for you and I. I suppose I could feel sorry for her like I would for a crocodile that’s starving to death. There are some nice crocodiles out there. Google: “Pocho rescued crocodile.”
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I still feel pity for many women in this predicament. They were all once someone's bright eyed little girl who was proud to be learning how to be grown up. They just didn't get good guidance and instead learned the wrong habits. She probably got told "you go gurl", she probably got praised for putting college ahead of boys, for getting a good job, for getting a starter mortgage and a promotion while it was only in the last few years that parents started to say "when are you getting married?" by which time she was already ruined by too much of what she wanted and none of what she needed.
Yesterday evening one of my daughters was praising a friend of hers who appears to becoming quite like her mother -kind, supportive, unselfish and good at crafts. I said "I think she will make a very good wife for someone who is wise enough to see it" "Why are you only praising her as a potential wife?" (I don't think this was a loaded question to get some feminist bashing from me, she just was thinking of her as a great friend) "Because that's what matters most to her future success and happiness" People just don't dare to say these things to young women these days. If you do not get a good man and start a family with him, the end is going to be sad for a woman, sadder than for a bachelor because men do not end up menopausal and struggling with life and are not as needy by nature.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
In regard to the question you were asked. I’d respond that’s not true: The qualities that make us good husbands, or wives, aren’t solely for those purposes. Being a good husband and father also happens to make someone healthier and happier for themselves and a productive member of society and the same goes for wives.
What’s interesting is that this particular inspin’s video did appear to show her as kind and family oriented spending time with her nieces, nephews, and family members. It must puzzle her, and even her relatives, why such as “catch” as her is going unclaimed.
As the Oompa Loompa song reminds us of Veruca Salt:
“Who do you blame when your kid is a brat? Pampered and spoiled like a Siamese cat? Blaming the kids is a lie and a shame. You know exactly who's to blame: The mother and the father!”
Likely the cause of that is the mother and father are Boomers who values are out-of-touch with the society they created: The era of feminine entitlement and chivalrous patriarchal courtesy was killed by generations of feminism and corporatism. The era of a man waiting tables to get through college and then buy a home and ask out a woman on a milkshake date by the time they were 23 came to an end during the 1980’s.
As I said above, if we didn’t know about her attitude towards men, we could even like her as a friend. In that video, she looks wholesome. It’s when we see her other videos that she’s shallow, materialistic, and unempathic towards men who express sexual interest (not even possessing enough empathy to manipulate us via feminine guile!). She’s a crocodile (in Polish, I refer to them as Jaszczorka).
I use that term for a reason in that there’s a famous expression of “crocodile tears” where if a crocodile expressed tears and you got close, it would eat you up. Such women feed voraciously off of your pity and kindness, viewing it as a weakness.
That being said, I appreciate we need to express conditional empathy to save those that can be redeemed and (gasp!) “settle” for a happy marital life based upon kindness and mutual respect.
I’m reminded of when I go to Gator Park in Florida and watch the alligator handlers who still appear to have all their fingers.
My daughter's favorite song I used to play in the car, she's gotten tired of it but still learns French: https://youtu.be/1T9b0cax6s4