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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Single Mom Tears

“Why do top tier men ghost me?” Answer at the end.
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polishknight

Posted 11mo ago in Single Mom Tears - Permalink - Locked - 12.4K Views



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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

Holy fuck that was a metric fuck ton of inane blather. I think I actually lost IQ points reading her drivel.

Good on the firefighter and rancher for realizing what a mess she was. I'm not a fan of ghosting, but she seems like a good candidate for it: she's nuttier than squirrel shit.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

This is a year’s worth of a Scorpio’s personal posts/comments climaxing in an epiphany, but not in chronological order for readability (timestamps are visible though). As a Sagittarius, was thinking to expand new horizons and (perhaps) this could be flared Epiphany or even The Big Question but one of the moderators could be a Taurus so posting as Single Mother Tears, weekend content. TL;dr: Feel free to read the intro and skip to the end and then read the middle later particularly if you’re a Virgo, Pisces, or Aries.

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EurasianChad 11mo ago

I identify as a facts machine

A machine that spits facts

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

What are your preferred pronouns?

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

What am I missing?

No epiphany there. I vote for Single Mother Tears.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

If you read through to the end, she does appear to finally "get it" better than most of them I've ever seen. Whether she reverts is another matter, but her statement appears to have been sincere.

There's a lot astonishing about her such as the huge dumpster fire that is her life and mental state but yet she got more dates in a year than I did in my life despite being in her early 30's. I can see how their insanity is enabled by the society around them. I know of a "trust fund baby" via a friend of mine and this woman is supposedly insufferable: She has a lifetime pension of about $120,000/year but yet is a cheapskate, treats others around her terribly, and is miserable.

This begs the philosophical question: Can humans be happy? Namely, if you give someone a good life, will they (not) muck it up out of boredom? Certainly for many women, they appear to be unable to handle power.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

Frankly a lot of it stems from women still retaining the protections of "patriarchy" while no longer being required to fulfil any of their old responsibilities under it.

So they grow up spoiled short sighted brats and won't/can't learn to be otherwise on their own until the damage is already long past done like this woman.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

The USA and Sweden are ground zero for white male guilt and toxic self-loathing. I grew up thinking "U. S. A.!!!!" but realized when I left the country for a while that there was a lot of things that could use improvement. American women are among the worst in the world: self-centered, angry, childish, lacking intellectual depth. It's like they're child actors who got a huge hit sitcom and their agents and parents gave them all the dope they wanted and let them do whatever they liked. Dana Plato is a useful example.

Nonetheless, the issues with so-called gender equality exist in other developed nations albeit to a lesser extent.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I actually read all of that. BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH and underlined BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

Literally everything about her other than "has vagina" is a trainwreck. Is flabbergasted that she gets treated like an easily replaceable fuck-hole.

Modern woman ☕

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago

To be fair, we don't know about her vagina. As far as we can tell, it could very well be leaking something radioactive.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Go down on her with 2 eyes, come back up with 3. OoO

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sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

it was a beautiful saturday, until i read this and got my choroid plexus invaded. Thank you very much !!!!!

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I feel sorry for her son. He will grow up feeling resented for existing. Hopefully he can make something of himself and get as far away from her as possible.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Especially since he's going to look like the dad who was "abusive" to her before he kicked her insufferable ass out.

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JudgeSmales 11mo ago

So, she has a son, but somehow found the time in the last 2 weeks for SIX DATES and a one-hour parking lot convo. Either she's a flat-out liar or men are suddenly lining up to date single moms who live in a van down by the river.

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Kloi 11mo ago

You'd be surprised what the average man is willing to do for scraps of pussy.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago

Well, the great thing about dating a homeless woman is that you don't have to drop her off back at her house; any street corner will do.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

Keep in mind women use euphemisms as easily as men breathe since social acceptance is as important as air to them.

So her "dates" were likely just glamored up booty calls.

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oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I thought that as well, the scenarios would make more sense if she was omitting the physical portion at the end of the dates..

Alternatively there's something that turns people off physically once they get close to her, that they can't bring up, so they smile to the end of the date and nope out before anything physical.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I just want to know where CPS is, allowing a child to live on the streets when he has a parent that has a home.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I don't think they allow kids to live with their dads in prison.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Women reject men in obvious ways, men reject women without them even realizing it.

The "poof and they're gone" guys got what they wanted, and even if they were entertaining hitching their lives to this Costa Concordia shipwreck, she spewed enough babble that they reconsidered.

I've rejected women just by taking a good look, listening for a few minutes while sitting in earshot, and concluding "oh fuck no". Picture how many men must've done the same to her. Legions. Women suck at handling money, but 60K in debt is quite the achievement. I'll keep my 800+ FICO score, thanks.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Hah, I had nearly 900 at one point, called the bank one time and they said they had never seen higher.

But then I went a few years with no debt at all and it went to ZERO. Sorry to say I didn't care one bit :) Debt is slavery.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Nice, I know that utilization of your credit line is a big factor so I'm not surprised it spiked. For me, its a pool to tap if want to, and I never carry balances, it all gets paid in full.

Credit cards are useful to have leverage when someone tries to fuck you on a service/product, given my score if I dispute something, it gets solved quickly and I get credited. I really like that part, given how some people are total fucking grifters.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

@NotaBene I don't carry credit card debt, but I churn travel cards for United/Jetblue and have gotten free airline tickets for the past 14 years (wish I started doing it sooner.) For example: Every 2 years, family of 4 can travel to Poland and back to the states for free. Fly to Florida annually. Only costs me the taxes $50/ticket or so. No fee for checked bags or seat assignment.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I hate traveling, but glad it works for you.

On last week's flight on one of those two airlines, they had the nerve to advertise the airline's credit card to me on the flight there and back. Just on principle, I won't get the credit card or fly with them ever again. I hate advertising, especially when you can't avoid it because you're stuck in a plane while the pilot makes the pitch.

Also, be aware that nothing is free. An airline giving you a "free" ticket is going to make money off you even if you don't carry a balance. Otherwise they wouldn't do it. You are the product. If that doesn't bother you, whatever, but I don't like being a product or giving megacorporations free advertising.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

I appreciate your point but consider that I engage in "loss leading" where I'll hit 4 different grocery stores to get the sale items while skipping over the high profit margin stuff.

The credit card bonuses are sort of like that: I don't put money on them after I get my bonus which has a value of about $700. There's no way they're making that from me in the form of transaction fees.

But yeah, what's happened in recent years is the dork business executives at the airline (not the credit card) devalued the miles. It's still "ok" but not as good as before. There will be people who drop doing this while those such as me will continue to participate ONLY if I get more out of it than I put in (sort of like consumer "hypergamy" :-)

Both United and Jetbue pitch their credit cards on the flight and they're usually quite short and give an additional 5,000 points (worth $50) for signing up after the flight so it remains popular for them to continue the practice.

I don't object to advertising in principle especially if there's a consumer benefit and they're made in good taste versus obnoxious commercials that play upon the insecurities of the viewer (such as DeBeers, Beer commercials, etc.).

Not an advertising pitch, I'm just a happy customer: The United and Jetblue cards are (still) GOOD values and if you don't want to watch the ad on your IFE, then take off your headset and ignore it. People who get the cards (usually) are helping to make your airfare more affordable.

I'll also add that United and Jetblue are largely better value, IMO, compared to the bargain airlines that nickel and dime you to death and treat you badly. With Delta, I have to go through Atlanta. American is Meh.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

Yeah the drawback to the passive wait to be approached strategy that women have is their rejection occurs before they are approached and due to that they may not realize in a timely manner that what they offer is sub-par for the market.

Because deferred approaches are not as noticeable until it is too late. And the remaining approaches are made with a far lower ratio of overall investment in mind that isn't overtly disclosed either.

And women set themselves up for this both by insisting on the passive recipient dynamic and by demonizing any sort of overt rejection/feedback by men.

So men either pump and dump (without saying that was their only intent) or ignore a woman entirely past a certain point.

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