Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Doricel 5mo ago
Nothing says "traditional" more than a single mom with tattoos /s
reignoferror00 6mo ago
The real twist is that she'll cosplay as a Tradwife, until she gets bored and/or fed up with that. Then you'll have the joy of 2 millstones around your neck.
Not even one of her pics shows anything Tradwife related. She just tossed in one sentence of word salad as bait. Electroshock, a lobotomy, and deprogramming wouldn't make a dent on her mindset.
DextroShade 6mo ago
Traditional
OR
Tatted-out baby momma
Pick ONE!
No-Stress-Cat 6mo ago
34 my ass, probably 20 years ago maybe. The neck doesn't lie, and she's the one looking for honesty?
I'll be honest with you prune-face: Your time was up years and years and years and years and years ago. For Christ's sake, she's even got the baby daddy in her profile.
redblow22 6mo ago
the neck never lies
So much truth in 4 words!
Justanaverageguy 6mo ago
Judging from his pic it looks like he hasn’t been around since 1994 judging on his clothing style lol
wswZtyqNGQ 6mo ago
I'll have you know that stonewashed jeans are making a comeback! :P
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6mo ago
Yeah I'm guessing that this woman's age starts with a 4, as in 49, at the youngest. Note her fashion and furniture choices as well, she's got to be Gen X or a very very tail end Boomer.
Guarantee she picked 34 just to make it under age filter cutoffs, but 29 was too big a lie even for her.
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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 6mo ago
Meh... hippy chicks dress like their mothers did when they were rolling around in the mud at Woodstock. There are plenty of sources for vintage clothing to fill that market niche.
There's no way that she's in the late Boomer / early Gen X range. I'm in that range, and she's quite a bit younger than I am in all those pictures. Granted: she's a rough 34, but I find it believable. Being a bohemian takes a toll on a person... especially a woman.
ObliviousDuck Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Do they know we know about the friend zone? Do they think it's appealing to us? Or is that some sort of Nigerian scam style prefilter?
Selling cosplay accessories to middle-aged women on Etsy is not a career success.
She did say there was a twist in her bio.
This again? I'm starting to think you're hiding something else. You're fat aren't you? Fatter and older than your profile suggests.
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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 6mo ago
It's always fun to play, "Put the Pictures in Chronological Order" when a woman has a lot of photos and they're obviously from different times of her life.
The third one in - where she's cosplaying as a wood fairy or something - is the first one, and the one in which she looks the best (if you don't mind sleeve tats on women... which I hate). The fifth one is the most current, and you can see that she has face-planted into the wall. It's also clear that she struggles with her weight, because she seems to be chunky in pics 1 & 4, while trying to hide it with loose-fitting clothes. That's unlikely to be a coincidence because her clothes are much more form-fitting when she's slimmer.
See? Guys are wise to the tricks.
Plus she's a Buddhist, and Eastern religions are catnip for White, New Age, hippy chicks. What's unusual is that she wants to fill the very old-school role of TradWife all of a sudden. It's a trap, because an aged-out hippy chick isn't likely to have the first clue about how to be a TradWife. She also seems unaware that a man looking for a TradWife wouldn't want her.
wswZtyqNGQ 6mo ago
Trad wives
Don't tell you how trad they are.
Chameleons do.
voskresenie 6mo ago
As a general rule, Xs don't tell you how X they are unless X is a bad thing and they're trying to 'own' it in a fruitless attempt to overcome their shame.
ObliviousDuck Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Thank you. I'm re-using that.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
A tradwife doesn't divorce her husband for cash and prizes and deny her husband's children the right to their father by doing so. She quietly goes about managing her husband's home with an eye for carrying out his policies and preferences.
If a tradwife fails at any of the above, she does not excuse her behavior with "it's a twist, teehee!" She repents in tears and makes efforts to change her behavior.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 6mo ago
Even in her Instashit she cannot help but tell on herself.
voskresenie 6mo ago
dang, I'd missed that picture, honestly hilarious. If I didn't know any better, I'd wonder whether her whole profile is a parody — well, it is, obviously, but not the intentional, self-aware kind.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 6mo ago
Soft Eastern religions are. They want to be spiritual, but not religious.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 6mo ago
Not that I have any use for Buddhism, but like Americanized Asian food, Americanized Asian religion is designed for the American palate.
It allows the follower to be "spiritual but not religious," as if that places her above the petty doctrinal differences that actually require the believer to do certain things and refrain from others. She becomes her own moral compass... and that never ends well. Plenty of people who claim to be guided by a higher power are entirely self-referential, but "spiritual but not religious" people drop even the pretense of believing in a moral law beyond what they wish to impose on everyone else.
Rest assured, though... for all her rejection of moral laws that would apply to her, she won't hesitate for a moment to tell you that your view of right/wrong is incorrect if you do something she doesn't like.
Your "traditional" duties as a man will be binding and absolute, but the "twist" is that her traditional duties as a woman will always remain open to interpretation... hers, of course.
voskresenie 6mo ago
Yep. Buddhism has an actual moral code. Not as strict of one as, say, Christianity, and definitely not the kind of Judaism Orthodox Jews practice, i.e. Judaism, but it's still quite clear to the extent that anyone who understands the religion and is trying to follow the spirit of it, rather than looking for loopholes, will pretty much come to the same conclusion as the Buddha would have 2500 years ago. Buddhism also has clear mystical, religious beliefs, mostly adopted from Hinduism. It's not just a 'practice' the way people in the West use it. I wonder, with her 'social' drinking (I think we both know by 'social' she means 'I only get drunk at bars or parties or with my 1 year old son around to keep me company'), if she's aware that Buddhism prohibits use of intoxicants as they lead to bad decision making.
Now, I personally practice most of the core 'practical' tenets of Buddhism, but I would never call myself Buddhist or even mention I follow aspects of it (except here, pseudononymously, where I'm criticizing her for calling herself Buddhist), because I'm not a Buddhist — I don't believe in the religious aspects, nor do I follow the moral aspects 'religiously', I just think it has some good ideas that, when mixed with stoicism (which is quite similar in many ways), have helped me lead a good life. But I guarantee I know ten times more, at least, about the religion than she does, in spite of calling herself Buddhist. I'm sure you and the guy you're replying to are correct that she views Buddhism as a 'spiritual but not religious' practice, but it is religious. It's a religion after all. If you want to take some ideas from it, go ahead, but don't call yourself Buddhist if the only thing you know or practice about it is a woo-ey 5 minute guided meditation twice a year and telling people you're Buddhist so they think you're cool (spoiler: they don't).
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 6mo ago
As usual, just the perks.
chunky 6mo ago
Lot of hard miles on that one.
If she looked the 34 she claims, and had the success she claims too, enough to send the kids to boarding school, getting with her to retire on her money might well be worth it.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 6mo ago
All this talk about a future... Now, why don't we talk about your past? How does it look like?
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 6mo ago
Just like she does now.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
The chameleon is dangerous because she emulates what men have been saying they want for years.
She's dangerous because she is not what she presents herself to be. She is conniving enough to listen to men, if only to better mask herself to rope in a victim.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
A predatory woman in the acquisitive stage is indeed a very dangerous hunter.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6mo ago
I chuckled as I read through the narrative she was trying to create. It seems like a sort of auto-biography that insanely includes a 90's photo of her baby daddy and child. To her, it makes sense since she's self-centered and defines in her mind what she thinks men SHOULD want and men who tell her what she doesn't want to hear aren't "real men" anyway. This is their primary blind-spot but as Napoleon would say: Don't interrupt them making mistakes.
I think in her mind she wants to re-invent herself as a power-trad-thot who will hook up with some middle aged entrepreneur and host his parties and cook lavish dinners in a $100,000 kitchen in a McMansion as he takes his dot.com to IPO and becomes a multi-billionaire and she cashes in on her "investment". Perhaps this is because when she came of age in the 1990's, that was the lottery-win for women of that generation. I personally hoped I would become a multi-millionaire with my stock-options but at least 8/10 of those dot-coms crashed and I was in the 8 out of 10 of them. :-) I have a woman friend who fits this model: She's 36, quite pretty for that age (prettier than this gal) but seeing her in the morning (as a friend) I know she's got to apply face paint to keep up her appearances.
TRP and PUA's have spent decades scientifically studying women to fully understand and manipulate them on an individual basis. We haven't figured out yet how to coordinate our efforts on a political or sociological scale, but few can say today that "we don't understand women" anymore. Moving forward, we will begin to see a wide disparity between the RP who thrive (or at least survive) and BP which burns out early.
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GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
That leather glove thinks very highly of itself, doesn't it.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 6mo ago
If by traditional she means applied a daul-mating strategy well into her thirties like most women seem to do to no practical avail nowadays, then yes, she is very traditional
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Wonder what that "twist" is? Maybe it's something hawt. Who wants to find out? Message her, guys! Don't be scared! "Man Up!" Heheheheheh.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Even in more BP days, I would’ve seen this stuff and, at the very least, felt like something was “off” with her. My experience in dealing with these women would confirm that; they’d often be challenging to deal with. And also the type that says crap like “a real man would do ”, since you’re getting a “traditional” woman, after all.
Also, because she’s “traditional”, you better believe that you’ll do all of the heavy lifting in this pursuit. She’s basically the equal to Apollonia in “The Godfather”; young, fit, friendly, doesn’t ask questions. You know, if you ignore the near geriatric pregnancy age, other men’s children, instagram, and eastern religion that’s probably practiced in order to make herself feel deep without actually upholding moral standards.
Oddest-One-Here 6mo ago
I smell BS
EmpireCrimson 6mo ago
Maybe she's dyslexic - she looks more like 43 than 34. Either way, all the pictures and storytelling can't fool a discerning eye. Good luck lady, you're going to need it.
nicknack 6mo ago
No, that’s just what women in their 30’s look like, and the sad truth is she’s thinner than most of them. We can’t apply male aging standards to them. They’re hot 10 years before we are, but rot 20 years before we do.
EmpireCrimson 6mo ago
There are plenty of women in their 30s who look like the pictures she has on her profile - but I’m convinced that the last photo (in the car) is the current (or most recent) photo, and I’m hard-pressed to believe that she’s 34 in that picture.