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WhereAreAllTheGoodMen · 724 members
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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

  • WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Dual-Mating Strategy

Stripper mom wants a stay-at-home dad while she "makes money" at the club. You don't think strippers only dance do you?
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kevin32

Posted 2y ago in Dual-Mating Strategy - Permalink - Locked - 11.8K Views



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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Pedos be like rubbing their hands at the opportunities all of these thot single mothers wanting 'babysitters' are offering.

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Av0idant_3 2y ago

I was reading yesterday [Like switch] that women with low self-esteem will go for man that is not so wealthy

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

When I was younger and stupid, I did the 'dancer' thing. It wasn't good, and given her lack of any kind of self-restraint or respect it ended how you think it would. It was a good lesson on who not to spend time with.

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MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 2y ago

Same... Young me got oneitis bad for a former classmate. She was from a broken home, and was attending some mainstream dance school, but I figured after the fact she was also that kind of dancer on the side. I offered her a life of love, devotion, and stability. Oh how that dried up her pussy and disgusted her!

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Chaotic women are repelled by things like stability because it means that they can no longer make excuses for their chaos.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

You don't think strippers only dance do you?

A) "dance". lol. Every real dancer I ever knew hated it when strippers called themselves "dancers".

B) but Chris Rock said that there's no sex in the champagne room!

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

All strippers do drugs and fuck for money.

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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2y ago

So, taking her at her word, I get to take care of another man's children while she's out throwing her tits in other dudes' faces every night.

No genetic legacy of my own. No fidelity to me as a man even if she's not blowing dudes in the champagne room (yes, we all know she's doing more than that; I'm steelmaning here). On top of that, the fact I'm not fulfilling the provisionary role will see me ridiculed both by individuals who know us both and by wider society.

Oh boy. What a deal. Where's the sign up sheet.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

Well, look on the bright side of life: Society ridicules men NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. If you are "fulfilling the provisionary role", you've got a target on your back for divorce rape and alimony and child-support. Ask Kevin Costner. You have to compete in a workplace where your "privilege" is constantly being "checked". I have a friend whose a nice guy, and I like his wife, but they spend money as fast as it comes in. The 1950's "breadwinner role" has been trashed for 4 generations now.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yup. Part of me thinks this actually isn’t a bad deal. Imagine being in your late 30’s and having nothing going on, and some woman offers to pay for everything AND let you have sex, and all you have to do is clean some messes up and make sure her kids don’t get themselves killed. And then when she ages out of her legalized whoring career, you can divorce her for a payout and resume life. So why not play the game with the rules they’ve set, when you have no social benefit to playing by the old rules anyway?

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

I know a guy whose a "chad", good looking (my wife has a nickname for him: "fox") and he said that a pretty doctor was interested in him (he's an RN) but his machismo refused to let a woman be the breadwinner. I think he's nuts. Like you said, all the risk was on her. IMO, he allowed himself to be shamed into subservience to women. He bought a girlfriend a $5,000 engagement ring and it didn't work out and let her keep it.

I point out to people that the origins of "court"ship were knights hitting on daughters of wealthy nobleman and getting "huge tracts of land" as dowries. Romantic love was idealized about UNATTRACTIVE or poor men, such as Cyrano De Bergerac wanting pretty women to fall for him or noblewomen to fall for street musicians/hobos (think of Aladdin).

So this begs the question: When did this go topsy-turvy? Perhaps because of the success of the growth of the middle class during the early 1900's to 1960's, a lot of men came to think, as Archie Bunker put it "Guys like us have it made". Fathers-in-law no longer provided dowries. "Knights" and "Gentlemen" were no longer the gentrified wealthy, but rather merely a white collar working class similar to how women think they have "status" because they spend thousands on a designer handbag, men thought they were "gentlemen" because they held open women's doors and paid for things.

The gentrified class didn't get to be wealthy by giving away their money.

We'll see the turnaround on this as more RP men start to make a profit not from selling this to other men, but by getting "ladies" to foot their bills.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

She sounds perfect for a man trying to scam his way into the country via marriage.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Like, eww.

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WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Sidebar

We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

  • 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

  • WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
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