Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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DextroShade 1y ago
What a stupid bitch, she got knocked up by Pookie from the hood and now wants some other guy to pay for it. Accountability is kryptonite.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
So let me check out this logic:
If a man cheats his wife has to suffer him cheating, therefore the man who didn't cheat on his wife has to pay child support for the kid who isn't his, because she can't remember who the real father is...
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
“When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.”
She's a ho.
reignoferror00 1y ago
Think this is the right place for this half remembered quote "I'd call her a cunt, but she lacks both the depth and warmth"
If you're "going through a lot", put the child up for adoption. Their bar for qualified parent(s) is well above your level; you couldn't limbo under how low of a bar you've set.
What you truly deserve would violate several laws in the Geneva convention.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
WTF?
it's a disease of the mind or drugs or both?
(women go through a lot in marriages and deserve better)?
what are men going through then? Must be tough to be the not only the center of your universe but to not actually know there's something outside of it.
The IQ is low in this one
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What exactly do women go through in marriage? Most of the time, a woman marries a man with higher income potential, and often marries an older man. That man is probably helping to provide that woman with a significantly better standard of living than she’d receive on her own.
Take Boston, for example. Teacher is a common job for an “educated woman”. Mean wage for a high school teacher in Boston is $86,600 (median is probably something like $80,000, which is a better measure). According to Zillow, the typical home value in the metro area is around $659k. And the majority of the housing price inflation has come from what were historically “less expensive” towns; not a single town in the area has a median home price of under $400k.
So say you want a home off a median teacher income. Well, even a $500k home, if you manage to save up $100k for a proper down payment, will probably end up costing you around $3000 a month in PITI. $36k a year. About 42% of your annual pay, which is about 50% more than the amount a financial advisor would approve of.
However, a lot of these women look to marry men who maybe make $150k a year. He could afford that $500k home, as it’s only 24% of his income. He has, by simple math, made her life better.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
it's going to be interesting now that women in the 20-30 age group earn more than men and it's increasing rate and also it will carry forward into the 30-40 age range.
Do women (settle) for a guy who earns less or the same as them? gasp!
Really gonna be a lot of complaining, I see it already but it's going to be increasing.
You'll hear more about women setting up pre-nups,etc also, to "protect themselves". I think marriage will be for a minority of younger people in 10 years. When women don't have the "advantage", it won't happen. Marriage is for women.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The best part of all is, these “women”, as they get older, gravitate towards a dude like me more, and more, and more. Soon my height doesn’t matter anymore.
What makes it even more fun is that I don’t need them. I can go find a prettier, younger woman.
Men in the top 5-10% of earners for their age bracket have the world at their fingertips. Every woman wants them. Even if they earn a lot of money, they still want a man who is at least roughly equal to show off to their girl tribe.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
correct, if it's just a fling, it's all about looks/personality.
anything more than a fling and $$$ plays a role. status, lifestyle (vacations),etc. He's got to pay at least his way and "giggle" some of mine too. BARF
As an old guy, in shape and has money. It's good. I just use OLD and I'm maxed out. Vast majority just either are overweight, or bad attitude or zero RMV. I found the girl I"m with and it was like, wait, she actually is good looking, in shape and not a bitch, what's wrong?
Still having fun with her, but there won't be a ring and she pays her way ;)
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
My girlfriend expressed surprise at how many older people Have relationships but not marriage in the USA. I told her straight up that a lot of men simply aren’t interested in a potential round 2 of divorce court. If the sex is already happening, why does it need a ring? And as women get older, this relationship becomes more palatable, since having some investment from a HVM is better than nothing at all.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
yup, was married, much of it was not good, would have left years before but had kids. wasn't gonna have her raise my kids.
So, I have grown kids, she has grown kids, why get married? She wants it of course, I just tell her, ain't going to happen and my money is going to my kids, just like I expect hers to go to her kids.
She actually asks me why i'm with her when I could get a girl 10 years younger. I just smile and tell her to keep doing what she's doing.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. You’re with her because she fits into your situation. That’s huge.
My example is that I’ve had a reasonable amount of success for a man my age. I’m not interested in changing my life to fit into the life of a crappier version of me.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You're assuming women use the same logic as you just used. They do not. I don't think I've ever known a woman who was actually good with money - understanding how to save, provide for the future, avoid debt/interest, invest. You can throw all those "median income" and home value figures at them all day, it's useless. All they know is that their girlfriends have something they don't, and they want it. They demand 6' but can't estimate height.
IMHO it's more about choosing to be content and thankful, no matter what your station in life. Rich women divorce more, because they are never happy with what they have. They are prideful and always think they deserve more.
This is why some manosphere guys recommend going to some poor country and "rescuing" a poor girl. In some cases that girl will be incredibly thankful for just a place to live and food to eat, like a neglected dog that is shown kindness. Of course the trick is maintaining that attitude, which dogs seem to be better at, but that's another story.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That’s true. I know a “power couple” who probably made over half a mil a year. They’re divorcing. There was no amount of stuff that could be bought to make the witch happy.
I 100% believe that women, in general, need men. Because a woman will gladly pull the trigger to get a $1m home if the household income is good, because “you’ll just be able to pay it off”. Men actually seem to understand the downside risk more often.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've made under $20k for over 20 years. Way I see it, I'm the rich one.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I was reading how FDS has fled reddit due to it being "hostile against women" (yeah laugh) and a key tenet of it is that a woman should NEVER marry "down", even if BOTH improve their lives. Hypergamy requires always getting MORE from a mate than they put in.
So let's say a woman who earns $80K marries a guy who earns $70K. She's still improved her life because combined, they have $150K to play with before taxes. It's why men marry down in that we recognize that yes, the other person is "marrying up", but we still benefit more than, absent divorce rape, etc., we're better off married to a reliable woman.
The anger of most such women is when their hypergamy backfires on them: The guy who earns more cheats on her. He perhaps is abusive. He perhaps just led her on. Boo hoo, selfish people are cheated sometimes. Cry a river. It takes courage to say "I'm going to accept that I put more into this than I deserve, but I'm better off for it." In a world full of "zero sum" gamers, it's an awful place and there are societies much like that. I see it a LOT in dysfunctional workplaces where everyone is out for themselves or their cliques and the place is a miserable hellhole.
Moving forward, there should be ZERO sympathy for women who gripe about any singlehood problems in that their hypergamy results in their singleness. She has to work a full time job and do all the childcare? Tough, it's her choice. She doesn't have time for a vacation? Again, tough. When I go with my wife on vacation she helps handle the child while I do all the planning, airport logistics, and so on. She knows I have that covered. She just has to pack bags and get the child dressed.
Looking back 30 years ago, I'm astonished at how naive and open I was in that I'd have married far more inferior women if they had just perhaps paid their way on a date or been more open and less demanding but I they alienated me. I'm HAPPY their open selfishness drove me away.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yes, women go through "a lot" in marriages. Most of it is self-inflicted due to ignorance/selfishness. There's a total lack of understanding among women about marriage and what it requires from them. Most never figure it out and blame the men. It's easier that way and you get cash and prizes for lifelong willful ignorance.
Unfortunately the only way to swing the balance is for women to be so desperate that they become willing to return to actual equality, to learn the ways of the skillful housewife. There was a time when men were the prize to be won in marriage, and a potential bride's father would have to "sell" his daughter to you, extolling her good qualities and potential for being a dutiful wife. A dowry was included because that's fair - you'll be taking a financial burden on, so here's something to get you started. There was a calculated idea of what each brought to the table. Loyalty and the distinct duties of husband and wife were understood from the start.
Today's women miss their purpose in life (a man) and instead prefer medication, wine, small animals, and workaholism to fill the void.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well said. Great insight
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Today's women miss their purpose in life (a man) and instead prefer medication, wine, small animals, and workaholism to fill the void.
Brilliant!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Tag @moorekom
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They want the authority of a man, the privileges of a woman, and the responsibility of a child. Modern women are garbage. This isn’t even shocking to me, I expect that they are all like this now.
Never sign a birth certificate without a paternity test, even if it’s proven not to be your child the family court system will still make you pay child support. Same situation holds true even if you were raped by a woman, as a 16 year old boy found out in Kansas.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
The mental retardation on display there is 100% legitimate. So much so that having sex with her would probably constitute a felony. At least, it should.
TriumphoftheSwill 1y ago
I'm tired of hearing shit like emotional labor and how much women 'endure'. Women have absolutely no idea how much men put up with just being with them. Even when they are bitching, complaining, threatening, criticizing or whining it's like looking after a giant retarded obese childish psychopath.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Oh I get it. She's trying to equate bastards between men and women. So if a married man has a bastard, he has to pay for it and his wife has to forgive him. If a married woman has a bastard, her husband has to pay for it and forgive her. The logic here is that the beta/provider men must be responsible for his own bastards and his wife's bastards. Meanwhile alpha/seed men and the women they get pregnant have no responsibility. Open hypergamy was bad enough, now they're pushing for open cuckoldry.
Ya know, they used to do this in the time of Kings. It was called prima nocta. It's the right of the ruler to have sex with any of his subjects, particularly on their wedding night. Replace ruler with Chad and subjects with women and there you have it. Well fellas, Chad has a right to have sex with your wives. Love it or leave it.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
So marriage is so terrible for women eh? Good thing MGTOW is taking off then, it will save so many women from that horrible institution of marriage, thus allowing women to remain strong and independent forever more.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Strong and independent and free for an early retirement to die alone of neglect in a nursing home. Because if they managed to have kids, their life was shitty enough as a result of her choices that they no longer have the time or patience to check up on a woman that should have known to choose better when she was younger and had that freedom of choice.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Tell me "I cheated and had another man's baby" without saying it.