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Sleepy_Dragyn 4y ago
Why do they say, "if that's a deal breaker, swipe left." I mean, we know how the app works.
[deleted] 4y ago
Only if "handled" means hogtied with economy hemp rope and "fix me" means left by the garbage cans in the gutter.
coldsteel86 4y ago
This one is a real catch......21 years old and life is already an explosive shit mess!
[deleted] 4y ago
That nose ring says all I need to know.
SquirtBurt 4y ago
I didn’t even read her text. Once I saw the nose ring in the pic my thumb automatically swiped left out of habit.
DrDog09 4y ago
There is nothing to fix here. Get out the hog prod and ride her like the sow that she is, nose ring and all.
Manoj109 4y ago
Billy beta save a ho to the rescue.
SpearWeasel 4y ago
drama filled, Bull ring, drinks and smokes frequently, has a kid (DID she stop smoking and drinking while Prego? Probably not.) Found God now that she needs a sugar daddy looking for a charity case...
SpearWeasel 4y ago
Nursing student? Cosmetology? Stripper? "Social services" recipient? Any other guesses?
Manoj109 4y ago
No self respecting man would put it with that toxic bullshit. Its obvious that she is a lot or problem and is scared.
Juice not worth the squeeze.
Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago
We all know people who have that savior complex with women. Just observe how this NEVER WORKS with them. If you somehow do manage to fix their clusterfuck of a life, they will absolutely leave the second a better option appears. In the words of project pat, “don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved”.
Mister_McDerp 4y ago
that thing in her nose is already a deal breaker.
Alturius 4y ago
Typical psychology used by a worthless woman who has nothing to offer, having wasted her best on hot men who did not deserve it.
I come with a lot of baggage
Swipe right if you think you can handle and fix me
Devilsgun 4y ago
Not my job, bitch. Fix thyself.
On a side note she looks like the love child of Mr. Bean and Sid from Ice Age. She has nothing to bargain with except her gash, which we all know is a universal commodity that isn't worth jack shit.
TheSigilStone 4y ago
"Marriage", "Christian", "Have and want more"
Haha the cognitive dissonance is too real. No Christian man would take up a single mother as filthy and slutty looking as her. I guess she traded that abstinence ring for a nose ring.
SpearWeasel 4y ago
Some SIMP will see her as God's mission for him, to fix and wife her up and provide for the child. He'll never see what hit him...
A_Bit_Narcissistic 4y ago
The frequent drinking and smoking is the icing on the cake. Red flags out the wazoo.
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TheSigilStone 4y ago
Christ bled (wine) so that she may (drink) lie down and take the lord's divine blessing inside her. (Cock)
yellomachine 4y ago
That day approaches.
holymotherofbunnies 4y ago
As an abstinent Christian woman, I have the urge to accuse her of cultural appropriation.
GreenAbbreviations91 4y ago
This might sound like hyperbole, but the fate of the west entirely hinges on virtuous people like you, kudos.
holymotherofbunnies 4y ago
Thanks.
Jihocech_Honza 4y ago
Maybe she is inspired by the story od St. Mary of Egypt.
MarcoASN2002 4y ago
Why so many people are against jewelry in the face? or against tattoos? i know what is the point here but im just curious, ive meet very nice people with far more things in their face or with a bunch of tattoos, and i kinda wonder why that is an immediate red flag to some people.
StatisticsJason 4y ago
For me it's a big physical turn off. How nice they are doesn't matter when you are physically repulsed.
[deleted] 4y ago
Because it signifies a willingness to disfigure their body, to make impulsive decisions, to not care about what messages they are sending by the way they present themselves. In short, it signals poor LTR material.
SpearWeasel 4y ago
In MANY, not all, it is a sign of past trauma and unresolved issues both current and or past. I work in social services, foster care to be exact. See it all the time.
While not causation, it correlates like a MoFo.....
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Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago
Spot on. Acting on impulse alone.
MarcoASN2002 4y ago
Thanks, this is the kind of response i was looking for, and makes perfect sense. Tho it still doesn't bother me, you made a perfect point right there.
Disciple_Of_Cheesus 4y ago
If the thousand cock stare doesn't tell you what's up, the drinking, the smoking, and the septum piercing definitely should.
SoulBadguy0408 4y ago
Septum piercings disgust me, cant stand to look at women who have one
NohoTwoPointOh 4y ago
Cats that survived Khe Sanh have that stare.
She’s seen some shit.
roxboxers 4y ago
“Cats” are we being cool by talkin’ all retro 70’s Or were there cats in Vietnam?
Cultistofthewheel 4y ago
Trail of a Thousand Dicks
skint_back 4y ago
Battle of a Thousand Bulges
Cultistofthewheel 4y ago
The Battle of Many Bighorns
NinjasOwnTheNight 4y ago
Bhutan death March stare
Jihocech_Honza 4y ago
Nepal was more popular with the hippies, I suppose
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWtD8dhAS1U
PopularBug5 4y ago
And Christianity too. Barring exceptions Christian girls are sluts. They regard their religion as a safety net for them to chameleon into wholesome tradcon girls (who still show tits, drink, do drugs, lie, cheat, by the way, just not into fornication stuff) later when they couldn't hook up with Mister Big Shots anymore in their prime.
[deleted] 4y ago
Yeah, it really takes a strong sisterhood to keep hypergamy in check on a cultural bubble level. I've seen it work, like a small ethnic church where there's sort of a cultural expectation of being submissive, obedient wives. The wives all enforce/teach it, and the younger ones follow suit. Divorce rate zero, happy families (in general).
But yeah, the typical American church is full of hypocrites. Also, girls like this are just using the label to virtue signal purity and other values they do not possess.
[deleted] 4y ago
Only fundamentalist Christians are somewhat respectable in their social life (of course they come with other baggages which many people might not like), but not even then in all cases, in some cases they just can't handle the restrictions and revolt in an all out way becoming massive sluts. But most of them do it covertly. I knew a fundie girl who was trying to convert me very hard to become religious, and while she was preaching about Jesus, she had oral and anal sex on her 18th birthday from 2 guys. Yeah it wasn't adultery since no vaginal penetration happened, but come on. She is lucky that I kept my mouth and didn't tell her priest father, I didn't want to mess up their family.
[deleted] 4y ago
OTOH, it might have been better to let her father know. These tradcucked, boomer pastors often have no idea what's going on under their noses. "My family is just fine" level ignorance. The more they are kept ignorant the more their kids get away with.
As a father of an 11 year old daughter, I'd sure as hell want to know, so I could shoot both of them and disown her posthumously. Only semi-kidding :)
Incidentally, this kinda stuff often happens on "mission trips" where the young girls of the church raise thousands of dollars to "find themselves" in distant countries. I don't think most people are aware of it, and it isn't always the case, but it happens a lot.
And yes, you're absolutely correct that there's no way that's at all "virginity".
[deleted] 4y ago
Nah she was ok, we were childhood friends and hanged out many times, I wasn't trying on hitting on her and she also didn't try it on me, although she was kind of suspiciously nice later on. In any case it's not my business to intervene in her life, since anyone can make a mistake. She went on to a fairly expensive college that her father paid, imagine the circus if he had found out, I didn't want to ruin her life like that, if anyone is going to ruin her life it's gonna be her alone.I am just saying that Christian women can also be hardcore hypocrites, in fact most of them are, but to be fair, my friend was a hardcore liberal and you could see that on her from miles away, she was selling anime shit and was extremely into art and had a very dreamy spoiled girl liberal mentality even though she was also hardcore religious, so the two, very contradictory worldviews were constantly fighting in her head and who knows which one won over. I haven't maintained relations with her but if I pick it up ever again, it would be interesting to see how her life turned out.
Of course it's not, the hymen can be ruptured from using the bicycle too much, virginity is not about the physical penetration, but about the abstenance and keeping yourself clean until you marry a nice guy. If you half dirty yourself and pretend that you are still a saint, that is even worse than admitting that you are a slut, at least then you kept your honesty.
[deleted] 4y ago
Yep totally agree on the abstinence thing, makes sense to me.
I actually think it probably ruined her life more to be sent to college. I think college makes women unmarriageable in several ways. For instance, she's not going to stop doing what she was doing sexually - she's going to be worse. Her N-count will go up like crazy and she will be unable to be happily married ever. That's just one reason I think her (and all similar women) should be called what they are, in public - whores and sluts. Bring the shame back, and watch women fall in line.
[deleted] 4y ago
Probably but her father probably also keeps an eye on her and restricts her in certain way, so either he was succesful in doing this or she rebelled, cut relations with him and became a total slut. IDK how it happened, but if I ever get in touch with her again, it will be interesting finding out. From what I remember she was kind of drunk at that party, so maybe she did that by accident and was deeply ashamed and vowed to never do that again, but who knows. I personally wouldn't have dated her after that incident since it was a deep red flag that if you are down, you are disposed to cheat and sleep around like a total slut, women should just have more self-control than this. Ironically religious women have the least self control, and are the most prone to gambling and alcoholism, I know this for a fact because when I used to go to church with a very religious family member, all her aquaintances were struggling with gambling addiction and alcohol, but were Christians lol. A lot of Christianity today is just hypocrisy, so one has to be very skeptical about very pious women.
[deleted] 4y ago
Christians are actually more hypocritical because we claim to have a high set of moral standards that we rarely actually meet. That's one thing, to struggle with this, but then turning around and acting self-righteous and putting on a show to others, acting better than they are, is how we get into trouble and what really pisses people off.
And a big purpose of being part of a church is that we should be calling people out on this stuff, being fat abusive slut wives is simply not ok and these things should be shamed. It helps no one to keep it quiet if people live like this habitually.
My wife is actually an extremely submissive, pious woman, but wouldn't ever say she was. That's sort of a mark of someone who is humble - they really think they are not humble :)
Anyway not saying you did anything wrong, and I wish her the best, but also don't have much hope for that. If she's like most sluts she is destined for a miserable life as a lonely and unsuccessful woman.
[deleted] 4y ago
A lot of Christian women only go to church to show themselves off how pious they are. Oh you have a new nice dress, new shoes, new gossip to tell, the religious community becomes a platform of vanity and to show themselves off how better they are compared to others, especially in rural areas and it's not even something new, it has been like this for centuries at least, I remember my great grandmother (born in 1922) telling me about this, so this is not due to modernity.
But give this girl some slack, she is not actually the worst woman that I have met ,and unfortunately I have to extremely lower my expectations because if we compare this to modern times, and if we are looking for wife material, this kind of behavior is still in the top half of the score list, I'd give her a 7/10 based on her behavior alone, on the looks she was kind of nerdy looking, like a geek secretary type, a bit thicc, short and with glasses, not the best looking girl but sort of ok if you are looking for a wife.
And I really say this disappointed because trust me there are much much much worse women out there, so she is nothing compared to the worst whores I have met. I have known a woman that was absolutely unsuportable and peak annoyance that on a list of 1 to 10 would merit something like negative infinity. I have probably met the worst kind of women possible: single mom mailbride golddigger, unsupportable yelling bitch, cheated sick husband with some fuckboy, and peak arrogance not tolerating any kind of criticism. May the heavens bless you so that you never have to meet these kinds of women but unfortunately there are more and more of them by the day. Treat your loyal wife and raise your daughter decently and avoid these abusive women from a mile away, trust me you have no idea how bad they are.
Keyboard-King 4y ago
Astrology and Christian? Pick one, you can’t be both.
“And beware lest you raise your eyes to heaven, and when you see the sun and the moon and the stars, all the host of heaven, you be drawn away and bow down to them and serve them, things that the Lord your God has allotted to all the peoples under the whole heaven.” - Deuteronomy 4:19
killr4dayzXD 4y ago
If they say they work out “sometimes” it means they sweat when they get their back blown out every weekend. Also, drinking and smoking regularly as a single mom with a kid? Yikes
Scourmont 4y ago
Well I'm not Vatican approved but I can try an exorcism
Obnoxiousjimmyjames 4y ago
She's almost guaranteed to only cheat on you a few times, but she's really sorry and it will never happen again.
One-Move 4y ago
Ok honey, I fix stuff, but I need responsibility, you sign me over full guardianship for you and your kids and I fix it. Oh what do you say? I have to fix it without being able to say how,
kyledontcare 4y ago
Don't be Captain Save-a-ho. It's a fools errand.
Enough-Staff-2976 4y ago
She's what the military speaks of as a "Dirty Bomb"!
PopularBug5 4y ago
Her stares got more cocks than dollars in Bezos' bank account.
[deleted] 4y ago
Another preacher's daughter.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Hey, she says she wants more kids, guys! That's rare for an online dating profile. Who wants to "Man Up"?
Bonus: Kid will be born with a deviated septum.
areyes1118 4y ago
Cmon guys? This is a joke,right?
I-am-the-lul 4y ago
If only that was the case...
b_a_d_r0b0t 4y ago
No, I am going to enjoy watching you get old with lots of cats and scream at the world.
The_Choir_Invisible 4y ago
Related.
hongsta2285 4y ago
I love the last bit on the bio im a Christian progressive Christian so that automatically walls u off going let's not sin any more with pre marital sex and I gave it to chad for free. But hey u can fix me pay my bills for me and chads kid... wtf get outta here cray cray
[deleted] 4y ago
I can’t stand when these young single moms say they still want more children. Like you clearly aren’t even callable of raising one child properly, why do you want more? Oh right, you want to baby-trap a provider to get a bailout after having Chad’s baby.
The_Choir_Invisible 4y ago
"More" in this case means "I'll have a child with you as a bargain for you raising other men's children." I dated a woman whose husband had died 4-5 year prior and that was a possibility I was willing to entertain. Not in a case like this though. In this case, it's more like how some women with BPD will sleep with a huge amount of men during a relatively short period of time, effectively rolling multiple pairs of dice hoping one of them will stick around.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
More baggage than a dirty airport luggage carousel....
niks2592 4y ago
That nose ring is the first red flag..
MRMRising 4y ago
A smoker, drinker, only a HS level education, and already has a kid.
Well, on the bright side, at least she doesn't have $37,000 in student loan debt and a Gender studies degree.
Devilsgun 4y ago
Well now that comes after YOU enter the picture.
You babysit while she takes on loans, studies with the hatedykes, and sucks dick between classes. When she's done she dumps you, strip mines you via the cucked Whiteknight legal system, and bounces. You get to pay her bills forevermore
Filtering_aww 4y ago
Oh no, YOU work and pay for her schooling with the understanding after she graduates and gets a decent job it's your turn to go to school/get an advanced degree while she supports the both of you (plus bastard crotch goblin). So nearly what you described, but no loans. At least you don't have to pay loan interest as well?
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Devilsgun 4y ago
I considered myself a 'restorer of women' for a good, long time since they'd come to me after Chads had basted her and bounced, and I would make them feel sooooo good that after a while she'd finally have the confidence to find a new Chad to baste her pussyhole, asshole, and mouthhole once again... It was all good though, since my only concern was getting my share of the pie. Hell, I even helped them pack up. They'd invariably come back to fuck some more, since I didn't freak the fuck out and cry about them leaving. It's the goddamndest thing, the shittier you are with them the more they want to be with you.
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Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago
Treat them like dirt, make them wet, and they stick like mud!
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
So, did you help "restore" their hymen?
Devilsgun 4y ago
Nah, quite the opposite. It was all just a con job to get some poontang.
In truth I was the dating equivalent of a 'Buy Here Pay Here' car lot. I'd get the wrecks dirt cheap, polish their egos up a bit, send them off the lot, and have them haul themselves back to repeat the process until they finally 'stuck' elsewhere, moved away, or got such intolerable Baby Rabies that they had to have someone, ANYONE 'fill in the blank' in her womb (which I apparently couldn't, thankfully)
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 4y ago
Her face communicates 3 things to me: Hard liquor, hard drugs, hard pass.
AlextheHun24 4y ago
I recommend a therapist.
hongsta2285 4y ago
Id definitely rearrange her insides with protection then discard her like garbage and take my condom with me. U definitely can't trust this broad baby trap 100% confirmed
[deleted] 4y ago
Great, another broken single mom who will use aforementioned damage as an excuse to be abusive and a total bitch.
Where do I sign up?
originaldutchcow 4y ago
Handle you ? Only dogs need a handler
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Basic-ass manipulative shaming language that should be transparent to any man with experience.
She's attempting to exploit the savior complex many men have, along with the implied insult to your competence and thus masculinity via the "can handle" bullshit.
Anytime a woman attempts to question or outright insult your manhood, just take a moment and think about what she's trying to gain from you. Those statements are almost never based on any principle, but rather an attempt to benefit at your cost, whether that's time, money, effort, or some combination.
In this particular case, it's obvious what she stands to gain. She needs a bailout to save her from her bad decisions and to pay for the child she bore to the man she really wanted.
djc_tech 4y ago
All good points! Now I’m old and wise enough to see a red flag so huge the Chinese would fly it at a parade. Let’s hope most other men are too.
There needs to be some mentoring classes ri stop dudes from making stupid decisions
NuclearTheology 4y ago
Worse yet, when the well-meaning guy justifiably nopes on out of there, it won’t be because she’s an insufferable nag who drains every ounce of goodwill out of the suitor. It’s because the man “couldn’t handle a strong independent single mom” and that dude is gonna see some slander because of it
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
That was a good one.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Yeah, even when I was completely naive and inexperienced, I noped right out of situations like that.
I-am-the-lul 4y ago
Damaged women, much like Humpty Dumpty, cannot be put back together again even if you had all the King's horses and all the King's men.
Watson_A_Name 4y ago
That's the problem. She's already had all the king's horses and all the king's men. Now you're left to pick up the pieces.
I-am-the-lul 4y ago
r / notmyjob
polishknightusa 4y ago
This thinking has to originate from somewhere. What gives women this level of entitlement that their problems become assets?
In the dating world of the past, men were taught to be Mr. Fix It who were judged by how well they "kept" their women. Even back in the 1950's, there were men who were slaves to women. "No woman of mine is going to work!" some would say not because they were against women working, but as a matter of their manhood, they felt a need to provide a life of ease for a woman.
This warped view of traditionalism may explain why women such as this think that their problems are some sort of "fun challenge" for a guy, like a video game where you move shit from one side of the screen to the other and get a prize (more shit.)
We're in a war against a mindset that's been in place for about a hundred years now.
Doogie76 4y ago
Well to be fair in the old days women had a lot of household shit to do. Now that men have invented stuff to take care of laundry, dish washers, microwaves - etc they don't have to pull anything other than a vagina to do their share (in women's mind). At least 2 generations have been pampered and it shows. Even the most simple things like cooking is the patriarchy holding them down.
The problem is men lagged behind women in figuring this out. Mostly due to the fact of the single mom epidemic as now boys were learning from their moms and not their Dads as they should.
Women got pampered and only now are men starting to realize the shitty deal it is for them. Thanks to social media men can talk to other men in mass and figure out the game is rigged against them. Before it was rumor or one offs. Now we know better and can rub one out as needed.
Women's shaming is in response to this. I mean they did it before but never so openly. And it works for them to some degree. At least for a time but even that is changing. Women are now ended up alone with no kids and going crazy and lashing out
polishknightusa 4y ago
Well, a lot happened all at once sort of like that Fukushima disaster: Not just all the "labor saving devices" for the home but also all the comfy office jobs that should have gone to white collar men instead being grabbed by feminists. My brother married a career woman who earned almost exactly the same he did in the early 80's. I'd say that was the "happy times" of feminism: Still lots of women who chose to stay home to leave slots open, a plentiful supply of older baby boomer men to marry and few Gen X women to compete for access to them. Affirmative action back then largely benefitted middle class white women since they comprised the vast majority of beneficiaries since Asian and Hispanic immigration was still low and African Americans largely were not poised to take advantage of these benefits.
Heck, African American men were likely pushed OUT of certain labor markets due to the influx of bourgeois and working class white women competing for the same jobs. Makes you think about what helped to trash the inner city African American family, doesn't it?
The USSR lasted 69 years. Women's workplace "equality" (via affirmative action) is going on about 55 years now and the promised utopia of women living up to equality and they, and men, being happier clearly hasn't come to fruition just as the USSR showed cracks in about that same time frame. 69 years is an interesting time frame in that it's just long enough for the oldest person born to remember it. There was a guy in a village in Ukraine that I wished I had met who was born in 1891 and I easily could have dropped by if I had known. Anyhow, the point being that this time period was sufficiently short for people to remember the origins, the implementation, and the failure and communicate it.
In the 90's, the first of the spinster generation started to appear. I dated a few of them. I deflowered a 36 year old virgin who had just waited for a worthy educated man to live up to her 1950's demands of men. Well, she found me wanting and moved on and got knocked up by some other sucker. I checked and she was divorced with two frumpy soy looking kids. But dozens of other spinsters I dated in that era were less lucky. Nonetheless, women of this era were still reasonably feminine in appearance at least and if you paid for dinner dates and kept your mouth shut, you could get some tail pretty easy.
I suppose since then things have degraded even further hence these Reddit threads. Even these women back then had what i call minor hypergamy: "at least" as tall, educated, and earning as they were. Some even were a bit flexible.
I just got off the phone with a friend who lived through the whole USSR and he tells me that up to the end, the level of delusion amongst believers in communism was high. They never imagined that the USSR could fail and believed that the economic collapse of the USA was imminent. At that time, it was truly laughable to think such a thing but look at us? In 30 years since then, the whole nation has gone rotten to the core despite not having a real world power threatening us on the world stage. Extraordinary.
Feminism is just one of the poisons seeping through the west, and the USA in particular, at this time and it's like asking me to clean a car that someone has puked in, spread motor oil around the seats, and dropped a glitter bomb on it.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Much of this stuff is instinct rather than cultural. Men have always protected and provided. Women have always manipulated, since they lack the physical strength or reasoning ability to get their way without manipulating.
polishknightusa 4y ago
The feminists have an argument against this and there's some sense to it. Hear me out: They complain that there was a "catch" to men providing and protecting women. That men did so because the women were their property. That she couldn't just sleep with chads for fun while he provided for her. And that, if you think about it, is fundamentally what drives so-called women's equality: The notion of women being able to sleep with the top men but without the consequence of losing access to beta bucks stuff. They want the state to make men into serf slaves to serve women via the welfare state.
While men protected women, the notion of women being provided for like a 1950's housewife is largely laughable. She didn't just sit around watching a stone-age TV eating bon-bons. She was expected to work in the fields. There was a lot of housework and this work wasn't necessarily as safe and comfy as it is to push a mop or run a vacuum cleaner today. They'd fetch water (which is tougher than it sounds), make fires to do laundry and baths, harvest the crops, among other things.
If a man was privileged and empowered, his wife didn't have the right to just demand he buy her things to keep her around. In ancient times, the men wore the jewelry.
But as kept assets, like children, women perhaps over time have grown emotionally stunted from the responsibility of their choices and hence, as Vito Corleone put it, they can 'afford' to be careless.
But note that the idea of a man being a slave to a woman is quite recent and certainly not the case in the rest of the developing world although western oligarchs are exporting that thinking to them.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
I don't see how that's an argument against what I said at all. Both what I said and what you said can be true, simultaneously.
polishknightusa 4y ago
There's a notion of protecting something you own or have rights to versus protecting out of "instinct."
This notion of protecting and even providing for women out of "gentlemanly" behavior or chivalry is very modern and largely western.
skint_back 4y ago
Men have protected women since humans became a species. Men throughout history died by the millions to protect their societies (re: women and children) because the alternative was your loved ones being sold into slavery.
The psychology involved here is evolutionary in nature.
polishknightusa 4y ago
There's a difference in scale and intent between men dying by the millions to protect their societies ("women and children") versus in tribal communities. The purpose of agricultural civilization for most of history has been to enforce and protect the social order defined by privileged men and millions of men were treated like cattle. The Mongols even used to refer to serfs in agricultural societies as "cattle" since the serfs ate bread made from grass in the fields. The military, religious, and social order (as represented on playing cards in "suits") was designed to subjugate men to serve the elites and nobles. That's what the 17th and 18th century enlightenments were all about overturning.
The modern notion of chivalry where men died to protect their "women and children" is a recent one. Men who consciously went to battle not on orders of their self-serving state but rather their own will did so to protect their society that INCLUDED themselves. And in particular, they might have done so to, er, grab some women from the other societies (read the Bible sometime) and loot and pillage.
Consider how people will sometimes kill to protect their homes like the Mccloskeys. They are defending their property and their rights to it.
There may be something evolutionary to seemingly selfless male behavior to pander to women and sacrifice himself to her in that briefly in evolutionary history, tribes existed where the communities shared food and resources (communism) and males begged or won sexual attention from females. But this was overall a rather brief period in human evolution from raw animal behavior to tribal warfare.
skint_back 4y ago
Whether to protect from wild animals, neighboring tribes, neighboring militaries, or the creepy guy that lives on the corner, men have always protected women… that’s the point.
polishknightusa 4y ago
Let's try this: One of the most popular shaming ploys particularly in the west is for women to mock men by saying "Be a man!" or "No boys need apply!"
There's a process where boys become "men" in a society and traditionally those standards were set by men (whether as a society or the elites.) Heck, I love this Seinfeld episode that goes into a boy's confusion when his Bat Mitzvah doesn't make him a "real man"
https://youtu.be/vLRT47mvBig?t=67
You know the stories about boys raised by wolves? Or heck, inner city children who grow up who are not "always" going to protect women? Even in "tribal" behavior, there was civilization in some ways more civilized than in today's culture. Some Romans used to flee to Germanic Barbarian cultures because, in their opinion, the culture was more "civilized" and masculine.
Have you ever seen Emerald Forest? I love this wedding:
https://youtu.be/OKpJkg4e5bE?t=27
Anyhoo, my point is that boys are SOCIALIZED into men. To assume this is "instinctual" would imply that healthy masculine behavior wouldn't need to be taught and particularly by men. This is the assumption of the welfare state single mother paradigm.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Comment removed for rule 1.
Also, stop blaming men for women's bad choices. It's a form of white knighting and granting a pussy pass.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago
She wants you to protect and provide for her without submitting to you.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Don't they all?
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago
I keep hearing about unicorns in the wild somewhere.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
That's no unicorn...
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago
You gotta admit, it kinda looks like a unicorn at a certain angle. Stop being so picky.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
No way. I know my worth, and I'll never settle.
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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago
I'm so proud. You did your pink flair justice.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Tee-hee.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago
Good girl.
[deleted] 4y ago
Smoker
Heavy drinker
Single mom and wants more (read: she's fertile)
Captinofthelostniggs 4y ago
"If that's a deal breaker than swipe left"
iwasactuallyhere 4y ago
i can handle excess baggage, or 2nd hand garage sale items, but whose in for the broken? you need a repair man, not a man to have relationshit with.
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"""Christian"""
[deleted] 4y ago
The Bull ring is a clear sign to avoid. That girl has had more cock than the average porn chick.
Legitimate_Ad_4462 4y ago
I was about to say... I’ll fix her alright, by ripping that dumbass piercing right out!
IoSonCalaf 4y ago
She’s the kind of girl who would do things in her you wouldn’t even ask a prostitute to do.
SpearWeasel 4y ago
"Hey baby, word on the street is you need diapers... I just happen to have my camera and my pet Mastiff named BULL. You got 30 minutes?".....
Stupyyy 4y ago
21 and she is looking for someone to fix her, god damn
Martellus732 4y ago
Just another whore using shaming language.
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"baggage."
I ain't an airport and you ain't flying for free on my wallet.
uncrossed legs will make ya
pass
pass
uncrossed legs will make ya
pass
pass
uh-huh
uh-huh
ess2019 4y ago
I wonder if she got any messages back
comptejete 4y ago
Of course she did, there is unfortunately no shortage of men who believe they can fix what is irredeemably broken.
Raspu5in 4y ago
I think "think before you sleep" explained well that being the knight by dating broken women to fix them doesn't work. I really loved the miasma theory that can be put into use.
TheHarlotLetter 4y ago
Wants a man to fix her.
Doesn't want "mansplainations".
p3ngwin WAATGM Endorsed 4y ago
Just to make it more obvious what her profile REALLY is:
That's it, that is literally what she offers "on the table", but the extra she wrote tells you even more, because it's not objectively an item on the table, it more about who she is and how she oppertates, and how you will be treated too.
These extra things she says, are intended to reframe what's on the table, and shame you for NOT choosing to eat the shit on offer!
E.G.
Yes thank you, we're well aware how the platform works, no need to redundantly tell us what to do in the event our preferences don't match.
This is intended to to control the narrative, it means to preemptively strike, and frame the results, to provoke a reaction, and really it says she already knows she's a bad deal. This will make some men involuntarily go into "protection mode" AKA Captain Save-a-hoe, by taking this as a challenge in an effort to prove they are "worthy" to "win" her.
Men are goal-orientated, status and object orientated, men pride themselves on demonstrable achievements. Some women have learned this enough to weaponize it. Men need to better learn not all "goals" are worth achieving, like "fixing" broken women.
This would be a moment to give a "hand up" not a "hand out", but any man that would only offer supportive advice like such as how to get a job, or the number for the nearest shelter, etc would be shamed for not completely doing it all for her, with an extra dose of "mansplaining" added for extra audacity.
The audacity being telling her what she already knows is "mansplaining", while she femsplains to swipe right in case you forgot your preferences o.O
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Here is basically the same message, although more blatantly, with a few extra details.
She again tells you what to do, preemptively striking, framing the outcome, challenging you, this time more descriptively challenging your "fixing prowess" (flattery) again in order to "win" her.
The heart omogi is an attempt to convey an emotional plea, which hopes to elicit an emotional response "you're competent at fixing things, you have more resource than me, etc ... how could you be so heartless NOT to help me??", while also then laughing at her own situation and therefore YOU for even thinking of saving her.
This is choosey-beggar territory, as it's a personality that would cause chaos, and drama, then shame you after you fix it, for not fixing it fast enough, or doing it correctly, etc.
This shows her maturity, attention span, and a sense of self-sabotage because she's asking for help, trying to frame her liabilities as assets on the table, while instantly kneecapping her please for help by laughing at any saviour that would even try and help her : "please save me if your man enough,, ahaha i know i'm a hopeless basket- case right!??".
She is putting plates of shit on the table, challenging you to eat them, shaming you if you don't, while almost admitting she's ashamed she can't offer anything better, and trying to offend you for doing what she asked you to do.
The fact she calls herself a Christian, got pregnant out of wedlock at 20 years old, drinks and smokes a lot (do you really think this "Mr Fog" vape shop worker stopped before/during pregnancy?), and wants MORE kids, while she doesn't work, is the rest of the shit-buffet that is her life she has to offer.
Negative_Jellyfish30 4y ago
What y’all think her bodycount is
TheSigilStone 4y ago
It's gotta be 30-50. She hits the wine every night and smokes often, so she probably gets down in the dirty a lot while she leaves her little son in the other room watching spongebob.
Negative_Jellyfish30 4y ago
At least he’s watching spongebob
NohoTwoPointOh 4y ago
At LEAST 30-50
Enough-Staff-2976 4y ago
She's had black out sex with more than one guy in a night. Molestation added her body count is 50-70
Negative_Jellyfish30 4y ago
I couldn’t imagine having drunk sex
Darkrain0629 4y ago
This is what I find funny because a woman will always say it isn't their job to fix us men but when they need fixed it is our 24/7 job.
Falloutmgtow 4y ago
Snout piercings are so unsightly
me-dgaf 4y ago
She'll fix you right out of your assets. The bonus is she will scream abuse and you get to support her while she moves on to bang Chad.
A real prize.
NickTesla2018 4y ago
First thing, get you spayed. Second thing, put your out in the barn with that nose ring. Third, get the hell out of there!
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PaulMurrayCbr 4y ago
Nice catch. TIL.
cuckkked 4y ago
She’s had her insides pushed all the way to her Esophagus. The really ain’t no saving it may be a plastic surgeon could help but that’s doubtful.
Dipdrizzle 4y ago
Women, septum rings are ugly as fuck and they dont make you look edgy
Devilsgun 4y ago
It only works for Goth Chicks, Punk Chicks, etc which you KNOW are disastertrash.
Average Basic Bitches should NOT be trying to act DeLuxe.
(Full Disclosure - My 'target market' is Goth Chicks, Punk Chicks, etc. I know my own toxicity levels are OVER 9000 and yes, caveat emptor is my modus operandi)
NuclearTheology 4y ago
ShE dOeSnT dO iT fOr YoU thO
Celticpenguin85 4y ago
bUt YoU sHoUlD sTiLl PaY fOr ThE dAtE bEcAuSe ThAt PiErCiNg WaS eXpEnSiVe!
DL505 4y ago
Can anyone explain the rise in popularity in of the septum piercing?
It used to be the land of hard core punks prior.
reignoferror00 4y ago
I'm not sure but I'm just guessing it is the latest trend to try to appear "different, unique, out there, edgy". Has progressed from multiple ear piercings to tattoos (from small less visible to some of the graffiti walls I've seen to facial and neck tattoos), facial piercings (nose, eyebrow, lip, tongue, etc.)
Out of any single one of them (except multiple very badly done tattoos), for me, I think septum piercings are the least attractive.
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Huge red flag. They look terrible.
Avoid any woman with a septum piercing- A clear sign that she can't think for herself and she follows idiotic trends.
galacticpaw 4y ago
They do look terrible, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Nose piercing is probably better but not by much. Call me old fashioned but the only piercings that are ok with me are the normal ear ones.
thedukeinc 4y ago
I used to share your view. While not a lot of women can pull it off, my gf has one and it makes her more feminine. She works on power tools for her daily job and is a runner, so she is built. Or perhaps I like her too much ;)
anykah_badu 4y ago
People you like can always get away with things you'd point out negatively about everyone else. This is actually a great way to tell how much you like someone haha
thedukeinc 4y ago
Haha.. well said
AmbitiousHornet 4y ago
Not a natural blonde. Nose piercing suggests a certain lack of self confidence. Baggage galore. Fix me. Handle me. Me, me, me. Neediness maximus. Chad her up and give her what she wants, more illegitimate crumb-snatchers, i.e. Chad juniors.
amameyplebbitor 4y ago
SalvatoreFontana 4y ago
I love tatted girls, but not with kids or those who smoke/drink...
TheSigilStone 4y ago
Or boxed wine
rosinall 4y ago
One thousand chicken stare? ELI5.
reignoferror00 4y ago
kids: have & want more ✅
john_L27 4y ago
Baby traps
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Enter "Christian" Baby Mama with plenty of "baggage" who smokes "regularly", drinks "frequently" and exercises "sometimes".
Delusional bitch still believes she's the prize and I bet she'll dismiss any single Father or perhaps even regular, decent Men because of their average income. All she has to offer is a baby boy, boss level entitlement and the power of astrology behind her dumb ass.
She's not about to hit the wall, the wall's already collapsed on her and wrecked her mind, she'll find out too late to do anything about it.
Jihocech_Honza 4y ago
She is not fat and reasonably pretty (xcluding the nose ring), and 21. Humility is an unknown word for her, even with her proclaimed Christianity.
MekelLane 4y ago
She looks like she's part Na'vi.
panzer22222 4y ago
the nose ring is a breaker...before I even got to the line about the kid
GrannyLesbian 4y ago
She looks like she has fetal alcohol syndrome.
Then I look at her basic info.
Oh fuck.
manfrom-nantucket 4y ago
21 year old trainwreck.
Recklessterror 4y ago
"christian"
At least the atheist ones will make sure they don't have a kid at 20. What a clown religion
User0x00G 4y ago
I seriously doubt religion was the guiding factor that led her to pregnancy.
Recklessterror 4y ago
It sure as hell contributed to no abortion and didn't shame her into avoiding the situation entirely.
Show me the single Jewish or Muslim women on dating apps proudly proclaiming their religious confession and posting pictures with pregnant wombs.
User0x00G 4y ago
By the time a woman is on a dating app showing a pregnant belly its a bit late to be worrying about her faith since her actions have become obvious.