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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 19h ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_7FaWnlhS4&t=10s
I was tempted to use the title "I've always wondered what it was like to date a meth tweaker".
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 17h ago
Just listening to her mouth-sounds for two minutes, I'm so exhausted that I have to sit on the couch for a few more hours to consider her offer while I play some X-Box. ... Mom, is my Hot Pocket ready?
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 16h ago
Great you are hyper independent, so you need nothing from a man apart from someone to hang out with. That sounds attractive to me. No hypergamous leeching. I would be interested. So what is the problem? Men who don't wash and exercise seem to be the complaints. Ok well I do wash and exercise as do most of my friends. There seem to be lots of men who do this, so what is the problem?
Ah yes, they are not trying hard enough to give you more than you already give yourself and you do pamper yourself don't you. I see what you really wanted was more. That's just good old hypergamy except almost no one can give you that without being a wealthy successful full time mega simp and lets face it, why would a wealthy successful man be a full time mega simp to an entitled self obsessed female?
Feminism has created women who are unlovable and incapable of wanting men.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1h ago
I think this is part hypergamistic projection: They view unavailability and pre-selection in men as attractive so they emulate "manly" elements and expect him to outperform her. The irony being that if a man "pursues" her TOO MUCH or "plans dates" TOO MUCH, he comes across as "beta" and she "feels" unattracted. She can never figure out why.
I'd love to ask here: Has anyone ever gotten laid after giving a woman a dream first date that was "planned" and cost $400?
So basically any man that's JUST LIKE HER is going to be as ambivalent as her and not "pursue". She'd need something like out of a Hallmark movie where they bump into each other and go to mutual events together where he subtly charms his way into her pants and passes a 100 shit tests.
Part of the reason why she's this way is as a defense mechanism: She's ambivalent and frigid and already planning to die alone so she wants to brag to other women she went down "strong and independent".
Treadmill Jr. Hamster Analyst 14h ago
Hyper-independence is regarded by mental health professionals as a trauma response and a personality trait that makes the formation and upkeep of healthy relationships much more difficult.
In this case, it has led to a devaluation of interpersonal relationships, lack of ability to empathize with people different from herself, and inability to understand why she is suffering. Similar to the stereotypical man with no insight into his own emotions, her pain hides within rage towards those around her, lashing out at any man within her audience. At the same time expecting validation from everyone else.
Leonian 14h ago
As a hyper-independent woman she sure does seem annoyed and even pissed off there isn't a man in her life
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 8h ago
My response to her. Fuck Off! I am not your dancing bear who jumps through hoops. Even the bears won't do this any more. They found out, just like men, there was no benefit for the effort.
Leonian 7h ago
Same, I just fuck whores here and there, they're at least pleasant, cute and offer me no shit test, betrayals etc
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
Imagine the mental gymnastics display you'd get from responding to this with "okay, so what do you bring to the table for a man?"
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7h ago
I love how so many of these women think that question is about splitting bills.
No, bitch, what value would you add to my life?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11m ago
"vibes"
They bring "vibes" because you don't have any and you wake up in the morning saying "wow, I sure wish I had 'vibes' right now".
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6h ago
They'll say it's "their feminine presence". They rarely want to be open that it's about transactional sex because not only do they have social shame of being a prostitute, but they don't want to be on the hook for it. They simply want hot men to appreciate and reward them for existing.
And to their credit, they have a point that there are hundreds of men who will hit on them on the apps. Their existence does have intrinsic market value. This begs the question then what is the problem? Let's consider a gender reversal:
Imagine if we went on the apps and had hundreds of women right swiping on it. Gals who were obese or old but willing to take us out on paid dates and entertain us or even at least just show up for coffee and talk.
I imagine it would be pretty neat at least for a while. During my 20's, it would have been interesting when I was alone to have someone willing to go out, no strings attached, and just be company. I enjoy hanging out at the office and chatting people up.
This woman is full of shit, of course, in that the majority of men, even the "unambitious" ones, are not detracting from her life. They at most are not as "hot" as she thinks she is, but they aren't imposing anything on her.
As she's dehumanized men to drive her own entitlement thinking, she's missing out on the joys of life of appreciating people.
I loved the hamster wheel on this one, didn't you? A wonderful Friday post. I got exhausted listening to it. To her credit, I imagine it was even more exhausting making it.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago
You know what? I'd accept sex as an answer if it was at least honest. That's honestly about the best thing a woman can offer a man. Of course, this would be a bullshit answer if she used it because most of the men she strings along aren't actually getting sex.
HitTheRoadJill 10h ago
If you’re complaining about men who wear shorts from high school, put on more than a T-shirt and underwear for your video. Be more mature for the adult relationship you want.
If you don’t want to sit on a couch with someone you already know, just admit to yourself that you don’t like him and leave him alone. If they’re strangers from a dating site, put some clothes on before you take your pictures.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 7h ago
Okay so regarding point 1, all good so far. She's a self-proclaimed hyper-independent woman and expects a hyper-independent man. There's of course the whole relationship stability issue, because highly independent people tend to invest less in relationships and always have one foot out the door, but if she wants a relationship that's always hanging by a thread then that's her call.
Point 2 is where it completely loses grasp of common sense. So she wants this hypothetical hyper-independent man, who's perfectly fine being on his own, to pour a ton of effort just to chase this gal, who by her own admission, won't do any chasing because she's hyper-independent? How did she miss the obvious realization that the man she's filtering for has no motivation to chase her either?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5h ago
Hey! You're using logic and expecting her to be consistent!
logic is a tool of the patriarchy!
consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1h ago
Here's the funny thing: Even if a man really did all she said, and worked himself to death with his own baby-blue Heisenberg meth available, would "ick" her if he was under 5'11".
For the vast majority of men, what's the point of working to death to satisfy Hypergamy Queens when they don't respect the vast majority of the male population anyway?
Then there's the problem that just as she would reject a short guy, a Hypergamy King has his pick of women and probably does NOT want an aging woman whose constantly finding things to complain about.
Invest in psychotropic drug stocks, gentlemen, because those can ONLY go up!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7h ago
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 5h ago
"Hyper Independent" - Does that mean she travels directly to the Cat Lady Galaxy, via her expansive wormhole?
I honestly think we'll have even more of a mental illness wave when all these "independent" women start hitting biological reality. Coupled with the shifting demographics of fewer births, things start to trend downward for society as a whole. This means all the things that were given to her for free will come with a price tag, or be removed completely.
Everyone here has the proper tools to detect the seismic precursors to a woman's mind breaking, but the ones I really feel bad for are the younger guys coming up that haven't been exposed to absolute nutcases, so don't understand what is happening.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago
"expansive wormhole" lol
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago
One of my standards is that a woman doesn't talk like she's getting paid by the word.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3h ago
Hang on a second...... she's hyper independent (which she admits is tiring and a lot of work)...... wants a man who is hyper independent too..... but also wants that man to put extra energy into her as well as him?
This is a very strange definition of independent.
Bangkok 3h ago
Anyway, men don't listen to cute gay guys
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 7m ago
You'd imagine a 'hyper independent' woman would be able to start a conversation with a man once in a while instead of waiting for men to make the first move.