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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 5d ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_7FaWnlhS4&t=10s
@Typo-MAGAshiv it's Friday night so thought this was fun to kick off the weekend. So many "traditional" women out there with nose rings! Hope the weekend gets better as we continue...
TJMS Jr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
So, is buying a woman a drink now the sign of a patriarchal chauvinist pig, or of a Real Man™?
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 5d ago
Depends on whether you're hot.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Very true.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4d ago
I'm reminded of job interviews where the company makes the candidates go through their problems with little intention of actually hiring them but getting "free work" out of them. "How would you code this problem we're having?"
So the poor sap goes through the whole thing and they thank him and he leaves and he wasted a day putting on a suit.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4d ago
One of the last times I applied for jobs in the US, I got a job interview at the local bureau of MSNBC. Based on the job requirements, I felt that I was thinly qualified and I didn't have a great chance, but I needed work and thought I'd make the best of it. This was about 3 years after I'd done a summer internship in Taiwan.
I go in, do the interview, and I felt that my skills weren't quite as high as what they wanted. At the end, I ask "How many other people are applying for this one position?" And they reply "Forty."
At that point, I sort of threw up my hands and said "Well, we might as well wrap it up right now. I know I'm not getting this." and they chuckled and said "Yeah," and I said "Why did you even invite me in here?" One said "We wanted to see what you looked like. We were wondering if you were half Taiwanese or something."
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
If I thought the interview was a cattle call, I didn't waste my time. I cannot beat out 50 other people, but I can win if there are 3 others. And I did win more than I lost. My jobs took me to work in 19 countries.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2d ago
I have a pretty good record with job interviews. The times where I didn't get a job offer, the situation was one in which things were heavily stacked against me. One time, (unusually) I went to apply for a teaching job at the highschool where my Chad cousin had actually gone back in the day. I was there, and basically someone quietly told me that unofficially, they were dead set on hiring people who lived in that area-- that the local school district should only hire people within the district-- and that anyone from outside didn't have a chance. I said "Maybe I'd move to this area?" And they're still like "Nah, sorry."
Okay, then. I hope your graduates and your teachers' children enjoy competing for work at the Welch's grape jelly plant. I hear squirting purple glop into jars and screwing lids shut are red hot vocations.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 5d ago
For the love of God, Miss-- don't just DO something, SIT THERE!!
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
She did do something. She set up her cell phone to make the video. I bet the same amount of time she could have walked over to him.
Treadmill Jr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
Women: Teach men to be feminine, and that being masculine is bad.
Men: Believe women and punish anyone who doesn't. Eventually most men act like women.
Women: Why won't men be masculine anymore?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 5d ago
Men: They're either not masculine enough (bad) or too masculine (also bad).
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5d ago
Bottom line: man always bad. woman always good, even if she murders her own kids.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4d ago
I wrote a response to you but decided it would perhaps make a good WATGMA post. The theme is why men are not approaching women such as this to shower them with free food and drinks:
https://www.forums.red/p/whereallthegoodmenare/325744/the_downfall_of_men_approaching_women_in_public_and_buying_t
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
lmao, are airports places women want to be approached at now? No thanks, if I'm at an airport I'm going somewhere more interesting than an entitled gal's pussy who thinks I owe her a drink after glancing at her.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Well said.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 5d ago
It's a place with inflated drink prices where golddiggers would hope to snag a man rich enough to travel and blow their money on such. Or at least get a free drink.
This bint needs to realize that her competition for those affluent traveling men are the local escort services who have women younger and cheaper and are in range of the local hotels. Of just random women off Tinder that won't expect him to buy her an overpriced drink first.
Too many women reneged on the "covert whore" schtick over the last couple generations for most men to be willing to pay much in advance without it being clearly negotiated upfront.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 5d ago
The ""covert whore" schtick" works in a NORMAL bar or "club" when there's the lure of a local hotel or perhaps bachelor pad for him to take her to crash to. He pays for drinks like lottery tickets. The fact is you are NOT going to get laid at the airport since you're waiting to take a flight that leaves in an hour or two for another city. You can form a connection though. I met 2 girlfriends while traveling through airports.
Of all images of woman deserving of chivalry whether pretty princesses whose fathers have huge tracts of land or pretty wenches, none of them have nose rings. It's ironic that these women, who appear otherwise straight, essentially give men wonderful frame.
HitTheRoadJill 5d ago
M’lady, courting strangers in an airport bar is crass not chivalrous.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4d ago
Maybe I'm weird, but whenever I'm in an airport alone, I assume that the women are between flights and aren't in the mood to be hit on by some stranger.
There actually was one time I remember trying to do that. I was returning from Bahrain, via Dubai airport, waiting for a flight to Osaka. I was reading a paperback book by Karel van Wolferen, and this young woman sat two seats from me. She seemed very western. Caucasian, short dark hair in a bob, skinny, gave-off an artsy vibe. There were two gates across from me: One was to Amsterdam and an unseen lounge area behind a barrier had opened, so the passengers had emptied into there. The other was to Riyadh and had lines of dudes in white thobes.
I'm sitting there reading, one leg over the other, one arm is spread over the back of the empty seat next to me. She's hunched over her carry-on, elbows on her knees, digging around. This gal- when I was in grad school, I think I would've gone for her. It would've been completely unrequited, of course-- she'd have had her own unrequited crush on some sportsball team dude who was way out of her league but she'd fuck him silly on the regular anyway, and then she'd complain to me over coffee about how men are all grunting philistine Neanderthals who only want her for sex-- that just might be me projecting... Nonetheless, it had been a while since I'd spoken to an (apparently) native English speaker who wasn't familiar to me.
I probably said something like, "Hey, where're you headed?"
"Huh? Oh, uh- New York. Through Amsterdam." And she looks at the gate.
"I think the lounge for that flight already opened and they'll be boarding," I replied. And before I could even start a second sentence, she scooped up her carry-on and strode off to the gate...
Now I'm sitting there alone, blinking to myself for a few seconds, and did my Ace Ventura imitation: "Aaaaaaaalllllll RIGHTEE then..."
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 5d ago
Entitlement is disgusting
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5d ago
On behalf of men everywhere:
none of us owes you a goddamn thing, bitch.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
He was probably laughing at that red splotch she's got on her face. Try some pimple cream, lady.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Why? you weren't going to do a dam thing for him, so why would he?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4d ago
"BECAUSE IT'S THEIR JOB!" **
** "ONLY IF YOU'RE HOTTT! NO CREEPERS SHOULD LOOK AT ME OR BUY ME A DRINK! ... I MEAN, I'LL STILL TAKE FREE WINE, BUT DON'T LOOK AT ME OR TALK TO ME AFTER."
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
It's entirely possible she made it up.
I assume at least half of women's content is fake, sanitized, or exaggerated depending on their goal (flex, victimhood, etc.). Sometimes, it's delusional.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
I would never buy a drink at an airport. Probably 4x the cost of bars, which are overpriced as it is. I bet that little glass of wine is $20. I make totally natural, fine fruit wines with no additives or flavors or sulfates for around $4 per bottle. Most of it is consumed by my wife and I on dates, a chivalrous use of alcohol. You are not.
Also, what are you doing at an airport drinking by yourself? That's just cringe, seems like something an alcoholic would do.
Also, what are you doing in an airport by yourself? Women traveling alone is a bad idea, and probably just means she's been whoring herself out all over Europe or something.
Also, lol @ "chivary". Methinks this female is perhaps unacquainted with the history of the errant chevalier, but I suspect it did not involve purchasing alcohol for wayward strumpets in airports.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Ah but drinking overpriced wine means you are high value in the eyes of most females. The price tag is actually the mark of value to most women -value that transfers to them when they consume a thing with the price tag on it. This is either because you have money to burn or because someone thought you were worth burning the money on. Travelling similarly is high value and ahigh value girl like her needs to be admired and paid her due tribute ...right?
There is no reason why an errant knight might not purchase ale for a whore in a skanky tavern if there is no raping and pillaging on offer that day but the whore will be putting out that evening. Later on in history a bored and idle knight might ride 20 miles to bring someone else's wife a cup of rose water to wash her feet with but again the idea is that she puts out when the husband is away somewhere and the whole courtship thing is a game silly rich people play because there is nothing better to do but have affairs. It would need to be a noble man's wife who played hard to get. The knight would need to be young and bored. He would still roger strumpets in dark alleys for coin but get strumpets would get ridden out of the road at all other times.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4d ago
The place to hit on women is either at the gate or the flight itself, because that's where you know both of you are going to be at the same place.
The gate is particularly good, especially if it's a vacation spot. If I'm flying to places like Miami or Vegas, my buddies will often start the party at the gate, having a few drinks, chatting and laughing about our plans, etc. and it's not uncommon that women will come up to us, or else we'll chat them up. Thing is, they're looking for guys to hang out with once they get to the destination too, so it's a ripe environment to make some early plans.
Similarly, on the airplane, if you happen to be seated next to someone open to conversing, you can often pick them up.
I've even kept things going after we get back, in that, since both of us are from the same city, when we get back, we might still go on a few dates.
I've even had a female friend find her husband at the airport: he chatted her up at the gate, they were both going back to their home City, and so they started dating.
But this woman's problem is that she's at an airport bar, which means you could be going to one of a million destinations. The chances we'll actually be able to see each other is basically nil. Not worth it. Especially not with the price of drinks at an airport these days.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
Empathy.
One reason why The Wall hits women so hard is their youthful solipsism and lack of empathy leaves them ill equipped to capture the top tier men they desire.
What they fail to realize is that buying a total strange a drink and then having to put on a dog-and-pony show to entertain them is NOT the fun it appears to be. To them, they observe men doing this and it looks easy because, to make it work, the men need to appear to make it look easy otherwise he's "not confident" and she icks him (after consuming his resources, of course.)
They have a LITTLE bit of empathy, kind of, if you ask THEM to approach a hot guy and risk rejection and cough up money for drinks and food where they state they'd prefer to cut off their own arm and eat it but they lack the cognitive ability to generate empathy from it.
My wife and daughter marvel at how the cat loves me even though I'm not the one that feeds her. I simply learned not only cat language but listened to her communication. When the cat growled at being bothered, I let her be. The women say "the cat is so cute I'm going to squish her!" and then they wonder why the cat comes over to me with zero fear.
Empathy isn't only asking yourself "If I did that, would it be hard?" but also understanding someone else's unique position. Feminists love to shriek "You men can't get pregnant so don't comment about abortion!" but yet I can at least intellectualize what they go through. I need to do this to relate to people every day who are not the same as me. Us men do this with relative trivial ease.
So now I see regularly on social media feed women griping about "mental load". "I can't decide what's for dinner for my family! He has to "plan" for me!" Sheesh! They can barely figure out how to pick an item from a menu even if the man if paying for it:
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1EjXXrUPdB/?mibextid=wwXIfr
Want to offend them and get under their skin? When they try to rationalize away what failures they are at life with "I refused to settle!!!" I point out to them that refusing to approach men and risk rejection IS a form of "settling" just like the basement dwelling men they mock as "losers". Those men pioneered bachelor lifestyle such as Comicon, Anime, board games, D&D, "shed clubs" and so on and were mocked as geeks back in the 1990's. Now the aging women are crying "These men are excluding us!"
Er, these men did these things BECAUSE they were excluded and made lemonade out of lemons. Even the lowest tier of men are more successful than aging career women.
Leonian 1d ago
A society that sees geeks as the lowest tier of men is a society not worth investing in.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 21h ago
I found it amusing how The Big Bang gained all this popularity when it portrayed geek culture as cool and all the nerds in it got hot girlfriends and wives although at least two of the hot girlfriends were waitresses at some point.
I suppose that was the point of feminism which was to liberate women from the "ick" of having to date "nice guys" simply for him to pay the bills. Of course the man should STILL pay the bills, but as a "gentleman" who will do so voluntarily. That's their fantasy: That they can be freed from any responsibilities and obligations but yet men will voluntarily be serfs particularly Chad.
My point being that back in my mother's day, a nerdy guy might get extra attention from young women who spotted his potential: He could be the difference between being the housewife of a guy in a trailer park versus living in a house near college campus.
It astonished me how many working class women were utterly blasé towards nerdy college students. It was the difference I think between the boomers and future generations. Boomer men were accustomed to working hard and the hot women would pursue them, literally, or via little effort. After that, Gen-X onward, and women were increasingly apathetic and ambivalent.
Leonian 20h ago
Yeah, when you think about it really, women don't like most men so much that their main ideology is basically "please give me their resources without me having to do anything icky to get them"
They're literally fighting not to be with you
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 18h ago
You forgot one thing: They don't think in terms "please" give me your resources.
I have 3 "what happened to chivalry" posts for this weekend lined up where the women are in disgust that peasants, er, men aren't treating them like princesses. Imagine... that literal scenario: A princess deposed, kicked out of her castle, and now on the streets like a commoner screaming in rage. I'm reminded of this classic bit from Monty Python's Holy Grail: https://youtu.be/Nku7kdol5GY?t=140
And here's the funny part: Even when they're "strong and independent", they still HATE having to actually pay their own bills, hold open their own doors, and do other peasant redneck nonsense us loser normies have to do.
Leonian 18h ago
It is best to avoid them if possible
Looking forward to your weekend posts!