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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 18h ago
If you want a traditional marriage, you have to be (shocker) a traditional woman!!
That means oftentimes holding your tongue and letting a man lead. Just from the tone of her voice I can tell that she is allergic to the thought.
No, when she says she wants a “traditional man” thats just code for a guy that pays for her shit while she constantly berates him. I don’t know why she is having a problem finding this illusive traditional man. It’s a real scooby doo mystery.
A few other code words she is using:
“Big personality” = I’m an insufferable bitch
“Confidence” = Repeating male behaviors thinking men are attracted to that.
“Insecure” = Normal pushback from said bitchiness.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 8h ago
Trad marriage is over, regardless of the man and the woman.
It never worked well. Men and women were socially coerced to "make it work", and dead bedrooms were the norm not the exception.
It's 2026, we've had #metoo and Believe All Women and divorcerape and endless waves of feminism washing over us like swimming in the sea downstream of chernobyl.
It just doesn't exist anymore and can't be made to exist any more.
Women can't have "easy exit at any time at male cost" and "traditional marriage".
So... I think we agree that this woman is a shit show, but yeah.... trad marriage. dead.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4h ago
Yeah the closest a modern man can reliably get to a "trad" marriage these days is by never marrying - keeps the woman on better behavior if the man can up and leave and she can't do shit about it other than behave well enough for him to not want to.
Also helps to keep a man from getting fat and complacent like many do.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 4h ago
Well, the fat and complacent thing isn't entirely our fault.
Women say "I like you for your intelligence and charm, I don't care what you look like or how fat you are".
And then leave when we get fat, claiming "I love you but I'm not in love with you, you're just not as confident as you were".
I mean, we're raised from birth with the "it's what's inside that counts" lie. And "women don't care about looks like men do".
What I'm saying is that it's understandable that men fall into that trap. We're led into it.
Bottom line though: you're only as good as your other options.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11h ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
@Typo-MAGAshiv To cover up watermark I had to partially obscure the author's title of the video.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 9h ago
It's fine. Good find!
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 10h ago
Yeah, if you cherry-pick the parts of traditional relationships you like and reject the ones men like, you should expect to struggle. This isn't build-a-bear, she's never gonna get a traditional provider that tolerates her flip-flopping between wanting him to lead and challenging him.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5h ago
Four minutes of hamstering. Yet another example a woman plagued by option paralysis, getting more jaded with each man she sleeps with and becomes attached to, ending each relationship as she finds imperfections to criticize.
Yet another example of why girls should never be making the decision of whom to marry, but should only be "given away" by their fathers.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago
Huh... Consults Womanese dictionary...
Ah, okay. It says here that Insecure means "doesn't feel the same way she does." Makes sense.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago
This is the usual problem for the modern woman. "I want to be led by a man but only where I want to be led"
"I have a really big personality" -"I am full of myself"
"It comes out when I try to connect on an emotional level and they get really uncomfortable when I challenge them to do things my way" Well durrr! Girl, how well did you do when they challenged you to do it their way? You failed didn't you? You started to boss them about and then they became insecure because you wanted to be led while being the boss.
The modern woman thinks she comes first, thinks she is equal and a bit more equal than a man but she wants him to lead her. Its impossible. What they actually want is to be led by a good dance partner in a dance they have chosen to dance. What they don't want is to be told "We are not dancing tonight. I have decided its time to do X in the interests of the home and family we are building or I have chosen to do Y because I am tired and have worked all day for us."
NPC070201 2h ago
I couldn't make it past the first 30 seconds because of how thick the insufferable-ness was.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1h ago
If you stuck it out until the very last sentence (above), Ms. Confidence finally reveals her agenda. The first three minutes of blather was just misdirection.