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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
@Typo-MAGAshiv Please reflair what is appropriate. What's interesting about this one is she assumes the man has spent thousands on Professionals? This may warrant somehow a distinctive flair? Perhaps this is just her opinion of men in general?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3d ago
I think you picked the right one, at least off the top of my head.
It seems that way, which is really strange to me. I have never spent a single cent on such nonsense, and I don't know any man IRL who has.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 3d ago
Cross-posted on r/WAATGM.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
What baffles me the most is that a woman who can spend hundreds on hair clothes, accessories, jewellery and makeup just for one night out with the girls can't pay the cost of her own food when she is trying to win a mate to protect and provide for her?!
She probably pays more to sit opposite her therapist and tell her how bad the last man she had was!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3d ago
Oh no, see, it's different when she spends her money on that. They're all strong and independent wahmyns when they go out together.
But men? We only exist to pay for shit. If she can't freeload off a man, why is she even going to tolerate his presence?!
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
Women: "Men, shut the fuck up with your opinions of what women wear! We don't pick clothes or make-up to attract men, we do it for ourselves!"
Also women: "Yo these clothes and make-up are expensive, you gonna pay for my meal or what?"
???
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3d ago
If I'm paying for the clothes, I'm choosing the clothes.
If she's cute, she's gonna be cold ...
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
If women were expected to split the check, there would be a sudden increase in cheap "coffee dates." Going to a four- or five-star restaurant won't be nearly as appealing when she's liable for 50 percent.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
This appears to be the case in much of Europe and indeed “coffee” dates appear to be the norm. Can any Europeans weigh in here?
https://youtube.com/shorts/PcqYq0OnTIE?si=ltmJzo0wIfjr-kc0
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
They're normal in the sense that women don't talk shit about coffee dates and will usually accept if they're actually interested and you invite them on one, but many still hint on their profile that they love a good dinner date.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
What truly baffles me is now that the wage gap has flipped, and women are making more than men, why aren't women Womaning Up and paying for our shit?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 10h ago
That's simply to be celebrated, not used as the basis for any behavioral change.
They still want a rich man and what good is a rich man if he's not spending his money on you?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
Because whoredom is an aspirational status for many modern women. They want to be paid for sex. Or the implication of sex. Or for just having a vagina.
But they also don't want the deserved stigma for both being blatantly transactional and reneging on the transaction at will. Fukkin' lul.
Literal streetwalking prostitutes have more honesty and class.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
This same dynamic was prevalent during "Me Too." Once it became a societal badge of honor to have been the alleged object of some man's uncontrollable urges, hoes couldn't wait to tell us their "truth," which in most cases was nothing but phony 50 Shades fabulism. Women were so proud to thrust their hands in the air and declare, "See, I told you I was rape-able."
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
When a woman complains about a man cheaping out on dates, she not only reveals herself to be a "covert whore", but is also unwittingly admitting that she is bad at one of the easiest jobs a woman can have! She didn't offer enough value for a man to invest much, when offering enough value to a man for him to invest is pretty simple.
TLDR; Skill Issue.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2d ago
I've had girls who really really get this and really do it. But most don't get it, and need cajoling into their contribution. I've done this with varying degrees of success.
And women .... most women.... do not get this. They feel the power shift post-sex. They feel that power shift in advance of sex. But they don't spot the logical conclusion: less power means they have to give more value to keep it working.
Most women really don't get this dynamic, and many of them are trapped in the early phases: new guys seducing them and then getting bored and moving on. They can't/won't make a relationship work because they have absolutely no idea what to do or even that they have to do something.
Then they blame men, as usual.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
And it doesn't even have to be sex, but if it is not sex, then it's going to require something resembling enough effort to make it worth the time and money for the man. Sex is just the lazy option and these women complaining are telling the world they were too lazy even for that.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
@mattyanon One of the frequent "muh agenda" X posters is a frumpy woman who says all kinds of nonsense and I wonder if she's engagement farming or truly just idiotic such as "I'd rather be chad's plaything than a beta male wife" but also demands men "make effort" and "do what men enjoy, provide".
Recently, it's popular on X for these muh-agenda types to get into the fear of "marital rape" or "transactional sex" and that men should be romantic and pay for dinners without "expecting something" or be ok if the wife doesn't want sex because HE can't drive her to attraction and she's easily bored and demanding. So HE should just step up or just accept it and pay the bills out of love!
So yeah, they are now whores who don't even want to have sex with their johns.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 10h ago
No matter how much a man might enjoy providing, he surely also likes a good relationship as well. Providing for the sake of providing gets a little monotonous.
If I were to say "a woman ought to love cleaning" and never pick up after myself, every woman I've ever met would find the notion infuriating and I'd get an earful. And I'd deserve it.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4h ago
Great analogy!
And to add to it, not just never clean up after myself, but also just throw a bunch of shit on the floor right in front of her face.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2h ago
@Land_of_the_losers True story: My sister married my brother's ROTC college roommate who became a submarine Naval officer. The guy was more OCD than Monk. Utter neat freak. When my sister was 7 months pregnant she was sweeping the floor and he ran over and grabbed the broom and started doing the cleaning (she thought he was being chivalrous) but he then handed the broom back to her and said: "See? That's how you do it right!" They divorced about 10 years later.
Shouldn't women be happy that there are "strong" men out there on their cleaning skillset? Funny thing is he got remarried a year later after that divorce and is still with his new wife. Trust me, NO woman is going to "shit test" THIS guy into revealing he's "insecure".
Here's a man nagging, er, I mean "reminding" his traditional wife on the pleasures of keeping a clean home! https://youtu.be/Fqb6SSK2sEc
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1d ago
AKA wives
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
We live in a world where being a billionaire celebrity is not enough to guarantee a married man a faithful wife, empty balls, and a full stomach.
And women wonder why men don't want to get married anymore and prefer to goof off fucking a procession of stupid sluts and open whores.