Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 20h ago
That's why the only thing you're good for is being a wet hole. You're basically a man with tits and pussy. Real men don't marry trannys.
Gondola_the_Observer 8h ago
Yikes, these clips just ooze low agreeableness and narcissisim.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
Bullshit. Bullshit. Bull-ever-so-shit.
Of all the bullshit that's ever been bullshitted, that's being bullshitted the bullshitted most.
It sounds to me that Ms. Survived-The-Dating-Market might've had a few too many options-- a paradox of choice, as it were-- always managing to convince herself that she would forever level-up until she magicked her way to some kind of fantasy dude at the end of a long, long pipeline of nameless, faceless "dates" who were forgotten within hours, no more noteworthy than the grease paper wrapper around a Wendy's Big Bacon Classic.
It's not as if she was living on Themyscira island and saving herself for marriage this whole time. She had plenty of fun, oh yes. Lots of free meals. Lots of parties. Lots of outings. Lots of birthday/Valentines/holiday gifts. And the cock? Ohh yes, she's had kilometers of cock.
Seeing her self-description is a bit like watching an early 1960s documentary on strip-mining. The piles of freshly-scooped ore travel along a conveyor belt to the crushing machine: "In processing, we need to pulverize and acid-bathe 6 tons of this ore to leach-out but a single ounce of precious platinum. The worthless, poisoned waste rock is discarded into the nearby slag heap..."
Except now you're supposed to pity the mining corporation. The veins of ore are empty, the shareholders have cashed-out long ago, and now... well, boo hoo. Who will handle the toxic pond which has been left behind? Who will remediate the poisoned soil? Why won't the Superfund step-up and take care of the place?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Not arguing with you but I went through her feed (so you don't have to!) and for 8 long years, she was moaning about being alone on Valentine's Day. That said, honestly, she says she had access to the dating apps during all that time and none of the hundreds (her estimate) of men "made the cut". This is presumably after she's filtered them out for height.
As men, it's inconceivable to use mere mortals that someone could possible go through hundreds of self-screened prospects and still wind up without a girlfriend/boyfriend for at least a short period of time but don't underestimate her. What's astonishing is that this woman hasn't been like this for a few years, but nearly a decade meaning possibly there are millions of women such as this out there for that period of time.
And that may be why the apps and dating market are such a hellscape: Millions of women such as this saying (and believing) they want "marriage" and a "relationship" and on the apps intermittently and then getting thousands of swipes each time frustrating the men on them wondering what the hell is going on.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
If she's been consistently like this for years-- oh so FABULOUS but oh so alone-- then she fucked up royally somewhere along the line. It's not fate, she's clearly doing something incredibly wrong. Or she's secretly enjoying the little drama that she's putting on for her audience.
It's time to start using the word "freak" to describe such women. That's the only way it'll get through their self-deluded skulls.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
Humble apologies with audio later in the edit. I used quicktime on mac and somehow the audio got wrecked as it went to streamable. I spliced them all together into a single narrative, somewhat out of order. Yikes! I went through all this so you don't have to. You're welcome!
@Typo-MAGAshiv This may be the quintessential Leftover. I think weekday content but... I just jumped the gun and posted today because I and @Vermillion found her today. I'm in love with her mother! If there's issues with others viewing this video, I'll try to rebuild and export again to streamable, please let me know.
Happy Saturday!
TJMS Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
My spidey sense in tingling: "Unrealistic standards + ignoring the consequences of her behavior."
Edit: Oh wait, I just watched to the end now, and she even admits her standards are too high. Okay... You have the power to change this, sweetheart.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Unrealistic standards is wrong. She used outrageous standards that she has not changed in light of years of failure. Boo Hoo I limited my options, and now my options are limited.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
But but-- she got a degree!
Like, that's just so rare for a woman in her situation! How did she manage to do it?? She must be brilliant. She must be singularly intelligent and precious to get that Bachelors in Public Administration with a minor in psychology. She deserves Mr. Big! John Hamm ought to step out of his limousine on his way to the gala luncheon and say "What's that? You have a degree?? And even took French up to level 302 before getting tired of it? How spectacular-- I LOVE YOU."
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
She's proud of the outrageous standards. It's a cultural thing: "All the other women are jealous of me that I'm so fussy and demanding, like a princess and the pea, that Ordinary Mortal Men are not worthy of me!"
Some of her videos feature her gloating that she has some friends getting divorced so this further validates her "standards". "They're even worse off than me! I at least didn't get divorced!"
In the clips I included, she says she went on hundreds of hinge dates. The worst offenses were men asking for her to pay her share on a date or not being interested in her.
I have a hypothesis that these women are simply ambivalent about men in general at this point. Generations of feminism and chivalrous entitlement left them viewing men as sub-human ATM machines and doormen that exist solely as tools for her enjoyment. They project this upon men "Men treat women like objects!" but men generally compensate women for sexual pleasure.
If it was possible for her to be married to a man, without the man himself, that would suit her. She'd want him to pay the bills, take her out to restaurants and perform chores, and such, but the rest of the time she'd spend with her friends on vacations and such. If he's super hot and good looking and can give her guilt-free orgasms, fantastic, but this isn't an urge she actually has otherwise she'd be in a situationship. She likely has a low sex drive.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I think she is ambivalent, but that is for the lower 90% of men. Chad shows up, all the hoops are removed and it is all systems go for sex. Then, he will not call because she is an obnoxious self-centered cunt.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Again, my hypothesis, hear me out:
She has complained in her videos that she doesn't want to do "movie dates" likely suggested by Chad for hangouts at home. She appears to filter for those men, but she refuses to submit to them. She also refuses to find ways to make herself more valuable to them.
For example: Does she consider bringing small gifts such as a thank-you card to a date with Chad? Or perhaps something she cooked? In the film "The Outlaw Josey Wales", his love interest made him a pocket-watch chain out of her hair.
She is just as ambivalent towards Chad as she is towards us normies. Perhaps even moreso if she goes for the "shit test him to show him I care" Tony Soprano panic-attack behavior so many engage in.
I'm sure there are "emotionally intelligent" men who pay for dates on Hinge that took her out but in 8 years, she's rejected them all. She's built a dragon patrolled castle moat and she isn't going to make it any easier for any of them to get by it.
I think these women are simply pathological.
HitTheRoadJill 19h ago
I only saw her complaining about “movie dates” at 34, so I think she did them before 27. She was likely expecting men to start spending on the dates now that they have more money.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
A useless failure of a woman.
It's sad really. 100 years ago, some guy would have got her as a wife at 18, she wouldn't have had the boss babe lifestyle, excessive luxuries, modern convenience, and social media to distract her from her duties at home.
There are millions of other women in these lonely holding patterns, and it will get worse before it gets better.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago
Stated truly.
I try to be an optimist, but I also recognize that the firehose-of-opportunities that is social media/dating apps has taken local selection and obliterated it, replaced by a nearly global pool of men which enables the hold-out-forever-for-mr-perfect tendency to be overly amplified.
That instinct works in smaller groups, but give a woman access to a blinding array of choices and she'll keep swiping and dating to find the "best" one, always afraid in the back of her mind that she hasn't taken a bite out of each to sample, so even a comfortable choice starts to erode in value in her eyes.
How does it reset? There are encouraging signs in that men are forcing the hypergamous calculus to re-calibrate, where men don't put up with this behavior and are content to let the lonely mayflies buzz around the single solitary light bulb that will never fulfill them. (Why should he commit when they are throwing themselves at the top 2% or so)
So we'll get to a point where things get desperate enough that not only do women attempt approaching (which they'll hate), but they may actually have to register that their "standards" are calibrated too high for their local pool of men.
But I agree, the pendulum has to swing a bit deeper into bleaker territory before it comes rushing back.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Notice how at one point, one of the texts reads:
She words this in a specific manner to imply she wants to pool incomes and split bills, yet her other reels show how utterly repulsed she is at the idea of splitting the bill on a date. Ergo, when she talks about how hard it is to live on one income, she's not longing for a relationship where partners combine their incomes to build each other up, she's picturing a one-directional flow of money where the man is a sentient wallet.
The man that fits her standards is a sugar daddy. But she also wants a wedding, so it has to be a sugar daddy that, some brain-dead reason, wants to marry her and lose his financial leverage in the relationship. Of course she's struggling to find a man, she's looking for a unique combination of rich, stupid, and comically naive.
HitTheRoadJill 2d ago
The few 50+ men who want to have buzzer beaters are sugar daddies that want to marry. She’s 36, so that ship sailed 5-10 years ago.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
Back 60 years ago my sister kept a diary. In the old days, this was the norm so that people could track their thinking beyond just a couple days and wonder: "Have I been down this road before? What have I learned since then?" Even if you don't ever read your own diary, it's a useful tool to at least be conscious in the moment: "What the heck am I saying now?" Every month I do a retrospection on what I got done, need to do, and would like to accomplish.
Again, apologies to all for what glitches in the video but she had posted a hundred of these between age 27 to 35 and appears to have learned absolutely NOTHING as she vacillates between "I don't need anyone! I have time!" to "I'm going to die alone and EVERYONE else sees me as a loser!" and "Men only want to pay their share, they're babies!" to "I pay my own bills, I'm a hero!" "It's Valentine's day and I'm 27!" "It's Valentine's Day and I'm 28!" "It's Valentine's day and I'm 29!"...
Seriously, that was her video diary for these years. I couldn't just put all 100 of them on a 40 minute splice.
We don't hear her openly admit to Chasing Chad but her mother rubs salt in the wound pointing out she never had an actual boyfriend and the guys she wants have a 20 person plate harem. She refuses to settle so THAT should mean she gets what she wants, yes? She understands that she got a DEI bachelor degree by studying, but wants a date to be solely about her showing up and the man with options impressing her.
This woman's video diary is a (poorly edited by me!) documentary of how millions of women such as this are destined to die alone and childless. She's 36 now.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
she's looking for a unique combination of rich, stupid, and comically naive.
Well said.
WanderOverYonder 2d ago
I see it more as "current times" virtue signaling as a way to take the blame off herself.
"I can't find a boyfriend because uh..."
*rolls dice"
"...aha! Trump attacked Iran!"
Just like big part of gen z blame economy for not being able to put down their phones and stop rotting.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
I think you almost got it. She cannot find a BF because of Trump. It makes no sense, but when the hamster makes the decisions, it does not have to. It is all Trump's fault she is single. Thus, is it beyond her control.
HitTheRoadJill 2d ago
She’s at least a thousand times better than the fat poor single moms her age whose standards are at least as high as hers. I’ll give her that.
At 34, she should have been thankful that a man who met her initial standards wanted to see her at all. Yet this one had the audacity to complain that a movie on his couch wasn’t enough effort for a first date with her.
She should have demanded that extra effort when she was 10 years younger instead of watching movies on Chad’s couch. Now she can take herself dancing.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 4h ago
I can virtually guarantee she's been demanding that effort and more her entire adult life.
She's a reasonably attractive woman even at 36. At 20 she was probably a stunner. A woman like that doesn't end up single and "never having had a boyfriend" by accident.