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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 22h ago
I wish women who weigh 125 and think they qualify as "fit" would stop responding to me. If you're not 110 pounds or less (and look like a supermodel), I'm so over it. Stop messaging me Ms. Chubby.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2d ago
Yet she won't set her filters to 6'5" just so she can have the satisfaction of rejecting 6'1" short kings
IT'S OVER FOR THE 5'11"-6'2" KINGS!!1!1!!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Even back about 40 years ago prior to dating apps, I noticed that a lot of young women went out to the clubs to socialize with each other and validation seek via rejecting or ignoring men. I recognized it as a humiliation ritual early on and other men back then were incredulous because I suppose they thought women thought like men: Men wouldn't go out night after night simply to reject women to impress our peers.
My theory is that modern women form deeper and broader friend groups than us men, "tribes", and therefore to them that is more permanent and immediate to them than any possible concept of a romantic relationship even if they consoom female pornographic romance novels. If a man is recognized as "hot" or a "bad boy", however, she won't have to deal with shame from her peers if she falls for them. "I don't blame you sister for being used by him!" but a healthy relationship with a normie guy is one she'll have to defend and she doesn't want to defend herself to her "friends" EVEN if the relationship is healthy.
Back in 1958 when my mother met my father, there was this beginning of entitlement feminism but still an understanding of urgency to get hitched and start a family. Women were educated back then about The Wall, the importance of a "boring" spouse for a healthy family, and other such adult matters. Note the comedy routine by the plump blonde last week griping about her relatives telling her she needs to "settle down". That was the norm back when my mother came of age AND it wasn't a joke but rather simply a fact of life:
Such women KNEW they would be judged by their relatives and others for FAILING to find a good man rather than regarding being shamed for her failures as something "rude" the relatives are doing.
Instead, women are now shamed for having healthy relationships making this era, IMO, one of the most toxic in human history.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 53m ago
I noticed that a lot of young women went out to the clubs to socialize with each other and validation seek via rejecting or ignoring men.
I saw this a few times. I was at a popular night club, and I saw a table of girls who were from my high school. The drinking age at the time was 18. 3 of the girls were cheerleaders and the other 2 were 5'10" twin flag girls. All 5 of these girls were hot. I was standing up against a wall about 10 feet away in the shadow. They were all into each other and didn't notice me. 1 girl was talking about what clothes she wore to get the most hits from men. She didn't date them, she wanted attention, and the other girls started talking the same. None of these girls dated the men that approached them, they were testing out their outfits that created the most attention. Yes. This is all true.
GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Side note, I dislike how we call all women “queens” and shorter guys “kings”.
In the case of the women, I see it as a form of simping/ego pumping.
And for men, I just find it so… patronizing. Have you ever met a man who refers to himself as a king and gets taken seriously?
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 18h ago
Most guys know that Tywin Lannister was just reciting an old adage when he said,
“Any man that says, ‘I am King’ is no king.”
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 25m ago
I haven't watched the full series but rather snippets but i wonder how both Cersei and Tywin allowed Joffrey to become basically an even worse version of The Mad King. It's like parents who suddenly discover their "teenager" is spoiled. Wasn't the child spoiled for years up to that point? I may binge watch the series with this mind out of curiosity to see how Tywin and Cersei failed to raise him.
Much like how modern women are often utterly arrogant and insufferable because nobody ever challenged them, there was plenty of opportunity for someone to give Joffrey a good whipping. Perhaps because Cersei despised her little brother that this rubbed off on Joffrey leading him to emulate Cersei's worst childish impulses herself.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
Well now, I see you've taught yourself a very big word!
great job!
GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I learned that one from my 4th grade teacher. I learned so much from her because I always listened to her.
I was so good sometimes she would give me a gold star.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1d ago
I only use either term ironically and meme-ically
GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Don’t mean you specifically Verm.
I’m talking about girls calling shorter guys kings and then proceeding to be disgusted by their advances.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1d ago
Gotcha, lmfao yes
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1d ago
Probably dated a bunch of 5'10"-5'11" guys claiming to be 6'1"-6'2", so now she's going higher. Being taller than about 6'3" rapidly starts to become almost a handicap. Nothing is designed for taller people, whether that's doors, ceilings, cars, or airplane seats. Just like fat people need to buy two airplane seats, overly tall people need to buy business class or at least exit rows to fit. While basketball players might buy ferraris to keep in their garage, they usually drive big SUVs because they are the only cars with a large enough length that their legs will fit (they usually need to have them customized with the rear seat taken out and the front seat sat way back).
I'm not saying we should pity such tall guys. Just saying that dating them is not all roses and rainbows when you have to think about these things on a daily basis when making plans. It's like girls with overly large breasts: they get back pain, they can't do heavy exercise without having them slosh all over, their bras cut into their shoulders, and their man has to basically massage their back and shoulders every day.
Hugo_The_Great 1d ago
Yup I'm 6'3" and it's pretty much ideal I'd say. Taller than most but not freaky or impractical.
My lil bro is nearly 6'9" and even getting clothes that fit well is shit, anything that fits well was tailored. Expensive af. Also you have to eat a fuckton. Beside all the other impracttcalities you mentioned, also more prone to health issues & in general shorter lifespan. Being tall while young is nice, but sucks in old age.
But he does get the occasional woman who just loses it based entirely on him being a giant
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 23h ago
A fella who used to comment here frequently, @UpsideDB on the dot reds and /u/upsidedownbackwards on reddit, shared a similar experience (thread).
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
LOL, as if she'll even be able to tell the difference.
Lots of occasions I've talked about how terrible women are at estimating height, length, etc
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
"I'm 6'7", but that's mainly because I have a 5-foot 10-inch tall oblong skull. The rest of me is compressed into a kind of meatball with tiny little legs and every day is a waking agony so I crave a swift death. My 'father' was kicked out of the genetic institute for his radical experiments and I was created in a glass cloning tank as a kind of 'fuck you' to the academics who blackballed him. How about a date?"
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