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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.

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1. No shaming men for any reason.
2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

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Posted 17h ago in Friendzone Fiona - Permalink - 230 Views

Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 17h ago

Down bad final boss?

Women have no shame

Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 15h ago

Least the cunt could do is offer him some courtesy sex for helping raise her little fuck trophy.

First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 12h ago

I have a feeling that he takes care of the child on evenings when she goes out to get railed. She is too busy even if he wasn't so icky.

First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 13h ago

She can't even tell the truth in her post dismissing him. She will certainly not hope he finds a woman who treats him well. She would lose the resource!

That woman would pretty soon want her out of his life. They would at first say they loved each other but within weeks there would be sniping and back biting and within months all out hatred and he would be taken away from her. Of course, first he would have to attract that woman and that is difficult when you are playing cuck all weekend.

What has he done to himself poor guy!

Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago

Of course, first he would have to attract that woman and that is difficult when you are playing cuck all weekend.

And when his female "friend" is making posts like this to announce it to the world; great way to sabotage any chance he has of attracting competition for his attention.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 5h ago

I saw this story about a year ago. Apparently she posted an update that he moved on after his friends saw the story and teased him about it. She also looks a LOT different in other photos!

I’m seeing Universe 25 style posts on X where women are saying they don’t want sex but still want relationships with men, particularly dead-bed marriages. One said that a “real man” would love her if he’d provide for her without expected sex from the start. Others said it was the husband’s fault if he got a dead bedroom because she was bored or he couldn’t “make her feel” a certain way.

It also got me to thinking how most modern women don’t enjoy sex in that even if it takes Chad to get them going, they’d be willing to pay for him either in paying for dates or marrying down in income.

For men, if a woman was helping him out and she wasn’t otherwise hot but was tolerable to be around, like this guy is to her, he’d give her some action to keep her around even though it’s men who need to be aroused to perform.

Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago

Felt bad for the guy, good to hear he got snapped out of it.

mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3h ago

One said that a “real man” would love her if he’d provide for her without expected sex from the start. Others said it was the husband’s fault if he got a dead bedroom because she was bored or he couldn’t “make her feel” a certain way.

The more I understand society the more I see how many ways society and women manipulate men to provide for them while getting nothing.

"It's your duty".

"A man should love unconditionally"

"If a woman won't fuck a man, it's always his fault".

"You should do it for love and expect nothing in return".

The pressure is endless and it is one sided.

It also got me to thinking how most modern women don’t enjoy sex in that even if it takes Chad to get them going, they’d be willing to pay for him either in paying for dates or marrying down in income.

Women love sex with attractive men, and we should never forget that. They are only attracted to top 5% men, and that's the brutal reality. You are either top 5%, or you are having transactional sex.

Women don't directly pay men for sex because for women they need to be at least somewhat desired as part of the experience. Paying for sex directly kills that.

For men, if a woman was helping him out and she wasn’t otherwise hot but was tolerable to be around, like this guy is to her, he’d give her some action to keep her around even though it’s men who need to be aroused to perform.

There's two factors that stop this:

Women have a cost to sex. If she fucks guy A, she cannot get pregnant by guy B. That's a direct cost to having sex with a less attractive man. This manifests in women being turned off by a less attractive guy. It means they don't want to have sex even when it's a good idea. It means they pretend to engage in transactional sex ("When you've committed we will have so much sex!") but then when it comes down to it... "I'm not in the mood"... "I have a headache"... "I just don't feel that way about you anymore"..."I love you buy I'm not in love with you", and all the rest of it.

And second reason is that women are corrupted by all the things I mentioned at the top. Why have sex (which she doesn't want to do) when she can just say "It's your duty now". That sounds great, and she doesn't have to give icky provider-sex.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1h ago

I’ve noticed a lot of Social-Darwinism around to explain women’s behavior and even worse, rationalize it similar to “body acceptance” (If she likes to get fat, we shouldn’t judge her). This reduces women to the level of wolf-boy childishness: It’s ‘natural’ to not develop past primal behavior, but in civilized societies we expect more.

Hence as you observe:

"A man should love unconditionally"

So rather than feminism inspiring women to actually be equal to men, their boss-babe copies are the lowest of human behavior with men needing to be (figurative) superheroes to compensate: Live like Peter Parker and Clark Kent working for scraps while keeping the city safe while Lex Luther gets the girls and lives in luxury.

It disgusts them when men develop their own attitudes: It’s perfectly within men’s rights to live in their mother’s basement and play D&D if that pleases them or for Chad to go through his harem. They don’t owe us anything and vice-versa.

There’s a joke during the USSR that went that social scientists are not like other scientists because other scientists test their theories on rats first.

Treadmill Jr. Hamster Analyst 3h ago

It seems to me that these women see men primarily as paychecks, and a committed relationship as a kind of retirement where they can stay at home and chill while hubby does most of the work.

I wonder what got them so jaded. Using "love" as nothing more than a manipulative tool to get whatever they want out of men. Is it the process of riding the carousel that causes the to lose the ability to fall in love and genuinely care for someone?

Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3h ago

It seems to me that these women see men primarily as paychecks, and a committed relationship as a kind of retirement where they can stay at home and chill while hubby does most of the work.

Bingo.

I wonder what got them so jaded. Using "love" as nothing more than a manipulative tool to get whatever they want out of men. Is it the process of riding the carousel that causes the to lose the ability to fall in love and genuinely care for someone?

It raises the probability immensely, but there is a base level of shittiness naturally already there unless socialized out. Modern society does the opposite of that while oversocializing men to accept it instead of rejecting it for the shitty deal that it is.

Why does society do that? Because it doesn't want to be on the hook for paying for these dumb cunts so its easier to sucker men into paying than it is to socialize women to not be leeches.

NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 10m ago

Is it the process of riding the carousel that causes the to lose the ability to fall in love and genuinely care for someone?

Exactly, which is why it's very foolish to marry a non-virgin.

Women are like duct tape. The first time they have sex they can absolutely bond strongly for life and do not compare that man to any other men, because they have nothing to compare him to.

But if they are separated from that man and acquire more sexual experience, they gradually lose their stickiness, eventually becoming totally useless, a hollow shell, damaged goods. They become incapable of bonding with a man. There is no stick left.

You are either top 5%, or you are having transactional sex.

I'll tenuously agree with this, as I like black/white things and neat boxes. Clarification I might add:

My wife was a virgin when married and I am her first kiss, her first everything, and I don't let her befriend (or even talk to for long) other men. Therefore I am literally the top 1% of men in her world. There is no comparison simply because there isn't anyone else.
Any "transactional" sex in this context could theoretically blur the lines you have so neatly drawn.

No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 4h ago

She setting her daughter up to be the next town bicycle. Who names their kid HOsanna?

NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1h ago

"She's not yours, it's just your tu..."

Oh wait, you never even got a turn. Why, bro?

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In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.