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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
@Typo-MAGAshiv I was also leaning towards Single Woman Tears for flair. Hope everyone enjoyed their weekend!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
I think you nailed it with "Chasing Chad".
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
A) Welcome to how most guys feel, most of the time.
B) get your ass in shape. duh.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Welcome to how most guys feel, most of the time.
100% true. And men do most of the approaching. She didn't do a thing and feels bad.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
She is in her mid 30's learning what every boy apart from Chad junior learned by 15. The hot girls you really want don't want you. Now get on with life.
It also amused me to learn that she went to a cafe to do some work. How difficult is this remote working job of her's? Then she got talking to 3 guys. How do the middle classes get away with calling their work work? Of course AI is going to do away with them. Then I guess we will get more butt hurt.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11h ago
You're not wrong. There are entire categories of useless jobs that will be subsumed by Machine Learning / AI. At some point, there will be talk of the "K-Shaped" intelligence economy, where smart people use those tools to amplify their objectives, while the not-as-good-at-structured-thinking people throw badly formed requests into the same tools with poor results.
This will naturally get worse as token pricing is aggressively matched to its real-world cost, making wasting such tokens a very expensive mistake. I can see it coming, but like a lot of men here I've been in tech for a long time so its natural and reflexive for me to ride whatever wave is next.
Just hope we don't actually get recursive self-improving tools, because that could be dangerous. At least the physical constraints on power/compute would slow that down to some extent.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Oh, she definitely was not talking with them. She was eavesdropping on their conversation, looking for signs like "my wife" and "my girlfriend". That's why she had no idea about the 3rd guy. If she was talking to him, she would have just asked him.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
I was just thinking about neuroplasticity and how some of the leftovers complain about men preferring young women.
There's two elements to maturity: The "formative years" when one is imprinted with beliefs and methods of thinking they carry for the rest of their lives. Think "hometown" football teams with someone cheering the Steelers 50 years after moving to Miami. The second is neuroplasticity itself: the very lesson that adaption and growth are necessary and continual. It's the feeling that comes from being responsible for your own life.
Consider Hollywood stars who "made it" in their teens. They are often considered to be frozen in that period of their lives hence why the whole Different Strokes cast wound up as trainwrecks. (OK, I know that's not a perfect example but hear me out.)
So when this, er, woman as @First-light observes has a realization at the age of 15, she's undergoing a mental process @Typo-MAGAshiv observes young men went through but the young men were at an ideal age of neuroplasticity. It's the years when life is starting to throw bricks at you.
She's unable to handle it however. She's an "adult" and "independent" and she's already grown up. Heck, she can't change! she cries. It's like a child who never learned math crying when they have a math final coming up and can't understand the homework.
"Settle" for a normie even though she's a "normie?" She can't grasp it. She can't even grasp why she can't grasp it. It's like (another analogy!) me discussing Tolstoy with my cat. A number of people cannot understand the concept: "If you didn't have breakfast this morning, how would you feel?" "But I had breakfast!"
Men adapt. We learn how to sleep with a pea under the 4th mattress underneath us and quite soundly in fact. We can handle significant disruptions to our lives.
I like flying business class. I like eating cheesecake. I like buying new cars. I like a LOT of things but as an adult, I deny myself some of them or accept that I can't have them.
This woman is a poster girl^H^H^H^Hwoman for this article: https://fedrz.wordpress.com/2013/04/18/woman-the-most-responsible-teenager-in-the-house/
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Could just lose some weight and ditch the dork glasses, she'd likely be average enough to be a small blip on Chad's radar on a slow day. Then she could finally level up to the next stage of the modern woman pipeline: proclaiming all men are pigs that just use her for sex, and asking where are the good men?!
But no, even that is too much work for her, wallowing in self-pity is where it's at.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
You are correct. Getting in shape would require work. It is much easier to complain life is not fair and do nothing to change it.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Let it go, honey. A tub of ice cream will make the pain go away.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
A tub of ice cream will make the pain go away.
That has worked for years as anyone can see.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 2d ago
Have you noticed that the 'long i' is the new red flag?
Whenever I hear it I want to throw up. She does it about 6 seconds in.
I've only ever heard women or ultra gay simps do it.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1d ago
"I'm really pretty".......... wtf.
Why doesn't it occur to her to lose weight ??
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Because in her mind, effort and discipline are ucky work fit only for beta manlets. Goes right back to how many women just wait at the finish line to fuck the winner, they don't see or care about the sweat and effort shed the entire race, so it doesn't exist, only winners and losers. So obviously winners didn't need go to any effort to win, and thus doing such would mean admitting she's not a winner.
TLDR; Bitch be lazy.