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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 22h ago
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She ought to ask me to edit her dating profile. I think my artistry actually made her face more desirable! Let's just say she looks her age.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Flaired as strong-and-independent due to her likely having issues with men being intimidated by her. I don't know how many other business owners out there can feel manly around her earning at least $80K. Plus, she apparently wants to wear heels. No man is worth giving those up!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 18h ago
Clearly insists on dating/marrying "up", but lacks the necessary traits to make it worth it for such a man to bother putting up with her specifically.
And that's before considering that being a single mom at 42 is in and of itself a red flag. The communicates that at minimum the youngest is 13, which means she potentially had the kids right as she was approaching 30. What can be inferred from this late start is either she waited way too long to get into a committed relationship or had a failed series of baby-traps, or both. Alternately, she had them earlier, and now the kids may just be getting old enough for the child support checks to start drying up, and she needs supplemental income to keep her LLC afloat. (Note: any jackass can have/form an LLC, it's no special accomplishment. Just filing the right paperwork. You can even be homeless and do it.)
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 3h ago
Genuine ignorance here, why is that? I don't follow why the youngest couldn't be 10 or 15 for example.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 15h ago
Cunning way to give out the double standards -must live alone, while I have two teenagers with me.
But in fairness she did say "preference" and I have a preference for 21 year old virgin heiresses, looking for marriage with no pre-nup, so maybe she is realistic too.
Still when you say "Must not be intimidated, I suddenly start to feel intimidated. Does it mean "I am a boss babe who hangs about with lots of chads who are "just friends" but we like flirting"?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10h ago
It's possible that there are men her age who have roommates or live with their parents. Ick!
Quite frankly when I met my wife I was renting a room in Hollywood Hills and saving bank. It was an easy way of life, I was able to travel, and I had a great time.
It's one of the expenses of "dating" that women don't factor in when they demand the men pay for a date because SHE has expenses. Apparently, a guy having a nice car and apartments to show off are given to gratis at Patriarchal meetings. Didn't you attend last week?
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 15h ago
"Intimidated" is cope for "not attracted".
"I'm a loud mouthed bitch who demands provisioning... men walk away when they meet me.... they must be intimidated".
She actually believes this....... so she puts it on her profile.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11h ago
@Typo-MAGAshiv "intimidated" actually means a lot more than that.
In the most feminist era, this is how they define positive masculinity that powerful women emulate. It's why being a "nice guy" is seen as a form of weakness. Nice men, and women, are meek and there's a point to that thinking but it's also a thug-life/tony soprano view of the world. You're either Biff kicking sand into Pointdexter's face on the beach, or you're Pointdexter to be mocked, rightly so, by those observing.
Actual moral adulthood masculinity: caring about someone and truly becoming vulnerable and putting yourself 2nd at times for a greater good, letting something slide because it's not worth the hassle of a fight (like Karen fighting over a 40 cent expired coupon), or doing something moral even if it means you're perceived as weak escapes them. That's "Loser" talk. If you've got power, you can pound those around you and get what you want.
Winners are flashy because they can show off how important they are. They have long nails, or long gold chains with their names on them, or tattoos of tigers on their chests.
This intimidates people, but they're ok with it.
"Ma'am, I'm going to have to ask you to leave the store."
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10h ago
That sort of stuff is off-putting. Repulsive, even.
But it is not intimidating.
The few actual winners I've known don't show off, but are rather subdued.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 12h ago
Ah, the old "if you don't want me, it's because yOu'Re InTiMiDaTeD!" trope.
You can believe whatever you like, ma'am. Just stay away from me.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1h ago
I don't like spiders, does that count, your majesty?