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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

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This is all men's fault!
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polishknight

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago

Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ

@Typo-MAGAshiv Please provide guidance on flair. So much could fit: Single Woman Tears, Inspin Tears, Bitch.

Somehow this one showed up on my feed and one after another of these shit show arguments I was debating with until I realize something is off about her. She's quite real (actual articles about her). Her narrative is utterly solipsistic: She's perfect except she has "trauma" from her past that she can't make a relationship work but still blames men collectively for everything BUT she isn't a man hater because she claims to love her father and brother.

Not even Woody Allen's therapist could cure this one.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

@Typo-MAGAshiv Please provide guidance on flair. So much could fit: Single Woman Tears, Inspin Tears, Bitch.

I'm gong with "bitch". It's the best fit. She doesn't fit "leftovers" because her complaints aren't about how difficult dating is as an older woman, even saying that she's 38 and still attracts men. Next closest fit after "bitch" would be "complaining about jerks".

Holy fuck this woman is a mess. She's the kind that should have been kept cloistered, and only allowed to be courted under her parents' supervision, and married off to a man her parents approved of.

Any woman who is as spoiled rotten as American women are yet still think they're "oPpReSsEd" is fucking retarded and unfit to run her own life.

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mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

Boo Hoo. I am only attracted to Chads and Fuck Bois even though every relationship I have ever had with one fails. What is wrong with men? Don't get me started on those bottom feeders (80%) of men. They never want a relationship, so all my life I have excluded them. I am a strong independent woman missing some eggs.

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TJMS Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

She seems like a real joy to be around and has some real interesting opinions. She also apparently thinks it's okay to assault a man who offends or disagrees with her.

(Crazy, retarded bitch.)

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

"Every Woman Is Bi. You Just Need To Find Out If It's Polar Or Sexual."

In this case, it's fairly obvious which.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

"Every Woman Is Bi. You Just Need To Find Out If It's Polar Or Sexual."

Considering my wife finds lesbians just as disgusting as I find faggots, and having watched her wild-ass mood swings over the last 22 years, this holds up.

Thinking back at the 2 bisexual chicks I dated, though, they were both kinds of bi.

I swear, if it weren't for our hormones making us want to fuck them so badly, I don't think most men would put up with most women for more than a few minutes here and there. The incessant gabbing about nothing of any consequence, the constant worrying and doom-spiraling over shit that might not even happen, and just the inability to hold any consistent stances on anything.... just fucking annoying.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

Careful note of Rule 1:

One of the favorite terms women use to shame men, particularly in the west, is "boy". That means that men don't naturally become "men" merely due to age while women automatically achieve adulthood merely by coming of age: https://fedrz.wordpress.com/2013/04/18/woman-the-most-responsible-teenager-in-the-house/

In responsible societies, there's feedback. Men generally get a lot of feedback, much of it bluepill and negative but much of it also useful. Men know we need to earn a literal living. We are told that being a father means we should be more responsible, not less. We are told that acting irresponsibly and making demands isn't an asset, but rather a liability. That running around LOOKING to become a victim isn't a good idea.

American women in particular, but also many western women now, are raised this way.

When I first went outside of the domain of the west, it was astonishing that women could actually be interesting and likable. They even liked being around men for the most part. That changed as they were more contaminated by western mores such as via the internet and travel and they still were less reasonable than men, but still, it was an eye opener that women are not utterly hopeless.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

posting hateful content online

I wouldn't know about that, I'm just a late blooming autistic dork.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

It of course means pointing out true things she doesn't like hearing.

Wait, what does facetious mean?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

It's amusing to me that the women who accuse men like us of being "hateful" and/or "incels" for daring to criticize women for things they actually do, show a lot more hatred for men than they accuse us of having for women.

I don't recall seeing any man in these forums admit to punching a cheating ex in the face, let alone an ex who was just looking for something casual and didn't say so up front.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 22h ago

I think the things we say "feel" hateful to women, and therefore they are. Truth hurts, so kill the messenger.

Ironically, a lot of these women could use a good smack, because internet hurty words and public shame don't seem to be working well.

Also, women can hold two ideas in their little heads simultaneously:

  • It is wrong to say hateful things
  • If I feel something strongly I should say it, even if it's hateful
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Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

This type of guy gets type cast as fuckby by OTHER MEN who think just because they can sleep with whoever they want, they will. They are actually the most genuine and loyal.

So if all the hot guys are the most genuine, loyal, relationship-oriented men, how come there's plenty of them on dating apps? Shouldn't they all be getting swept up in the blink of an eye? Why did OP, by her own admission, date a fat non-committal ginger, when there's no lack of hot men on the apps and apparently they're the best husband material too? Hamster needs to do a bit more spinning to see if it can think of something not completely detached from reality.

Most men actually want and benefit most from relationships

Oh yeah? Are those men all using time machines to get women who put real effort in a relationship, instead of just spreading her legs and expecting her man to spoil her for it?

I don't even get what the hamster is doing anymore, what does the modern woman actually believe she's contributing in a serious relationship that compensates all the shit she demands?

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

The hamster rationalization they use is: "We're not shallow to reject short guys because short guys are bitter losers and also emotionally bad on the inside so it's actually traditionalist and responsible for women to wait for the hot guys rather than setting herself up for failure!"

But the logic is there: Fresh fruits are a plethora in youth. I pointed this out in a WATGMA post: https://www.forums.red/p/whereallthegoodmenare/325187/for_the_young_men_and_women_who_want_a_healthy_family

Even if she's correct, her opportunity to land a virgin Chad, so to speak, not one who has been "contaminated" by porn, RP wisdom, sexual experience, and just an observation of how women behave dried up back when The Incredibles was in the theater.

She's often claimed that younger men chase after her, but the "virgin" years for men end largely at 25 and I doubt she's interested in getting wifed up by them lest other women judge her. She also probably knows, even if she can't admit it, that being "pursued" by these men is different than getting wifed up and fertilizing her now frozen eggs.

It's infinitely amusing to me that these women will pay big money and undergo pain to pay for fertility treatments rather than coughing up money to split the tab on dates.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

It's infinitely amusing to me that these women will pay big money and undergo pain to pay for fertility treatments rather than coughing up money to split the tab on dates

No shit. It's simultaneously hilarious and evidence that letting them vote was a huge error.

WATGMA post: https://www.forums.red/p/whereallthegoodmenare/325187/for_the_young_men_and_women_who_want_a_healthy_family

Did you ever edit that to get it in line with the posting requirements of WATGMA? I've had a hell of a couple of weeks and haven't followed up or even replied to most conversations I was a part of.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

I commented in response to you (and others) and did my best to edit it as you indicated.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

Sometimes I wonder if these hamsters might have a head on each end, trying to run in opposite directions.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

Sometimes I wonder if these hamsters might have a head on each end, trying to run in opposite directions.

Someone with the following qualifications:

  • time on his hands to do this

  • access to an AI that'll do this (I think you have to pay for that level of work from AI, right?)

    • decent AI prompting skills

....please make a video of such a thing.

CC: @Vermillion-Rx

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1d ago

I can make a video of it. What do you want it as, a GIF?

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

Sheesh, she has one amazing hamster wheel. Its like a wheel in a gyroscope. She can hamster every angle. She is having her eggs harvested at 38 because of non committal men. She only wanted FWBs for a while. She only had one non committal guy. A Chad wanted to marry her for 6 years. She thinks the patriarchy exists and benefits men after a life of calling the shots with them and dumping them, only getting once burnt with a player.

Ok lady you are a perfect example of an attractive woman (I am assuming the photos was of an attractive woman before it was covered up?) who played the field and rode the carousel tell she was all ridden out. I bet she will trey to "settle" in the next few years. It won't work. She ruined herself by enjoying her options.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago

As hamster wheels go, hers is a beaut. It must be spinning on some incredible model of zirconium-steel roller-bearings. Like, something doped with advanced nanographite antifriction and anticorrosion coatings and machined into a trackway with an accuracy tolerance of ±50 μm.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

The wheel that runs by itself and the hamster that just can't get off the ride.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

I've heard all of those (mostly debunked) self-serving rationalizations for 40 years, but never all of them served up so rapid fired. Perhaps she's on a roll now because she's just paid money and (gasp!) had to go through "pain" to get her eggs harvested! She had to sit in a doctor's waiting room for over an HOUR!

Yet she claims she has sincere, commitment-minded, chivalrous but yet traditional provider, Chads lined up in her past and present begging to wife her up.

I think she's sincere in that she really does believe all this even though it's utterly cognitive dissonance. Perhaps she was less bipolar crazy as little as a year ago when she hadn't officially hit The Wall yet.

Nobody else here chuckled about this obvious observation which I'll make: Her getting her eggs harvested at age 38 is kind of like putting 2 week old hamburger patties into the freezer so "they don't go bad". Er, freezing doesn't Captain America them back to fresh.

So what's her plan now? I think I'll have to continue following her for a while out of curiosity and keep all of you posted. She may be crazy enough to think that one of the Chads will wife her up in the next year or so or maybe she's planning on being on the millions of women out there hoping that a (real) Chad is using the sperm bank and not these guys: https://youtu.be/GMkdAbI9vLc

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

I dunno. Maybe when she's 60, she'll use them as lip filler.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago

male driven cultural suppression of female sexuality

I doubt that this chick's sexuality has been suppressed by anyone or anything at any time, unless repeated hungover morning Walks of Shame count as a form of suppression.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

I've pointed out to well meaning female dating coaches that they're fish trying to coach fisherman and they chuckle "We're the kind of fish that want to be caught".

It's tough to respond to that quip in a sound bite, but here's the problem with their thinking: They think "being caught" means a bucket of bait dumped into the lake for them to munch on and then the fisherman lovingly guides her into an aquarium well stocked with goodies which she's free to leave at any time. That's being "caught".

For men's best interests, "catching" fish means the least amount of effort for the best woman available looks, personality, and I daresay, income wise. Yes, income. I don't mean career boss babe but rather wifing up a coffee barista means if something goes wrong in the marriage, you're on the hook (pun intended) for alimony and child-support and this incentivizes divorce. Ideally, she should have a job that's JUST ENOUGH for her to pay the bills, but not comfortable enough for her to give up the trappings of a comfortable 2-income family life.

These female dating coaches try to advise men to WORK through women's game: "Be GENUINELY confldent!" "Be GENUINELY wealthy and pay for dates and ENJOY paying for them!" and so on. That's great. "Hey ladies! Have you ever heard you can be happy by GENUINELY enjoying doing housework in the most menial fashion imaginable?"

It's like nukes. They insist upon having them so we have to put the guys into the bunker and give them the matching keys.
https://youtu.be/buHFfvNuSSw

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mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

I have read this post several times, and I have to say, this chick is fucking crazy. I was a wingman to a Chad for years. Women would walk up to him and give him their phone numbers. Yes, I saw this. Why would any Chad want to commit, when there was no benefit in doing so? They get pussy for little to no effort. This bitch has the logic reversed. Chad never committed to any woman because he could have almost any woman any time, so there was no incentive to commit. And if any woman started to give him shit about the relationship going nowhere, he just dumped her and moved on to the next. And there were always plenty of nexts willing to take her place. They never asked why such a good looking man never married or had kids. He never married because he liked being a Chad with unlimited options. But this chick thinks Chads want commitment. LOL Sadly, it is not true.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

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  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

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Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

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