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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1mo ago
Re-flair'd to Attention Whore. As @ogrilla99 correctly noted, this woman isn't looking for a boyfriend. She's looking for validation and men desperate and foolish enough to throw money at her for pictures of her asshole.
cc @Typo-MAGAshiv
Edit: cleaning up my own language potentially running afoul of rule 1.
Heaviuh_Things 1mo ago
Are you really saying the modern boyfriend is not a pay piggy in disguise? I don't believe that.
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Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Honestly, good for her. Her many red flags aside, she at least figured something out most women fail to: aiming for the male attributes every other woman is also looking for is a losing strategy if you're not the absolute cream of the crop. I'm sure a dude who's really into death by snu snu will be thrilled to have her.
Heaviuh_Things 1mo ago
Somewhat. Women often desire the very beta traits she is listing here. The difference is that this one knows that they are often mutually exclusive with the alpha traits many women also desire (in the same man).
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
She's not looking for a man, she's looking for a bitch. Apparently, the Alphas were too Chad for her.
Heaviuh_Things 1mo ago
She's a bully who's eager to take vengeance on men or something, judging by her oh so tragic backstory.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1mo ago
6'7" tall or 6'7" wide?
Heaviuh_Things 1mo ago
Why not both??
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1mo ago
I call BS. She makes her money as a cam whore. This is an advertisement for additional subscribers. She knows short guys have trouble finding women, and are therefore more likely to be willing to have a parasocial relationship with her onlyfans account. So she puts out a call for short men pretending that they have a chance to be her boyfriend, and the way to her heart is by showing your willing to spend money on her, by which she means on her cam site, subscribing and tipping and buying shit for her, just to prove you're worthy of buying more shit for her, only in person while she stands next to you, possibly holding your hand, instead of online.
Meanwhile she'll still be getting railed by those 6'7" asshole rugby players, or NBA players hanging out in Miami.
It's like Hollywood actresses who claim they're secretly nerds who get hot and heavy for star wars fans with coke bottle glasses. They know that's the audience for whatever movie they're promoting, so they want to entice them to go. They make the pilgrimage to ComicCon every year and proclaim how amazing comic book geeks are, then hightail it back to LA before any such geek gets anywhere near them.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
You just read an ad.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1mo ago
Removed for rule 1 violation: No shaming men for any reason.
To more or less quote @Typo-MAGAshiv, you'll find use of the man-shaming slur "simp" rarely goes over well here.
To be clear, I don't disagree at all with your characterization of how she likely sees the men willing to pay for her time and company, particularly in the context of her e-whoring.
That said, them's the rules for WaAtGM.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Good catch. She's thirst trapping. It was a no from me the moment I saw the nose ring/piercing.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
You are correct. She is just marketing herself to a new group of men.
GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
This. Totally glossed over it.
Imagine if a random pornstar with A cup tits came out and said it was hard to find a boyfriend because every man looooves only big tits, and she had an article published about it. And then dropped her OnlyFans link in the article.
How many people would believe she is really looking for a BF?
This hoe is using “male insecurity” to get more followers.
In other news, we have the flexing of her bank account. Acting like the man she would be interested in. Never mind that it’s unstated how much money she actually has.
And she's still unwilling to pay for a first date. Crazy coincidence I know.
Heaviuh_Things 1mo ago
Unwilling to pay for a first date because she is screening for dudes with no backbone, as we all realize.
In her mind....if they're willing to pay to see my ham legs, they definitely should want to pay to talk to me. She's already deep into the prostitute's mindset. No way back for her, I'd say.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
This says it all," "My best dating experience was a man who took me on an all expenses vacation (my first American trip), because I told him I wanted to visit Miami."
The more you spend, the better the dating experience.....for her.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Wow. Thousands! She's sure stacking up the moolah "within recent years."
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
Not merely hundreds per year like the rest of the OnlyFans hoi polloi.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Meta note for any newbs lurking: one of the subtler signs that a woman isn't going to be worth any sort of investment is when she effectively preempts attempts by men to isolate and escalate like this one has by doing her "BF recruiting" only on social media. There will be no slipping into her DM's, just you being tossed into the same harvesting pit / chat feed with all the other desperate schlubs.
One cannot stick a dick in a woman via her OF/IG/etc. It's something that has to be done in person. If you are stuck finger fucking your phone just to talk to her at all, you aren't going to be fucking her with anything else.
Heaviuh_Things 1mo ago
True as true can be, but..does this really need explaining?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
We get a lot of questions in AskTRP and elsewhere about using apps/social media, and those questions make it clear there is a myopic monofocus on those by many young men that is to put it nicely, not constructive to their success. They want to get pointers on their "text game" when their real problem is they have nothing going for them other than finger fucking their phones instead of women.
They literally do need it explained to them that there is no Magical Pussy Password and they need to put in the work elsewhere too.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
I think she is in a fairly unique situation and has found strategies to max out her gaining potential.
She is chubby and tattooed. And she been a foot or more shorter, it would be "nothing to see here boys, just another chubby slapper who wants a tall man to give her free food." As it is she has a unique selling point but she has had to come to terms with the fact that she won't get a man taller than her. A man who actually saw her as a mate not a novelty would need to be at least her height and then what is she? A 5 with the weight and the ink. What sort of man will that get her? Not at top 20% one. Her face is better than that but she has not treated herself well already.
She has already worked out that she is nothing special to a tall man that she would actually fancy. She is however something special to an odd guy who likes the idea of being dominated by a huge goddess/ mother figure. So lets advertise for lots of thirsty sorts. They will turn up at her OF account and if they spend enough they might earn the right to take her out in person and spend more.
Heaviuh_Things 1mo ago
She's not that stupid, we'll grant her that...